We showered together...could I be pregnant now?
Q. I'm really paranoid that I might be pregnant. You see, my boyfriend and I showered together about a week ago. While he didn't actually penetrate me, he did rub himself underneath me. It was mostly between my thighs. He didn't actually "cum", a...
A. 6 June 2009: i agree. get on a birth control pill; it'll put your mind at ease.... (read in full...)
We showered together...could I be pregnant now?
Q. I'm really paranoid that I might be pregnant. You see, my boyfriend and I showered together about a week ago. While he didn't actually penetrate me, he did rub himself underneath me. It was mostly between my thighs. He didn't actually "cum", a...
A. 6 June 2009: i agree. get on a birth control pill; it'll put your mind at ease.... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!
Q. I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...
A. 6 June 2009: oh, yay! me too! you made the right choice and you should be proud... not everyone is strong enough to say no.... (read in full...)
Why do I like much older men?
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl, and I absolutely can't stand guys around my age. They are immature and annoying to me. I'm attracted to much older guys (35+) and i'm not really sure why. I don't think it's a wanting-a-father-figure thing, because though my ...
A. 6 June 2009: i don't think that's fair. 35 really isn't that old! and actually, many men like younger women because of fetility reasons, etc... not all of them are out to use them. but, of course, it would be illegal in your case and i'm 17 and if anythin... (read in full...)
My teacher assumed I like him. Help!
Q. I'm a freshman in high school. I'm not going into the details because it'll just waste your time, so I'm going to keep it simple. My teacher assumed that I like him. It was pretty obvious. Now everything is awkward between me and him. How should...
A. 5 June 2009: that's tough... in fact, i'm in a similar position and i'm not sure what to do.
you should probably try to distance yourself from him to prove your lack of feelings.
good luck!... (read in full...)
Teacher mystery. Please help!
Q. I know this is long, but I would really appreciate your help with this. This took place over years and I have to put everything in a few paragraphs... Like many of the cases mentioned on this site, mine also involves a teacher in high school. How...
A. 5 June 2009: another teacher/ supervisor probably told her off for spending too much time with you, and so now she's afriad to resume your relationship.
i think it's a rather jerky move on her part. if she's not even going to explain herself you should f... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!
Q. I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has ha...
A. 4 June 2009: if you think that taking your virginity may be all this guy wants you definitely shouldn't do it.... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop obsessing about my teacher?
Q. I have a question, and it may have already been asked, but here it goes: I was walking down the hall going to lunch and it was pretty empty except for this one teacher coming towards me. I looked up to smile and be friendly (because you nev...
A. 3 June 2009: i wasn't though. i'm not like that...... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me for more than just a student^
Q. I never really noticed this teacher until I was with my cousin at the liquor store buying drinks for a party. I was in the car since I'm 16. I saw him walk out with his friends and he just blew my mind. He has dark hair with light blue eyes and that ...
A. 2 June 2009: well, do you like him?
i agree with the previous oster that he's probably turned on by you, but he may also like you as a person.
go have a chat with him someday. get to know him (if that's what you want)and let me know how it goes! :)... (read in full...)
I'm an author looking for your stories about teacher/pupil relationships...
Q. Hi all Have a bit of an unusual question but here goes - I am a published fiction writer in the UK, and am in the early stages of writing a book about a teacher/pupil relationship. I have been reading through stories on this site and others ...
A. 22 May 2009: hey! i have a story for you so feel free to pm me!... (read in full...)
They are say I'm anorexic, but I'm starting think it's true.
Q. I'm 13, and I haven't been on a diet long. A really short time in fact. My friends say I'm skinny enough already and think I'm crazy for dieting. It was just eating healthy and cutting back snacks, also with excersise at the beginning. But then ...
A. 23 April 2009: I agree. It's going to be hard, but you have to tell your parents so they can get you the help you need, because what you're dealing with is exercise bulimia/ anorexia.
take care... (read in full...)
Nipples off center?
Q. Are you supposed to have an orgasm the first time you have sex? Is it normal for your nipples to be off center?...
A. 15 April 2009: 1. i don't think there's anything wrong either way. it just is what it is.
2. depends. if it's pretty drastic, i'd say no.... (read in full...)
Does age matter when he's a young adult and I'm a teenager?
Q. hey well i met this guy over 3 months and he has a girlfriend but he inst spending anytime with her because she lives in another state and they aren't spending time together because he goes t college.. then here i am and i never had feeling for ...
A. 15 April 2009: he also has a girlfriend... so yeah. i'd definitely stay away!... (read in full...)
Creepy new teacher tells me I need to be a "good girl"
Q. we have a creepy new teacher cause the original lady left on pregnancy leave. ok. now ill admit i look a little mature for my age (long bleach blonde and black hair, make-up and a Monroe piercing) but in no way was i provoking this guy. he...
A. 15 April 2009: tell your guidance counsler or whoever you can talk to in the school. this guy sounds like trouble.... (read in full...)
My relationship with my teacher has destroyed all other relationships
Q. Hi, I have a problem that is really getting to me. I am 17 and in a school sixth form. I have a male teacher, quite a bit older. We have grown very very close - although we have done nothing physical, I would constitue what we have as an emoti...
A. 15 April 2009: hey! i just came across this! how did it work out for you?... (read in full...)
I don't like messing about in class. Am I strange?
Q. I am 15 years old and i guess girls find me weird becasue i am so shy, I heard that is one of the biggest turn offs for women. ok I'm in class right and their are these boys and these girls who piss me off so much. One of the girls happens to be the ...
A. 14 April 2009: seriously! they're acting like children! just ignore them... or if they're distracting you, ask to have your seat moved.
also... i definitely don't get turned off by shy guys; i think it's cute! and mysterious. they seem so observeant and i always... (read in full...)
Why Is My Former Teacher Behaving So Strangely?
Q. Why Is My Former Teacher Behaving So Strangely? I Contacted My Former High School Teacher After 5 Years To Catch Up. He Initially Answered My Email And Said That He'd Love To See Me Again But Then when I wrote back to him to set up a date and time ...
A. 13 April 2009: Are you still going to the school to see him? Maybe he'll say something then?
And armymedic raises an interesting point. Does he had a gf or spouse?
Keep us posted!... (read in full...)
My teacher who I fancy
Q. so i fancy my teacher. he is older than me by quite a margin. i am confused and dont know what to do. he found out i fancied him on a school trip abroud last year from my friends. he smiles at me in the corridors now. he also now notices me more. ...
A. 12 April 2009: awww! he really does seem like he likes you! if he didn't have a fmily, i'd say go for it! but since he does, maybe you two can just be friends...? next time he offers you a lift, i'd go for it!
let me know how it's going!... (read in full...)
Male Teacher, Female Student and a Father-Daughter Relationship
Q. I'm sorry for another one of these questions.. My philosophy/religion teacher is middle aged, and a very handsome man; but what has won me over most has been his confidence, down-to-earth demeanor and corky sense of humour. He has led an admir...
A. 12 April 2009: hmmm... if you're going to stay an extra semester, i'd suggest waiting to give him the letter until you actually leave. that way, you'll really not be at the school anymore, making it much less likely that he'll get in any sort of trouble.... (read in full...)
Hormones hijacking my life
Q. please help me! i feel like my hormones are hyjacking my life! to start off, i'm a late bloomer. i had friends who wanted it in 5th grade, but i had my first sexual urges only a few monthes ago (i'm 17). they're very distracting! i was playing ...
A. 11 April 2009: he has a girlfriend... otherwise, i definitely would! lol
it's just... urg! i can't get any work done any more. it's driving me insane!... (read in full...)
Can all girls get a tampon on?
Q. Hey am 15 and I was wondering if all girls can get a tampon in. I have tried many times and I still cannot fit it in but my bf can fit his finger sort of in. Is this something I should be concerned of. Is this abnormal?...
A. 11 April 2009: hmmm... i'd say buy the light flow kind. they tend to be pretty small. but i know what you mean... i learned how to put a tampon in two years ago and wore them a lot to go swimming, but i stopped wearing them after that, and now i can't seem to ... (read in full...)
Average bedtime for 14/15 year old?
Q. Heyy!! I was just wondering what the average bedtime for a 14/15 year old is?because it's school holidays at the moment and my bedtime is 9.30 and because it's the holidays, I thought that I could go to bed later than that. But no!! Blatentl...
A. 11 April 2009: i agree with old guy, though i will add that i'm 17 and i still go to bed around 9 every night... by choice. sleep feels good. i have friends who stay up until 2 or 3 each night doing homework, and they're always such crabs. plus, if you embrace the ... (read in full...)
I really really want to get over my teacher... why can't I?
Q. Hey, Might remember me from two posts about me liking (well loving) a teacher? Well you may also remember I sent the first post in december of last year. 5 months on and nothing has changed. Well not nothing... the feelings have progressed ...
A. 8 April 2009: I know exactly how you feel, as i am going through something similar. i wish i could get over him and like someone my own age, but seeing him everyday in class makes it impossible to forget him. i've tried focusing on his (very few) flaws and ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my english teacher.
Q. I am in love with my english teacher. There is a fourteen year age gap between us, so I know honestly that nothing can ever happen. I've felt like this for so long, and sometimes I just want to get over it, but othertimes it feels like I don't want...
A. 7 April 2009: No, no! You're not at all pathetic! I completely get where you're coming from.
the best thing is probably to forget about him, but i'd be a hypocrit to tell you to do that.
i suggest making a list of things to ask him. if you see an article o... (read in full...)
Teacher situation is a mess, please help.
Q. I haven't spoken to my teacher for a year and then today I went up to him and spoke to him and I really don't know why, I needed to ask him for these sheets I did and then I asked him how he was as obviously I haven't spoken to him since June last ...
A. 3 April 2009: what exactly happened that made him stop talking to you? you never say... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and really want a baby! I'm depressed!
Q. hiyyahh help me i realy want a baby and i'm 13 all my mates are sick of me twisting about it i feel depressed because i want one that bad i crave it ive saved money up and thought it through the only thing i dont want to tell my perants i k...
A. 28 March 2009: Ummm... no. You should wait until at least your 20s when you'll be mature and responsible enough to handle it.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get him out of my head? What's up with that?
Q. Why can't I get him out of my head? I've been browsing the archive of 'teacher - pupil' topics, and none of the posts described a situation quite like mine. I first met the teacher in question when I was 11 years old, the first year of sec...
A. 27 March 2009: Oh, wow. That must be terrible! And you have no idea whay he broke off contact? I have quite the crush on my teacher, so I can imagine that that would be devastating!
I guess the best thing you can do is to busy your mind. I hope it works out for ... (read in full...)
Help me before this teacher crush turns into a obsession....
Q. Well firstly I was one of the first people to meet him years ago. I think it was love at first sight (I know it sounds cheesy but just bear with me) I developed a crush on him for months because he was the sweetest guy I'd ever met in my whole ...
A. 24 March 2009: trust me. i get it. i'm in a very similar situation right now. what i'm trying to do is hate mine-- not let it affect my work in his class, but just dislike the teacher. find any flaw-- no matter how tiny-- and focus on it. i don't know if th... (read in full...)
I love my teacher and he love's me too, but I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi all,, uhmm... I've confused now,, im really love my english teacher... well,,its start when im in 10grade,,,i've falling in love with my new english teacher!!he's only 23y.o,, man,he was so handsome..,,at first...i dont mind he's ...
A. 13 March 2009: OMG! Luckyyy!... (read in full...)
Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!
Q. Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i b...
A. 12 March 2009: what ended up happening on the France trip?... (read in full...)
Confuse feelings for a teacher
Q. I'm just very confused right now about my feelings towards one of my teachers. At the start of the year I didn't pay much attention to him, and didn't really like him that much, but now as the school year is going by, I'm starting to develop some ...
A. 12 March 2009: i'm going through the exact same thing... like, at the beginning of the year i hardly paid attention to the guy and then one day i looked at him and had all these new feelings. and i can't seem to shake them.
i'm not sure what advice you're l... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on my teacher - but will not act on it
Q. I have a huge crush on my teacher. It's completely harmless and I would never act on it, but honestly, he is exactly what I think a compatible partner should be. Most guys i meet are superficial, or lack hamor and morals. They are not very smart o...
A. 10 March 2009: in response to anonymous, none of the guys my age seem to think much about me. i'm quiet and smart and weird... which they don't get.
also, i like talking to my teacher even more than my friends. he's super cute and mature and seems to understa... (read in full...)
I wish my teacher knew I liked him
Q. Ok... so I'm 14 years old (I know, I'm "too young for love, shouldn't be thinking about this kind of stuff", but save it for someone else please!) and I have a hugehugehugehugehugehuge crush on my Civics teacher! I was just assigned to his class in ...
A. 10 March 2009: i agree with what the first poster said... if you tell him, you should wait a few years before you tell him... and make sure your not in his class. preferably, when you're out of the school.(he'll feel less "wrong" about it then...)
i'm going th... (read in full...)
Is my teacher a pervert?
Q. Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships ar...
A. 7 March 2009: if you have proof, you should report him; if you don't, i don't know...
it's kind of odd that he held your hand. why were you alone together so frequently?... (read in full...)
Why falling for your teacher is never good!
Q. *LONG BUT READ IT ALL TO UNDERSTAND PROPERLY* I know for a fact many of you girls on here have crushes/are in love/are in fatuated with your teachers, and most of you would love something to happen aswell.Most of the aunts say this is a b...
A. 7 March 2009: I never knew so many people had affairs with teachers!
personally, i would wait until i'd graduated and turned 18. it would make things alot less complicated.... (read in full...)
My teacher is not legal but I am so infatuated
Q. Overall, I am a few months shy from eighteen years of age, and just happens to be infatuated with my literature teacher (who is single and in his mid thirties) for a year now. Before you render this situation as another teacher/student ...
A. 6 March 2009: Exactly. This is (almost) exactly the question i've been wanting to ask but haven't been able to put into words. did it work out for you guys?... (read in full...)
Every time my teacher smiles my heart skips a beat
Q. i love my teacher, i know what your thinking, but this is seriously the real thing. He is double my age, im 14, and when i'm at school i go out of my way to see him. Everytime he smiles at me my heart skips a beat. He flirts and he told me i was his ...
A. 6 March 2009: oooh! lucky you! how'd you get him to like you so much? ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my teacher. What should I do?
Q. I think I'm in love with my English teacher. I KNOW I am because I have never in my life felt anything like this before. He's 20 years older than me. I'm 17, he's 37. The thing is, the only thing in that area of our friendship (he's more best f...
A. 6 March 2009: gosh, you're lucky! how'd you get him to do that? please PM me!... (read in full...)
My best friends went on vacation without telling me!
Q. My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? ...
A. 19 February 2009: and no, they don't go to the same school. we all go to different schools and 2 of us live much closer than the 2 of them.... (read in full...)
My best friends went on vacation without telling me!
Q. My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? ...
A. 19 February 2009: how should i ask them? i don't want to be all confrontational... i don't want to make it awkward or obvious that i'm hurt.... (read in full...)
My best friends went on vacation without telling me!
Q. My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? ...
A. 19 February 2009: well... it would be easy enough to cut them off since they don't go to my school and i have plenty of friends there. but i've known them since i was less than a year old... i wish i could make it work.... (read in full...)
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