My best friends went on vacation without telling me!
Q. My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? ...
A. 19 February 2009: and no, they don't go to the same school. we all go to different schools and 2 of us live much closer than the 2 of them.... (read in full...)
My best friends went on vacation without telling me!
Q. My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? ...
A. 19 February 2009: how should i ask them? i don't want to be all confrontational... i don't want to make it awkward or obvious that i'm hurt.... (read in full...)
My best friends went on vacation without telling me!
Q. My two best friends went on vacation together without me and now one keeps texting me and telling me all the fun things they did/ the hot guys they met. i was hurt enough just finding out about it. now, it's like adding insult to injury, you know? ...
A. 19 February 2009: well... it would be easy enough to cut them off since they don't go to my school and i have plenty of friends there. but i've known them since i was less than a year old... i wish i could make it work.... (read in full...)
Is this punishment over-the-top for the "crime"?
Q. Hi! First off, I'd like to say that Im only asking for opinions and I want to know if im not overreacting! Ok, well my brother wrestles for the wrestling team and me being his sister, decides to take on wrestling stats so I would be at every sing...
A. 19 February 2009: i agree with you... maybe start a petition? it worked at my school to keep a teacher from losing his job. good luck!... (read in full...)
Guys would you marry a girl who was forced to do oral sex in her past?
Q. Guys would you marry a girl who was forced to do oral sex in her past?...
A. 18 February 2009: i don't see why not. are you afraid of possible psychological scarring, or something? (on her part)... (read in full...)
What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand?
Q. What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand. It's just... his hands are so masculine, and I just want to know their feeling. Plus, I think he might like my hands as well (they're small and soft)... I feel like this sort of ...
A. 16 February 2009: hahaha!... (read in full...)
I don't want our friendship to end. What is going on with her? Why is she being like this?
Q. I am bisexual and have fallen in love with a girl I've known for about 6-7 months. By the way, I am 13 and so is she and I'm a girl. We go to the same school. I wanted to be honest with her so I told her I was bisexual and that I liked her. A few ...
A. 16 February 2009: she's freaked out, cuz you gave her some big news. i'd give her some space and stop telling her that you love her.... (read in full...)
What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand?
Q. What's a not-too-obvious excuse to get a guy to touch/ hold my hand. It's just... his hands are so masculine, and I just want to know their feeling. Plus, I think he might like my hands as well (they're small and soft)... I feel like this sort of ...
A. 16 February 2009: i want to be subtle... (read in full...)
Dating cousins.
Q. My sister confided in me last night that her and our cousin have been dating. His great, great, grandfather married my great, great, grandmother and they had kids and those kids had his mom. Therefore, he is blood. As my sister told me about them ...
A. 16 February 2009: 43 and 17?! i'm all for age differences but that's definitely pushing it...... (read in full...)
Should I make contact with my old teacher?
Q. I had a real thing for this teacher that I had. He left around a year ago now and I haven't been able to stop thinking about him, I actually cried when he left. Obviously he doesn't teach me anymore and I'm over 16. We used to get on so well, we had ...
A. 11 February 2009: Awww! You should definitely get in contact with him! ask him to go for coffee!
good luck! send me a messege and let me know how it goes!... (read in full...)
Losing my V-card on V-day, I'm so scared and nervous, please help!
Q. well ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 4 months now and im a virgin, we have been talking about having sex lately hes 19 and im 16. weve talked about having sex on valentines day which is like 4 days away, i need some advice really on ...
A. 9 February 2009: keep in mind that you don't have to do it if you don't want to! but i guess i'd recommend listening to music, dancing/ exercising, taking a bath, getting a massage, or anything that relaxes you before! just try to chill out! if he loves you, it... (read in full...)
I'm so conflicted about whether or not to break up with him...
Q. Hi, i have a problem, i love my boyfriend and we've been going out for almost 6 months. But there's a couple of things that really irritate me to the point that i don't know if i should just move on. sometimes he can be really loud when its not the ...
A. 9 February 2009: i guess it depends on how often he annoys you. if it's a decent percent of the time, i'd break it off. you love him, but he may not be right for you.
good luck!... (read in full...)
Another teacher crush, how can I stay focused?
Q. See the problem is I am madly in love with my teacher. His been my head of year for three years now and I have tried everything to forget about him, everything reminds me of him! He's 56 years old and for some reason i'm attracted to him, I didn't...
A. 8 February 2009: i'd give him some time if he's uncomfortable... he's probably confused about your feelings/ doesn't want to get in trouble. i get having crushes on teachers, trust me. and i have no clue how to get it to stop! sometimes i think it never will... :(... (read in full...)
Like me? Or just want to make out?
Q. So my friend Brian set me up with his bestfriend and we started dating. Well Brian has a twin named Brad and one day I was over at their house with my ex hanging out and while we were there my ex (he was still my bf at the time)was being stupid and ...
A. 8 February 2009: is it possible that he feels shy/ awkward around you in school? maybe he's just more comfotable in his own house... because he does seem to like you. but if you're so worried, maybe you shoudl talk to him.... (read in full...)
Former teacher "troubled soul"--how can talk to him?
Q. I had this teacher last year and he was a great teacher, but somehow this year, whenever I see him in the hallways, he just seems really sad. My friend even notices it and says that he's a "troubled soul". I don't know why, but I'm a nice person and ...
A. 7 February 2009: i gotcha! i know that when one of my teachers is acting kind of off (an indication that he's dealing with some issues), i always want to go see him some morning and ask him if it's ok. of course, i chickened out... but you can be braver! i'd ... (read in full...)
How do I get his attention when he's always listening to an ipod
Q. How am i supposed to get this guy's attention if he's listening to his ipod all the time? i swear, he even does it when our teacher is giving a lesson and he's only in that one class of mine so it's the only time i see him... what should i do?...
A. 7 February 2009: cellphone... yes! i do know his number. but what would i say?... (read in full...)
How do I get his attention when he's always listening to an ipod
Q. How am i supposed to get this guy's attention if he's listening to his ipod all the time? i swear, he even does it when our teacher is giving a lesson and he's only in that one class of mine so it's the only time i see him... what should i do?...
A. 7 February 2009: hahaha... i have poked him, actually. lol.
he's at my lab table and one of my friends is in between us. i sit at the end though, and since the tables are rounded, i have an ok view of him. :)... (read in full...)
How do I make him realize what I feel for him?
Q. hi a couple of days ago,i told the guy i am in love with that i love him(u guys might remember that question..).he is 11 years older to me,but ilove him. we are family friends,and so he considers my mom like his mom,and all that.so he told my m...
A. 7 February 2009: awww! if you send me a messege with more details i'd be happy to (try to) help!... (read in full...)
How do I get his attention when he's always listening to an ipod
Q. How am i supposed to get this guy's attention if he's listening to his ipod all the time? i swear, he even does it when our teacher is giving a lesson and he's only in that one class of mine so it's the only time i see him... what should i do?...
A. 7 February 2009: i don't wanna come on TOO strongly... (read in full...)
How to get rid of hormonal breakouts?
Q. Urggg! My period just ended, so naturally, i'm a hormone fest... so i'm breaking out! joy. i tend to break out around my nose, and chin around my mouth if that helps. it's not too bad, luckily, but still! what can i do? what do you do when you get a ...
A. 2 February 2009: thanks thanks! what kind would you recommend?... (read in full...)
How to get rid of hormonal breakouts?
Q. Urggg! My period just ended, so naturally, i'm a hormone fest... so i'm breaking out! joy. i tend to break out around my nose, and chin around my mouth if that helps. it's not too bad, luckily, but still! what can i do? what do you do when you get a ...
A. 2 February 2009: would crest whitening expressions (in refreshing vanilla) work?... (read in full...)
Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?
Q. Random question: Women who date younger men are known as cradle-robbers or cougars, but what are women dating older men called?...
A. 31 January 2009: i don't mean, like, ELDERLY men! it's not like elderly women are the cougars...... (read in full...)
Help me choose between two men!
Q. Please help me chose between these 2 men, I feel like I love both of them. Please dont judge me, I really need some perspective on this. Man A Healthy Own House Car Car License Great Job Rather Anti-Social Independent Stubborn Funny W...
A. 28 January 2009: well, which do you love?... (read in full...)
What "season" am I?
Q. What season am I, so to speak? I think this has to do with looks but i'm not sure... just curious i have long, wavy, medium brown hair with a reddish tinge dark brown eyes very pale skin (pink undertones) ummm... need i include anything else...
A. 27 January 2009: what kind of personality is an autumn supposed to have? i thought it was just about looks...... (read in full...)
What colors/styles /perfumes do guys like?
Q. Are there any specific hairsyles, clothing colors, scents, etc. that guys (in general like). i've heard they like vanilla and pink (but i don't wear pink) because they make them think of love or some crapola like that... any idea?...
A. 26 January 2009: Geez... calm yourself. I'm aware which is why i emphasized the g.e.n.e.r.a.l part. i'm aware it's mostly myths. i'm just wondering if you've heard any.... (read in full...)
Do guys like petite girls?
Q. Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?...
A. 26 January 2009: yeeeah petiteness!... (read in full...)
Do guys like petite girls?
Q. Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?...
A. 26 January 2009: haha... i hope so!
i was just wondering what the men on this site think, or if petite women have had particularly good luck.... (read in full...)
Do guys like petite girls?
Q. Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?...
A. 26 January 2009: Anonny, don't worry! I'm just thinking for in the future since I'm not gonna grow any more...... (read in full...)
What colors/styles /perfumes do guys like?
Q. Are there any specific hairsyles, clothing colors, scents, etc. that guys (in general like). i've heard they like vanilla and pink (but i don't wear pink) because they make them think of love or some crapola like that... any idea?...
A. 26 January 2009: I know... I'm simply asking if you've heard any generals.... (read in full...)
How to be more fun in school?
Q. In school, I'm focused, so i feel like guys always see me as a stickler and turn off because i'm really not showing any personality. i just don't know how to balance the two, and i'm not one of those giggley-giggley girls. i don't really flirt; i ...
A. 26 January 2009: but i'd like to have a bit more fun in school... i just don't wanna get in trouble. i just wanna lighten up, you know?... (read in full...)
Player actually could be serious?
Q. If a guy with a player reputation is already getting sex from a girl now, is he just being polite when he asks to have a serious relationship with her or does he actually mean it?...
A. 25 January 2009: could you give us some more specifics? it could really go either way... does he seem genuine?... (read in full...)
How do you casually ask a guy if he's single?
Q. Does anyone know how you can casually ask a guy if he is single? I really like this guy and he says he likes me and we flirt all the time, the thing is I heard someone say he s with someone. I don't just wanna come out and ask him, I just want to ...
A. 25 January 2009: maybw throw in something about his girlfriend jokingly... like oh! you should get this for your girlfriend or something along those lines. anything else puts pressure on him.... (read in full...)
My b/f is constantly attacking and has tried to kill himself
Q. I love my boyfriend very dearly but now I'm unsure how to act with him because of his constant attacks which are pretty much unprovoked and the time he tried to kill himself. For example, I might mis pronounce something and he will totally fli...
A. 25 January 2009: get him help! he should really get on some anti-depressents... and maybe he's bipolar? idk. but take him to a psychiatrist immediately! i'm surprised his mom hasn't already done anything about this...... (read in full...)
Guys, what do you like in a girl?
Q. Guys, what do you like in a girl? I'm not going to try to change myself or anything, but what specific personality and physical traits do you, personally, find attractive?...
A. 24 January 2009: trust me, i'm not one of those hair-straightening primmers.... (read in full...)
Something going on or am I paranoid?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for almost 3 years. One of our mutual friends (I have known her for years and he and her are more associates than friends to me but whatever) has recently moved to our state. My fiance got her a job with his ...
A. 24 January 2009: i agree, but i'd still be wary if i were you...... (read in full...)
My sister's daughter had sex and I think her reaction is too harsh...
Q. My sister is the mother of a 14 yr old girl, who she recently found out that she snuck her boyfriend in the bedroom window and had sex with him! The mother went bananas and told her daughter that she had to quit basketball and all other activities, ...
A. 23 January 2009: I completely agree! Such a harsh response will just make the girl rebel.... (read in full...)
Guys, what do you like in a girl?
Q. Guys, what do you like in a girl? I'm not going to try to change myself or anything, but what specific personality and physical traits do you, personally, find attractive?...
A. 23 January 2009: I just want to know what YOU like because, yes, everyone IS different.... (read in full...)
How to NOT be attracted to someone who is off limits?
Q. Is there any way to stop being attracted to someone who's off-limits? if it's not going anywhere, that would just be easier.... :(...
A. 21 January 2009: we have assigned seats and i happen to have a great view of him so... :-/ ughhh!... (read in full...)
Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?
Q. Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep ...
A. 21 January 2009: that's the thing. at least half the time i am somewhat aware that i'm dreaming and i can manipulate actions and outcomes, etc. but i can't just change the dream.... (read in full...)
I wantto contact the other woman!
Q. Okay I think I am completely losing my mind now. For some crazy reason I am having urges to contact the other woman. And not in a mean way either. Maybe it is the whole "keep your friends close and your enemies closer thing"? He wrote her a ...
A. 21 January 2009: maybe you should try some therapy? for you or you both. i take he's cheated on you a decent number of times... i see why you want to contact her. i think i would too, because if you got to know her, you could figure out why he liked her. i'd say go ... (read in full...)
16 and scared to have sex
Q. Im 16(virgen) my boyfriend his 20(not a virgin), we have dun about evrything,but im to scared to have sex with him. His also scared he dosent wanna get into trouble, and his scared to get me pregnat. I dont know what to do, what should i do? ...
A. 21 January 2009: he's not too old for you, and it's good that he's anxious about getting you prggers, etc. so i'm guessing he respects you. talk to him.... (read in full...)
How to NOT be attracted to someone who is off limits?
Q. Is there any way to stop being attracted to someone who's off-limits? if it's not going anywhere, that would just be easier.... :(...
A. 21 January 2009: we're in the same class at school. it's hard to keep a distance. :(... (read in full...)
Is there a chance? I like a guy with a g/f!
Q. Dear Cupid, There is this guy I see around school. He's really cute. However, he's two years older than me and has a girlfriend. I'm never been attracted to a boy more then I do now. He's always looking at me. Even when he's with his girlfriend. ...
A. 21 January 2009: definitely! at that age, people break up all the time. as long as he doesn't start cheating on her with you it's all good. have you ever talked to him?... (read in full...)
Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?
Q. Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep ...
A. 21 January 2009: yes. i've heard of this. can someone explain it to me?
any other ideas?... (read in full...)
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