Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?
Q. Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep ...
A. 21 January 2009: that's the thing. at least half the time i am somewhat aware that i'm dreaming and i can manipulate actions and outcomes, etc. but i can't just change the dream.... (read in full...)
Is there a chance? I like a guy with a g/f!
Q. Dear Cupid, There is this guy I see around school. He's really cute. However, he's two years older than me and has a girlfriend. I'm never been attracted to a boy more then I do now. He's always looking at me. Even when he's with his girlfriend. ...
A. 21 January 2009: definitely! at that age, people break up all the time. as long as he doesn't start cheating on her with you it's all good. have you ever talked to him?... (read in full...)
I really like him but he's such a manwhore! Lose it? Or not?
Q. Ok i REALLY need to hear some advice and decide something. because my friend is gettin his license in a week and a half and he plans on fucking. we met over a year ago and our relationship is purely sexual even tho im a virgin. from sending ...
A. 21 January 2009: if your relationship is all about sex it isn't much of a relationship. wait.... (read in full...)
Can you control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies?
Q. Is there any way to somehow control your dreams to live out impossible sexual fantasies? i feel like it would heko scratch the itch if you know what i mean... help me get over him. i've tried picturing senarios in bed while i'm trying to fall asleep ...
A. 21 January 2009: yes. i've heard of this. can someone explain it to me?
any other ideas?... (read in full...)
Is this a date?
Q. My friend and I have never been to the movies alone. This will be our first time going. I like him, but I'm not sure how he feels ... Is this a date?...
A. 21 January 2009: Depends on how he acts, if he pays, etc.... (read in full...)
Birthdays are a big deal!!!
Q. BIRTHDAYS ARE A BIG DEAL… I wake up to the sun shining through my bed room window, the sky is clear, and it’s another beautiful morning. My soul is filled with such a sweetness today I’m at peace and my body is relaxed. But also I woke up to a flu...
A. 20 January 2009: Maybe he knew for awhile and felt like you were pushing him with all the little hints...? or he didn't get the hints and was then angry when you semi-confronted him...?... (read in full...)
Why do teachers get attached to students?
Q. Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...
A. 18 January 2009: how'd you know he's a history teacher?
what do i say? "do you know any books i'd like?" would he get creeped out?... (read in full...)
Any books I can read about student/teacher relationship?
Q. my teacher is totally hot and has all the same views as me! are there any books about a student getting together with her male teacher, so that i can live vicariously through her? i think that's the only option, because i can't just get over it. we ...
A. 18 January 2009: I'm just asking for a BOOK... i'm sure there's at least one out there... geez. and yes, i think students should be able to date teachers-- once said student graduates of course.... (read in full...)
Why do teachers get attached to students?
Q. Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...
A. 18 January 2009: Thanks! Any examples of specific things I could say/ do?... (read in full...)
Why do teachers get attached to students?
Q. Woah. So I was reading some past questions... why do teachers sometimes get attached to their students? Sometimes, so much so that they would touch students inappropriately? I don't get that. At my school, we see a teacher in class, or occasionally ...
A. 17 January 2009: Because i'd like to get a bit more personal with one of my teachers...... (read in full...)
They're both really sweet... who to choose?
Q. ok hi :] I'm 15 and I'm going out with this guy and everything is or was going great until I met this guy now I'm sure that I love my bf but every time I'm with this other guy I feel so good and I think that there might even be friction between this ...
A. 17 January 2009: become friends with this other guy so you can get to know him a bit better before making your decision..... (read in full...)
Which man does the woman go for in this theoretical situation?
Q. Hello! I was just wondering how a woman might react in the following 'theoretical' situation. Imagine a woman has a powerful attraction to a married man who has children. Imagine that she is also attracted, but to a lesser extent, to another man, a ...
A. 17 January 2009: the one she's more attracted to. you can't fight nature.... (read in full...)
I don't wanna lose her....
Q. A few days ago, my gf and i were at school for this activity, and one of her friends was leaving, so then i said "go kiss and hug and say goodbye" So my girlfriend thought i told her to make out wif her friend, and told her no, just give her a ...
A. 17 January 2009: if she's unsure of her sexual preference, this is probably a difficult time for her. you shouldn't be worrying about losing her; you should be worried about helping her through it.... (read in full...)
I hate my body...
Q. My problem is about my body... I'm 19 and I'm not overweight or fat, I'm a size 10 on top and 12 on bottom and no one has ever said anything bad or offensive about my weight that would make me feel self conscious, however, I really am. im in my fo...
A. 17 January 2009: maybe you should see a therapist about this. she could help you with your anxieties. it might also help to diet...? idk, but it always makes me feel better about myself to know that i'm doing something. good luck! and remember, tons of women are in ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a guy who has a g/f
Q. I'm attracted to this guy, but he's currently off-limits (ie has a girlfriend). what can i do? can i start building any kind of a relationship now? please help!...
A. 14 January 2009: It's hard to back off when i feel the call of the wild every time i see him if you know what i mean... :-/... (read in full...)
I love him I know he doesn't love me back
Q. I am oh so deeply in love, but he doesn't love me back. He's the only one I'll ever love and I'm sure of it. What exactly should I do???...
A. 11 January 2009: Can you provide some more information?... (read in full...)
Authority figure: How can I get to know him without crossing the line?
Q. I'm attracted to this guy, not that I'm thinking about doing anything (I don't wanna get that exam at the gyno when they use that scary tool thing lol). The problem? He's my "authority figure" you could say, though he isn't much older than me. How ...
A. 10 January 2009: no, no. nothing that strict. he's kind of my boss, but not really. lol. idk it's hard to explain... i just want to be subtle.... (read in full...)
Ahhh! I accidently gave my teacher a sex symbol!
Q. For the holidays, I gave this male teacher a little stonehenge thing. He seemed happy, but after break seems to be acting odd around me. Friendly but not as friendly. I looked online; as it turns out, stonehenge is an ancient sex symbol of the ...
A. 9 January 2009: i sure hope so lol but he's been acting kind of weird with me which makes me think that he has, and he teaches history... AHHH! idk!... (read in full...)
Do you think he's gone off me?
Q. I gave this guy a present before holiday break. School's started again, and he's being pleasant with me but maybe not as friendly as usual...? I'm not sure. Anyhow, he usually glances over at me a couple of times during class, but he hasn't looked...
A. 8 January 2009: he seemed rather delighted to receive the gift when i gave it to him (i can tell when someone's faking)... but could it still have scared him away? it wasn't anything personal, just a trinket.... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to guys of my own race. Would black guys mind going out with a British-Indian?
Q. I have a tendency to go for the black guys. Okay so I'm only 16 and I've only dated one 16 year old guy and yes he was black. But I am a British born indian, and my friends always tell me that I find black guys attractive, there's nothing wrong with ...
A. 24 December 2008: that's interesting! were you close to any black guy or have any experiances in your childhood? that's the only thing i can think of...
and i don't see why a black guy would have a problem with going out with you.... (read in full...)
What if you can't be together because of circumstance? What are the options?
Q. If you can't be with someone for the moment due to circumstance, what can you do? Give up? I don't want to go on with life always wondering "what if." But if you're both going your separate ways in just a year, what else can you do? Make a vow to ...
A. 24 December 2008: that's the problem: i'm going to college; he's taking a gap-year and staying at home. when he goes, we prob wouldn't end up at the same place anyway.... (read in full...)
Do I need to see a shrink?
Q. Two problems really; one is rather embarrassing and shamefull, and I am sure that people will think I am a freak after reading the other one..... Problem 1: I am aged 29, and still a virgin. You heard that correctly! I have never had any girlfrie...
A. 23 December 2008: You're definitely not a freak! As you said, there are much stranger fetishes than yours. However, the fact that you seem to be rather uncomfortable with yourself and socially awkward, etc. like you said, a shrink wouldn't be a bad solution. I go to ... (read in full...)
What if you can't be together because of circumstance? What are the options?
Q. If you can't be with someone for the moment due to circumstance, what can you do? Give up? I don't want to go on with life always wondering "what if." But if you're both going your separate ways in just a year, what else can you do? Make a vow to ...
A. 22 December 2008: No, no! Not married.... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he has a girlfriend?
Q. How do I find out if this guy I like has a boyfriend? I think that he might have one outside of my school. I don't want to use any backdoor tactics and I definitely don't want to seem upfront or confrontational. Please help! Oooh! And by the way, ...
A. 21 December 2008: oooh! lol! my bad! i didn't realize.... ughhh freudian slip. i meant to say girlfriend. thanks for bringing that to my attention and sorry!... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he has a girlfriend?
Q. How do I find out if this guy I like has a boyfriend? I think that he might have one outside of my school. I don't want to use any backdoor tactics and I definitely don't want to seem upfront or confrontational. Please help! Oooh! And by the way, ...
A. 21 December 2008: Ahhh! I don't wanna be that direct though (he would prob get creeped out) and he's kind of mysterious. And I'm not friends with his friends and he doesn't have too many at my school.... (read in full...)
I need some way to get rid of this jealousy!
Q. Hey, just wondering if anyone had any advice. There's this boy that i like, but he doesn't know i like him. Recently i was getting jealous feelings towards this girl that was always by him and talking to him. My friend has some classes with thi...
A. 21 December 2008: I've been there. You like this boy and so you view every girl he talks to as a threat. That's what happens when you admir from afar. Personally, when I've gotten in there and become one of those girls who he's talking to, it's made the jealousy melt ... (read in full...)
My family doesn't approve of current boyfriend but approves of ex and I'm confused about who to choose!
Q. i'm from an asian background (mauritian) and is a fact that mauritians marry or go out with mauritians, however i thought i was the different one and i'm going with someone who is black and my mother doesn't approve. He's a nice guy and everyone ...
A. 21 December 2008: You have to decide which guy YOU want. It's great that your parents approve of your ex (who seems like a nice guy...?), but you need to make the choice tha makes you happy.... (read in full...)
Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him...is that wrong?
Q. Is it wrong to want an ex-boyfriend because he has an excellent body? Every time I see him I think about what sex would have been like with him... is that wrong?...
A. 21 December 2008: Your body wants what it wants... you don't have much control. Don't worry about it!... (read in full...)
How can I tell him my real age???
Q. Ok here's the story, I've been on this chat site for about 2 years, and because I was under the age you were allowed to join, when I joined, I obviously lied about my age, basically saying I was 3 years older than I actually am, I've built some very ...
A. 20 December 2008: The sooner you tell him, the better... but catch him on a good day. And apologize.... (read in full...)
Help talking...
Q. Do you have any tricks for talking to guys? I always feel insecure, like every guy I talk to is going to automatically assume that I like him. It's even worse talking to guys who I actually do like! Please help!...
A. 19 December 2008: i feel like when i smile at someone i like i'm so nervous that it looks screwed up... like i'm constipated or something! hahaha... any tips?... (read in full...)
I think I love my teacher! But I don't even think he's good-looking!!
Q. i have been feeling like this for about 2 months now, so i know its not a 5 minute fling or whatever. but i think i have feelings for my english teacher! i get so excited for my english lessons and i must admit i do show of quite alot, just for him ...
A. 18 December 2008: I think he's a bit too old for you. AT least wait until you graduate.... (read in full...)
If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?
Q. Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...
A. 18 December 2008: No, honey. And you shouldn't have sperm in your mouth in the first place if you truly don't know the answe to that question.... (read in full...)
How can I impress a guy who is democratic and environmentally aware?
Q. How can I impress a guy who is democratic and environmentally aware? I am both of those things, but how can I make it more obvious? How can I seem more mature?...
A. 18 December 2008: I mean, he's a tad older than me (9 years?) and I want him to see me as dateable.... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 18 December 2008: Honestly, it beats me. Maybe she'll come back from her year abroad and relize what a catch you are, but in the meantime, you should try to find girls who appreciate you more.... (read in full...)
I'm too devastated and don't know what to do. I love him.
Q. My boyfriend dumped me and treated me awfully, calling me names and basically blaming me for everything. What did I do? Well nothing, almost. He couldn't deal with my past. Once he asked, I told him what he wanted to know and it was chaotic. So next ...
A. 17 December 2008: If he won't accept your past then maybe he isn't the guy for you... Personally, I think that you can find better.... (read in full...)
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