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I'm being bullied again! What do I do?

Q.   Hiya... I'm Being Bullied... AGAIN! The real bad thing is that they've started on my mate as well. I used to just ignore them, but today I went to sit with my friends and some not so friends and they told me, quite bluntly, to go and sit somewher...

A.   6 July 2008: Hey there, I think what most people suggested-talking to a close teacher or something about it could be good. But on the other hand that doesn't always work, usually the people you tell on just get even more angry and bully you more because they ... (read in full...)

What should I do about this teacher problem?? Please Help!!!

Q.   well theres this teacher who i had a really close relationship with generally, but now my parents have found out everything that we've talked about, seen the emails, the headteacher has been informed and she didnt come into school today as i dont ...

A.   15 June 2008: Ok don't stress! And breathe. I don't think that they're going to hate you, know one can hate a person. So here's the thing, considering it's illegal for student teacher relationships if they happen to ask you because head teachers and everything ... (read in full...)

Am I having feelings for my teacher because he looks like my ex?

Q.   To start with i'm 16. The thing is I have a student teacher in my math class and i'm guessing hes about 25 at the most. Anyway i broke up with my boyfriend at christmas and my teacher looks the spits of him, like he has the same hair and facial ...

A.   11 June 2008: No one can really tell you who you have the feelings for only suggest...It sounds like you may be attracted to your teacher because of the similarities...Then again i'm sure your teacher has some different qualities to your ex-or in time you will ... (read in full...)

Is he just being friendly or is it more ??

Q.   i have a thing for my teacher... well it all started off when i started my new school. i spotted a teacher that a few people liked, well 1 or 2 to be honest + me at 1st, he was just a normal teacher i used to get into touble with him, but he used...

A.   24 May 2008: Well I think he definetely has feelings for you. He might be being a little more then friendly, it's not right for teachers to do that. but if you truly have feelings for him let him know at the end of the year, or just keep talking to him and see ... (read in full...)

Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?

Q.   I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...

A.   7 May 2008: awww thats so cute he's such a gentle man!. I understand how hard it is to do your exams when there around because you just cant stop thinking about them, but just tell him when you leave because seriously it will be easier for you. No trouble for u ... (read in full...)

How do I make my teacher kiss me?

Q.   how can i get my teacher to kiss me or like be in a relationship with me as im in love with him and i would love to share a kiss with him. im 16 and im leaving in june and i want to share a kiss or more with him at the last day. ...

A.   20 April 2008: Well i would say you shouldn't like most people have suggested on here, but knowing most teenage girls and i do because i am one, you probably wont give up. And if you're going to do this make sure that he feels the same way because it will be ... (read in full...)

I see my teacher as a regular man with feelings so I don't idealize him. Should I wait to tell him my feelings?

Q.   hey i know this is the usual because many girls post this but im 17 and in 11th grade in love with my History teacher (30).... this all started 31/2 years ago....in 9th i would just see him teach lessons in his room....and i thought about nothing ...

A.   20 April 2008: Ok well it sounds like you really care deeply for him. And don't even waste your energy on the other girl. This is your life and about you and him if you want something to be there then forget about her and focus on getting to know him better. Don't ... (read in full...)

I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...

Q.   hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...

A.   20 April 2008: If you're leaving then sure tell him i'm sure he's felt something similar! womans instincts are always strong when it comes to feelings, hopefully he feels the same way and goodluck.... (read in full...)

Please help! Should I tell this amazing man and teacher how I feel if/when I leave school, despite there being a chance that I may be coming back?

Q.   I appreciate that there are many posts on here about teacher/student relationships. Please do read this is may appear to be long but I would really appreciate the help! I also have a serious problem with my ex-teacher which has been escalating ...

A.   20 April 2008: Well I think you should tell him...but i'm not exactly sure I mean he could think of it as a father daughter relationship but then again I could be wrong. Only you could really know what he feels about you if not then ask him...and then see what he ... (read in full...)

Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!

Q.   I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...

A.   20 April 2008: Hmmm i say don't give up because when you do it can make you really depressed....you may or may not understand.anyways, i think if you really really like him then keep sending him small messages that you care, talk to him more. get to know ... (read in full...)

I reeeeeally like my english teacher and cant get him out my head! Help!

Q.   im 16 turnin 17 nd i reeally like my english teacher, honestly hez not very goodlooking but for sum weird reason i cannot get him out of my head nd i try rlly hard to impress him :P whic is pretty embarssn but w/ iv rlly nevr felt this way b4 abt ...

A.   9 April 2008: well lets seee, you can always talk to him about a story that you're writing or something. Or if you write some lyrics ask him if he would read them and tell you if they're any good, say you might be entering a competition but you need help. If he... (read in full...)

I don't think it is just another schoolgirl crush, so what can I do about my feelings for my teacher?

Q.   man i know you guys will say just another teenager crushing over her teacher,well its not like that....i really love him thats why i try to hide it so i wont jeprodize our relationship,or scare him away or worst start rumors that would lead to his ...

A.   1 April 2008: Well all i can tell you is to just continue being friends with this person. Although there are rules as you're to young and he's to old blah blah...BUt once you leave school if you still have these feelings why not tell him then? See how he reacts. ... (read in full...)

Still Depressed Over a Teacher who Left Last Year ... Need Loads of Help and Advice!

Q.   Okay..i've already wrote my life... Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june. Yeah..i liked to stare at her and look an...

A.   30 March 2008: Please just be careful and think out anything that you may attempt to do. I know it's hard to accept the fact that she's gone, you can still have hope that she might come back. If you really want to talk to her that badly why not ask around for her ... (read in full...)

Depressed over a teacher who has left last year.. What should I do? Please help!

Q.   Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june. Yeah..i liked to stare at her and look and think about her often. She knows i Like to ...

A.   29 March 2008: Ok well I guess i have been in the same problem as you, just so you know it's actually really hard to get over. It's normal to feel the way that you do. My suggestion is to just stop thinking about her, try to find someone else that you find ... (read in full...)

My teacher likes me, kissed me and is scaring me! I'm feeling awful but no one will believe me if I tell them.

Q.   Hi, i have this really bad problem it's about a teacher and it's nothing to do with me liking him its the other way round. We have just broke up from school for the easter holidays. The whole story started when i was walking down the corridor goi...

A.   22 March 2008: Oh my god I feel so sad for you, I mean thats awful. ANd what happened to your favourite teacher I mean it's so unfair. I think that you really should find him and tell him what happened and ask him for help like others have said. Your mother should ... (read in full...)

Are teachers very often at fault for pupils forming an attraction?

Q.   There have been many posts on Dear Cupid enquiring about what to do in a situation where a student is in love with a teacher, almost all are from a student perspective. In many questions, they will contain all their 'evidence' as to why they thi...

A.   1 March 2008: Sometimes it can be either but in your case i think you're right it wasn't your fault. I think that you might actually feel something real for him, I think that you didn't create an illusion or anything. It just kicked in and ask your self this. ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my teacher I have feelings for him?...

Q.   I have a slight problem...I really like my teacher! I know there are lots of these questions about but I really need an answer! Well ever since I've known him I've had feelings for him. It started off just a small crush but over the past two yea...

A.   16 February 2008: I don't know that you should tell him yet, maybe wait until you're leaving school. Or if he ever leaves tell him that way there wont be as much stress. If you want to tell him now...I guess the best way would be to tel him face to face privately. He ... (read in full...)

My friend says he likes me but I am unsure about my feelings for him

Q.   hi i recently kissed my male friend as a dare ans a few weeks later he tells by text me he has feelings for me. the problem is i am in love with my teacher and my friend knows it. also i dont know how i feel about my friend. he is more to me than a ...

A.   15 February 2008: I know it's hard to decide, but I am in the same position as you. And i love my teacher the thing is one time i actually dated a guy and kissed him. The next 2 days I had to break up with him because I became depressed and couldn't stop crying. It ... (read in full...)

Classroom Romance, my farewell goodbye poem

Q.   Well yes, i would consideer my article as something-funny, why? you may ask, well it is simple, the feeling in which i feel for him is werid and the thought of never being with him makes me confused i dont know wether to cry or laugh about it. S...

A.   12 February 2008: wow omg thats soo sweet. have you left yet?? you have to tell him I mean whats the worst that could happen. your not really going to see him again, the least you coould do is find out if he felt the same. Or if u dont want to get his email or ... (read in full...)

How can I get my ex teacher to go out with me?

Q.   I am going to be 20 in nine months. I am in love with a former high school teacher who is going to be 30 in nine months. I had him as a sophomore for political science and economics. That is when I fell in love with him. To keep his company, I ...

A.   11 February 2008: Well he sounds like a great guy, you sound like you really get along well together. And I think he may feel something more for you, but you will have to show him how you feel, i am not sure how you could tell him. If you wanted too... Just try and ... (read in full...)

Isn't his behaviour over friendly for a teacher?

Q.   Hi everyone, Okay so... this is the christmas holidays from school right? but i cant seem to stop thinking about my teacher "/ its so werid i dno wht to say or do anymore. I dont think it is all me however, as he does have his part to play in it, i...

A.   10 February 2008: Altough it does sound a little over friendly. I think it's really sweet, it sounds like he's a really close friend. He may actually feel something more than he should. I say keep being his friend and spending time with him and enjoying his company. ... (read in full...)

I'm leaving school soon but have a big crush on my teacher, should I try to stay in touch?

Q.   Hey!! Well im in my last year at school... woohoo! well that is what the typical teenager would be saying if they were leaving school in a couple of months, except not all pupils know this hot guy, yep you guessed it a teacher... he is hot i aint...

A.   10 February 2008: Well I think it's good you are happy coz he's happy, thats how i feel about the teacher I like. Maybe you can say i'm really going to miss you as you've become a big part of my life and actually a nice friend or something then wait and see if he ... (read in full...)

How can I reassure my teacher it's him I like??

Q.   I need help! I am really confused about this situation with my teacher. We used to get on really well and he had a soft spot for me; he was always very nice to me and i got the impression that he fancied me also because of his tendency to be a lit...

A.   10 February 2008: Just choose the decision you wish to and that you feel suits him best. You could ask him one day why he is acting the way he is, because it's making you upset and dissapointed as you have no idea what you've done wrong. Then just take the situation ... (read in full...)

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

Q.   I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...

A.   7 February 2008: Ok to person who said can you please explain are you a guy? Because If you are a girl I thought you might understand better. It's called emotions, and falling in love with your teacher isn't always what we plan it just happens. And we go along with ... (read in full...)

I've got the hots for my teacher, how can I get him interested, I'm 17 he's in his 30's

Q.   Hey, Okay here's the deal. I am a junior in highschool. I really really like my history teacher. I'm 17 (legal in the state of Missouri) He is in his early thirties. I'm not just attracted to his looks, he is definately no Brad Pitt, he is just an ...

A.   8 January 2008: Hello i'm in the same situation. Let me just say don't let anyone tell you that it's just a stupid crush or something. Or that it's just stupid because it's not and only you know how you truly feel. I'm not sure how to get him interested...if you ... (read in full...)

Yes, I love my teacher.

Q.   I'm in love with a teacher at my school. I don't know what to do, because I've told too many people and he's probably going to find out. I don't want to get over him. He's so nice and... I just don't know what to do. His wife is my French teache...

A.   3 January 2008: ok to the person who wants to know why we fall in love with our male teachers, they are a lot sweeter than young idiotic males. for one young males are very disrespectful and just plain immature. Also we can't really help falling in love it kind of ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my old teacher, how do I tell him my feelings?

Q.   Hello my name's Elle and I have a bit of a problem, well it's a huge problem actually. I have fallen in love with my old teacher, not old as in age old but old as in from high school. It started in high school when I was upset once and he just was...

A.   29 December 2007: Hi it's me and thanks so much for your advice. Well we went out last night and it was fantastic, he was really kind and he had the most funniest jokes. But he has always been able to make me laugh. Well this parts really sweet I thought it was ... (read in full...)

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