I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside!
Q. My ex and I broke up a month ago after a two-year relationship. I still can't see him being with another girl without it killing me inside! And I'm definitely not ready for a new relationship, yet. I still love him and care about him to bits, but ...
A. 8 January 2009: I'm guessing its hard for you to not see him at some point during the week? The best way I found to get over someone is to cut contact with them, even if you do still have feelings for them. It can be really hard at first, but its the only way to ... (read in full...)
I'm crying every night since the break-up and I feel ugly and worthless, how can I get over him??
Q. i have just recently split with my partner of two years, i am tryin to follow the advice of friends and relatives to keep busy, get out more, but i just cannot motivate myself, im spending my days either sleeping or constantly waiting for a text ...
A. 5 January 2009: I can understand what your going through, sadly the best healer is time and there is nothing much you can do apart from keeping your mind busy.
Your not the only person who has hoped that each day you would get a text from them, asking to get b... (read in full...)
Why are they so obsessed with size?
Q. Why are guys so obsessed with the size of their penis, despite what women say in response (i.e. size doesn't matter - it's what you do with it that counts)?...
A. 3 January 2009: Not all guys are obsessed with the size of their penis, maybe they lack in other areas so they feel that the size of the penis means everything.
I know that i'm a good person, so the size of my penis means nothing to me, 10" or 1" I would still fe... (read in full...)
Why can't I meet a funny, supportive man that wants me?
Q. Im 35 and single. I have no children and am scared I wont ever have them. I dont want to go it alone and I dont feel desperate I just feel like my clock is ticking was too fast now. I rarely fancy anyone and most men in my area are taken. ...
A. 3 January 2009: Don't give up on online dating just yet, there are some decent guys who use it like me lol, but yeah a lot of people who use online dating have issues, you just need to be patient.
I don't think its a waste of time, all it takes is to meet one... (read in full...)
He's drawing fake 'staches on me and making me dress/talk like a man in the bedroom... is this normal?
Q. hi, im 21 and my boyfriend is 25. He keeps asking me to dress in his clothes and talk in a deep voice when we have sex. he even tried to draw a fake mustache on me with eye liner. he says its a huge turn on. is this normal? ...
A. 1 January 2009: umm its really not very normal, I think you need to have a chat with him, ask him why it turns him on.... (read in full...)
Should I try to keep my feet on the floor or just go with the flow?
Q. Just over 3 weeks ago I was on a dating site I occassionally visit. I normally go on and wait for guys to approach me (even though I don't usually have any interest in the guys who do) but on this occassion I decided to message a guy 5 years ...
A. 30 December 2008: If i'm honest I really think you need to keep your feet on the ground, i've learnt that people aren't always what they seem to be.
I also met someone on a dating site recently, I chatted to her on IM all day and texting all night. I thought ... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 23 December 2008: Depends whats happened between you really. I'm trying my hardest to still be friends with my ex, who I left because she still had feelings for her ex.
I'm fine until she starts talking about him, then I get really sad and depressed and I feel lik... (read in full...)
What would guys rather have--babe or library type girl?
Q. are guys attracted to nice ,quiet ,shy ,innocent ,genuine ,safe,plain looking girls? would guys find girls like this boring because i am like this i am passed over for the babes who are loud,dress sexy and who are party girls. i want...
A. 22 December 2008: I would rather be with someone who is shy, innocent, genuine and plain any day, just because these babes look really good, doesn't mean they are interesting to talk to, or have a sense of humour.
I fell for someone who you would call a babe, bu... (read in full...)
What if you can't be together because of circumstance? What are the options?
Q. If you can't be with someone for the moment due to circumstance, what can you do? Give up? I don't want to go on with life always wondering "what if." But if you're both going your separate ways in just a year, what else can you do? Make a vow to ...
A. 22 December 2008: With todays technology you can keep in touch with anyone in the world at any time, so why not keep in touch with him and see how things go?... (read in full...)
A letter to my ex: your thoughts?
Q. For background please see: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-my-exgirlfriends-intentions-here.html I'd appreciate your thoughts on this letter. (Sorry for the length). J, I have been thinking about how I feel of late, and there is ...
A. 21 December 2008: I'm going through something similar, wish I could cut contact as well, but I would miss her too much, its also killing me when she tells me her boyfriend is meeting her over the weekend, I think its actually starting to make me feel physically sick. ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with me, any advice?
Q. I am a guy, a few weeks from being twenty years old. I have never wanted anything more in my life than to meet a girl who wants to spend time with me. So far, I have never had anything close to a relationship, I have only held hands with three ...
A. 19 December 2008: Just don't think about it, I know its easier said than done, but if your constantly thinking about finding someone because your feeling lonely, you will look lonely and probably depressed as well.
Your still really young, just enjoy your single l... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 17 December 2008: Sadly i'm starting to think that nice guys do always come last :-( I met this great girl and we dated for a couple of weeks, she thought I was a great guy. Then her ex decided he wanted to get back together with her, this guy already messed her ... (read in full...)
How can I keep my online guy interested. He is not ready to meet yet.
Q. Hi there all, iv met this guy a month ago on internet, i do like him alot, he lives near me too. jus from talking, i can tell we get on well. we swapped numbers and talk everyday, through sms. And we flirt like crazy. I asked if he wanted meet...
A. 16 December 2008: Have you exchanged pictures yet? I'm also very shy and I met someone off the internet 3 weeks ago. After a week of chatting to her, I realised that I was falling for her and I really wanted to meet her and my shyness wasn't going to get in the ... (read in full...)
I ignored this read flag and here I am - having to forget him, but how?
Q. I was happily dating a man for the past 6 weeks. We shared many romantic dinners together, saw each other at least 4 times a week and emailed each other daily. When we first met, he talked alot about his past with women and his problem of having ...
A. 15 December 2008: I know the feeling :-( I met someone who I thought was very special, texting each other almost constantly, at work and during the evening for almost 3 weeks. Then suddenly the ex shows his ugly face and wants to get back together and she didn't know ... (read in full...)
Are there any other options for me apart from counseling?
Q. I posted the question what should I do now that my life seems worthless, I think was the title anyway, I say thanks to diovan lestat and others for answering, but counseling is not for me, I have tried it and it brought me more down I just could not ...
A. 10 December 2008: Why does your life seem worthless exactly? everyone has a real crappy period in their life, it just makes you a stronger person when you come out the other side.... (read in full...)
Shall I just let him go without saying goodbye?
Q. Hello Guys, need really need some help... my mind is going mental. It's a bit of a long story but hold tight... I was with my ex boyfriend for abbout 3 years, and we spilt up about a year and a half ago on his terms. In the last year we have kep...
A. 10 December 2008: He sounds like a right arsehole, let him go and grow up. Its ok for him to see other people, but when you start dating again its wrong? you really need to get him out of your life, otherwise he could end up ruining it for you.
He is your ex for a... (read in full...)
I love my fiancee, but found I still have feelings for my ex once we saw each other again
Q. I need advice... I am currently engaged, and Yes, I do love my fiance very much. me and my fiance has been together for 4 years now and engaged 1 year. The thing is about a year ago i got in contact again with my ex whom I really loved a lot. I ...
A. 8 December 2008: Pleaseeeeee don't get back together with your ex, he is your ex for a reason, so why ruin what you have with your fiance? He is your past now, not your future.
Men seem to have a habbit of wanting their ex back as soon as they finish with the... (read in full...)
Is it an attitude thing for me?
Q. I as I have mentioned am very overweight. But everyone thinks I am great otherwise. Kind, thoughtful, warm hearted intelligent. I am working on losing weight. And it is going ok. Yes there are ups and downs and sometimes dead stops but on the...
A. 1 December 2008: I think your attitude towards life is far more important than how heavy or slim you are. I know some really overweight people who have amazing girl friends, because they are fun to be with and they don't let their weight take control of their ... (read in full...)
Whenever we have made plans to meet she always bails.
Q. I am a 20 year old male and I am in love with this girl. I have never met her in person. I have met her on the internet a long time ago and now we text each other almost every day. We are very good friends and are really close even though we never ...
A. 27 November 2008: "For one thing I know she really wants to have sex with me and we end up having phone sex and cyber sex all the time but she will not meet me in person to have sex with me." If you have never met her before, why are you talking about having sex... (read in full...)
Massage techniques.
Q. Hi My (fairly new) partners had a rough time at work lately and has been poorly though she is getting better now. I've done my best to cheer her up (flowers to work etc) but when I next see her I want to give her a relaxing massage, help her unwi...
A. 27 November 2008: Have a look on askmen.com , they give out some really good tips, including massage techniques. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that he is impotent with me, but not, if he were to find a new woman?
Q. This question is for men, but not only! My husband is impotent with me, a few years ago. There is no medical reason for it. He is healthy. So my question is, is it possible that he is impotent with me, but not, if he were to find a new woman? I...
A. 20 November 2008: You could try and spice things up a bit, if you know what I mean. Maybe buy a porno dvd and watch it with him, see if he reacts to that. If he doesn't then perhaps he should see a doctor, could be something wrong.
... (read in full...)
How can I gain more weight and also get rid of pimples?
Q. Dear Friends what are the remedies of pimples and fat? I have pimples in my face for long and my friends are companing about it, to me i know it's not right but i don't no what to do about it, also no matter what i eat i don't get fat what can i ...
A. 20 November 2008: Some people have a high metabolism, which makes it really hard to put on weight. I was picked on at school because I was thin and I went through a period of spending loads of money on food just to try and put on weight, but it never worked.
When ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my first date will be awkward!
Q. I am 14 and i recently started going out with a guy from school. i'm going to see a movie with my new boyfriend on the weekend, and im nervous! i guess its normal cause its like my first date with a guy, just the two of us, but im afriad its gonna ...
A. 20 November 2008: http://hubpages.com/hub/100-Questions-to-ask-on-a-Date... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my first date will be awkward!
Q. I am 14 and i recently started going out with a guy from school. i'm going to see a movie with my new boyfriend on the weekend, and im nervous! i guess its normal cause its like my first date with a guy, just the two of us, but im afriad its gonna ...
A. 20 November 2008: The best advice i've heard for first dates is to just enjoy yourself, rather than keep thinking about what the other person thinks of you. Just see it as a way to get to know him better.... (read in full...)
Because of our age difference he won't date me, but I'm so into him!
Q. Okay so i like this guy who's 18 and im a 15 yr old female. i have such strong feelings for him we've met and have hung out and text 24/7 non stop and we know each other and have good times, when were together. i love this boy alot and when i told ...
A. 19 November 2008: Ask him to wait for you until you reach 16 and see if you still feel the same way about him then. When I was 18/19 I had a 14/15 year old after me, it wasn't the age gap that was the problem, it was her age.
At 18/19 guys like to do certain ... (read in full...)
How can I help my son gain confidence and find love?
Q. I am concerned about my 29 year old son. He is a lawyer, very well-educated and a sensitive, interesting person. He has a pleasant face which looks very charming when he smiles. He's witty and funny, thoughtful and generous. He is short (5feet 6) ...
A. 14 November 2008: I don't think a mum can help a son to find that special someone, its something he needs to do on his own. Everyone feels depressed when they get rejected by someone, its only natural. It took me about 3 months to get over a friend who I fel... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a World of Warcraft addict!
Q. Basically my boyfriend is a world of warcraft addict i'm sure of it! The next expansion has come out today and he's getting it this afternoon. I've been told hes leveling with a friend for two weeks. :( This really isn't good! How do I make him see ...
A. 13 November 2008: The dreaded world of warcraft strikes again. My sister quit her £30,000 a year job because she got addicted to wow, her partner also quit work to play it :-(
I used to play it every night as well at one point, until I watched the south park epi... (read in full...)
He is sending me mixed signals
Q. why would a guy say one minute he wants to be "a friend" but say he used to have feelings for you more than any other girl? next minute he avoids you.. then talks to you .. then tries to hold your hand/be touchy feely..and always hugging you for ...
A. 13 November 2008: Has he actually asked you out at all? I would understand if you rejected him and he started to act funny towards you, but if he hasn't even made a move then i'm not sure whats wrong with him.
Perhaps he has a gf, but isn't happy with her, or maybe... (read in full...)
I felt this bead type thing under my nipple, what is it?
Q. Hey, last night i was watching TV and felt this bead type thing under my nipple. Its really uncomfortable to touch and all day throughout school it was irritated. One of my friends says he has one and I heard that teens in puberty get them ...
A. 6 November 2008: Hello
I had the same sort of thing when I was roughly your age, and under my armpits as well, it felt like I had pound coins under my nipples. It got to a point where I couldn't put my arm down because it hurt so much.
I went to the doctors a... (read in full...)
Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!
Q. Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...
A. 29 October 2008: All men aren't nasty and we aint all the same either, you've just had a lot of bad luck thats all :-/... (read in full...)
I want to go to the party but my ex and his new gf will be there, help
Q. Hi everyone, I'm due to go to a halloween party next Saturday down my local pub and everyone says I'm still welcome to go, the only problam is my recently ex and his new gf will be there too, I was meant to be going with him but then things have cha...
A. 24 October 2008: Back in the summer I asked a barmaid out who works in my local, she rejected me and it turned a bit hostile.
At first I thought I would have to avoid the pub, because it would be really awkward for both of us, then I realised that I hadn't a... (read in full...)
How do I help someone that can really only help herself ?
Q. ok i have a problem with a friend of mine. she is 22 and almost acts and dresses like a 13 year old girl. she has never had a relationship, but really wants one, but she can't talk to guys or even flirt. i've tried to match make her with some guys, ...
A. 24 October 2008: You need to start off by changing how she dresses, this will make her feel more like a women and not some teenager, maybe a makeover as well? Start off by improving her self confidence before you drop her into the deep end. If you keep introducing ... (read in full...)
Is he really staring at me all the time or is he just daydreaming?
Q. Erm you know how people say when guys stare at you it means they like you? Well how can you tell if he;s actually looking at you or just generally staring in that direction because he;s daydreaming? How can you tell if he;s actually looking AT you? ...
A. 4 October 2008: If hes is staring at you and looks away when he sees you looking back, then he probably is interested.
If he keeps staring at you, even when your looking back at him, he probably is just staring into space.... (read in full...)
Has any women told there bf's that they loved them first? Or should they wait until he says it?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 5 months now. And I already know that I am in love with him, but I am afraid to tell him.. I've always thought that the man should tell his girlfriend first. But I really do think he loves me back, y...
A. 3 October 2008: Its not up to one person to say "I Love You" first, if you love him then you should tell him, especially after what you said about his past. He might be scarred the same thing will happen again.
Just tell him after you've made love or somethin... (read in full...)
I'm just not interested in ANYONE, is this normal?
Q. I've never done this before, but here goes... I'm a 20 year old student, majoring in economics pre-law. I'll be graduating in the next few months, and will be one of the youngest students attending law school, so I'd like to think I have a decent ...
A. 3 October 2008: Maybe your trying to find someone who is just like your ex? If you wasn't interested in anyone at all, I doubt you would of gone on the dates in the first place.
Your only 20 so I wouldn't worry too much, i'm sure you will meet someone else who... (read in full...)
I messed it up once; do I have a second chance, you think?
Q. OK sorry if this becomes a bit long, but I want to put the whole story across! Thanks in advance for your patience Back in January I was on a work lunchbreak so went to get some food down the road, and whilst I was queuing this girl came in who...
A. 1 October 2008: It sounds like you might have a second chance, but you really need to stop letting your job control your life this time around. No job is more important than someone you care about, no matter how much you get paid.
Tell her how you feel, otherwis... (read in full...)
I need some help asking out a girl from work - suggestions?
Q. Hi all, I was hoping for some advice on something that's been on my mind for quite a while now - I'll try and keep it as short as possible :) There's a girl at work who seems really nice and I would love to ask her out on a date/drink/whate...
A. 1 October 2008: Like you said the obvious suggestion is to talk to her more and get to know her better before you ask her out, you might find out that she isn't even your type.
I'm fairly shy myself, so I know how hard it can be. Just remember that nothing ... (read in full...)
I blew my chance with the guy I love and now he only wants me as a friend!!
Q. I am feeling so sorry for myself at the moment. A while back while I was in an unhappy relationship I met someone, a man and we became friends. I gave him the impression that I was in an unhappy relationship and just didn’t know how to get out. Well ...
A. 29 September 2008: You really need to tell him how you feel, if he does only want to be friends then atleast you know for certain and can move on with your life, instead of thinking about a future you may never have.
If you are inlove with him and he does only wan... (read in full...)
For the guys...Are looks everything to you in a relationship?
Q. Hey, this is a question for the guys out there. But would you rather go out with a really stunning girl, with no personality, or a not as beautiful girl who you had lots in common with? I guess what I’m asking is, Are looks everything to yo...
A. 27 September 2008: Trust me looks aren't everything. I know this really stunning barmaid, but she is as exciting to talk to as a bit of cold toast.
I only find her physically attractive, which I thought at first would be enough, but I now realise that the personal... (read in full...)
I feel like being the "other man", what to do? Give her a reasonable time to leave her controlling boyfriend? (she said she would, but it has not happened yet)
Q. I met this girl some months back. Initially we were friends and spent lot of time together. Then, she slowly disclosed her problems with her controlling long distance boyfriend. I helped her out as much as possible, and in the process we fell in ...
A. 24 September 2008: It sounds like she is playing with you, now she has moved away she doesn't want to know you anymore, just like when her bf was long distance, she played around behind his back. I also doubt her boyfriend is forcing her to do anything.
I would re... (read in full...)
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