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Can a hostess make exceptions to her own invitation?

Q.   hi i have recently hosted a birthday birthday for my kid. i also sent out a 'no siblings please' note in the invitations with one or two exceptions wherin the siblings were close to my son. one of the parent cornered me so as to why there w...

A.   11 March 2009: this is really weird. i suggest that you tell this parent nicely not to feel bad,and that it was your decision and you are not going to change it. dont let them get to you. all the best, hope your son has a nice birthday and party! take care... (read in full...)

Do women realise this about guys? Is it not true?

Q.   To many women think we are playing mind games with them so guys I'm gona have to spill the beans and tell them what we are realy doing. When a guy has a great conversation with you wherever it may be and then all of a sudden seems to ignore you for ...

A.   7 February 2009: do u realize u have enabled so many women to go to sleep peacefully by this piece of wonderful information i thank u on behalf of all my fellow girls and women out there who have met these idiots who didnt call.. thanks again,and no,i for one,had... (read in full...)

Just finished reading a romantic book and now I'm feeling all melancholy...

Q.   hi just recently i read this romance book that i can really relate myself to the girl it was the best book ever (twilight) and i finished it in a day but as soon as id finished it it was really weird because i felt so sad and melancholy because the ...

A.   16 January 2009: hey there! i read twilight too so i know how u feel.. i kept comparing my bf with edward....and finally he sat me down and said "look..pick from the 2 of us-either that supernatural hottie,or merely a human who loves u supernaturally.." and iha... (read in full...)

Has anyone else noticed an change in eye colour when horny?

Q.   This is a bit of weird question, but my boyfriend's eyes turn from a light blue to a deep green when he's horny. It's a real turn on but just wondering whether anyone else has experienced this? :) He's not realised this change until I pointed it out ...

A.   14 January 2009: whoa.. that's so cool!! Nope, I haven't experienced anything like that. My boyfriend changes eye colours from brown to hazel though, according to the light but that's it. I guess you have got yourself a very unique person. That's great! h... (read in full...)

Best way to keep a man's interest?

Q.   Why is it that men will call you at first every day and then miss a day and you don't hear from them? Are they just busy or does that mean they aren't that into you? Should I call or send a text? What is the best thing to do to keep their interest?...

A.   14 January 2009: there re 2 ways to go abt it depending upon the guy's nature,u know..like, if he is a direct guy,then u should be direct with him.that is,if u wanna call him,call..or text him if u wanna do that.. if he is in for games..well play along...give... (read in full...)

What do you do when you love someone who doesn't love you back?

Q.   okay i having a REAL hard time but can anyone PLEASE help....here goes. what do you do when you love someone that 1-you cant have 2-is not your age 3-doesnt love you back yet,you feel like they are lying you feel as if hes/shes yours and if you...

A.   1 September 2008: hi. i am sorry to hear u r going through such a situation...i felt this way too..over 2 years ago.he was in my class and i really fell for him..that wasnt any puppy love...but he moved and cut off all contacts,i used to cry myself to sleep ever... (read in full...)

Do you believe in fate?

Q.   When we were together, things just too strange would happen. We would think of each other at the exact same time, reach for the phone and get a text or phone call from each other. I would think of him and our song would play. The same thing happened ...

A.   13 August 2008: hey! dont let him go sweetheart. i feel the same way about the guy i m in luv with..and we are lucky girls.. if u both feel the same way..and fate definitely seems to be getting u both together... tell u wat..ask for 1 final sign fr... (read in full...)

What does it mean when he say's he's confused????

Q.   ok, now im more confused then ever!!! One minute he can't wait to see me and wants to spend all his time with me...(ya like 5 times a weeks) he gives me roses and a card telling me how much i have made him soooo happy and putting a smile on his face...

A.   11 July 2008: oo..congrats darling!! am glad things worked out!!... (read in full...)

I'm passing through a very difficult mode in life... please suggest something!!

Q.   Though i've overcome my break-up, i always feel very guilty of myself. For things which i committed during my relationship, may be i was too tempted. But now its like i feel like there's no one who loves me. i don't want a new relationship also, i ...

A.   3 July 2008: hey swthrt! first of all plzz stop crying which i m sure u r.. and trust me..when i was ur age,i had amajor crush on a guy n after a yr we broke it off cuz it wasnt working well.. i felt unloved too but i went out with my friends,concentrated... (read in full...)

What does it mean when he say's he's confused????

Q.   ok, now im more confused then ever!!! One minute he can't wait to see me and wants to spend all his time with me...(ya like 5 times a weeks) he gives me roses and a card telling me how much i have made him soooo happy and putting a smile on his face...

A.   3 July 2008: u did the right thing i think. give him a chance to grow up..he hasnt yet,and he isnt really ready for a relationship,if u ask me.. just dont have sex with him like that.. dont wry,things will work themselves out for the best,u'll c.... (read in full...)

I really don't know who to be with....Oh, and I'm pregnant with twins!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 yrs. Things keep going well then they will get bad again. I'm pregnant with his twin boys. I'm not happy with him. He tells me what to do, tells me he doesn't find me attractive and puts me down. I've found so...

A.   3 July 2008: first of all still congrats with ur twins.. look i wud just say that wait till the babies r born. since u've been with ur bf for 4 yrs..thats really a lot of time,right? probably he loves u but is just taking u for granted a bit.talk to hi... (read in full...)

Ladies: Tell me how you would react to this?

Q.   Ladies..if I saw you for first time and bumped into you and said "can I just say something, your eyes are so pretty" and walked off? How would you react and what would you think? [Moderator note: major spelling and grammar corrections, next tim...

A.   29 June 2008: i wud say...thanks...altho i know that already... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world for a few months... Any suggestions on how to make this time go a bit faster and better for me?

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world to work for a few months. Where he is gone is pretty remote so he will only be able to ring me maybe once a week. I'm feeling very down about this, he only left yesterday..I am desperatley ...

A.   25 June 2008: boy do i know the feeling or what-just distract urself and u'll be fine.... (read in full...)

I need some advice on age gap relationships

Q.   I recently met a guy whom I click with quite well. The feeling is apparently requited or this post would be moot. He lives about two hours away, which is something I've dealt with in relationships before (I live in the middle of nowhere). However, ...

A.   25 June 2008: i think u should follow ur heart and go along with it...do talk to ur parents n friends about it...let him meet them so that u dont have pressure on ur mind later. they r bound to say stuff but its ur decision in the end. if u guys luv each ot... (read in full...)

If he does love me would he be doing all these things?

Q.   Lately i have been having serious doubts about my boyfriends love for me. He says he loves me yet he no longer complements me, wont text or ring me all day unless it's necessary, hardly spends time with me, always finding fault with me, never ...

A.   24 June 2008: hi darling. my friend is going through the same situation and i do know where u r coming from. i wud say still dont make any hasty decisions but look out for the comfort of a guy friend..maybe show ur bf he cant take u for granted cuz thats wh... (read in full...)

How to move on from someone you love and think about all the time

Q.   How does one move on from somebody they love, and still think about all the time? She moved away, so she broke it off after 3 years. I told her exactly how I feel about her, but she says that this is the end of us. She mentioned that "Maybe some ...

A.   19 April 2008: ahh a tough situation for you i am sure. spend a day looking and thinking and writing about all the things u did together...so that u're head and heart become a little lighter.it helps..trust me.then u could try doing something u have never done bef... (read in full...)

My heart is broken into little bits and he wont take responsibility

Q.   I apologize that this is very long, i feel i need to explain the events, please if you could, just give me some insight: Our 1 year anniversary would have been next week. I met him, and fell for him right away, he always told me he always knew w...

A.   17 April 2008: no offence but i think this guy doesnt care...none of his actions show that he does.. he is simply using u...according to his convenience...plzz try to get over him..he is making U feel guilty..when none of it is ur fault. any help u need..pl... (read in full...)

He's asked me for my patience and support, and to do what I do best: love him. But what if he will never reciprocate?

Q.   Okay, so things were going okay with my boyfriend. We'd met up, kissed, cuddled, held hands and been going out for two weeks. In the last few days we'd been chatting every night, and he confided in me yesterday that he was finding them hard, and ...

A.   17 April 2008: wait if u can..the guy seems genuine to me. if u do love him.and can wait,do that. he just needs time..he'll come round.... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm the one that makes more effort in this but I like him a lot! What can I do to turn things around?

Q.   Hey guys i posted this question here a few days ago but only got one answer so im posting it again in the hope for more suggestions. Ive been seeing a guy for two months. Things are going well and i think we both like each other. One thing bothers ...

A.   17 April 2008: hey! yes u r right..u r making a lot of effort..i understand u like him a lot. when u r drunk..usually the true stuff comes out. give him another chance...tell him u get hurt sometims by his actions.. if not talk to him...let him be..if he ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's neediness is smothering me, how can I tell her without being coldhearted?

Q.   Hello there…. Help! Please! Some background…. I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months, we have lived together for the last 6, up until then it was great. I do love her; she is the sweetest person I have ever met. I have never cheated on her a...

A.   16 April 2008: hi.. wow,i do realize u love her but i think u should talk to her about it. yes,she is gonna cry but make her realize that u love her and wont leave her. dude,u're in for a tough ride..but love can withstand everything right? best from ... (read in full...)

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