Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?
Q. I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...
A. 3 July 2008: People believe in "soulmates" for the same reason they believe in true happiness, because the pursuit of it makes life, well life. Although there are over 6 billion other people in the world I am sure that atleast one of those will love you for you. ... (read in full...)
I've had dreams about this boy I like, could they mean anything?
Q. There's this boy that I've liked for awhile now. Like, we actually had something so don't think that he's just some random kid that I stalk lol. I haven't seen him in like forever because he doesn't go to my school. But lately, I've been thinking ...
A. 3 July 2008: When you think about something or someone alot they're bound to pop up in your dreams. Seeing as how you're so hopeful that you actully want to believe that your horoscope is backing this up (trust me horoscopes are rarely true and that's only by ... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: Actually most of my friends are guys and they know quit a bit about clothing sizes for women, not alot about how bra sizing works but there you go.... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: Becausssse you can change your shape, I currently work VERY hard at my body and Im wondering if it's worthit, I know every guy likes something different, as do girls when it comes to guys, but I'm wondering the majority. ... (read in full...)
I keep being stood up! What am I doing wrong?
Q. after an abusive relationship involving constant control from my ex boyfriend, whom i split up with a year ago. I have had a string of people who i have spoken to online and i have arranged to meet up with however i have been stood up about 3 times ...
A. 2 July 2008: Ouch...when you talk to people on the net, alot of the time when you arrange to meet them for the 1st time they will get scared and cancel or stand you up, I usually do stick to the 15 minute rule to save me from looking pathetic. Its got nothing to ... (read in full...)
I can't stand the thought of kissing my husband. Have I got some sort of disorder?
Q. My favorite past time was simply kissing my soon to be husband. We have been married for over a year now and I simply cant even stand the thought of him kissing me. I love him and we have a great relationship. Is this a disorder, what is my problem?...
A. 2 July 2008: Before you get married there's always somewhere to go in a relationship, something to look forward to... but being married wiht someone is about the furthest you can go in a relationship, and maybe you feel quite sick becausee your missing this and ... (read in full...)
How late is too late to enter the dating game in the modern world?
Q. How late is too late for guys to enter the dating game and start experiencing relationships. 20? 23? 25? 30? I mean, to really just START! Never been on a date before, never had sex, maybe never even kissed a girl. This could all be due t...
A. 1 July 2008: It doesnt really matter on the age. Some girls prefer less experiened guys and some girls prefer more experienced guys, it's never too late to start, you could be 50 and have your 1st ever realtionship and fall inlove then, what does it matter how ... (read in full...)
Confused about my period. Could the pill have something to do with it?
Q. Hiya, i'm a little confused as i had my period over a week ago and it lasted for around 4-5 days like usual now im bleeding again over a week later.. Its not heavy or anything its just something thats never happened before. I'm on the pill so is ...
A. 1 July 2008: Are you sure you're useing the pill right?
You're sposed to take it for 21 days andd bleed for 7.... (read in full...)
If I make my penis less sensitive can I last longer at sex? How do I do it?
Q. how do i make my penis head less sensitive? IF i do this would i be able to last longer during sex?...
A. 1 July 2008: I guess so, it probably wouldnt be as enjoyable for you though...to be fair Im not sure if it's possible though...Why don't you try someting like when you think you're about to cum picture something really random or distract yourself..maybe with ... (read in full...)
How do you tell a guy you like him?
Q. I am completely in love with this guy, but how do I tell him I like him? ...
A. 1 July 2008: Aww bless you're so young, Ive forgot how kids youre age do it, send him a note in class?...or ask him what he thinks baout you 1st :) if it's good tell him how you feel :)... (read in full...)
I cheated, but now I'm married and I will never cheat again. Should I tell him?
Q. 15 months ago I cheated (i gave a friend a hand job) on my at the time boyfriend (we got engaged 3 months after it happened) now we are getting married in 1 and a half weeks and I am wondering if I should tell him? In all actuality we were in a ...
A. 1 July 2008: Dont tell him, the only thing that will happen is you'll cause more pain, and hurt in the relationship, you've done the deed and having to live with knowing you've done it is the price you pay. It would be selfish if you told him.... (read in full...)
I need some wisdom about why I keep making bad choices! Now a married man?
Q. I'am an emotional mess....I dated my first love and everything for almost 5 years...he cheated,lied....you know the deal....i forgave him the 2 times he cheated,,,i always felt resentment but i loved him and decided to continue with him...after all ...
A. 1 July 2008: There is always a pattern in the bad choices we make in our lives, The 1st thing to do is to figure out your pattern..(and there maybe a number of things you do in this pattern ans issues you have with these things)I mean an obvious part of it is ... (read in full...)
Do you have any idea why he hates the fact that I love him?!
Q. "I'm pretty much 100% openly gay at my highschool. I'm so girly that people have known, and grown to accept it. I met this boy my freshman year, and I immediately fell for him. I know it's love and not just lust, because he is not the best ...
A. 1 July 2008: No matter How tempting it is to talk to him, even to apologise, Dont. Stay away from him. If you force yourself upon him anymore you will only get even more hurt. Think about this, if you were a girl and you did that you would be the queen b**ch, ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get a girl being a gentleman? I need some brotherly advice!
Q. i recently got turned down by another girl for a date by a girl ive been friends with for years and normally id be fine but its how she did it that has me flustered, she said think of you as more of a big brother and someone who would stand up for ...
A. 1 July 2008: Im going to be completely honest with you here. When a girl tells you that it's basically a polite way of telling you you're not her type. It actualy has nothing to do wiht you being a gentleman. If you want a girlfriend you should make it obvious ... (read in full...)
What might have been wrong with this guy?
Q. My wife reports that an ex boy friend when he was age 22, had his penis out his pants while making out with her. She didn't allow sex, but she noticed that it was not properly erect. Later,when he was 37, she had an affair with him,and although...
A. 1 July 2008: It's all in the past so why are you looking into it so much? What exactly are you hoping to gain from finding out why? Although it's clearly impossible to find out why..seeing as how you said he is no longer with you, and only he wuld know, because ... (read in full...)
I never wanna fall in love again because I'll either be a WHORE or he'll be a PLAYER!
Q. I don't know what to do with myself. I'm still deeply, madly in love with my ex. He broke up with me today, again. He always does it. I just, I guess I'm an idiot. When we first met, the chemistry was all over. When we started dating, everythi...
A. 1 July 2008: You do need to leave him for good, no doubt he'll probal find some other girl straight away to make you jealous. but the way you should think of it like is because he gave you so much grief, he'll be giving her all tha grief and he's her problem ... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping 12-16 hours a day, and I have other unpleasant symptoms. Can anyone suggest what's wrong with me?
Q. i need help plz.recently have been sleeping more than usual.i sleep like 12-16hours a day and even at that,i get someone to wake me up not me waking up willingly. i get tired easily and all i wona do is lie down and rest.whenever i stand up to go ge...
A. 1 July 2008: I know what's wrong with you, and you know it too.
I've been through all that.
EAT.
You're obviously taking the conscious decision not to eat.
These are the results of that.
Excericise for atleast an hour a day (whether it's running or swimming ... (read in full...)
I used to think I looked ok, now I have major confidence issues and feel ugly.
Q. i think i am having major security problems or confidence problems, i feel im really ugly and thats why i havent got a boyfriend and i feel everyone is constantly laughing at me like the other day i was walking past a few guys and i was looking at ...
A. 1 July 2008: Why does it matter?
Everyone likes to look nice
BUT people talk about looks as if ugly people never have relationships or arent succesful? :S
Ive seen a number of gorgeous guys with really nothing girls and visa versa
The best way to feel bett... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? Am I destined to be alone?
Q. I've never felt so alone, and it seems like I'm the only person in the world who doesn't have someone special. Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to have a boyfriend who loves me and I imagine being held and talked to lovingly and havi...
A. 1 July 2008: The thing is, if this is constantly on your mind, when you meet a guy your probably projecting your fantasy and sending out desperate vibes. You're born alone you die alone. The real issue is why cant you make yourself happy? Once you make yourself ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's background is trashy, rather slutty and I suffer from it. How can I get past this? How can I regain confidence?
Q. Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am in love with this 24 yrs old british girl with a pretty filled and trashy sexual background. We have been together for 4 months and connected staright away, we are both crazy and very alert but the first times we tried...
A. 1 July 2008: Perhaps you have some mother issues. Or perhaps you're just protecting yourself, like you feel so strongly about this woman so you find the 1st flaw possible to stop you from getting so close and hurt? & useing her background as an excuse makes this ... (read in full...)
What might have been wrong with this guy?
Q. My wife reports that an ex boy friend when he was age 22, had his penis out his pants while making out with her. She didn't allow sex, but she noticed that it was not properly erect. Later,when he was 37, she had an affair with him,and although...
A. 30 June 2008: There are loads of reasons why a man goes soft.
Why does it matter?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's background is trashy, rather slutty and I suffer from it. How can I get past this? How can I regain confidence?
Q. Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am in love with this 24 yrs old british girl with a pretty filled and trashy sexual background. We have been together for 4 months and connected staright away, we are both crazy and very alert but the first times we tried...
A. 30 June 2008: It's obvious that on some level you have a very sexist view of what a woman should be, you feel the man should be on the superior level, why does it bother you so much? is this really the issue or is it something deeper?... (read in full...)
We joked about losing my virginity to him as a birthday present. I suddenly like him so what do you advise?
Q. I'm really confused with myself at the moment because of something that happened last night. I'll give a few details before I go on about last night tho. I've just left school and there's a guy who is my mate who used to flirt loads at school....
A. 30 June 2008: When you're next on msn to him cheekily ask him "so when do you plan to kiss me next? ;)" Or something along those lines...get his reaction from that, cos if he rejects you you could quite easily pass it off as just a joke...or it could quite easily ... (read in full...)
Who should I believe???
Q. ok i was single for bout maybe a couple of months and i found this guy that i really liked......so i asked him out and he said yes.....and then a couple of days later my best friend tells me that it was a dare......and so i called him up and asked ...
A. 30 June 2008: Tbh I personally wouldnt be too happy if a guy hung up on me. Talk o your "friend" if she really is your friend then she's telling the truth. Give him a piece of your mind and make him think twice about messing you around ;)... (read in full...)
I just want my husband to show some affection, he thinks by cleaning the house it shows he cares...
Q. i have been with my husband for 12 yrs. he never show`s me he cares, he says he can`t show his feeling`s. i have tried to except it but i can`t. i don`t feel loved, wanted, i just feel i have no one. he is never there for me. i have to cope with thin...
A. 30 June 2008: With Men, you have to be straightforwrd tell them EXACTLY wha you want and need, anything else is jus wasting time and causing mre pain. Even if he thinks your nagging...It's YOUR relationship too...You're a person in this relatinship and you ... (read in full...)
How do I stop obsessing about someone? He was a teacher at my school.
Q. Hey. I need to know if anyone knows how to stop an obsession with someone. Or at least tone it down. I have this friend and we're both either in love with or obsessed with this 26 year old guy. He's cute, funny, good company, smart, and just so ...
A. 30 June 2008: Pretty much everyone falls for a teacher, They're authoritive but they're still around you socially, it helps if theyre good looking too, what you have to remember is is hat everyne has their flaws noones perfect, and trust me he's far from it, & if ... (read in full...)
Can anyone tell me a good website where I can get videos on how to have sex?
Q. Can anyone tell me a good website where i can get videos on how to have sex?...
A. 30 June 2008: Any porn would help...but no guy really knows what they're doing they're 1st time ;)
Just relax...girls arent expecting much from guys your age anyway :) ... (read in full...)
Please help! Should I go into a lower grade at school, or put up without my fave teacher?
Q. sorry this is long but i do need help! i am coming to the end of year 9. i have loved this year it has been an amazing time. when i go into year 10 i will have new teachers and be moved into new sets. im going to be having the same teachers...
A. 30 June 2008: it's foolishness, if you go to her set yu'll regret it fr the rest of your life, because you're only in highschool for a few more years, What would be the point in jeaprodising your results jus so yu can have a certain teacher. when chosing you're ... (read in full...)
Is he not lucky to have me also??
Q. Hi all, I have a wonderful boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years now and my family and friends adore him as do i.However whats started to annoy me is that everyone (his family and friends and my family)keep telling me how lucky i am to ha...
A. 30 June 2008: You shouldnt take it personally...he is lucky to have you, obviously, it just so happens that his family feel so protective of him that they feel the need to remind you you're lucky to have him, but it's not the sort of thing that everyone says so ... (read in full...)
Mixed Messages from a guy who's got a girlfriend....
Q. I ended up fooling around with s guy at work on Monday, then afterwards he told me he has a girlfriend and I work with her too. Today was the first time I'd seen him since, he was sending really mixed messages, one minute he was shaking his head at ...
A. 30 June 2008: He's a horny pig, that's his problem, that's [almost] every guy's problem. He's not going to dump his girlfriend for you, I can guarantee that. The reason he's acting this way towards you is because he thinks you're an easy F behind his gf's back. ... (read in full...)
I have problems making friends and girlfriends, can you help, please?
Q. Hey, I hope im doing this right ! I have problems making friends and girlfriends.(2 questions) 1. Friends: Im 19 turning 20, and by now I figured i'd have a list of friends as long as my arm and a girl in my life. However the complete opposit...
A. 30 June 2008: It's obvious you dont know the secret to being popular and good with girls...want to know?
The secret is CONFIDENCE. When you ooze confidence and a careless attitude, people are automatically drawn to you.
& I know you're probably thinking... (read in full...)
Can something that just sort of happens be so wrong?
Q. I have been talking to a married guy for months on the internet, it was always general chit chat nothing flirty or sexy until Friday. I don't know how it happened but we got chatting and then flirting and then pictures were swapped, sexy pictures. ...
A. 30 June 2008: Im 17...& I do get alot of older guys after me, BUT when it gets past the 25 year point I do feel quite sick...To be fair you cant really justify this in any way but it could be alot worse. It is dangerous, I mean you have no idea how many girls ... (read in full...)
I lied about myself in my profile, should I tell him?
Q. ok i met this guy on this website and we started chatting on MSN every day. However, at first it started off as a joke when i set up my profile so i lied about my name and used a different photo but everything else i said was true, just my name and ...
A. 8 May 2007: I've had people use my pictures on msn instead of their own. Im guessing you did it becuase you felt you'd have more of a chance if you used someones picture who was "good looking". some people can fall for someone based on looks as the majority of ... (read in full...)
Is a 38DD bra size at 15 years old too big?
Q. i am 15 and a 38 DD is that normal. i think i'm to big for my age?? hElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 8 May 2007: its not taht big i was as big as a 32f when i was 15
but theres nothing to worry about
alot of guys like big boobs
so be happy like.
xxxxx... (read in full...)
This girl I don't know keeps ringing me and I'm fed up. How do I handle this?
Q. i'm 16. a girl is a year younger than me and she keeps ringing me tellin me she likes me. she goes to my school but i dont know who it is. she's seen me play football at school showin of a few skills and apparently loves her pants of at me. i'v...
A. 7 May 2007: If she likes you so much why don't yopu give her a chance?... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he's "Mr Right?"
Q. Beeing togehter with my boyfriend 2 years and 5 month, how can I find out, if he is Mr.Right or not?...
A. 7 May 2007: Whoever said there was a mr. right? Perhaps some people are just better suited for some than others.but real indepth love is rare to find, and anyone would be lucky just to experience it once. every other love can be broken down it to different ... (read in full...)
Do guys just assume that you're dating even if you don't have the actual talk? I'm confused.
Q. I feel kind of stupid asking this question but here goes... I had a crush on one of my guy friends for a long time, and recently something happened between us. He admitted he had feelings for me, we kissed, and he told me that he'd been in lov...
A. 7 May 2007: if he said that he could never dream of cheating on you then yes he must think you're a couple. If you're unsure you could just ask him if he considers him and yourself to be a couple.... (read in full...)
Im having an affair, 2 kids one on the way, but I love this other woman!! What can I do ?
Q. im 30 yrs old with 2 kids and 1 on the way but for the past three months i have been having an affiar with a women who is so great and fun to be with and i just cant bring myself to leaving my wife for the kids sake but i love this other women to ...
A. 16 April 2007: Talk to your wife about how you feel, dont just spring it on her and the children that you want to leave, talk to her first, see how she feels, maybe its worthit to try and work things out with her first. Do not tell the children untill you both ... (read in full...)
Am I just to selfish to ever have a serious relationship, or am I right to wait for "the one"?
Q. I'm 23 and single. I think I'm always going to be alone, and I feel like a jerk because my standards for women are so specific. The longest relationship I have had is 4 months and it was back in high school. I have never considered any to be "seri...
A. 16 April 2007: Maybe you should just let your standards be a bit less specific, it sounds like you already have a picture in your head of what your future wife is going to be like, but love doesnt work that way. You cant force yourself to fall inlove with someone ... (read in full...)
Together for 6 years and on a break, he needs time to figure it out and I'm hurting, why cant he just tell me it will all be okay!?
Q. My boyfriend and I (of 6 yrs) have been on a break for the past 2 months. It started after a huge fight which was all because of a misunderstanding. Now that things are cleared up, he is still in the "grey." He says he needs time to figure things ...
A. 16 April 2007: Sometimes when you've been in a relationship for a long amount of time, you start to take the other person for granted and your feelings get confused. I am sure though that he will soon realise how much he needs you & how much you meant to him. Just ... (read in full...)
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