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writes:Hi all,, uhmm...I've confused now,,im really love my english teacher...well,,its start when im in 10grade,,,i've falling in love with my new english teacher!!he's only 23y.o,,man,he was so handsome..,,at first...i dont mind he's handsome or not,,but. . . ,,when his start talking to me,, im realize,,he just not handsome,but he was so sweet and kind too,,,at the same time...im start to...love him,,and now..Im in 11grade,,he's still my teacher..And im still...love him too...One day...He's calling me after school to help him in my class.,,there's no someone in my class,cuz the other student was allready back home,, and in class,, there just me and him..,, he talk to me sudden "hei, what do u think i am?" and im surpised he's said that,,,i just told him that he's really nice person,,, and he's said again just that?,, and suddenly..he's KISSED ME!! Im really surprised!! And he's told me that he want me,,im really surprised and happy!!And im nooded,,and told him that im love him,,and he smiled and say i love u too,but..Im afraid he'll lose his job as teacher,,but im really love him!Should i tell my mum about my realation with teacher??What do im do now??Please help me...
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady  +, writes (3 June 2009):
OMG! Ok... i'd be very worried about this if i were you. He has just given up everything he has... you could report him now and that would be it. But he trusts you and believes you wont report him. This is what worries me. He must have known for a while you liked him, and therefore he is abusing his position. You are not close friends, you are student/teacher. Watch it this man doesn't take advantage of you; he sounds like he has a weakness for pretty girls and doesn't think about the consquences - not a great trait! I think it's safe to say this man is not to be trusted, any teacher who makes a move on their student is VERY morally challenged. Liking you is one thing, actually making a move is another. DO NOT TRUST THIS MAN. BE VERY CAREFUL. Sex predators can be young men too.
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reader, kitty_3  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 OMG! Luckyyy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2008): I love my english teacher too, he sounds just like yours, he's absolutely amazing and perfect but I wouldn't tell my mom, you'd get grounded she'd report him and he'd be charged as a petafile.
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reader, anonymous1776 +, writes (30 October 2008):
he is very wrong for kissing you but if i were you i probably wouldn't tell anyone because he could lose his job and possibly ruin his life. What else I would do is I would end the relationship. Do not keep doing these things like kissing. NO matter how much you love him its most likely more lust than love. Sorry to break it to you. :-(
End the relationship, get over him, and find someone around your age. There are a ton more fish in the big ol sea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2008): The ages are not the issue here unless the age of consent laws are different from most of my Country (16).
The issue is that he is a teacher.
Clearly he was absent in teacher school the day they taught the trainees about what happens when (and most likely 'if') they get caught out kissing a student, regardless of age or even if they teach the same class.
Cool it all down until you are out of school or tell your parents and get him fired for his flouting of the rules.
One way or another, as a teacher, he shouldn;t be acting on any temptations from his students (I think most teachers will encounter temptation in this form from time to time, but most understand the consequences and wisely choose not to indulge in thier own feelings).
But how you proceed is up to you. But tread carefully and choose wisely, because once the decision is made, you can never take it back.
Flynn 24
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reader, shelleyanne +, writes (13 October 2008):
 Honey, you need to make sure not to spend any more time alone with him. He could lose his job for that.
What he did, by kissing you, probably felt perfect, but he was wrong in doing it.
You should tell your parents. They love you and know you better than anyone and can help you work through the situation. Again, please avoid being alone with your teacher again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008): Tell your mom about your teacher, I don't think this is wise, and yes he would most likely lose his job as a teacher because his behavior and yours is really inappropriate...he is grooming you, which means he is purposely flirting and taking things really slow with his attention to gain your trust so that he can take advantage of you sexually.....he is too old to be doing this with a 16 year old, and you are too naive to let him....this guy could be a danger, tell your mom immediately....you don't love him, you are infatuated with a more mature person who is supposed to be entrusted with your care and have your best interests at heart. It is his job to teach you a subject, not to woo your heart and hurt you when he no longer wants you....
Be careful, don't be alone with him again...he is not to be trusted. You don't have the experience or judgement to understand that teachers just don't do this with their young students.
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reader, 1trainer1 +, writes (13 October 2008):
unfortunately the law will prosecute your teacher and he will also lose his job if anything does happen between yourselves, if you really like him and care for him then you should wait until your 18 and he is not your teacher then you can pursue this further.
he should not encourage you and if he does then he is wrong but if you do not wait then you could get into a lot of trouble
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