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*itty_3
writes:please help me! i feel like my hormones are hyjacking my life!to start off, i'm a late bloomer. i had friends who wanted it in 5th grade, but i had my first sexual urges only a few monthes ago (i'm 17).they're very distracting! i was playing badmiton in gym, and this guy next to the bleachers pulled up his shirt to wipe his face, and i just couldn't keep my eyes off his chest. i tired to get back to the game, but i just wasn't in it until he put his shirt down.i also find that i can no longer do my homework. i used to be a great student, but ever so slowly my grades are dropping. i have a huge paper that i'm supposed to write this weekend, but i just can't do it because i keep getting distracted by fantasies of this incredibly hot teacher that i have for that class.what can i do? please help me get back on track! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2009): I held off replying to see what some of the girls would tell you. Obviously I don't know about girls hitting puberty like you are. But you sound just like I was when the hormones hit me. So the answer seems to be, masturbate. Do it often, get the urges out of your system. Honestly I don't know if masturbation works the same for girls as it does for boys. For boys, it gives you a few hours of peace, where you can actually think of other things. Give it a go -- it certainly can't hurt.
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reader, kitty_3 +, writes (11 April 2009):
kitty_3 is verified as being by the original poster of the question he has a girlfriend... otherwise, i definitely would! lol
it's just... urg! i can't get any work done any more. it's driving me insane!
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reader, ask.m  +, writes (11 April 2009):
 Dear Kitty
Now that your urges have started I doubt very much they will stop .. best dive right in & get down to it. why not give into your urges & ask one of those cute guy's out from the gym?
have fun! & dont forget to tell us how you got on
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