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Some people say that death is just not waking up anymore.

I give advice I'm oft too scared to follow myself. I am pathetic.

And now, for pointless factoids! :D

One episode of sex of twenty to thirty minutes can burn three hundred calores - the equivalent of running three miles. But the usual episode of sex lasts two to six minutes (a quarter of a mile). If you cannot walk up and down two flights of stairs without stopping, it's a sign that you've got a problem that most likely will affect your sex life.

When you cuddle, you release the hormone oxytocin, which causes some of that feel-great feeling.

Every month women may experience hormonal changes that may make men want to declare permanent secession from the other gender, but that doesn't mean women have to be left with a Midol in one hand and a balled fist in the other. The cure is through fats - omega-9 and -3 types. Evening primrose and olive oil supplements provide the former and should be combined with a similar dose of flaxseed oil for the latter. Daily requirements of calcium have also been shown to decrease symptoms for women who experience PMS - and increase the happiness of the men who live with them.

Why didn't I orgasm?

Q.   Hello, So this is kind of embaressing really. Im 37 years of age and i have only just lost my virginity to a long term boyfriend because of lots of issues. But, during intercourse i did not orgasm at all? and i didnt feel like it was at all good?...

A.   8 August 2009: When you consider that the average man achieves orgasm four times quicker than the average women, you can see why many women won't achieve orgasm in every sexual encounter. Add to that the pressure put on some women to have orgasms, and a sexual ... (read in full...)

Advice on quitting smoking

Q.   My boyfriend wants to quit smoking and have asked me to help him, I don't know how to. I never smoked either nor how addicting it can be. Are there any product that REALLY does help? Gum doesn't work for him. Plus if anyone know of reasons...

A.   8 August 2009: Days 1-27: Walk thirty minutes a day, every day. When you're done, report to another person that you've completed it (use the same person every day). Walking thirty minutes a day will help prove that one has the discipline to stick with a plan. ... (read in full...)

How can I have sex with him without his GF knowing

Q.   I have this best friend to wants me to have sex with him nd give him blow jobs . but he has a qirlfriend nd I feel very uncomfortable with it . so wat can I do to actually give him the sex he wants with out his girlfriend findinq out. ?...

A.   7 August 2009: I don't see why your best friend wants you to have sex with him if he already has a girlfriend. I personally would be much more worried about the status of the relationship that your friend has. I think asking him why he wants to have sex with... (read in full...)

We are trying to have a baby, with no sucess, any suggestions?

Q.   Hey im 20 nearly 21 and me and my boyfriend are tryin for a baby. Iv come off the pill but just doesnt seem to happen for us as much as we try. I find after sex that half of the cum seems to leave me as soon as i get up from the bed. Its reall...

A.   6 August 2009: The reproductice process seems simple enough: See sperm swi. See sperm fertilize egg. See daughter ask for a pony on her fifth birthday. But conception is far from easy. Sometimes, the cause for infertility is simply: wrong place, wrong time. You ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

Q.   My boyfriend is obbsessed with sex thts all he talks about and i aint ready.........the thing is he lives in cali and i dnt.......i dnt wanna talk about sex let alone do it he is always trying to make me horny what should i do?...

A.   5 August 2009: In reality, sex is one of life's driving biological forces and - at least anthropologically - why we are consumed with sex. We eat, we seek shelter, we procraete. From the most basic metabolic level, that's why we exist, and evolution commands us to ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to like younger guys?

Q.   is it wrong to like a younger guy and i am 2 yaers older.he was born in 1982 and i was born in 1980. is it wrong to like a younger guy.i like younger guys but i don,t mean to ? is it wrong .do younger guys like older girls? can you help m...

A.   8 February 2009: I remember reading this somewhere. Standard Creepiness Rule: Don't date under (Your age/2) + 7 So I think you're good to go. Of course, everybody's different.... (read in full...)

I don't want to fail but I don't have the willpower to study

Q.   Im 15 and leavin school this year in a few months, my exams start in may and i starting to panic im not at all prepared and i feel like i may fail. i cant revise because i cant physically sit down and read over things or do activities because i just ...

A.   8 February 2009: Study with friends! Form a study group! Whenever I study by myself I find myself lacking the motivation to continue. It's always more fun to study with friends! Not only can your group help each other if you encounter problems, but you get to be ... (read in full...)

My intelligence may be getting in the way of our relationship, any ideas?

Q.   My boyfriend (we're both 16) thinks I need to stop being smarter then him. He gets d's and c's well I get b's and a's. I don't rub it in his face at all (plus I think its rude as well) and I have been offering to help him get his grades back up but ...

A.   7 February 2009: He thinks you need to stop being smarter then him. Right. Maybe he should just stop being dumber than you. Seriously. Good grades are nothing to be ashamed of. You've offered him help and he refused. If push comes to shove, dump the guy. If... (read in full...)

How do I get his attention when he's always listening to an ipod

Q.   How am i supposed to get this guy's attention if he's listening to his ipod all the time? i swear, he even does it when our teacher is giving a lesson and he's only in that one class of mine so it's the only time i see him... what should i do?...

A.   7 February 2009: I guess it would mostly depend on where you two sit in the class. If you're next to each other, hey, pass a note, wave if he looks your way, stab him with a spoon and nonchalantly look the other way if he looks at you suspiciously! ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my friend to leave her alone?

Q.   Ok, so i like this girl(haven't heard that one before...) and i don't think anyone even knows this, because I've never cared that much about love or the like; Sadly, my friend keeps hitting on her, but not in any normal way, he is a little perverted ...

A.   6 February 2009: If there's a chance he might get beaten up in a fight, you should talk to him. Nobody likes getting beaten up in a fight. Except for maybe those weirdos who do. ANYWAY. Talk with your friend and make sure he listens. It doesn't matter how ... (read in full...)

Why are woman naturally jealous?

Q.   Why are we women naturally jealous? Men are naturally visual, so they naturally have a "wandering eye". Why do we have to be jealous then? I'm not saying "all women" or "all men", but most. I know I get jealous as much as I rationally know ...

A.   6 February 2009: I find it hilarious that only females have answered to this question so far. Seriously. I don't know if my reply will make things all better or get me pelted with stones by a bunch of women, but in any case, here we go. Almost all men sneak... (read in full...)

Should I believe him or her?

Q.   I had a crush on this boy for almost 3 years. Well his step-sister is in my class and she knows i like him. She keeps telling me things like that he does like me or that he says hi or the she will see if he can call me. Then i put on my myspace that ...

A.   6 February 2009: I adise you talk with both of them at the same time. Hear both sides and then decide which one you want to believe. I believe you'll have a higher chance of getting the truth that way. Or you could beat them with sticks until they tell the truth, ... (read in full...)

Does anyone believe in sex before marriage?

Q.   Does anybody believe in sex before marriage? I would like to hear your opinions about it.. what do you guys about it?? Do you think it's possible or is it a bunch of bull??...

A.   5 February 2009: I find your question rather oddly worded. Is sex before marriage possible? Yes. It's like how people, "oh no, you can't jump off that cliff!" In truth, it's actually quite physically possible to jump off a cliff. It isn't really that hard, se... (read in full...)

It perplexes me. Really, since when are C cup's small?

Q.   I hate when people call C cups small. They are always talking about "small boobs" referring to Bs and Cs. Where does that leave AAs and As? I'm a B cup by the way. I don't think Cs are small. What's the deal people? Learn to look! Don't you thin...

A.   3 November 2008: I still don't really see why males are so attracted to breasts. They're just lumps of fat. What's so appealing about them? "Oh, they bounce and stuff!" So does a soccer ball. Incredible. It's called physics. "Oh, they feel jiggly when you ... (read in full...)

I'm being bullied into losing my virginity.

Q.   OK. So, I'm 14, yes fourteen. I've recently got a boyfriend who I've been going out for for 5 months, and that's pretty good I must admit. A lot of girls who have always had it out for me have been coming up to me and been going, "Hey virgin, you ...

A.   29 October 2008: Being bullied by others to lose your virginity when you're only 14? Oh my, what has happened to our peaceful little world? Morals seem to mean nothing anymore. Why do you need to lose your virginity? Does it make you a better person? Do people l... (read in full...)

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