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By no means will I say that I am a good person to get advice from, but i try to back up my thoughts with my limited life experience and logic. I try and answer honestly as I can. I believe that there is no such thing as always and never. The future is indefinite, and things change. I was Born and Raised in Central Florida, and I personally believe who the person is that makes them attractive, and not what they look like. I would like to add my favorite quote from a great teacher I had. "Do not go looking for love, for you will not find it." It took me a long time to understand what it meant.

Should I keep having sex with my ex-girlfriend?

Q.   I dated a girl on and off for 5 years, starting when we were 17. She would leave me for other guys because it was attention from someone new; I think she was trying to reassure herself she was pretty. Then she would say she misses me, and I would ...

A.   28 May 2009: It sounds like she's stringing you along. This does not sound to me like its a healthy relationship at all. If you decide to end it with her, make sure that you are firm in your determination, otherwise I fear she may continue on this pattern ... (read in full...)

Dating for five months but no sex yet!

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 5 months now and we haven’t had sex yet which isn’t exactly a bad thing but he always makes up some excuse like if my child wakes up or he drank too much or its too soon. We have had some foreplay but when I try to ...

A.   28 May 2009: I don't know guys, between thelovecoach and the anon below her, i think they pretty much got it covered as far as the situation is concerned. I would listen to those two the most... and certainly the problem has nothing to do with you. its either a ... (read in full...)

How do I satisfy a woman?

Q.   My last Question get satisfatory answer? Thanks to all? I am little confused about girls that when she has cum in sexual intercourse. normally it takes how much time to get girls have cum. can every girls have cum by sexual intercourse? what...

A.   28 May 2009: there are few things that I can say with knowledge about on this topic. that typically women around 18-25 do not necessarily have orgasms at all. typically as a woman becomes a little older than 25 will she achieve orgasms. yes there are exceptions ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with sex between brothers and sisters?

Q.   Ok I know sex between brothers and sisters is considered wrong by most people. Why? I mean if they love each other and make sure they don't have any children, what is wrong with sharing that love physically? ...

A.   28 May 2009: I guess here I must disagree with the moral majority here. Although yes by law it is illegal, and religion also discards it as well to be sin. maybe that is why I am not much of a religious person. I come to my own conclusions instead of havi... (read in full...)

I want to sleep with my aunt

Q.   okay i think im weird.i'll explain. I have an antie she's 17 im 16 ( long story) anyway, i think she's fit and i get turned on by her I stayed at hers whilst she wa on holiday and in her room, i found loads of dirty bra's and knickers and wel...

A.   28 May 2009: I would mostly agree with the second poster. With how the hormones are going at 16 I can't really blame you, since you say you have an attractive aunt. I was 16 not that long ago actually and I had a cousin that I thought was attractive, still kind ... (read in full...)

Do guys like petite girls?

Q.   Do guys like petite girls? Do they think their smallness is cute and delicate? Or does it creep guys out (especially older guys) that they're small like children?...

A.   4 March 2009: How I see this situation. Personally I prefer a middle ground in a sense. I'm a rather tall guy, about 6' 3" and weigh about 200, so if I see a girl that looks frail, if anything got intimate with her, I'd feel worried about crushing her, although... (read in full...)

Female vs. male masturbation - what is your opinion on this?

Q.   I have always wondered why female masturbation is such a taboo subject. It is almost accepted that men will masterbate, so why isn't this level of acceptance given to women making themselves aware of their bodies in a completely natural way. Just ...

A.   10 February 2009: personally, for me I don't see any difference between male and female masturbation. but as far as others, I don't know. ... (read in full...)

I want him to be my prom date!

Q.   Hi! I like this guy a lot. But I only see him like for 2.5 hours a week in classes/and stuff. We normally talk a lot and it's really fun bein around him. I reallyy like him, but I have no idea if he likes me too. literally no idea. is there any ...

A.   8 February 2009: Best thought, I would say just ask him outright. If he has any feelings for you he may let them out if you do. One of the things that i admire most and find attractive is a girl who is just herself. another idea, something i personally believe ... (read in full...)

How is a girl supposed to talk to guys?

Q.   I have no idea what to talk to guys about! I mean, there's only so much that you can talk about that's school-related and i know nothing about sports and don't care to. luckily, the guy i'm into right now isn't into that stuff (he likes art)... but ...

A.   8 February 2009: You pretty much can talk to him about anything, some things may want to be left out but that's another story, bring up movies that look interesting, music that you like. Really, the sky is the limit. After awhile you could even tell him stories ... (read in full...)

Are lefties different than righties?

Q.   Besides writing with a different hand, are lefties different than righties? Sometimes it's said that certain habits/ characteristics can indicate certain personality types, like the way you write can. I don't know... maybe it's stupid. Just ...

A.   25 January 2009: i know two left handed people, and both of them are cosplayers. they design and sew their own costumes, which turn out looking amazing. i'm right handed and can not sew at all. i'm more right brained. i like to think logically. although one of the ... (read in full...)

Why do the bad guys always win?

Q.   why do some people who are nasty and cold and who have inflated egos with good looks get every thing? some like who is nice,quiet,hard working get nothing in life only disappointment and rejection and failure. why do do bullies and meanies ...

A.   31 December 2008: from my experiences is has nothing to do with being a "bad guy", and mostly to do with the guy being confident. most of the so called "nice guys" aren't exactly confident in themselves, and usually are clingy. the "bad guy" usually is confident in ... (read in full...)

I wantto have sex with my cousin

Q.   I am a 17yr old girl.My problem is that i love my cousin very much he is 26 yrs old.I want to make love with him.He is so handsome. He also knows my feelings for him. When ever i get a chance i watch him taking a bath.I really want him. My religon ...

A.   23 December 2008: I would say take it easy. I definitely think do not do anything against your culture. although in my culture it is usually frowned upon to marry a relative, although i can think of one of the presidents of my country who had married his cousin. The ... (read in full...)

Do men just view women as sex on legs?

Q.   Question for the guys, well i live on a main road and cant even cross the road with out being told to show my tits or being tooted at. Im 18 and i get 30 to 50 year olds doing it not just young guys and it makes me sick. I feel like all guys think ...

A.   22 December 2008: honestly it sounds like those guys are just despicable. my best friend actually dumped his gf because she wanted to have sex and he was wanting to wait. so not all guys are that, would rude be acceptable in this case? ... (read in full...)

How can I lift my breasts without telling anyone?

Q.   my breast are very unattractive My nipples are big and light colored, my left is about a half of size smaller than the right, and worst of all there saggy…..I am only 14 years old so I cant have any kind of surgery and I don’t want to talk to my pa...

A.   21 December 2008: one idea is to exercise the pectoral muscles, they're the ones underneath the breasts. by exercising them it will strengthen the muscles and raise the breasts.... (read in full...)

Name on birth certificate! Help!

Q.   Hiya.. im really confused over what to do! I had my first baby in the middle of november, me and the father were not together when i gave birth and hadnt been for about 2 weeks.. he wasnt there when she was born, and saw he for the first t...

A.   21 December 2008: my father's not on my birth certificate, and they've been together for several years before i was born. even after they got married my name's not changed and that's been about 8 years since they've gotten married on Christmas eve. and i think that ... (read in full...)

How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?

Q.   There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...

A.   10 December 2008: most likely she'll like the gesture. I've liked a girl for awhile and i gave her a bag with some scented candles and a candle holder. she loved it. don't worry about it. but if you are worried, you could do what anonny said and hand out a couple ... (read in full...)

How can I give up on my dream of marriage and a family, and find happiness and fulfillment in singledom?

Q.   Hello, this may seem as a strange question, but I'm giving up on relationships. Forever. The problem is I always had this fantasy of getting married and having children, but I think it'd be too difficult for me to mantain relationships. I...

A.   9 December 2008: I can't say I know what to do. But I can say that not all guys want the large busted women. And i must agree that self-confidence helps. the last guy, WAS trash. personally i don't think any person should treat another that way. and believe me, ... (read in full...)

Non shallow guy...

Q.   Hi, I know this sounds like a stupid question - would you fancy an ugly looking girl with a weight problem? It's just a question. Any male readers could give me an idea because I am a shallow person. Is there such a thing as a non-shallow guy? Is ...

A.   9 December 2008: I believe that there are guys out there that are shallow, along with guys out there who aren't, along with those in the middle. Most of my guy friends that I've talked to about this, because of one situation or another with a girl, have said tha... (read in full...)

Why are white men always falling for white women and not me, the Puerto Rican?

Q.   Hello dear cupiders, I am puerto rican. shoulder length cruley brown hair/ very tan skin/ reg. brown eyes/ short/ I believe I'm attractive I give myself a 7 1/2 out of 10. I am attracted primary to 'white' men. (Not that I'm racist or anyth...

A.   9 December 2008: i don't think it has anything to do with you losing it. but i can't say that white guys only fall for white girls. i know this because as a white guy I've had crushes on Asian girls, black girls Hispanic girls etc. it just has to do with the guy's ... (read in full...)

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