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I think I might be sick next time..

Q.   My boyfriend has a smelly cock and he keeps wanting me to go down on him, what do I do? I keep wretching - think i may be sick the next time- help!...

A.   4 February 2009: I have to tips. 1. shower together first, it may help. 2. If that doesnt work, get him checked out... the smell is a sign of an infection and he could give it to you... (read in full...)

Can you call this a relationship?

Q.   Umm Im not really seeking advice here...Im just asking for opinions and I would really like to hear Your opinions...There's this Guy I know{He's 18}...he Lives about 6 hrs away from this girl he has fallen in love with. They met Through a friend of ...

A.   4 February 2009: there are many kinds of relationships, although this may not seem like a thurough one, it is a relationship... (read in full...)

What should I do in this situation?

Q.   Ok i apologise if this question is a bit complicated but i'm confused about things, and need a bit of help. A few weeks ago, me and my bf (we'll call him J) split up, and i was devastated. The weekend after i dealt with things in a bad way by going ...

A.   4 February 2009: Well, i would try to make the situation as simple as possible. Perhaps eliminating B from the equation. Just tell him you were upset, thats why you made out w/ him. Say you just want to be friends and need him to understand that. As for J- your ... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting to this man threatening me in a parking lot?

Q.   Just wanting some advice. I am a mobile carer and this afternoon i arrived at one of my ladies and there was no where to park outside her house. So i parked two doors up knowing i would only be twenty minutes and i hoped to be out of the way by the ...

A.   4 February 2009: If i were you, i wouldnt park there agian =] I dont think you should dwell on the matter, as long as your not goin to see him again. just please BE SAFE, thats whats most important.... (read in full...)

Consulation sex leads to pregnancy?

Q.   Last week i was very depressed and my boy friend took me to his house and consoled me and without my knowledge i spent the night with him. im feeling very dizzy these days, am i pregnant ?...

A.   4 February 2009: First of all, the girl a couple more down could afford to learn how to be a bit more understanding and sympathetic, so dont feel bad. Anyway, did you have sex with him? Im having a hard time understanding? And also, those are some signs that cou... (read in full...)

I really want to date him but he lives three hours away!

Q.   Alright, I Think I found the one. i know i'm Only 14 But i'v never Felt this Way before the only problem is he lives three hours Away and He Loves Me And i Love Him but i dont think He Believes in long distance, But i REALLY want this to work, the ...

A.   4 February 2009: i realyy really dont wanna rain on your parade... but ln distance relationships are really hard. Ive been in one and after a while... you need something more than just talkin on the phone.. your 14, so maby your not worried about that part... but ... (read in full...)

Protect Myself, or Trust my Friend?

Q.   This question is regarding a friend not a lover. My friend moved around the corner from me and her car broke down. The bus station is too far to walk and she has no way to get around. She asked me to borrow my car, and I let her use it everyday for ...

A.   4 February 2009: yeah its your car... at first i would just start telling her that you need it for something and let her use it for important things... then maybe start suggesting that she start to take measures to get a car of HER OWN.... (read in full...)

Do I tell my best friend about his GF's dirty intentions?

Q.   My best friend has a girlfriend. his girlfriend doesnt just like him she likes another guy. i really like my best friend. the other guy that she likes told me that she told him that she wants to have sex with him. should i tell my best friend or ...

A.   4 February 2009: yes tell him... but be warned that he may take it the wrong way and think you are jealous or are trying to break them up. so be reaady to explain this to him... (read in full...)

My birthday and V-Day in a week and I have a cold sore!

Q.   Its only a week 'til my birthday and almost valentines and i'm coming out in a coldsore, i know for some people (especially me) they are just a part of they're life and its one of them annoying pains you just have to learn to deal with, but there's ...

A.   4 February 2009: Seen the commmercial for Herpesmere?? Get it at the store! btw.. its not for herpes, its just called that b/c ccold sores and herpes are in the same family... (read in full...)

Should I wait 5 years for him to leave his wife?

Q.   I have been seeing this man for almost three years now. He is perfect. He is kind, caring considerate, attentive, loving, great in the sack the problem is he is married. He has a child from the previous marriage and states he can't leave his new ...

A.   4 February 2009: No leave him now.It is absolutly immorall to do what you BOTH are takin part of.... i was very closely involved in a situation like this that someone i knew was dealing with. I was furious w/ her b/c she knew he was married and then when he just ... (read in full...)

I want to go for it but don't wish to make a fool of myself

Q.   I need some help, to cut a long story short I lead a very "sheltered" life, I have never had a boyfriend never had any physical contact with a guy and i didn't bother me until I started my new job. A guy there wants a bit of fun and he is gorgeous ...

A.   4 February 2009: I think you should do for it... sex isnt that ocmplicated when your in the situation. And theres nothing wrong with being a virgin, a lot of people respect thant... (read in full...)

Can you get addicted from smoking just once?

Q.   well i am 19 years old..and i have never smoked a cigarette all my life..all my friends do..i want to try smoking 2 just once..is there anything wrong in smoking once..or would i get addicted???...

A.   4 February 2009: No, I have smoked before, just a couple times when hanging out with friends... not addicted in any way.... (read in full...)

Has anyone 'come out' at this age (16) to friends and family? How did you do it?

Q.   Hi, I'm nearly 16 and I live in Warwickshire in England. The question I wanted to ask is has anyone here came out at this age to their friends and family? If so, can you advise me on how to go about it? I usually would have little troubl...

A.   3 February 2009: heyy so im sixteen and im not gay, but 2 of my bestfriends are. They are both 16 and came out like a year ago. One is a guy and nobody cares that hes gay b/c he is the nicest person you could ever meet. and hes so loving, everyone wants to be his f... (read in full...)

Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends.

Q.   Should I be annoyed my wife is discussing our marital problems with her friends. Because I am! I know we have problems but I haven't talked to my friends about it, I feel it's private information. What do you think?...

A.   3 February 2009: you should absolutly not be annoyed. Women need to talk to their friends for advice or just to vent. If you try to tell her to stop telling her friends thats just going to lead to trust issues and more problems are aroused.... (read in full...)

I'm seriously considering getting a hysterectomy...

Q.   I have a question that may offend some people, for which I'm sorry, I just feel like I can't ask anyone I know, because they'll judge me. I'm a 16 year old female, and started my periods when I was 12. Every month, I get such extreme stomach ...

A.   3 February 2009: I know what you mean... i faint, vomit when im on mine and stuff... i cant o to school and the bleeding is otrageouss... sorry i know its gross. I went to the docter and asked about what your trying to get done now... they reccomended birth control ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend keeps pushing for sex and I don't feel ready!

Q.   My boyfriend keeps pushing the issue on 'Sex' And I'm not ready. He tries and tries again, but his efforts are useless. We've gone as far as very passionate kissing and touching, rubbing that kinda thing. I'm not a tease but he initiates all this ...

A.   3 February 2009: guys get frustrated by that, but if yours is staying w/ you then thats good.... however he may end up thinkin your not into him that much and leave. Who cares if he does? sure youll missx him but if he wont wait for you then hes not worth it... (read in full...)

How to get rid of hormonal breakouts?

Q.   Urggg! My period just ended, so naturally, i'm a hormone fest... so i'm breaking out! joy. i tend to break out around my nose, and chin around my mouth if that helps. it's not too bad, luckily, but still! what can i do? what do you do when you get a ...

A.   2 February 2009: Arg i know what ya mean... i always notice that my face gets kinda oily after my period... i have those proactive oil blotter sheets that get all the oil off your face and use those eeveryday but when i do extra stuff like masks it just makes me ... (read in full...)

My horrible story please read

Q.   im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...

A.   26 January 2009: sweetie, I can understand about the crappy life...trust me. Remember, do whats best for the baby but DONT FORET ABOUT YOURSELF!! just remember to take care of yourself. promise me that. And tell your friend that its impossible to get preg from a ... (read in full...)

My husband's sons are thieves!

Q.   I am a 25 year old woman and am married, my husband is 46 years old and he has 2 boys. I love my husband and I want to have a kid from him but he doesn't want to me to have kids because he wants his boys grown up first. Okay here is my problem his ...

A.   26 January 2009: Seriously. Dont put yourself as that character. First of all, your 25 and your husbands 46. You see it all the time where theres a bitchy young step mom who could care less about the kids. Come on now, dont talk that way about them... if they have a ... (read in full...)

Family fighting over what to name our dog!

Q.   so this question may seem a bit wierd but my family keeps fighting and its really annoying, especially when this is supposed to be a positive experience. okay so im 14 and my family (me, my sis, my dad and my mom) are about to get a new black lab ...

A.   26 January 2009: You should be around the dog for a couple days first b4 you decide. We got an adorable norfolk puppy(google it shes adorable) and we decided her name would be Chloe or mollie. We went w/ mollie but a week after we got her wanted to change it to an ... (read in full...)

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