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Confronted my husband about porn, Was I justified or wrong?

Q.   Hi guy,I wrote before about the porn lie problem. I told you about my husband denying that he watches porn. Well ,today I had conversation with my husband about that,He found on the history porn website that i was looking at,and he asked me if i...

A.   22 October 2009: I don t care about porn,I visited websites just to make him jealous,and also so he can confess that he watches it. The problem here he doesnt admit that he is addicted or even he watches it like every other man,he always tell me I am accuse him for ... (read in full...)

Confronted my husband about porn, Was I justified or wrong?

Q.   Hi guy,I wrote before about the porn lie problem. I told you about my husband denying that he watches porn. Well ,today I had conversation with my husband about that,He found on the history porn website that i was looking at,and he asked me if i...

A.   22 October 2009: I don t care about porn,I visited websites just to make him jealous,and also so he can confess that he watches it. The problem here he doesnt admit that he is addicted or even he watches it like every other man,he always tell me I am accuse him for ... (read in full...)

I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?

Q.   Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me ...

A.   22 October 2009: I am 22 and my husband is 35years old.but sometimes he acts childish.at the beginning our relationship was perfect,but after marriage it changed lot. anyways,I think you should try,and see if you like him or not,because sometimes they might be old a... (read in full...)

Confronted my husband about porn, Was I justified or wrong?

Q.   Hi guy,I wrote before about the porn lie problem. I told you about my husband denying that he watches porn. Well ,today I had conversation with my husband about that,He found on the history porn website that i was looking at,and he asked me if i...

A.   22 October 2009: My problem is different,he keeps lying about it even when I showed him prove,and we are New couple and we barely have sex like once a month. I ve never thought this person would lie to me one day,but I was wrong.I am really disappointed, who know ... (read in full...)

Husband told me he liked small breasts now he tells me that mine are too small!

Q.   Hi guys, I have never had problem with my breast,I have always liked small breast,and i have even been asking god I hope they never grow and they always stay small. before I get married I asked my husband if he likes small breast or big one.his a...

A.   7 October 2009: He knows that I have high self esteem,I think that is why he tries to tease me.Well,He doesn't understand that I don't really care but that just make me think of him different which I have never wanted it to happen.... (read in full...)

Do you think a man who lies about watching porn will lie about other things?

Q.   Do you think the man who lie about watching porn can lie about other things? I have never thought that my husband lie until I married him. We were in different country before we got married, I knew he was watching porn because he had no women ba...

A.   2 October 2009: Thank you Lola. Well,I talked to him before about this,I told him why he is not active as before,his answer when he did not have job(he is too stressed out because there is no work he doesnt think about sex).Ok ,i understood then,and I knew he was ... (read in full...)

Do you think a man who lies about watching porn will lie about other things?

Q.   Do you think the man who lie about watching porn can lie about other things? I have never thought that my husband lie until I married him. We were in different country before we got married, I knew he was watching porn because he had no women ba...

A.   2 October 2009: Thanks every one for the answer. Yes,it hurts Little when I know he is watching porn instead of coming to me,but the most thing hurt is that he denied doing it. I know that men need to be alone sometimes,but not most of the time,which makes me... (read in full...)

Husband told me he liked small breasts now he tells me that mine are too small!

Q.   Hi guys, I have never had problem with my breast,I have always liked small breast,and i have even been asking god I hope they never grow and they always stay small. before I get married I asked my husband if he likes small breast or big one.his a...

A.   15 September 2009: Actually,when he makes jokes like this,he does not bother me because I fell unsecure,(I am proud of my self and I like how I look and who I am ) but he bothers me because we came to the point we make fun of each other especially that we are new ... (read in full...)

Husband told me he liked small breasts now he tells me that mine are too small!

Q.   Hi guys, I have never had problem with my breast,I have always liked small breast,and i have even been asking god I hope they never grow and they always stay small. before I get married I asked my husband if he likes small breast or big one.his a...

A.   14 September 2009: Hello guys.Thank you very much for your interesting opinions. That day I could not sleep at night ,not because of me having small breast but because he changed his story, I wrote to him Email,(this sounds funny because we are in same house and m... (read in full...)

Is it normal that the man goes without sex for a month?

Q.   Hi guys, I want to know is it normal that the man go without sex for a month? I ve just got married lately,and my husband is not that sexually active now, because before we got married he always was horny and wanted sex ,but I did not have sex wit...

A.   1 September 2009: Thanks for replying. Do you think he prefers watching porn rather than having sex,or the porn satisfy him more than I do,but he was always happy after it.I am the one who doesn't get satisfied,because he never makes me cum.do you think that is the ... (read in full...)

Is it normal that the man goes without sex for a month?

Q.   Hi guys, I want to know is it normal that the man go without sex for a month? I ve just got married lately,and my husband is not that sexually active now, because before we got married he always was horny and wanted sex ,but I did not have sex wit...

A.   1 September 2009: By the way I forgot to tell you That he is older than me,He is 35years old , Well I don't think he is too old for being sexually active.... (read in full...)

Is it normal that the man goes without sex for a month?

Q.   Hi guys, I want to know is it normal that the man go without sex for a month? I ve just got married lately,and my husband is not that sexually active now, because before we got married he always was horny and wanted sex ,but I did not have sex wit...

A.   1 September 2009: Thank you for answering my question, Well before we got married ,I thought that he has high sex drive because he was always horny and always was giving me headache for sex,but after marriage every thing change,I know he is not gay,I talked to him ... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

Q.   i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when ...

A.   1 September 2009: I do not understand what is wrong with the guys this day. They watch and denied,I have the same problem with my husband ,but I don't really care if he watchs porn what i care about is that he lied to me about it,and also my husband knows I don't ha... (read in full...)

I'm tired of taking care of his mother and living this way

Q.   i am tired ,exhausted of problems. today i argued with my husband because of his mother, all this because she is diabetic and he always tells her to not eat things that can bother her but she never cares and always we have problems . alwa...

A.   29 May 2009: thank you for your answer. i wanted to move out because of other problems i posted it before,but he said no because before we get married i chosed to stay with his mom,and he told me i cant change my mind every time i want. and that s what i told h... (read in full...)

I don't want to continue living with my mother-in-law

Q.   Hi every body, I am tired of living with my mother in law at the same house ,and i don't know how to convince my husband to move and live alone. We just got married a few months ago and i moved from another country to usa,befor i come here he ask...

A.   27 May 2009: thank you for your reply. but none of that will work,because I can not get my own place alone because I dont work and I can t work yet . also my husband has very hard head even if i had money and left without his wellness he will be stubborn... (read in full...)

"Women are good in bed!" Explain exactly...

Q.   Hello guys. I've just got married and I don't have any experience with men. Can you tell me how the woman can be good at sex... because I heard many of you people talk about this but I don't understand what men mean when they say women are good in ...

A.   20 April 2009: thank every one for the answer. all your answers are helpful.... (read in full...)

"Women are good in bed!" Explain exactly...

Q.   Hello guys. I've just got married and I don't have any experience with men. Can you tell me how the woman can be good at sex... because I heard many of you people talk about this but I don't understand what men mean when they say women are good in ...

A.   17 April 2009: thank every one for their answers. i appreciate your help... (read in full...)

"Women are good in bed!" Explain exactly...

Q.   Hello guys. I've just got married and I don't have any experience with men. Can you tell me how the woman can be good at sex... because I heard many of you people talk about this but I don't understand what men mean when they say women are good in ...

A.   16 April 2009: thank you for all your answer. i hope i hear other people s ideas too. ... (read in full...)

"Women are good in bed!" Explain exactly...

Q.   Hello guys. I've just got married and I don't have any experience with men. Can you tell me how the woman can be good at sex... because I heard many of you people talk about this but I don't understand what men mean when they say women are good in ...

A.   16 April 2009: i thank every body for the answer,i want to have informations because i know nothing and my husband had lot of wemen in his life .so i want to prove to him that i am good i just need to know how,when the man tell you what to do its not like when you ... (read in full...)

He was crazy for sex before we married and now he masturbates all the time

Q.   hey guys. can any one tell me what can i do with this man,he is driving me crazy. before we get married he was giving me headache to have sex and i made him wait,and now when we got married he is careless.not as before. i thought i have a higher ...

A.   14 April 2009: thank you gina. now i find someone that understand me, i always say that to him every word you said but his answer i chosed this. his mother know that he doesn't sit there because of her . by the way before i thought he takes care of every th... (read in full...)

He was crazy for sex before we married and now he masturbates all the time

Q.   hey guys. can any one tell me what can i do with this man,he is driving me crazy. before we get married he was giving me headache to have sex and i made him wait,and now when we got married he is careless.not as before. i thought i have a higher ...

A.   14 April 2009: thank you gina for your help. his mother is not that old she is 65years old,her problem is that she had surgery in her hip and lately she broke her arm.but she is fine now ,even she always complain/ she is not bad i just dont like her interfer... (read in full...)

He was crazy for sex before we married and now he masturbates all the time

Q.   hey guys. can any one tell me what can i do with this man,he is driving me crazy. before we get married he was giving me headache to have sex and i made him wait,and now when we got married he is careless.not as before. i thought i have a higher ...

A.   13 April 2009: hey gina. your right about what you said.his mother really stress him out.and before i come here he told me that he is going to get his own plane but i said no ,because i felt sory for her then. but when i came here and i got to the point i dont w... (read in full...)

Could we ever be more than friends?

Q.   I was friends with a man for several years. We pretty much knew each other as married and considered ourselves co-worker/friends. I hadn't seen him for awhile until we both joined a work sports league. We got to know each other and found we were ...

A.   13 April 2009: the friendship can be developed,you just give him enough time tell he feels ready for another relationship,i think he likes you too but he is just afraid to start a relationship . so i think you wait little more and if he did not say any thing th... (read in full...)

He was crazy for sex before we married and now he masturbates all the time

Q.   hey guys. can any one tell me what can i do with this man,he is driving me crazy. before we get married he was giving me headache to have sex and i made him wait,and now when we got married he is careless.not as before. i thought i have a higher ...

A.   13 April 2009: thank you gina again you're really helpful,at least now i found someone that listens to me. i cant go to the doctor alone because i dont know any thing here. i just come to the contry so i am like baby. by the way, i talked to him today and he tol... (read in full...)

He was crazy for sex before we married and now he masturbates all the time

Q.   hey guys. can any one tell me what can i do with this man,he is driving me crazy. before we get married he was giving me headache to have sex and i made him wait,and now when we got married he is careless.not as before. i thought i have a higher ...

A.   12 April 2009: hi gina thank you for the answer. i talked with him but he doesn't accept that he masturbates .but i am sure he does.i was not expected that our life will be like this especially that he was blaming me every time for not having sex with him before w... (read in full...)

Saw my husband's profile on a porn dating site!!

Q.   I am in dire need of an answer so I thought I would ask here. My husband loves to be fisted and he's wanted me to buy a strap on forever... just yesterday I sat at his desk and he had left up his history... I found he has an account with ...

A.   12 April 2009: from now on if you found him deleting the history know that he lied about it. because i caught my husband watching porn and when i said to him the reality and that i found it on history ,from then he always delete it after he watch.lol i dont kn... (read in full...)

My husband said I don't do "sexy things"

Q.   question for man and women. how the women can look sexy ? my husband complained to me he said that i don't do sexy things.i told him buy me sexy clothes and you will see sexy.and his answer was you don't need clothes to be sexy there is other t...

A.   28 February 2009: i asked what does he mean .his answer was your women you should know this things,i am not going to tell you every thing... (read in full...)

My husband said I don't do "sexy things"

Q.   question for man and women. how the women can look sexy ? my husband complained to me he said that i don't do sexy things.i told him buy me sexy clothes and you will see sexy.and his answer was you don't need clothes to be sexy there is other t...

A.   28 February 2009: the problem is that his mother living with us. so i can be naked any time i want because she may call me and i have to go see what she wants. and also when i sit just with underwear he asks me if i am not cold. i dont know what to do with this ma... (read in full...)

Do men upper 50s and older still think about sex often?

Q.   Would men in their upper 50s and older still be into sex (think about sex often, masturbate, visualize having sex, etc.)? Let me explain - this guy and I have known each other for about four or five years; he'll turn 60 next month and I'm 25. We g...

A.   26 February 2009: man are not the same,there is man that care lot about sex and other that care less.but in general when man start getting old their sex drive decrease. in your situation ,the age difference is so big,so i think even if he likes you he is not brav... (read in full...)

Differing religious beliefs and relationships.

Q.   Can a relationship work when in different religions? I feel like even the most accepting catholic would not make it with a jew or friend because different religious beliefs could be the cause of conflict. what do you think?...

A.   26 February 2009: hello, i am married to a man that has different religion than mine. and i don't like when we start talking about religion because i don't agree about some believe and he doesn't believe mine.but we always respect each other and any one worship ... (read in full...)

Why does a man change after getting married?

Q.   hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...

A.   26 February 2009: thank every one for the answers. i am not from Indian or Pakistan.i am Moroccan and my husband American. thanks... (read in full...)

I'm worried I might cheat, what can I do if I like this other girl?

Q.   hi, i have been in a relationship for about a year now, and it's had it's ups and downs but lately its been good. however i have been having feelings for another girl since last year and lately they have become very strong. i can't stop thinking ...

A.   22 February 2009: if you love that girl so much.talk with your girlfriend and explain situation to her.so you dont have to cheat on any body. good luck... (read in full...)

Why does a man change after getting married?

Q.   hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...

A.   22 February 2009: i dont have any friends here and i am too far from family i am in other country now.and i discussed this with him and i even told him that i regret marring him once because he drived me crazy.i feel disappointed because i have never expected my ... (read in full...)

I don't think he loves me... should I leave him?

Q.   I live with a guy, he tells me he loves me but he never wants to kiss me or have sex with be but he wants me to give him oral sex when he watchs porn. He sometimes has sex with other girls! We have been living together 5 months. Should I leave ...

A.   22 February 2009: dont waste your time with him just leave him.... (read in full...)

Why does a man change after getting married?

Q.   hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...

A.   22 February 2009: i discussed this things with him always his answer is that i am the one changed and i have big mouth .and i am the one complain every time. what this man he doesn t want me to talk or complain,i am living with his mother so every move she asks me f... (read in full...)

Affair with a married man - why is it so hard to choose?

Q.   I am having an affair with a married man whom i met 16 years ago and then he suddenly appeared again in my life at my grandma funeral. He is married and they have 3 kids. They are not getting along very well and been not sharing the same room fo...

A.   22 February 2009: i am gonna say only one thing to you.who cheat with you,cheat on you.so you better not waste your time with this man.... (read in full...)

I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend...

Q.   hey guys I really need everyones opinion on this please im realllllly confused atm... I recently found out that my boyfriend slept with his ex girlfriend 3 months into out 10 month relationship... it was a funny way we started the relationship... ...

A.   17 February 2009: they say who can cheat once can cheat twice. but if you certainly sure he regretted what he did you can give him another and last chance. i hope he does not betray your trust again. good luck ... (read in full...)

We just got married and he does not want to have sex with me, I don't ask, and the problem goes on, what do I do?

Q.   hey every body. my husband is getting cold even we just get married.i talked about my situation before ,it is about sex. i don't know if it is normal to go with no sex in relationship for 2months especially if it is in the beginning.becaus...

A.   16 February 2009: i am tired of this.i don t want to touch him any more.when i find out that he was masturbating. help me plz i dont know what to do.my head wants to explose... (read in full...)

Living with his mom its driving me crazy!

Q.   hey, i don't know from where i start. i was in relationship for more than 2 years,and i just get married lately. my husband was living with his mother,she is at the sixties,to take care of her,because his sister never want to take care of her , a...

A.   29 January 2009: thank you for ur reply,his mother likes me because i am the only one act with her nice.she is just driving me crasy with her craznes. any way i appreciate your answer.thank you very much... (read in full...)

He's the best thing that has happened to me in a long time but he's married, what should I do?

Q.   hi, i've been seeing a married man, we've known each other for 16 years, but we started talking again 6 months ago and hit it off straight away, we fancied each other all those years ago but never acted on it, until now. We've spoken about how thin...

A.   23 November 2008: The only advice I can tell you is don't waste your life with this man. You are still young and you still have a long life in front of you. I am sure one day you will find someone you love more. The relationship you are in is impossible. He is liv... (read in full...)

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