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I'm attracted to a woman who looks like an actor I like

Q.   This will probably sound really weird, but i feel like i am attracted to a woman !. She resembles this actor that i have a crush on, she looks like she could be related to him. I can see that their features are similar. Does this mean i am a lesbian ...

A.   13 October 2009: it sounds like you're just suddenly feeling curious, so don't worry. nothing's wrong with you! if you're attracted to men my guess is that you aren't a lesbian, but straight of bisexual, depending on how much you end up enjoying sex with a woman ... (read in full...)

I've just had sex with my TEACHER!

Q.   I've had sex with my teacher last week and I don't know what to do. I can't look him in the eyes any more, I feel ashamed and bad. Can somebody give me an advice what to do?...

A.   13 October 2009: if you were unwilling, it's rape. i hope you contacted the police. can you call your uncle???... (read in full...)

I am in love with my ex-teacher in highschool, what do I do?

Q.   I am in love with someone which is possibly a huge plus. A problem with this love is its for my ex teacher from high school. I am now in college and have known him for three years. He has no clue, but i think he sees us as friends or at least more ...

A.   13 October 2009: i agree! if he feels the same way, then you should definitely go for it! ...but in order to judge that, i'd like to hear the other examples. :)... (read in full...)

I'll always be thinking that it could have been me!

Q.   I've just found out that the love of my life will be moving back to my hometown in a few months.... with his fiancée! I'll have to tell you guys a little bit of our history so you'll understand the situation I'm in - right now I'm terrible unhappy...

A.   11 October 2009: can you move away? that way, you won't have to see them. you can get a fresh start.... (read in full...)

I like my teacher and need advice!

Q.   I am a mature student at uni. I like this teacher a lot, he's interesting intelligent, funny. I think he's hot (for some reason no-one agrees, they are all clearly blind in my opinion!)He's single and he says he has no friends and niether do I. ...

A.   11 October 2009: maybe go see him for "help." usually, you end up talking about things you have in common, and it might help you gage how compatible you'd be. i don't see any problem with you two dating after you're no longer his student. are you in grad-sch... (read in full...)

31 year old and an 18 year old???

Q.   hey I'm turning 18 in october and i've been head over heels for a former teacher that I had a while ago. He's turning 31 this year i think. would it be ok if i dated a 31 yr old once i graduated high school. cuz in school will def be wrong even ...

A.   6 October 2009: i don't see why not! my parents are 14 years apart... (read in full...)

I gave teacher a BJ under the desk, can we get in trouble?

Q.   i just turned 18 and i'm graduating high school this year. ive had a teacher for 3 years now that i have fantasized about for a long time and friday i gave him a blowjob underneath his desk. will we get in trouble? he just got a divorce so do you ...

A.   6 October 2009: i agree with the guy below! as long as no one knows, you two will be fine and then you can start dating when you graduate! :)... (read in full...)

Should I move on or email him? It's an online, LDR.

Q.   I have been talking to a 45 year old man (I'm 23) over the internet for about 5 months now. He lives about 13 hours away from me and I plan on moving to the state he lives in, in about 3 months (for college). Hes not married (is divorced). So we ...

A.   6 October 2009: is it possible that he didn't get them or suddenly got too busy to write? i'd try sending a casual hey, i haven't heard from you in a while sort of thing. good luck!... (read in full...)

How can I get over my spanish teacher?

Q.   i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...

A.   5 October 2009: If you stay away for a few weeks it WILL begin to go away. I mean, how do you think you're gonna feel when you graduate? It's gonna hurt; it always does. and keep in mind that going to see her often can get her in trouble too if suspicion arises... (read in full...)

My teacher thinks I like him and now he's avoiding me

Q.   I have a new teacher this year who is 24 and has a very friendly open personality. The type that is often more of your friends and discusses DS games. Up until a few weeks ago he has always being nice to me, since then he has been very distant, bu...

A.   5 October 2009: hmmm... that's tough. you may not be able to be physically distant, but you can be emotionally distant, ie. not being particularly friendly (but not rude either... just neutral). i'm not sure what else to tell you though... what were you normal... (read in full...)

Why am I attracted to my guitar teacher and older men?

Q.   I have a crush on my teacher. He is my guitar teacher and he is awesome and we have so much in common. He does private lessons with me and my best friend and I had a dream yesterday that my best friend was ill and he tought me on my own. He put his ...

A.   4 October 2009: oh, yes! i'm also mostly attracted to older men as well. in fact, there is evolutionary reasoning behind it (older men tend to be attracted to younger, more fertile girls, etc.) so have no fear!... (read in full...)

How can I get over my spanish teacher?

Q.   i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...

A.   4 October 2009: hmmm... well that was out of line for her to tell you that, considering your not-even-close-to-legal age and the fact that she's you teacher. if she ever gets a divorce in the future, it would be fine to date her, but you're definitely right ab... (read in full...)

Are there stereotypes about cowboy boots I am unaware of?

Q.   I am a 26-year old young professional and I have been dating a 30-year old man for almost two years. I recently mentioned that I wanted a pair of cowboy boots to wear over jeans just to go around the town with him because I liked the look. He pr...

A.   4 October 2009: i agree! lose him. also, cowboy boots (and any leather boots for that matter) are in for fall... you i say go for it!... (read in full...)

How can I get over my spanish teacher?

Q.   i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...

A.   3 October 2009: she told you that she loves you romantically? because everything she's doing could just be friendly.... (read in full...)

How can I get over my spanish teacher?

Q.   i am really confused because i am a 15 year old young woman and i am in love with my spanish teacher. i thiought i was in love with another teacher about 2 years ago but he was a worthless piece of crap. what confuses me is that my spanish teacher ...

A.   25 September 2009: in order to truly get over her, you'd have to stop going to see her. i know that for me, my teacher-crushes tend to feel less intense during the summer when they aren't there everyday to remind me of how funny, attractive, etc. they are.... (read in full...)

Did my teacher find me attractive?

Q.   I had a teacher in high school that almost every girl in the school had a crush on. After being in his class for about 4 months, I developed a crush on him as well. The strange thing about this whole thing is that it kinda seemed like he liked me ...

A.   20 September 2009: can you contact him? maybe go for coffee? it's the only way to find out :)... (read in full...)

In love with my teacher and nervous about going back to school!

Q.   I know I know I have already put a comment up about my love for a certain teacher, but we have been off for 6 weeks, we go back in a week I'm nervous as hell, I have been counting down the days til we go back and now I'm like scared. Can anyone give ...

A.   6 September 2009: hmmm... I guess try to find a guy around your age and try to focus on him, rather than the teach. good luck!... (read in full...)

I like my teacher... but I'm not sure if he likes me back

Q.   Hey, look it's another teacher/pupil love question, though infinitely more complicated than others. And sorry. Well basically, my teacher is 26 (male) and all the pupils seem to hate him, he is quite irritating in truth sometimes, and quite geeky. ...

A.   11 August 2009: i think he likes you as a student, and respects your hard work... (read in full...)

Told my teacher-crush that I wouldn't meet him, and now regret it

Q.   I have been in love with my teacher for years, he is perfect. he asked me to meet up and iv said no.. im regretting it so bad - i dont know why i said no, i was scared i guess that my crush was actully becoming real. now im never going to see him ...

A.   10 August 2009: he has a family?!? you didn't mention that... (read in full...)

Should I call the maths teacher I'm in love with?

Q.   I am 17 and in college. I am in love with my Maths teacher, we talk all the time, I feel so much love for him its untrue. I think he has feelings for me too. We have finished college for the summer and he gave me his mobile number and home address...

A.   24 July 2009: does he have a girlfriend/ wife? if not, i see no harm in texting him.... (read in full...)

I think my teacher is flirting with me.

Q.   I KNOW THERE'S LOADS TO READ HERE - I DIDN'T PLAN ON THIS BEING SO LONG BUT I REALLY NEED ADVICE HERE AND I'D APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH IF SOME OF YOU WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO READ IT AND OFFER YOUR VIEWS. THANK YOU! This is going to sound like the ...

A.   22 July 2009: is he married/ dating? he definitely likes you as a friend, but he's extremely flrity with you, so it also seems like he may have some romantic feelings towards you.... (read in full...)

Can a student date and EX teacher?

Q.   Is teacher dating his ex-student prohibited? Is it frowned upon? He's just... i always said i would never get married after watching my parents' marriage fail, but i think i'd be happy with him. we have so much alike. he's 10 years older than...

A.   22 July 2009: no, i mean after i graduate, am 18, and not in his school anymore. then what's the scoop?... (read in full...)

How do I cope with my feelings about my teacher during the summer?

Q.   Hey everyone.....so got a problem with a teacher, he's not mean to me or anyhting like that but since I've had him as I teacher we've got closer and I've developed feelings for him. It all started the first day I had him for class. We didn't...

A.   17 July 2009: i wish i knew. trust me. i'm in a pretty similar situation. i've been trying hang out with friends and see movies as mush as possible, but it hasn't been working. maybe you could try? sorry. i guess i can't be of much help. :-/... (read in full...)

We did meet at school, but he was never my teacher. Now I'm wondering what my next move should be?

Q.   I have liked a teacher from my high school for about 4 years now. Im almost 20 and hes 28. Ive dated older so the age difference doesnt bother me. I graduated in 2007 and i kept in touch with him by email and i would visit from time to time (Btw ...

A.   17 July 2009: yes, congrats! and do tell us if you guys end up meeting up! and thanks for the inspiring words... i do feel like my teacher and i are supposed to work out. i just don;t know how to get there, you know?... (read in full...)

Is my teacher sending signs or is it just my imagination??

Q.   1) He was sitting down with his legs wide open and I couldn't pass. He looked up and smiled. Then, after a few seconds, he moved his legs and let me pass. 2) Very often, he keeps eye contact; once he was gazing at me so much that he lost concentr...

A.   14 July 2009: from what you said he's definitely sending signs. you seem to feel uncomfortable with the fact that he may be attracted to you, but you also said that you like him. maybe you should back away a bit from him-- just enough to discourage his signals-... (read in full...)

We did meet at school, but he was never my teacher. Now I'm wondering what my next move should be?

Q.   I have liked a teacher from my high school for about 4 years now. Im almost 20 and hes 28. Ive dated older so the age difference doesnt bother me. I graduated in 2007 and i kept in touch with him by email and i would visit from time to time (Btw ...

A.   14 July 2009: oooh yay!!! i hope he says yes!... (read in full...)

Friend is a teacher and students behavior is very disturbing to her

Q.   A friend of mine teaches in a middle school. Two increasing practices worry her. One is that boys are pressing girls to give them blow-jobs. Good girls who resist are made fun off, by both the boys and the girls. The other practice is that gir...

A.   12 July 2009: i'm pretty sure that none of that is true.... (read in full...)

24 year old teacher touches me and wants to hang out. I love him!

Q.   I am in love with my 24 year old teacher. I am 15 so there is only 9 years apart, and if i wasnt a student it wouldnt be a big deal. This is his first year teaching at the high school and he is a amazing man. When he isnt teaching, he is just ...

A.   12 July 2009: if he asked you to hang out, i think you should go for it! just, keep it friendly for now until it's legal and you wont get him in trouble. also, nowhere does it say that he's kissing her. she said that she sometimes wants to kiss him, not that it... (read in full...)

I cry because I miss my teacher so much! How can I take my mind of it?

Q.   Hey. I've recently posted about a crush on a teacher. Well. He has gone to India a while ago and I really miss him. I won't see him for another eight weeks because of summer holidays and the remanded of when he is in India. So I'll only see hi...

A.   12 July 2009: awww, retrofashionista. I'm in the same situation! when school let out this year, I started sobbing uncontrollably because I knew I wouldn't get to see him for 2 months so I completely understand.... (read in full...)

We did meet at school, but he was never my teacher. Now I'm wondering what my next move should be?

Q.   I have liked a teacher from my high school for about 4 years now. Im almost 20 and hes 28. Ive dated older so the age difference doesnt bother me. I graduated in 2007 and i kept in touch with him by email and i would visit from time to time (Btw ...

A.   12 July 2009: well... to me it seems like he's definitely interested in you too. I like your idea of asking what kind of things there are to do, etc. ask that first, see if he asks you to hang, and if he doesn't, reply back that you too should do whatever fun ... (read in full...)

Dream interpretation about a friend

Q.   can anyone help me interpret this dream? i feel like it's really important background: my friend who's graduating a year earlier than me and going to college and i had a fight which caused us to stop talking. we haven't talked for a year. we're...

A.   16 June 2009: i did. i guess i just assumed that eventually (even if it is years from now) we'll work things out. but then i felt angry and started having dreams that i was beating her with a bat (that was in sept.) and then i had this dream.... (read in full...)

Told my teacher-crush that I wouldn't meet him, and now regret it

Q.   I have been in love with my teacher for years, he is perfect. he asked me to meet up and iv said no.. im regretting it so bad - i dont know why i said no, i was scared i guess that my crush was actully becoming real. now im never going to see him ...

A.   14 June 2009: you said no? you probably had a reason... even if you weren't aware at the time. a gut instinct, maybe. but if you really think that you made a mistake, you should contact him. do you see him at school? have his email? if not, try a phone book or ... (read in full...)

Was it rape or sex?

Q.   okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to ...

A.   14 June 2009: true. have you ever read The Tenth Circle by Jodie Picout? i'm in the middle of it and it somewhat reminds me of your situation. you should give it a read.... (read in full...)

What can I do, to feel more secure when talking to adults?

Q.   How can i get better at talking to adults? i always feel so awkward or intimidated... whether it's a teacher, tutor, or a friend's parent. when they start talking to me, i kind of freak. i feel like they're older and wiser and i don't want to sound...

A.   13 June 2009: i just always feel like i seem so awkward... ... (read in full...)

I want to run away with my teacher and start a new life!

Q.   Okay last year when I was 15 i had this really hot teacher I didn't like her at first but she grew on me. Now I can't stop thinking about her. I mean I think about her so much that I can't stand it. Every day and night she is always on my mind.I ...

A.   13 June 2009: awww! trust me, i completely get it. i wouldn't go to a counselor in school, but maybe a therapist? sometimes it helps to vent. and avoid seeing her. it'll hurt. alot. but it really helps. and when you graduate (i assume) it'll get a lot bette... (read in full...)

Was it rape or sex?

Q.   okay so i was a virgin...i started talking to this guy he was gorgeous..whe had known eachther for a while and decided to go out and we ended up in his room. at first just teasin the making out but then he started pulling my jeans and i dit want to ...

A.   12 June 2009: if you didn't try t stop him or say no, then i'm pretty sure it's not rape... (read in full...)

Kissed my ex-teacher on the cheek at my graduation, did I make him uncomfortable?

Q.   Yesterday (June 6), I graduated from high school. I had the usual graduation jitters, but what made me more nervous was waiting for the arrival of an ex-teacher of mine. My high school closed down last year, so I had to transfer. I invited hi...

A.   8 June 2009: it probably didn't; if he was leaning that close, he was asking for it. ;) definitely don't listen to the last poster and ask him. that would definitely make it awkward.... (read in full...)

Can't stop thinking about my teacher, but he's leaving

Q.   Hi, i'm sixteen and as many people have said on this website, I am in love with my teacher. Well, former teacher now, he's going away to become principal at another school...which of course,tears into my heart everytime i say that, or hear it. I ...

A.   7 June 2009: unfortunately, it doesn't seem that there's much that you can do. luckily, since he lives on your street you'll still see him, though. maybe if you ever have one of those fundraisers where you're suppost to sell wrapping paper, etc. (do you have ... (read in full...)

Did I do right by dumping the fiance who was texting his cousin to arrange sex?

Q.   I found racey IM messages between my fiance and his female cousin. They were talking about having sex with each other and planning when etc. I was so upset, I asked him about and he said they were really close and just playing. I told him that ...

A.   7 June 2009: in my opinion? yes. planning to have sex with his cousin-- joking or not-- is just wrong. first of all, they're family. (can you say incest?) second, that would be cheating on you. unless he comes up with a better explanation, i think you made a... (read in full...)

Feeling guilt about having lusted over my sister for so long!

Q.   I need help with coping with some shame and guilt feelings. I used to fantasize big time about having sex with my younger sister. It never happened. I was never crazy enough to make any move. But I still fantasized to the fullest extent. No limits. ...

A.   6 June 2009: see a therapist?... (read in full...)

We showered together...could I be pregnant now?

Q.   I'm really paranoid that I might be pregnant. You see, my boyfriend and I showered together about a week ago. While he didn't actually penetrate me, he did rub himself underneath me. It was mostly between my thighs. He didn't actually "cum", a...

A.   6 June 2009: i agree. get on a birth control pill; it'll put your mind at ease.... (read in full...)

We showered together...could I be pregnant now?

Q.   I'm really paranoid that I might be pregnant. You see, my boyfriend and I showered together about a week ago. While he didn't actually penetrate me, he did rub himself underneath me. It was mostly between my thighs. He didn't actually "cum", a...

A.   6 June 2009: i agree. get on a birth control pill; it'll put your mind at ease.... (read in full...)

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