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writes:How can i get my wife to have a craving for sex with me? I realy love her but she doesnt want to give me anything. The sex is great when she eventualy gives me sex. She also never start the foreplay. What can i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): It would be so romantic if you plan a date night where just the two of you are out on the town. A nice meal, movie and drinks after and make her feel like she's the best thing since sliced bread! I love it when my man cooks dinner, gets a good movie and a couple drinks........ Make her feel special and not like your only doing these things to get into her pants!!! If she thinks all you want is sex then your never gona get it. If you've already tried these things, then I'm thinking you should just sit her down and be honest. Tell her you have needs as a man/husband and find out if she might have some medical issue that makes sex uncomfortable, she may just be ashamed to tell you or seek treatment. Communication is the key to any good relationship. Hope it works out for you two and the sparks fly :)
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reader, Who  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 1. Talk to her about what interests her now-a-days, and LISTEN to her. Cannot stress this enough; listen to her a lot.
2. Those things you used to do while dating? Do them again.
3. Find a new, different way each day to tell her how beautiful she is.
4. Find a new, different way each day to tell her how much you love her.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (23 April 2009):
 Sweetie, you need to sit down with her and tell her how much you love her and desire her and need her. Do you make her feel special, do you help around the house at the end of the day, or do little things for her. Sex doesnt start the moment you are in the bedroom, try sending her sexy sms's or arriving at home with flowers or run a bubble bath for her. Maybe she needs to feel special and desired.
You dont say if you have hectic jobs or small children but stress and having to get home and get dinner ready, the kids bathed etc, all plays a part, especially if she is left to do everything whilst the man sits in front of the tv watching sport.
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