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female
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30-35,
*ady gaga
writes:my boss and i spend alot of time together and have come very close, we tell each other almost everything and we even talk about sex,but recently he has been very flirty with me and rings me alot, he askes me personal questions that relate too sex, he says his wife doesnt talk about sex with him and i feel he is confiding in me.the other day we went for a drink and his wife rang and he lied about wher he was, he said he would never cheat, is he coming on to me or is he just being a friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): he is gromming you and you are loving every moment of this "affair". and yes, you may not be sleeping with him yet, but it is only a matter of time. maybe he has already taken bets on you and you are just playing along nicely.
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reader, loveinidleness  +, writes (23 April 2009):
Sweetie, Do you really need me to tell you that yes, he is, and so are you! If you want this to happen - that's fine, but if you consider the repercussions - stop right where you are. You are responsible too you know!
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reader, lovely-laura +, writes (23 April 2009):
it sounds like he is definitely coming on to you. He obviously fancies you and enjoys your company. you need to put a stop to it before you end up in a mess. you could even end up getting pressured into leaving your job. if you were married you wouldnt like your husband to be out with a female co-worker alone. we're all entitled to friends but he lied to her about where he was, i think that speaks for itself. he needs to sort out his marriage
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reader, lady gaga +, writes (23 April 2009):
lady gaga is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for the advice, im only 20 and in college, im not used to these situations,you see i live near this man and know his wife and children, i dont want to be drawn into an affair?? but if he wanted one why does he tell me he would never cheat on his wife.is he trying to test me?? im confused and i dont want to fall out with him either
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): of course he is coming on to you and if you pursue this i guarantee you will be the only one to get hurt, you could risk losing your job as well, keep away and tell him you need to keep this relationship as a working one, do not go out drinking with him out side of work. good luck
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (23 April 2009):
 STOP!! You are being drawn into an affair with a liar and a cheater. Men will use all sorts of excuses to get a woman into bed. By discussing sex and sexual matters with your boss you have already allowed yourself to step over the line. He is married for goodness sake, if he needs to talk about sex he should be talking to his wife. Just by the simple fact that he lied to his wife when he was out having a drink with you should tell you that he just wants sex on the side - with you and that he has no respect for his wife.You are being drawn into a situation that is going to cause a lot of pain and anguish, and when he is finished with you, do you think that he is going to want to work with you? No, he will then employ someother lady and so the whole seduction will start all over again.
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