What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 19 August 2010:
Well good for you. It's better to be standing on the platform when that hurt train is coming.
Dang!! You made dinner and all, and that's the best he could do?
Man hunting season is now on...Go snag you a wild hunk a man...Maybe you can ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 17 August 2010:
So what's going to happen when both of you have problems of your own?? Is he going to take off and not talk or text you until he figures out what's wrong??
What if you had kids, or money problems of your own? Can you count on him to talk to you,... (read in full...)
How do I get the old me back?
Q. Why since I was five yrs old I was called gay. I'm not i like women all too much but its been hard to deal with. I fell off a roof 25 or so feet and lived through it.life is so hard to deal with I stayed busy for the first like 8 months ok by ...
A. 17 August 2010: First...What was the old you like? If you can answer that, then you can start working towards it.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 17 August 2010: Actually, he is not taking out his problems on you...You are the one texting and calling him. So really, you are asking for it.
I said this to someone before. You see the hurt train coming down the tracks...Where do you want to be standing... (read in full...)
Is 20 too young to have a baby?
Q. im thinking about having a baby at twenty...too early in life?...
A. 16 August 2010:
K_C100 pretty much sums it up. Looking after someone's baby and looking after your own are two different things.
... (read in full...)
What should I do about my moody boyfriend?
Q. Hi all,Please can you advise me on the following. Thank you. I have been seeing a guy for around 3 months. At the beginning he was fabulous, and seemed a happy relaxed kind of guy. Anyway, as time went on it turned out that he has to support his ...
A. 16 August 2010: Not to sound mean about what's going on in his life...However, that is his life not yours. Misery loves company, and unless you want to end up in the same emotional hell hole as him, suggest you walk away.
Women have the natural instinct to love ... (read in full...)
No love in sight!
Q. I am a single mom, and was in a horrible relationship with my child's father. To the extent that he is still talking his talk 4 yrs after he has moved out. This bothers me so much that I don't even bother to put myself out there to find someone. ...
A. 13 August 2010: "I don't even bother to put myself out there to find someone."
Who is going to see all these great things about you?
Find a babysitter and go out.
Food don't come to you, you have to go get it.
Happy shopping!... (read in full...)
Is 4.5 in length & 4.5 in girth too small to satisfy females?
Q. Guys and Gals I need your opinion. I'm Bi and really attracted to females but only have had sex with males. All the male mates tell me that my size is perfect but we engage in anal sex so smaller sizes are probably better anyways. I really want ...
A. 13 August 2010:
If you believe that a man's penis size is the root to a woman's pleasure, then you need to spend more time growing your brain than your penis.
If a woman comes back to you for more sex, then it's big enough.
You have a penis, great! Now wh... (read in full...)
Do white guys like to date black girls?
Q. hi. i have a question. im a beautiful black 16 year old girl. and ive always been attracted to older white guys, well... white guys period. im very sweet and i luv to smile. do u think a white guy would ever date me Because i heard white men dont ...
A. 13 August 2010: The only reason I can think of why more cultures don't mix, is because of stupid, ignorant, people who spend more time hating than loving.
I would rather hear "I am a great girl, looking to meet a great guy. I know what I like, and I am going af... (read in full...)
I don't like sex at all!
Q. I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?...
A. 13 August 2010: Chigirl is asking what you are not saying. You said "I don't like sex at all".
So the question is... Can you get an erection? Does is hurt when you do, so you try not to think of sex? Are you missing a testicle or two, and feel that women will not... (read in full...)
I'm disgusted by her nipples! How can I get past this?
Q. I have a new girl I really like in every way. Sex has been great. My problem? I am a boob man, and I really love nipples. In particular, I just go crazy over a girl with petite pink nipples that get really erect. Now, they don't have to be ...
A. 12 August 2010: What if she was replused by your nipples and you found out, would you tell her it's over, even if everything else was amazing??
If your answer is yes, then end it so someone else can enjoy her nipples.
If your answer is no, then close your ... (read in full...)
Should I be honest and just tell him I'm really struggling with BJ's now?
Q. hey all! so ive been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and i love him very much.. sex is great. but there is one thing that recently that i havent been so big on.. and that's him coming in my mouth. i used to not mind at all.. but it makes me gag ...
A. 12 August 2010: If the taste didn't bother you before, then something has chamged. Beer makes cum taste a lot bitter than normal. Is he pushing your head down just before he cum's in your mouth?
I have heard honey really helps, not sure why.
If things don... (read in full...)
I don't like sex at all!
Q. I don't like sex at all because I have sustained testicular trauma in early adolescence. I don't like to think about it, even if its a constant reality for me. In what ways to you think that this impairs my life to a level that is significant?...
A. 12 August 2010: Well it have already impaired your life. You have shut yourself down before you even started.
Now you sit there while everyone else is having a blast with it, telling yourself you don't need to do it, and years have gone by, and for what??? ... (read in full...)
My wife is out drinking with the girls AGAIN, while I watch the kids...
Q. So my wife is out with her girlfriends once again, while I watch the kids. She will come home late, drunk, saying how much she loves mje, passing out midsentence. She's doing this more and more. I would say at least once a month now. Some of th...
A. 12 August 2010: " Never once, in 16 years of marriage, have I told my wife that she can't do something she wants to do."
But you want to now, don't ya? You sitting at home with the kids makes you feel like the woman of the house, that you should be out there dr... (read in full...)
I want to break up and he said that "You can't get by without me"
Q. Some advice please from you aunts,I have been in a relationship for many yrs with someone. but i feel it's going nowhere and i want to end it. so i told this other person today and his response to me was I don't believe you can get by without me.has ...
A. 12 August 2010: You got by this long without him didn't you?? Do you need him to feed you, wash your clothes, buy you stuff, help you get out of bed?
There is a way to get by someone... "excuse me please, I would like to get by you...thanks."... (read in full...)
Addicted to masturbation and it's hurting my girlfriend. What can I do?
Q. Hello fellow peers, my alias is dimario, and I am a 20 year old well to do male with a beautiful girl friend whom I have been with since I was 16. But! There is a problem, since I was a teenager ofcourse I masturbated, and that seemed quite okay at ...
A. 11 August 2010: Well if you spend sooooo much time on yourself, when do you have time for anyone else??? Your partner has hands, and she seems willing to help, so give her a chance.
Take some of that time you spend on you, and spend it getting your parnter ... (read in full...)
Found out things about my wife's past and need to learn how to love her all over again.
Q. Hi, I have been married for 14 years and have 2 kids ages 6 and 8.Two years ago I stumbled upon some old correspondence from my wife's ex boyfriend. When confronted with it she made light of the issue. I did some digging and found out that she has ...
A. 11 August 2010: What if it was you and not her that has done all those things, and she found out? Would you want her to forgive you, or leave you?
Let's say you left her, what would it do for you? Would that make her past any better? I understand she lied, bu... (read in full...)
Is my penis too big? WIll it ever stop growing?
Q. Why is my penis so big? so i am only 14 years old and my penis is already 7 inches when erect i wanted to know if it has stopped growing because it can be really embarrasing sometimes i dont think i could cope with anything bigger and because im ...
A. 11 August 2010: Embarrasing now, happy guy later. I find this funny because most guys want to know how to make it bigger, and actually spend hundreds of dollars buying things and drugs to make them bigger.
Your hormones are all over the place right, so erection... (read in full...)
What are the signs that you are having an orgasm?
Q. Im 16 and my boyfriends trying to get me to reach orgasm . I've got the peeing sensation , apperently i need to let go as if im going to pee , but what if i actually do ? and what are the signs of an orgasim ,can people pee while having sex ? people ...
A. 11 August 2010: Yes it hard for a young woman to reach an orgasm for many reasons.
- If you feel like you have to go pee, well, you simple hold back.
- Women needs more stimulation, and mental readiness that guys.
- Fear of what it could feel like, and more.... (read in full...)
Our sex life has slowed to nothing after the birth of our child!
Q. Married my wife for 5 years now, at the begining sex life was great .After our child was born sex life with my wife starting to slow down and now my child is 3year old ,my wife is not horny anymore i done all sort of way to make her keen to make ...
A. 11 August 2010: Go see the doctor. Some women hormones decreases dramatically after have a baby or babies. Their are hormone treatments that may help.
I am also going to ask the question that no one else may ask.... You are helping with the baby, and chores a... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to believe that sex outside of marriage is immoral?
Q. I am still a virgin at 34 due to mostly my own religious convictions. I believe it is immoral to have sex outside of marriage. I feel like a freak due to this fact. I hope that nobody knows since only the ones closest to me know about it. Am I wrong ...
A. 11 August 2010: That is AWESOME!!! Your inner strength totally rocks!!... (read in full...)
Too self conscious of my body to really enjoy sex!
Q. Heyy :).. i been with my boyfriend for a long time, and our sex life isnt bad, i just want to make it more exciting, but im too scared becos of my body. i know my boyfriend loves my body and doesnt care, where as i do, and i dont like trying n...
A. 11 August 2010: So you are self conscious of the body you have now...ok. Do you have another one that you feel better in? NO? So start loving it. If your guys loves it, what more could you ask for?
Sexy starts in the mind, not the body. If you set your mind to ... (read in full...)
How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore?
Q. How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16?...
A. 11 August 2010: Sweetie, you don't even have to sleep with anyone to be considered a whore. If someone starts a rumor about you being a whore, then...
If guys talk about you sleeping around to their friends, then other guys will start talking to you, trying t... (read in full...)
I give guys my number but they never call... why???
Q. I am a very frustrated young woman. I have given my number to numerous men who never bother to call. In person, they seem very interested in me, but the moment I give out my number; I never get called. I want desperatlely to be in a casual ...
A. 10 August 2010: Do you just give them your number or do they ask for it. Honest, if I met you and we hit it off, and you gave me your number without me asking, I would not call.
Do not forget the laws of the jungle... The female leaves a scent, or makes the righ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of being alone forever!
Q. I know im only 13, but im afraid of being alone forever. I havent had a father in my life since my parents got divorced when I was 6. I dont have any brothers, so I dont know whats it like to be around men. My mom says that all men are pigs and that ...
A. 10 August 2010: You seem very smart and mature for your age, and you seem to be more mature than your mother and sister.
If all men were pigs, what would that make women??? Isn't that more of an insult to women? That would make women pig lovers.
Never take ad... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets mad at me over really dumb things!
Q. Hey guys, theres this girl i'm really in love with, and we've been together for 6 months or so... Problem 1/ Most of the time, everything is perfect, but my family decided to take a vacation in the states for 7 days, when i first told her abo...
A. 10 August 2010: I think she really loves you, but don't know how to say it. She seems to love talking with you, but when she has to say good bye, it hurts. Plus, you are not down the street where she can have easy access to you.
Her mind could also be playing ... (read in full...)
How can I advise my daughter???
Q. My daughter is 19 ,and very confused. She is unable to be alone, and because of that ,she is putting up, with a boyfriend ,who is not treating her very nice. I think she is putting in much more than he does, and I dont know how loyal he is , ...
A. 10 August 2010: Every one has their own road to travel. Sad to say, you can not go dowmn that road with her, no matter how painful it seems. She must learn, and feel the pain herself. Some people learn when you speak to them, some learn from other's mistakes... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets mad at me over really dumb things!
Q. Hey guys, theres this girl i'm really in love with, and we've been together for 6 months or so... Problem 1/ Most of the time, everything is perfect, but my family decided to take a vacation in the states for 7 days, when i first told her abo...
A. 10 August 2010: Then my friend, she may just be testing you to see how much you care.
Please talk to her about it. Ask her why she does it, and listen to what she says.
You may learn alot.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets mad at me over really dumb things!
Q. Hey guys, theres this girl i'm really in love with, and we've been together for 6 months or so... Problem 1/ Most of the time, everything is perfect, but my family decided to take a vacation in the states for 7 days, when i first told her abo...
A. 9 August 2010: Just a question?? These mood swings would not be happening around the same time as her period would they? If you know she has her period that is.
Keep in mind this is not the only cause..Some women's mood are affected by their periods, and some... (read in full...)
Why can't I have my happiness...?
Q. Its weird that I give advice and Im a love sick lonley girl. Basicly I only pull guys if they're drunk so obviously they remember the next morning that Im not the best dish on the tabe.. They never call me back and i see my pretty mates pull eas...
A. 9 August 2010: Wow! You sound like you know the future?
"I know I'm never going to have that" Wow.. "You know", and "Never", could be very dangerous in the wrong mind.
You ever try to correct someone and they say "Yeah I know"...Then if you know so much why... (read in full...)
How do I break it to him gently that he is not boyfriend material to me?
Q. Okay, well my problem is this guy I think likes me, he flirts with me often, and has been for the past umm 3 years, and he recently added me on Facebook. He asked me if I have a boyfriend, which I don't. My best friend (whose a guy)told me that he ...
A. 9 August 2010: Well the truth will hurt, but it's the truth right? I have change a little of what you said...See if this works...
"You are a great guy, but nows not a good time, and I don't think there would ever be a "time" for us. I hope I don't sound too hars... (read in full...)
Circumcision for women... is this all taboo?
Q. Hello, I'm a south african citizen, there are many cultures all over the world and some are considerd taboo.. especially here in the african continent to where im from, i live in johannesburg. most of you who have visited s.a would know it. There ...
A. 9 August 2010: To be honest...Humans have some pretty messed up ideas as to what is beautiful. GOD already made us perfect, but for us, that's not good enough. We have to find some messed up idea to call beautiful.
If GOD did not want us having foreskin... (read in full...)
How do I get other girls to like me?
Q. girls just never like me. I am not a mean person. Some times I will never even talk to a girl and she'll HATE me. Start rumors about how i called her a slut. But I am not like that i don't take about people behind their backs. So I am stuck being ...
A. 9 August 2010:
My Deepest apologies. I read the post heading and your post. I did not read if you were male or female...And I am glad I didn't. In not reading that part,it proved something.
What you wrote is almost identical to some other post I have read, w... (read in full...)
Married life has become a nightmare. Please, anybody with any suggestions?
Q. I have been with my husband since i was 16. we have been married for almost 3 years now our baby boy is about to turn 3. He told me the only reason he asked me to marry him was b/c "it was the right thing to do". I know he is not happy. He tells me...
A. 6 August 2010: You need to be away from that...For your sake and your child. My worry is him doing something to you.
If he wants to kill himself, you don't need to be there to see it. Go stay with family if you can. Just get away, and hopefully, he will get help... (read in full...)
My best friend wont forgive me, she's moved away, and I'm lost without her. help!.
Q. I have lost my best friend, who has been my closest friend for the past 6 years. We got into a huge fight and she has moved away and doesn't want anything to do with me or her past life. She is my only close friend, and I don't know how to cope ...
A. 6 August 2010:
I know that's hard. However, she is not the only person you know. Best friends come and go.
Why stop at having one best friend, when you can have two or more.... (read in full...)
How do I get other girls to like me?
Q. girls just never like me. I am not a mean person. Some times I will never even talk to a girl and she'll HATE me. Start rumors about how i called her a slut. But I am not like that i don't take about people behind their backs. So I am stuck being ...
A. 6 August 2010: Sometimes it's not you, and all about your friends. A guy can get a bad rep by girls just for hanging with the wrong guys. If the guys you hang with are players and treat girls bad, just being around them will get you marked as a player.
Info ... (read in full...)
I just don't want to feel this jealousy anymore because it drives me insane!
Q. Hello there, I'm a very jealous person, unfortunately. I am not proud about it. My partner is speaking to this particualar person and I know that they like my partner more than just friends. My partner won't stop talking to them and it makes me ...
A. 5 August 2010: Still trying to understand how the mind works??
If it's really hot outside, you go in the shade. If you get really sick, you go to the doctor. If you are hungry, you go get food.
If someone else is driving you insane, you stick around and let i... (read in full...)
I am ugly and need a boyfriend
Q. [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hi im 15 and live in nz i have never been popular a1l . at school people avoid me and call me names and i really want a bf but no one wants me because im ugly and quiet, at home its not much better my dad is dead ...
A. 5 August 2010: Hello Beautifull :) First off...a boyfriend will not help you feel better about yourself, or would be make you love yourself.
If you don't love yourself first, loving someone else becomes hard to do over time.
You said you are ugly...by what s... (read in full...)
Do I scare my boyfriends away or do I just pick the wrong type of man?
Q. ive recently just split up with my boyfriend and ever since ive been really upset not just because he left me but also because i get the feeling i scare my boyfriends away. My parents are very strict so im limited to certain things, a few of my ex's ...
A. 5 August 2010: Picking up the wrong guys.
If your head is screwed on good, guys who just want to get in your pants without being committed you, will leave. Because you want to be serious, and they want to keep you for well, you know.
When the right guy comes ... (read in full...)
Am I just worrying over nothing?
Q. I keep worrying about the following, - Never had a long term relationship - Not great dating experience and bad luck in general with dating - Not many chance to meet women when I start working in male dominated industry. Some things I know I ca...
A. 5 August 2010: Where is it written that you have to do certain things by this age or that age? Trying to live your life the way other people do, will leave you not knowing who you really are.
Live your life according to you. Learn from your past and plan a b... (read in full...)
Should we share a college apartment?
Q. me(16) and my boyfriend(almost 17) have talked about getting an apartment close to the collage we both will be going to after we graduate. it'll be a few years for me cause I'm a year behind but since he only has one year I figured he should start ...
A. 5 August 2010: Not to put a scare on you. College life will put a heavy strain on your relationship as it is.
Going to see someone and living with someone, are two very different things. Anyone living together with their partners will tell you that.
Wait an... (read in full...)
Curiosity about men's sexual organs
Q. Hello! I have a few questions about men [physically]. I know men have erections when they see a pretty woman. But I have a few questions that I want clarified and confirmed. 1.] What is the longest penis size ever documented? 2.] Men usually talk...
A. 5 August 2010: Hi Curious, good questions. Hope we all can help.
1) Longest penis documented that I know of 13 Inches, which belongs to a porn star.
2) The average width could be between 3 to 5 inches.
3) Yes true. In most cases the penis stay hard unti... (read in full...)
Low male libido...not sure what to do
Q. I'm 41 and with a highly sexed woman who's 40. We've been together about a year, and I have to say it has been a roller coaster. I love sex, but I am not used to it every day, let alone 3-4 times. Mentally, yes, but physically it takes me at ...
A. 5 August 2010:
I alway say the penis should finish what your mouth and hands started. It should not be the ONLY tool in the shed. Find ways to get your lady so cranked up, that by the time you use the tool, she is done.
A friend of mind use to do things to ... (read in full...)
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