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Now separated and some of the men I meet are a disappointment. Why are they so blunt about asking for sex when they don't know me?

Q.   I was married for 20 years and now dating again as I separated from my husband. Nothing tragic, just grew apart though still friends and civil with each other. One daughter, away in college who is really cool with the situation . Men I meet: ...

A.   4 July 2016:  They figure you are separated and most likely due to the lack of sex in your marriage. Lonely woman...so she must be in need of a man. Those guys are what I call scavengers. Looking for the weak, depressed, lonely, and sad. Just circling aro... (read in full...)

Why is she avoiding sex and won't discuss it?

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend around about 18 months now. At the start of the relationship we had sex often, however around the 6 month mark that slowed down and would only do it once a month and then at the nine month mark it stopped completely, ...

A.   30 June 2016: "It's really bothering me and stressing me out. Every time I bring it up I get shut down and told that; it's fine; stop worrying; it will get sorted." Bet you don't see anything wrong in your statement do you??? Check you out..."It's real... (read in full...)

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

A.   30 June 2016: "I know she isn't cheating." You know this for sure? The very fact that she does not want to be with you at all suggest one of two things....Someone else has her attention already, or...you are not being a leader (taking charge) and she needs th... (read in full...)

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

A.   29 June 2016: "We work long schedules but never schedule time together." Well...you both seem to have lots of time for the wrong things in your life, and not the right ones. When you got married, was your jobs standing up there at the alter?? So how c... (read in full...)

What are we ? Last night he told me "you're not my girlfriend".

Q.   I'm having the most troubling time. I'll start explaining from the beginning. (lets call him J) I met J my first year of college. At the time we both had someone we were dating, so we never bothered getting close or anything. maybe 2 months p...

A.   29 June 2016:  You should never give yourself to any man unless he gives you what your heart needs. This guy just wants sex without commitment. You are not a sex doll. You have feelings, and need those feelings addressed. Sex is not some kind of cafeteria fo... (read in full...)

Is it normal to be feeling as I do? And despite years together, I am always anxious around my husband

Q.   I am in my 40s and am married to a very good man. Kids are grown and out of the house. My husband was away for a month, as his parents recently passed away within 3 months of each other, and he closed business for a month to spend time with his sist...

A.   29 June 2016:  My dear...What have you done for yourself in all these years? Your kids are out of the house and you are still there looking after things....why? Your husband took some time for himself at the moment, why not you as well? A spa day, ... (read in full...)

How can I address this? I have trouble trusting women and I'm feeling resentful that my dating experiences haven't been good.

Q.   I have a lot of trouble trusting women. I have female friends that I can trust to a degree. But when it comes to dating I can't really trust women because of my past with them. I'm 23 years old. I never had a good dating life and am resentful abo...

A.   29 June 2016:  "Couple that with low sexual experience and the chance a women cheats if I'm not good in bed, I feel like I'm hopeless." Yes, you are hopeless if you feel being virgin and not having sex is the cause for your loneliness. Women are not men... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of 4 years has been speaking to his ex, what do I do?

Q.   Hi Guys, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years with a brief break in the middle. I have just discovered that he has been texting/sexting his ex from around 5-6 years ago, possibly his first official relationship. From the beginning, we have b...

A.   29 June 2016:  I am pretty sure you know where this is going. Problem is, you have invested so much of yourself into this relationship, you don't want to let go. If your gut tells you not to trust him...then do not wait to get your heart ripped out. Do what... (read in full...)

I'm jealous because my girlfriend is still friend with a guy she hooked up in the past! What should I do?

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for a year. I found out about this guy on facebook she has him as friend on facebook and instagram, she had feelings for him when she got divorced years ago. I don't know if she talks to him or text him on a daily ...

A.   29 June 2016:  The first reg flag I see is your Jealousy. "Anger is cruel and destructive, but it is nothing compared to jealousy." Your Girlfriend has a history with this guy before you...and that could be all there is. They were close once, been there don... (read in full...)

I want to feel happiness again, what I don't feel in my marriage

Q.   I am married with a kid and I try my best to be happy with my wife but I can't. I am so happy with my kid and is the only reason of happiness and is one of the reason I want to continue with my miserable marriage. I am sexual and loving person and I ...

A.   29 June 2016:  Hello Samsagesmith, I feel your pain good sir....But before you head down the road of divorce...Questions. First...it takes two people to destroy a relationship or marriage. Question...What have you done to get your marriage to the point t... (read in full...)

I feel unwelcome at work

Q.   Im new to the area NOT the workplace or job (i have been there a while) some colleagues wont even introduce themselves! I have said hi and introduced myself to some and some give me a " who s she?" Look and wont introduce themselves. I like my job ...

A.   28 June 2016:  "I like my job and just want to fit in." First part is awesome :) I like my job. 2nd part...Just want to fit in...to what?? Did you go there to make friends or to do a good job? First, do what you came there to do, and leave the rest alone... (read in full...)

Is it cheating if a man, married or in a relationship, has a happy ending occur after a massage?

Q.   Hi ladies (and gents), I was searching for some opinion here! Long story cut short, what do you think of a married man or your spouse getting a happy ending after a massage? Would that be considered as cheating? Would you be upset if he told you...

A.   28 June 2016:  Hubby will not have a happy ending now :))) Yes it is cheating...Unless marriage is between him and every other women out there. Some fools believe if you don't put it in a woman, it's not sex or cheating. If it's not your wife or hubby..... (read in full...)

My gf won't be sexually intimate

Q.   Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...

A.   28 June 2016:  Daniel-Anna Listen...I have been down your road and back again. I know the power of sex. I know the serious power women have over us. But this is what makes it amazing. This is what she is suppose to do. The ability to drive a man crazy. L... (read in full...)

How long can I "play" hubby for her?

Q.   Me [25 M] in love with [26 F] living with her bf for the past 9 years with two kids It's really a tough situation because I have fallen in love with her and she with me. But as is always the case when someone has been with another guy for 9 years ...

A.   28 June 2016:  Never take on someone else's problem...EVER!!! You are actually not helping her at all. Why? If you are in a situation, and need to get out...But someone comes along and makes that situation more comfortable, because they help take that person'... (read in full...)

My gf won't be sexually intimate

Q.   Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...

A.   27 June 2016:  How is she rejecting you?? Is she making out with some other guy and not you? That is rejection. Not getting what you want is not rejection...it called having PATIENCE!!! You say you don't want to have sex...right!! You kiss, and now you wa... (read in full...)

Would you go to a reunion with a brother who blames you for Dad's alcoholism?

Q.   Hello, I am the youngest of four. I have two older sisters and a brother. My dad passed away in 2008 and my mom in 2013. When my dad passed away my brother called me two days later blaming me for his death. He died of a bad liver due to drinking. My ...

A.   27 June 2016: Yes...I would go. Your bother is a hypocrite, and a fool. He has no right complaining about anyone, unless, his life is perfect, and he has done everything right. Even if he has...putting you down and blaming you for someone else mistakes... (read in full...)

I'm not crazy .... am I?

Q.   Hey everyone, I will keep this short and sweet (I am looking for a volume of answers to gauge what is deemed as acceptable by all) About six weeks ago I started chatting to a girl on Tinder, lovely bloody thing she is... We live 350kms apart, sh...

A.   27 June 2016:  Yes you are crazy...Her actions are self explanatory. She is a woman playing the field to see who is better than who. In my books, if the other guy can get her to share is bed with him...he wins. No way I would sharing anything else with such a ... (read in full...)

Why do men always lose interest in me?

Q.   Why do men always lose interest in me after two months? I dated three men for two months each and suddenly, at the two month point they cool way off. Communication drops, they stop making plans, and we just stop talking. I do my part. I don't over ...

A.   27 June 2016:  Why??? Your bad dates may actually be very good for you. :))) You see, the wrong kind of men believe love is stored between a woman's legs. If you are not willing to hand out the stored love fast enough for them, well, it's time to move on to a... (read in full...)

The guy I like has a best friend who likes me. What do I do?

Q.   So basically I like a guy on my college course however I am not good at letting him know this for instance I accidentally kneed him in the face when he was trying to pick me up. So I would love to try to get with him. However then there is his best...

A.   27 June 2016:  Go for the man you like. Do not get distracted by what if's. If you have to hurt the other guy feelings, so be it. Don't lose one because of the other.... (read in full...)

My gf won't be sexually intimate

Q.   Hi. I've been with my gf for two and a half years. I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life but she refuses to be physically intimate. We only kiss. I have a high sex drive and had a very active sex life in the past. I'm ...

A.   27 June 2016:  You are typical man...and need to learn to grow up...Let me show you why! Your comment.... "I love her to bits and I really feel she's the love of my life." See...Most men feel love is found between a woman's legs...BEYOND DEAD WRONG!!! ... (read in full...)

Our initial dates all went very well but now it seems she's cooled off? What should I do?

Q.   Ok, so I met a girl the other week from a dating site, after 2 days, we arranged a date, and really hit it off, same interests, similar spence of humour etc... We went out again 2 days after then the night after that. She also came over to mine 3 ...

A.   24 June 2016:  You already feel where you stand. That thing we call "the gut feeling". ... (read in full...)

Will a man in a sexless, long term marriage eventually have sex with another woman?

Q.   I have a question and I am curious about what the opinions are out there. If a man is in a long term relationship or marriage and his wife was no longer willing to have sex (ie. she never did like it to begin with, she no longer likes it) with h...

A.   24 June 2016:  "Is intimacy a big part of marriage?" Intimacy is the final part of marriage. You cannot get any closer to a partner than through sex. Check this out... "A man should fulfill his duty as a husband, and a woman should fulfill her duty as a... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a fat fetish and wants me to gain more weight! I've already gained 100!

Q.   I met my bf almost a year and a half ago and we imediately hit it off great. Then I weighed about 150lbs. The first 4 months were great and he was so caring and attentive always surprising me with my favorite snacks or ice cream and taking me out to ...

A.   24 June 2016:  People gain weight all the time because of bad habits, medical reasons, and mom's to be. In fact, a nice rose plump mom to be is blessed sight. :) Gaining 100 lbs to please a man??? Screw it...Gaining weight to please anyone... is foolish. Sor... (read in full...)

I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues

Q.   I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues. I am not the kind of woman that turns down sex from my man but yet I feel like ever since we married my husband puts in no effort causing me to think he will be tempted to ...

A.   24 June 2016:  All sounds great... But you are still avoiding the issue. :)... (read in full...)

What if he doesn't know to communicate? How can I bring back our sex life in our marriage

Q.   Married my LDR husband after 9mths and a baby 5mths later. I will have to say things happened so fast that I failed to realize we will have to put in work to spice up our sex life. Our current situation is not allowing us to step it up. He just mov...

A.   24 June 2016:  Excuse me??!!! What is there to be chased??? Really??? Are you telling me you are not worthy of being chased?? Are you Telling me you are no longer sexy, and a rock your world woman?? That you do not need to be chased??? Are you... (read in full...)

Marriage in turmoil and I don't know what to do

Q.   Something is not right with my marriage. I am scared and I have no idea what it is. We’re both fiercely loyal and I have no fears regarding infidelity. That’s a given. But something has and is changing. Its as if there has been some sort of dro...

A.   23 June 2016:  YEAH BABY !!! You GO Justsit!!! :)))) Show her what you're made of.... (read in full...)

All I think of when his name is mentioned is anger and hate!

Q.   I had a bad breakup with my ex boyfriend in 2014 December before new year's eve. We dated for four months before the break up. I was not happy with him because he wanted to take my virginity even when i told him many times politely that i was not ...

A.   23 June 2016:  If you want hate and anger to go away, and he is the source of that hate and anger...you really want to keep him around as a friend??? That is like having a dog that bites you every time you get close, but you keep him in your house as a pet. Only... (read in full...)

I like him , how can I show him this ?

Q.   Hey everyone , Theres a guy i like and want to have a relationship with him . How can i let him know this without coming across desperate ? ive messaged him last night asking how he is , no reply as yet but i dont expect him to drop everything to ...

A.   23 June 2016:  "life is for living" Funny...Cause you are not living life...You are freaking out :)))) "How can i let him know this without coming across desperate ? " Too late :)) So, you said you like him and how do you show him...question is...Wha... (read in full...)

All I think of when his name is mentioned is anger and hate!

Q.   I had a bad breakup with my ex boyfriend in 2014 December before new year's eve. We dated for four months before the break up. I was not happy with him because he wanted to take my virginity even when i told him many times politely that i was not ...

A.   23 June 2016:  LOVE...not in this case. You love having someone in your life to call a boyfriend...but think about it long and hard.... Do you really need a guy like this as boyfriend?? If I had to choose a man to marry and spend the rest of my life with... (read in full...)

I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues

Q.   I am really frustrated with my husband inability to handle marriage issues. I am not the kind of woman that turns down sex from my man but yet I feel like ever since we married my husband puts in no effort causing me to think he will be tempted to ...

A.   23 June 2016:  Easy...Sit him down and ask him this... "Honey, If we went to bed to have sex, and you had a problem getting hard enough, and could not get it in, what would you like me to do? Should I throw a pillow at you? Get pissed off and call you names li... (read in full...)

What if he doesn't know to communicate? How can I bring back our sex life in our marriage

Q.   Married my LDR husband after 9mths and a baby 5mths later. I will have to say things happened so fast that I failed to realize we will have to put in work to spice up our sex life. Our current situation is not allowing us to step it up. He just mov...

A.   23 June 2016:  "I fear to communicate because he is the kind that will take it the wrong way." This statement you made above has destroyed many relationships. Men or women are NOT mind readers. We do not know what you want unless you tell us. If you are ... (read in full...)

How am I supposed to have sex after I orgasm from oral?

Q.   Hi! I have a quick question. I'm new to all of this, and my friends told me that the best thing is to have your bf go down on you before sex. But when I get off when I masturbate, the walls inside get really super tight, and there's no pleasure down ...

A.   22 June 2016:  Oral on a woman is normally use for one of two things...To turn her on big time and get her ready for sex, or to finish her off after sex. Most guys cannot out last a woman in the bedroom. She needs way more foreplay than a man. If a woman is r... (read in full...)

If this relationship is dead how do I leave?

Q.   Hello, I am struggling with my relationship of four years. I feel like I don't love my boyfriend anymore. He is 23 amd I am 20. The first two years I was im love with him and he was with me. But as I get older, I realize that I probably won't have a ...

A.   22 June 2016:  This is what boyfriend and girlfriends are for...To find the right person to settle down with for life. If you stay with someone you know you do not want to settle down with, how are you going to find the right one??? Breaking up is ne... (read in full...)

Are there problems for wife swapping or threesomes?

Q.   Friends, Me and my wife are very god friends and talk about any of our feelings each other. Some two years back I have spoke to her about couple swap or threesome she was also interested in and had similar fantasies. Now that we know there are r...

A.   22 June 2016:  There is will never be a just once. If you do the wrong thing and get away with it, you will want to do it again. Pros....NONE...it may seem like lots of fun at first...but then comes the part neither one of you will enjoy. Cons....Wi... (read in full...)

Feeling really depressed that I have never been asked out. How should I approach this problem?

Q.   I get really depressed because I have never been asked out despite putting myself out there. I volunteer, I also work in retail. No guys like me and I see other girls who are always asked out and hit on but I am always left out. I am 5'6 and w...

A.   21 June 2016:  No guys like you...WOW....Billions of guys in the world and none of them like you.? You see...You are having a hard time meeting people for that very way of thinking. If you think NO man in the world like you, then guess what your body languag... (read in full...)

Marriage in turmoil and I don't know what to do

Q.   Something is not right with my marriage. I am scared and I have no idea what it is. We’re both fiercely loyal and I have no fears regarding infidelity. That’s a given. But something has and is changing. Its as if there has been some sort of dro...

A.   21 June 2016:  Hello justsit, You kind of answered your own questions a bit. "She took on a new role that has not gone as well as she had hoped." These kind of things can add unwanted stress onto an already busy life as you say, and cause headaches in ... (read in full...)

What do you miss about an ex that makes you want them back?

Q.   Hey! This is mainly a question for guys out there - I'm just wondering; when you think about an ex that you would still want back, what are the reasons you miss them or hold on to them still? (apart from loving them etc) - Maybe qualities they h...

A.   20 June 2016:  Question...When you throw up, do you go back and eat it??? An ex should be seen in the same way...You NEVER go back, always move forward to better. I get the idea of going back to an ex rather than moving forward. You know them, were comf... (read in full...)

I'm a middle aged married man with a young attractive girl under my skin. What should I do?

Q.   Help Aunts and Uncles! I dislike speaking about how I feel but I am going to burst if I don't get this out somehow. I am a married man in my late 40s and I do love my wife and we have a 9 year old together. The last few months I can't get anot...

A.   20 June 2016:  "Does this girl know what she is doing to me?" The better question is...Do you know what you are doing to yourself??? " here I am sat at home on a Sunday night and I have missed this girl all weekend." Missing someone you DON"T have, and ... (read in full...)

Am I being a pushover? I'm trying to overlook that he saved nude of a coworker!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. We were able to make a long distance relationship work for about a year and then 9 months ago he changed jobs so that he could move in with me. Our relationship has always been pretty strong ho...

A.   20 June 2016:  We men do stupid and mindless things at times...wait...lots of times...but nude women...we live there. A naked woman is like crack to us. So I highly doubt it was a mistake. A foolish man would look for an easy woman...like this coworker. A wise... (read in full...)

Why did she contact her ex? I sent him a "no contact" email from her account 2 years ago!

Q.   Hi, I have been living with my girlfriend for 2 years now. I'm English living in Costa Rica and she's Costa Rican. When we first met I found her text an American man she used to work with. I found out they were having sex,skyping and sending rude ...

A.   20 June 2016:  What is this? High school? You found emails that the woman you are dating is lying to you about her pass relationship. OKay... you accept that and kept dating her. You invaded her privacy and used her email to LIE to the guy as she did to yo... (read in full...)

I want to marry my g/f but she won't do oral sex and its important to me

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years and she wont blow me. I go down on her and tell her alot how much id like one. She says she might one day but thinks itsgross and awkward. I want to marry her one day but this is important to me. What ...

A.   20 June 2016:  So a woman's mouth on your D**k, is more important that the woman??? So you stuck around for 5 years to break her heart because of her lack of mouth play? Okay...then what? Let's say she does it, she swallows the whole nine yards...then... (read in full...)

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