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writes:I am a single mom, and was in a horrible relationship with my child's father. To the extent that he is still talking his talk 4 yrs after he has moved out. This bothers me so much that I don't even bother to put myself out there to find someone. Who would want to be part of this circus?I have rebuilt my self confidence. I have worked very hard in my career to get up the ladder, I am the sole person responsible for my child, I have friends and family I love and a love me.But it gets very lonely. The touch of someone's hand on mine. A kiss on the cheek, a phone call just because they are thinking about you. Not only receiving these things but giving it back. I have so much love and want to share it with someone. I am a big women, however I have everything else going for me. Job, home, pretty, athletic, and funny I mean really funny. I am not lazy, and love to travel, play softball, attend events and sent time with my family and friends. Will I ever find someone that will love me as much as I can love them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for your positive praises. I do go out for girls night out once a month. I have guy friends but not ones that I would ever be "interested" in like that.
It just has been so long since I have felt those butterflies, had that smile that someone who cares about you can make you feel. In all my relationships I give all I can, with never receiving the love back to replace what I gave. I keep the mindset that everyday is a new corner and you never know what will be around it. Thank you again it has gave me some hope.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 "I don't even bother to put myself out there to find someone."
Who is going to see all these great things about you?
Find a babysitter and go out.
Food don't come to you, you have to go get it.
Happy shopping!
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reader, LisaSE +, writes (13 August 2010):
 You will absolutely find someone! A mate comes in different kinds of packages. The best advice I ever heard came from a movie: "I married my best friend!" That's what you need to start with; a best friend who knows the score and is willing to help you stand up to your ex. Baby steps, sweetie! Baby steps!
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reader, michaelch +, writes (13 August 2010):
 'Will I ever find someone that will love me as much as I can love them?'...The answer is yes, but in order for that to happen you have to risk having your feelings hurt and what not. In my honest opinion, every heartbreak that one suffers is worth the love they receive in the end. Yes it may take time, but eventually you will find someone who loves you. But you need to put yourself out there!Have a ladies night with some of your friends and go out!It will take some time but you will find love eventually, and it will be worth it!
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