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*mandanash
writes:I have lost my best friend, who has been my closest friend for the past 6 years. We got into a huge fight and she has moved away and doesn't want anything to do with me or her past life. She is my only close friend, and I don't know how to cope with it. I don't have any other close friends and don't know what to do with myself now.
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reader, amandanash +, writes (6 August 2010):
amandanash is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe fought about money. she cancelled on a trip with me and the company made me pay 150$ cause she cancelled, and she said she would never pay me back cause it's all my fault, when i didn't do anything because she cancelled. she called me a lot of crude names and was rude when i tried to tell her i was very hurt by the fact she wanted to not pay at least some of it back. she doesn't want to come back and says she never wants to talk to me again and says she has better friends elsewhere and that I am sh**.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (6 August 2010):
I know that's hard. However, she is not the only person you know. Best friends come and go.
Why stop at having one best friend, when you can have two or more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Do whatever it takes to mend the fences. True best friends are very hard to find and if you ever have the luck to find someone you connect with...then do every thing in your power to keep that.
If it cannot be fixed, then it will be like a death for a while. But just as people who lose someone to death learn to live without the one they love...so do we when we lose people from our lives. Time does help...it is very important that you make new friends...have someone to do things with. Try to stay busy, and good luck sweetie, mal
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