Have you ever asked your partner to 'unfriend' an opposite sex friend?
Q. Would you or have you ever asked your significant other to unfriend someone of the opposite sex on Facebook? For whatever reason, you did not want them associating with this person; jealousy or insecurity issues included among the reasons. Has ...
A. 13 April 2016:
If you have any issues of Jealousy or insecurities....you need to unfriend those issues out of your life.
If you can trust your partner, then you need to do one of three things..
1) Get a partner you can trust.
2) Never date again, beca... (read in full...)
What do you think of a guy who is torn between two women?
Q. This guy and a girl date for a year. it's not an easy relationship. They fight a lot but somehow make it work. One day he cheats on her, she finds out and they break up for 9 months. She wants him back so they get back together. Right around t...
A. 13 April 2016:
REALLY??
He is living every man's fantasy...two women at once.
The guy is not the problem however...The foolish woman who knows all this, AND still sleeps with him, with the hope that someday he will be hers...she has the problem.
It's lik... (read in full...)
He says my vagina is too loose and that I'm cheating
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend since i was 16 im 23 now. Our sex life has always been good but now he has been saying im too loose and he thinks im cheating on him, which im not!! I have been feeling the difference also but im not sure why my vagina is ...
A. 11 April 2016:
When young men can no longer perform the way they should...it is never their fault... right???? Of course it has to be the woman....Sorry, but your guy is an immature dumbass.
When a woman gets really wet, she is very excited for her man, so ... (read in full...)
Is it best to get sex out of the way?
Q. I'm a 19 year old virgin, and my boyfriend of three years recently broke up with me. He's adamant we'll stay friends and so far that's working, but I really want to have sex. The reason we never had sex is we tried twice and the first time hur...
A. 11 April 2016:
What exactly do you want? Sex, a FWB, to just try something, or a long term relationship?
If you just want a FWB...easy. If you just want sex to just get it out of the way...easy.
The hard part is...giving your virginity to the man who will ... (read in full...)
I regret texting a girl while I was drunk! How to recover this?
Q. I started dating a girl few weeks ago, we really liked each other, she is 4 years younger than me , she is very decent, nice and has a great personality, the thing is she is super busy with her full time job and her master degree , she also has ...
A. 11 April 2016:
This was actually a good test. :)
If she still wants to talk to you after that, and she is willing to let it go...then she is an amazing person.
Now that you know that...treat her as such in the future...drunk or not. ... (read in full...)
I feel he loves me, or does he? He never initiates sex any more
Q. My boyfriend never initiates sex and if he does its rarely. I've asked him if he thinks I'm not sexy anymore or something, but he always responds that he does. He just says he is tired, or not in the mood, or busy playing games or watching anime. ...
A. 6 April 2016:
Come see me, and come live with me are two totally different things...one has excitement...the other kills it...why? Come live with me becomes a routine life...Come see me has all the excitement to try to get someone to come live with me. Once you ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I like different things in the bedroom? Do I stop liking anal? Or what?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 4 years now, since she was 17 and I was 18. We were both virgins (if that matters at all). We have amazing sex and often use toys, ties, etc. There is however one shameful problem with our sex lif...
A. 6 April 2016:
Here is a big fat lie and a pain the arse... "I do love this girl"
You don't love her one bit...You love anal sex more than you love her.... Want proof??? Your own words...
You start off with "We have amazing sex" Not she is beautiful, though... (read in full...)
How can I make her feel more welcome and help her to enjoy life again after her woes with her ex?
Q. I have been dating this great girl for two months and falling for her. She moved here recently because her ex made her and she has a young child. Couple times a month she goes back home to see her friends and when she comes back she is depresse...
A. 6 April 2016:
Simple...You STAY happy and in a good and positive mood...why??
Because we tend to pick up the mood of those we care about. You may end up being just as depressed as she is, if you are not careful to stay in your own positive mood.Two dep... (read in full...)
Should tell her that I am not gay?
Q. I am best friends with a girl I whom have known since I was 8 years old. The problem is that she thinks I am gay. Most people assume I am gay because I have never had a girlfriend, partly because I used to be really skinny and partly because I am ...
A. 5 April 2016:
She keeps getting into relationships with the wrong men, because the right man has been by her side the whole time. The right man has been doing the wrong thing, and causing her to going through all this trouble for no reason.
You have not dat... (read in full...)
Confused by my son's behaviour
Q. I'm a 42 year old mom, My son is 13 and while changing his sheets awhile back I found 3 pairs of my panties under his mattress along with some pictures of me from college in a bikini. I quickly realized he has been using them to pleasure with and he ...
A. 5 April 2016:
This is normal...to a point.
When I was his age, my first sexual fantasy was with the SEARS catalogue. Women in white underwear...To this very day, it is part of my fantasy world.... But why???
They were safe. They would not yell at me, or c... (read in full...)
My wife duped me into marrying her!
Q. dear cupid, ok here goes. i have been married to a great woman for 5 years, problem is i was duped by her, while i was a virgin when i married her she wasnt, she clearly lied to me when i asked her about her sexual past. i found a sextape of her ...
A. 5 April 2016:
WHOA !!! HOLD UP THERE SIR....YOU WHAT ????
"i deserve to get what i want in a woman?"
You DESERVE????
Where the hell in GOD's green Earth do you DESERVE anything????
What if she said she to you... I DESERVE to have a man with a 12 in... (read in full...)
I'm terrified I'll be a bad kisser!
Q. Hi! Im a 16 years old girl and I never kissed anyone and thinking about it just freaks me out, i know that I don't know how to kiss! I am going to be a bad kisser and since I am pretty popular at my school I know that I will be laugh at! Please help ...
A. 4 April 2016:
Everyone starts off as a bad kisser. No one is good at doing something they have never done for the first time. It takes practice, and knowing what you like and don't like.
Don't over think things, just let it happen. Remember the feeling, wha... (read in full...)
I’m not sure I want to hear why he dumped me by text!
Q. Dear aunts, please can I have some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me via a short text after an argument. We were together over a year. Ww have split twice before, both my doing and both times I connected with him again. This time I messaged him ...
A. 4 April 2016:
Here is your mistake...
"split twice before, both my doing and both times I connected with him again."
You never go back to an ex. My grandmother had a saying "First time was a mistake. Second time was a coincidence...the th... (read in full...)
Was anything wrong with me? My Bf is my sexual partner but now he's saying he thinks I was not a virgin when we met.
Q. I was a virgin before I met my boyfriend. He found me too wet the other day when we had sex, like he just slipped in so easy I could feel it..so he claims i slept around or I masturbate but I do none of those things. He is the only guy I have ...
A. 4 April 2016:
Here is the question to ask him... How do you know what virgins feel like??
How many virgins have you had sex with??
Are you an expert on virgins??
Sorry I was too excited to have sex with you and all wet. Remember how that feels, bec... (read in full...)
My wife duped me into marrying her!
Q. dear cupid, ok here goes. i have been married to a great woman for 5 years, problem is i was duped by her, while i was a virgin when i married her she wasnt, she clearly lied to me when i asked her about her sexual past. i found a sextape of her ...
A. 4 April 2016:
You really that upset over sex?? You said she is a great woman...but you found out she was not a virgin and now all bets are off. My man...unless she is lying to you now about you being the only man she is sleeping with, then...go easy.
No ... (read in full...)
Love triangle. Should I just leave him? He says he loves her, but he also loves me.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now. While I was pregnant I checked his emails and found that he had been talking about how much He loves and misses his ex. When I confronted him he calls and tells her he's going to be with...
A. 4 April 2016:
From a man....Did you plan to have a relation with your boyfriend and another women??? Do you plan to share her with him??
If the answer is NO...then you are holding to him for what reason??
If you say you are holding on because you love him... (read in full...)
Am I potentially getting myself tangled in something too big for me to handle?
Q. I met a guy online about a month ago. After our 2nd date he started telling me some really personal stuff about himself. I got a run down of all the problems he has ever had in his life including an 8 year relationship that ended badly and his suff...
A. 4 April 2016:
Yes...RUN !!!
Do not make it a habit of looking after the wounded puppies. When a hears all the sad stories, you want to help, and feel it is your emotional duty to get the wounded puppy better.
There is a saying "Misery loves company" The m... (read in full...)
I like him a lot. How can I show him I'm worth a chance?
Q. ive joined a dating site about a month ago i got chatting to a lovely guy we met up had a great date and made plans to meet again. I took my profile off public so i wouldnt get messages off anyone else , but this dating site is saying I'm online w...
A. 4 April 2016:
You have a guy who does not trust you now over something so simple, and so soon into your relationship. What makes you think it will get better down the road??
You have trust issues and he has trust issues...so you will have a perfect rela... (read in full...)
So many decisions. I need help. Do I consider the guy who wants children or the guy who only wants one child?
Q. I'm 23 next month and my boyfriend is 22 next month, been together for two years this September. Issues - has only met my friends once, doesn't really show an interest in them but says they can come out camping....shows an interest in 4wdi...
A. 4 April 2016:
The question is...what do you want?? don't forget you have to live with whatever decision you make.
I if I were in your place, I would choose the the older man, or none. Here is why...
- Boyfriend now seems very one sided. His friends, ... (read in full...)
Will my wife ever have a threesome?
Q. My wife and I are married for 5years. I am a sex crazy person and my wife was traditional Indian. I always wanted to watch my wife in bed with other guys. I told her my fantasy during sex and she got turned on extremely. She has never watched porn ...
A. 30 March 2016:
I hope she does.
You will find out that a threesome will become very troublesome real fast. Nothing better than losing your wife to a man you brought into your bedroom.
Take your bed for instance...you have her side and his side of the bed.... (read in full...)
Do all women like to be watched while they are bathing?
Q. When I ask my wife how she will feel if some one peek in her bathroom and watch her bath, she got extremely horny. Is that normal... how do I know she got extremely horny?, I was doing an intercource with her when I asked. So she basically went ...
A. 30 March 2016:
Here is the thing...Your wife just gave you a bit of info to spice up your relationship. Most men never find out their partners secrets, because the women are too shy, or afraid of being judged or criticized.
You just got the golden egg...and wh... (read in full...)
Can someone who cheated on their partner ever gain self-respect again as a person, whether they decide to stay or end the relationship?
Q. My morals are the one thing I always prided myself in having. I rarely lied (even then I can't flat out lie, more like white lies or divert the answer), obedient to parents (never sneaked out etc.), I don't curse, and I have a strong faith in God, I ...
A. 30 March 2016: Hello anonymous,
First of all, if you do have strong faith in GOD, then you know you are beating yourself up for no reason. Do you know the part in the Bible where the woman who was caught committing adultery was brought before Jesus ?? What did... (read in full...)
How do I deal with these quite vicious older colleagues?
Q. Hi all, some advice on dealing with older colleagues that can be quite vicious. So I'm a newly qualified nurse who has recently got a job on a large ward with a lot of staff. I'm young at only 23 and I think a lot of people have sly digs at me b...
A. 24 March 2016:
When someone says something to you, the answer is..."Did I ask you to comment on my looks, or anything about me? If I need to know, I will tell you what you must say. Other than that, live your life and I will live mine. Misery loves comp... (read in full...)
I hate my dad! My mother is away and tells me to be patient! What should I do?
Q. I feel so upset right now. I hate my dad so much that I wish he was dead. He's so selfish and self centered. He doesn't even have any respect for his children interest. He only does things that suits him alone. I'm so angry now cause he being ...
A. 24 March 2016:
When you hate you parents, your own children will grow up to hate you too...fact.
How did you get old enough to hate your father? Did you eat grass when you were a baby? Did hunt your own food when you were a young child? No matter what your fa... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is angry because I'm not ready for sex
Q. my boyfriend and me are in a relation since last three years. he says he wants sex but i am not ready. he got angry when i said so. I really love him and i dont want to lose him. but i am really not ready for sex. he is really angry with me when i ...
A. 24 March 2016:
What are you afraid to lose? A guy who loves you so much that he will wait for you forever, until death do you part...or....A angry guy who wants you to forget yourself, your values, and give up what is the most the precious thing to a woman for.... (read in full...)
To parents of children or people who are childfree by choice. Do you regret your decision?
Q. I'd like to hear from people who have children and those who don't. Do you regret your decision or are you sincerely happy with your choice to become a parent or childfree? I have terrible mental illness genetics in my family line so I'm leaning ...
A. 1 March 2016: Sorry I should say....I am here if you wish to talk. :))))... (read in full...)
To parents of children or people who are childfree by choice. Do you regret your decision?
Q. I'd like to hear from people who have children and those who don't. Do you regret your decision or are you sincerely happy with your choice to become a parent or childfree? I have terrible mental illness genetics in my family line so I'm leaning ...
A. 1 March 2016: I am here if you need me :)... (read in full...)
Any ideas on what to do about my Bf who stares at women too often and for too long?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years we have a baby girl together. The problem is everywhere we go he stares at other women and it makes me feel so unattractive and unwanted, as he never shows me any affection nor love. Nor tells ...
A. 29 February 2016:
You do realise that boyfriends and girlfriends are just practice people in our lives, to weed out the good from the bad...right???? Very rare that we meet our life partner the first time.
If you have a guy who does not provide the things you n... (read in full...)
To parents of children or people who are childfree by choice. Do you regret your decision?
Q. I'd like to hear from people who have children and those who don't. Do you regret your decision or are you sincerely happy with your choice to become a parent or childfree? I have terrible mental illness genetics in my family line so I'm leaning ...
A. 29 February 2016:
I have a boy and girl...Him 20 and her 19.
I love every day of being a father. My daughter is diabetic, has been since she was two years old. At a time when children with diabetes was rare. We almost lost her because of it. When the doctor came ... (read in full...)
How do I find enjoyment in life?
Q. How can I find enjoyment in life? People say find a hobby, but I don't seem to want to do anything. I feel that feeling passionate about anything at all could help me pass the time but I can't find anything remotely interesting. Every day I just ...
A. 26 February 2016: "I truly wish I didn't exist."
Then you would miss all the awesomeness this world has to offer...in spite of all the crazy things around you. :)))
First off...STOP expecting LIFE to hand you a perfect everything. No one...and I mean NO ONE...ge... (read in full...)
The student I fancy has a crush on me. Could I date him after he finishes or is it just too creepy?
Q. Hello. I am a 34 yrs old college teacher. There is this 20yr old student I fancy. Nothing ever ever happened. I could of course tell he fancied me a lot and the other day he finally came on to me and told me he has a huge crush on me. He will finish ...
A. 24 February 2016:
Why are you creepy??? First of all...do not down grade yourself. You are human with feelings just like everyone else.
He is of legal age and sound mind. Therefore he can make those choices on his own. Theses relationships happen all the time. Ho... (read in full...)
How can I stop my family from questioning everything my husband and I do?
Q. Hiya Just a little question for you all..I am 35 years old, married, own a beautiful home and have a good job. All which I achieved. When I was a teenager, I had some fun like every other teenager, went travelling etc. I tried university but d...
A. 24 February 2016:
Let's look at something you wrote and see if you can figure it out...
"I am 35 years old, married, own a beautiful home and have a good job. All which I achieved."
So questions....Who bought your home? Who pays the bills? Who looks after and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with someone else when we were seeing each other. Can't get over it. Help!
Q. I need advice from the outsiders. As a summary, my girlfriend and i have been together for a year and a half now. A few months ago, we were on holiday to an exotic island, i pop the question, she said yes and we were all happy. At the end of our t...
A. 3 February 2016:
What are you trying to get over?? It was already over the moment she slept with someone else. You are not married,nor have kids together, home, and so on. In other words...Lucky you. Would have sucked big time if she did that after you were marr... (read in full...)
He can't stay hard, says I'm too wet and yet he wants a threesome???
Q. Dear Cupid I'm dating a guy for about a month, we did hit off well and he was nice and everything. Fast forward we had tried to have sex a week back, he told me I'm too wet and when he was able to do it, he couldn't hold his erection, tried ...
A. 22 January 2016:
Honeypie is correct.
When men train their penis to be accustom to their hands, nothing else feels right, and they lose interest in the real thing.
Not to say some men do not have erection issues...But a lot of men today are over stimulated ... (read in full...)
Fighting for something that will never happen
Q. Okay, so I've been trying to go along this by myself lately but I have asked around but my damn heart keeps pointing me to wrong direction it seems. I'll cut this huge timeline/story but I've gone out with my ex for 1 year and 8 months but I bro...
A. 22 January 2016:
It would seem like she wants a safety net. Someone to catch her when she falls. She wants date other people, but if that does not workout, she come back to wear she feels safe.
Great for her, sucks for you and your feelings.
RULE...Never keep... (read in full...)
Can't turn back the clock on what I saw
Q. Hi Aunties A few weeks ago I walked in on my boy friend masturbating in my bedroom. He has a key to my apartment, and I let him sleep there during the day when he works nights and I am at work. At the time it happened, he didn’t know that I ...
A. 22 January 2016: It's moments like this that can cause serious trust issues in a relationship if handled wrong.
He had your underwear, which is a bonus to you. It means you turn him on, not some other woman in a magazine or on the internet.
When you came... (read in full...)
Difficulties in the bedroom with boyfriend and I don't know how to fix them
Q. I am having difficulties in the bedroom with my boyfriend of three years and I don't know how to fix any of it. We have been very adventurous in the past. Our sex life was always amazing and I can't believe I'm asking for advice. A few...
A. 21 January 2016:
Question....What is purpose of having a man in your life???
Is he there to bring out all you faults?? To keep you company?? To make you feel like crap about yourself?? Or is he there to love you???
NO MAN...and I mean NO MAN...is to be in yo... (read in full...)
Married 11 years. How do I deal with this doubtful feeling I am sensing from his actions?
Q. My husband and I took a pic of our internet password because we are always being asked what it is from our guest and we don't feel like going up stairs to the box each time. Anyway, I was on his phone looking for that pic and I found a pic of his p...
A. 12 January 2016:
Easy thing to do...Get mad, don't trust him, always be suspicious of everything he does, check his phone and all other media, question his every move.... And that would be the easy way to end your 11 years of marriage.
Reality...Men and women ge... (read in full...)
Are my dreams trustworthy?
Q. I am a 39 yr old married man. Few years ago I was abroad for 3 years with my wife for a work assignment where I met this single woman of my nationality who was working in the same organization as me and 10 years my junior. We became good friends, ...
A. 11 January 2016: "Foolish people are deceived by vain hopes, and dreams get them all excited. A person who pays any attention at all to dreams is like someone who tries to catch shadows or chase the wind. What you see in a dream is no more real than the reflection ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be alone on New Year's Eve. Any suggestions?
Q. So...this may sound pathetic...because I'm going to be alone this New Year's Eve. My friends are either going to spend New Year's Eve with their boyfriend or their husband. And the only one single friend prefers to stay at home. I feel so lonely.... ...
A. 30 December 2015:
You don't want to go out alone??? You do realize that is how you end up not alone right?? You go out, meet new people, get a few numbers, and maybe, just maybe, one of those numbers maybe the last number you will ever need to get. :)... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my wife or go off with my soul mate?
Q. My question is should I stay with my wife and have a routine life or go and be with someone who I believe is my soulmate. I have tried hard to make my marriage work and my wife is a very decent person but I feel as though I am living with a sister ...
A. 23 December 2015: You know the difference between a wife and your soulmate????
You don't live with your soulmate...because if you do, you will find out that her and your wife have a lot in common. That old saying "Come and visit me, and come to live with me, are ... (read in full...)
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