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writes:How many guys will you have to sleep with to be considered a whore? is three that many when your only 16? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2010): The very fact that you're asking makes me wonder how you feel about it yourself. I personally think you're too young to be in this position, but you are where you are. What value do you place on yourself? I think that's the real question here. I hope you place a high value on yourself. But if you do not, then change your behavior so that you do feel like placing a high value on yourself. As some others have said, there's no official number, it comes down to whether you feel the name fits. You can't change the past. I don't believe that "once a whore, always a whore." You can choose your future to a large extent. Even in the well known example in the scriptures, Jesus didn't condemn the woman caught in adultery, but he did tell her to sin no more.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Well what do you know? I was just screwing around, no pun intended.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): The average number of partners in a whole lifetime is about 4-6. Do the math.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (11 August 2010):
 7.3, eh? So they did get a rulebook out? So how many times over am I a whore? Hmm...where's that calculator? ;)
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 August 2010):
I heard it was 7.3
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Well according to me you shouldn't even be having sex at that age. You haven't seen anything from the world yet and already having sex. I wouldn't call that being a whore though. A whore is when you sleep around and cheat.
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reader, razorwire  +, writes (11 August 2010):
its not a number that makes a person a whore its their attitude whether you sleep with a guy on the first date or sleep with people that your not even dating if all the people that you've slept with were your official boyfriend and you waited to sleep with him usually around a few weeks to a month then your not a whore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): It's not how many you did. It's the manner in which you did it. For example, if you slept with 3 boyfriends that's not being a whore. If you went to 3 parties and slept with 3 random guys that's being a whore. At your age you really have to be careful about what you do and who you do it with. Once word gets out around your school that you've had sex with 3 guys you'll be labeled a whore whether you are or not.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Sweetie, you don't even have to sleep with anyone to be considered a whore. If someone starts a rumor about you being a whore, then...
If guys talk about you sleeping around to their friends, then other guys will start talking to you, trying to get some, because they now think you are easy.
Save the good stuff for the right person, you will be glad you did.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (11 August 2010):
There's no rulebook on that sort of thing. Depends on who's calling you a whore, besides. Three before you're 16 is a little careless, though. Reputations shatter very easily when you're young.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): If you don't want to be considered on, I'd slow down while I'm ahead. If your 16 and have had 3 partners you'll avg around 20 by time you're 21. Plus these young boys can put your name out there letting the other boys know what you do and how you do it. But if you're gonna continue, make sure those boys wear a condom. You don't want to catch something you can't get rid off.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): I don't think it's the quantity of relationships that could determine if you're slutty...it's the nature of the ones you have. Four guys is not a lot...but if you pull a train with 4 guys in one night, or do one in the pub bathroom, then anouther in his car, then take one home, then do the Fedex man the next morning...maybe you are getting into slut territory.
To me, a whore is a woman who will entertain many men in a given time with no regard whatsoever for anything other than her own satisfaction.
In general, I'd say a woman who has more than 1 partner a month is a bit promiscuous. But again, the nature of the relationships is key. If a woman picks up a new lover every weekend, but spends some quality time getting to know them instead of just being a receptacle, then that is OK too.
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reader, Cloverfield  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Well.... so long as you're not charging then you're not a whore. Although, if you're not happy with your tally then you can always say no.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 There's no set number...
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reader, love-struckxo +, writes (11 August 2010):
 Why would you want to be considered one? I don't really know a limit but I would say that you are allowed a couple mistakes, and the rest you should be in a relationship with.
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