I don't think my wife should be communicating with an ex, she doesn't agree!
Q. My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Unfortunately I ignored her for much of that time and we drifted apart. We recently rekindled our marriage but I innocently found something on her Facebook. I went to log in to my Facebook but it was ...
A. 24 February 2015: First of all Jealousy...very bad move. Being jealous and angry will just put you right into the 10 wasted years. You created a problem, she found a way to fix hers, and now you are mad that she did. What did you expect? Did you expect another ... (read in full...)
How can a husband handle such an issue?
Q. Is it proper for the woman to always pin her phones preventing her husband to never have access to her phone? Even when the husband demand that both of them should remove pin code from their phones, she refused. There after the maids alleged that ...
A. 24 February 2015: "Even when the husband demand"
You "demand"??? And you wonder why you are not getting anywhere? Can you demand a river to change it course?? No! But you can gently change a rivers course with patients and working on the issue.
If you are a ... (read in full...)
How do you know when it's the right time to move in with your partner?
Q. Recently my boyfriend has mentioned me moving in with him, he wants me to and when he mentioned it I didn't think 'no it's too soon' or 'wow you're moving too fast' however I've mentioned it to a couple of friends and these were there responses. "...
A. 24 February 2015: Honestly...The best time is after marriage. I know it's not what you wanted to hear. But come visit me, and come live with me, are two completely different things.
Living with someone with a completely different living style than your own is a lot... (read in full...)
How small is small for a man's penis if the man is 5 foot and 11 inches and 195 pounds?
Q. Hello everyone sorry to be the umpteenth guy asking this question but how small is small when it comes to penis size? Im 23 and have had sex with over 20 girls but its always been in the back of my head that I'm unproprtional and small. My size is ...
A. 20 February 2015:
What's the size of your tongue? Your fingers?
Penis is to finish what you started with every other weapon in your arsenal. You have the biggest penis in the world and still can't please a woman.
Try rocking a woman's world without taking... (read in full...)
Newly married, but I've lost my sex drive completely. What can I do? What could cause this?
Q. Hello, I just recently got married literally about a week ago. However, I've lived with my husband for a little over a year. For about 9-10 months now, I've not wanted sex at all. I'm on birth control pills, and on anxiety medication so I'...
A. 20 February 2015:
Question...What turned you on before? What was your sex life like before you met your now husband?... (read in full...)
Sex with my bf is bad. how can I tell him he isn't pleasing me ??
Q. I've been with my bf for over a year now. And I love him, which is why I haven't left. But the sex with him is horrible. When he tries it, he doesn't make sure I'm wet enough before he tries to slide it in. Then, he had to use his finger to guide it ...
A. 18 February 2015: You will have to be blunt regarding sex..."this is how I like it. Put you tongue here, and do this with it." My dear too many women go through life with bad sex because they do not speak up and tell the guy what they want, because they can't... (read in full...)
What can I do to help him understand he is ruining our relationship?
Q. Im in a relationship with a younger man there is no doubt on my mind we love each other, he goes to work I am home I rarely go out I pretty much stay to myself before the relationship began I was always surrounded by fam and friends they were always ...
A. 18 February 2015: "he has cheated infact every time we get upset n break it of the first thing he does is run to these other girls he flirts with n sees behind my back," Why are you blaming him??? Let me ask you your own question, but I am going to put "her" and "s... (read in full...)
What can we do to work through the issues that impact on us as a couple due to her parents prejudice against disabilities?
Q. first off, i have a disability which impacts me physically. it's nothing serious and i can live a normal life, but with some minor limitations. ok, so i've been dating this absolutely amazing girl. she fully understands my limitations, and...
A. 18 February 2015:
Well sir, you have three disable people to deal with. Her mom and dad, and your girlfriend.
Life throws you these things as a warning...If your girlfriend cannot stand up for your love now, what happens further down the road??? What else would i... (read in full...)
My friend and I are keen to have some fun with my fiancee!
Q. Hi there, i am in a long term, committed relationship and i love my fiance with all of my being. I have told him openly and honestly, regarding the fact that i would love for us to have a threesome, after we're married, not because he do...
A. 18 February 2015:
When two people are in a relationship, it called a couple...Never heard of two people being called a triple.
Adding spice to your relationship is great...but just like cooking...adding too much spice or the wrong kind of spice, can ruin the who... (read in full...)
Wife and I fought over circumcision
Q. My wife and I recently found out she is pregnant. We don't know the sex of the baby yet and probably will let it surprise us anyway. We were talking about baby names when my wife asked me about circumcision. This wasn't a topic we had ever disc...
A. 17 February 2015:
Actually...Your wife is right. We have been fooled into the purpose of what circumcision really means. First of all...circumcision was a religious practice done on Jewish men so only GOD would know who is people were.
Genesis 17:9
"God sai... (read in full...)
I have trouble having an orgasm during sex. Can this be fixed?
Q. My problem is with climaxing, Ive only ever orgasm-ed with my ex of five years, we broke up a few years ago, I havent been able to with any men before or after him regardless of what they did oral or hands, by myself I have no issue but I always ...
A. 17 February 2015:
"im afraid maybe my body is accustomed to the intensity of a vibrator"
You are correct there. So, lay off for awhile and let you body re-adjust to the natural ways, before starting again.... (read in full...)
My wife wont talk about our sexless marriage and thinks everything is ok!
Q. Hi I'm been married 27 years After my wife had breast cancer 20 years ago she as gone completely of sex when I try to touch her she just turns around I've tryed talking to her but she's not interested I still love her but ate being regected all ...
A. 17 February 2015: If your wife has had any kind of surgery, lost her hair due the the treatments, it could make her feel unsexy...a lost in her womanly pride. You touching her is not going to do anything to fix that. I am also sure that your touches are very pr... (read in full...)
Should I keep sending this guy I just met a photo of me everyday?
Q. Hello I am a female and I really need help cause I feel lost. I met a guy one week ago. We spoke and he was very charming and funy. We had so much laughter the night we met. He asked me for my number and I gave it to him. It was Saturday the day I ...
A. 13 February 2015:
One word...Patience.
Learn it, Understand it, Live it. ... (read in full...)
I let myself go and am not quite sure how to get myself back together?
Q. I just turned 21 and I've seriously let myself go. Basically I was abused and it got really bad when I was 17. The person is no longer able to hurt me and I've been to counselling but I sort of regressed into a frightened shell of a person and ...
A. 13 February 2015: "the rest is up to me to heal " This statement is true. It really is up to you. It takes hard work, but so does anything worth doing right? :) The first thing you have to do is...Stop caring what other people thing of you. You know right fro... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is impatient and short with me
Q. My boyfriend of a year has a father that treats his mother really badly. For that reason I have been mindful of how he treats me. When he gets stressed he raises his voice which to me happens every other week. He's very conscious of this and said ...
A. 12 February 2015: "He does lovely things for me"
Abusive people with most always do nice things to cover up their wrongs, so their VICTIM will stay with them. It has only been a year...how about four more years of this??
You want happy years? Find a happy man... (read in full...)
Was my husband being inconsiderate?
Q. I have an question. I want to know if my husband was being inconsiderate or am i just tripping. Since yesterday i have been battling a major toothache where as my jaw is swollen and half my tooth is gone. All day yesterday i stayed in bed due to the ...
A. 12 February 2015:
Both of you are wrong!
Yes...his response to your actions are wrong. He should have talked to you instead of acting like child that had a favourite toy taken away from him.
You should have told him the minute he started looking for sex how ... (read in full...)
Is online flirting cheating?
Q. I am in a relationship with a wonderful person. He is 10 years older than me and I love the fact that he is more experienced and worldly wise than I am. I met him on facebook and we hit it off immediately. We are both abroad away from our families ...
A. 12 February 2015: "I do love him despite all of the hurt his behaviour causes."
If you truly love someone, you try your very best never to hurt them. Love and hurt are completely two different things.
You would not do something to cause your child pain and s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has to fight the urge to shag every woman he sees!
Q. My boyfriend of over two Years just admitted something to me that shocked me. He said it felt like coming out in a way and he's confused. Sex is important to him. He basically said that he finds nearly every woman he sees sexually attractive. He ...
A. 11 February 2015:
LOL...Typical man. However...wanting too, and actually doing it are two different things. Men will fantasize a lot and never do anything, but if his fantasies starts becoming things he wants to try...like a threesome...watch out.
Fantasies... (read in full...)
Pleaseee help me I want to die,my boyfriend of 7 yrs is leaving me because I told him about my past.?
Q. my boyfriend of 7 yrs has a long sexual history including gangbangs,orgys, etc with 50+ girls. he done drugs. he neve r lied n we go to church and we are very in love. i trust he doesnt hide anything and loves me. we started off as f.buddya ...
A. 11 February 2015: Hello elnazelnaz, Did you read your post carefully??? Did you realize you should be happy things are the way they are? Let me explain... "my boyfriend of 7 yrs has a long sexual history including gangbangs,orgys, etc with 50+ girls. he ... (read in full...)
2 years of crazy and we're only teenagers! what should I do?
Q. What should I do? Me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years now. At first, everything was fantastic. Like fairytales, lovey-Dovey for the first year. Second year, things changed. We became more busy, and I have a very busy life compared to his, ...
A. 11 February 2015:
"When he breaks up with me, he goes suicidal and self harms."
Let him...As long as he is not doing it to you.
Simple fact...When you were abused, you know it was not right. This is no different...abuse is abuse...sexual, physical, or emotion... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so self conscious of my body in the bedroom?
Q. I was diagnosed with PCOS about a year ago after years of weird symptoms. I gain weight very easily, I have skin issues such as acne on certain areas of my body, hyper pigmentation and discoloration in certain areas... I get skin tags on my breasts, ...
A. 11 February 2015: " Stupid bad skin."...Never call your body stupid or bad. You do not have another good body with good skin in your closet, and choose to wear the stupid ugly one. Good or bad, it's your body...love it...it's all you have. "He deserves a woman w... (read in full...)
Why are people so disapproving of age gap relationships?
Q. Never been in one myself but I can't understand why society is so disapproving of relationships with a big age gap. We can accept interracial couples, even same sex couples now, but not ones where a man and woman are two different ages?? There's n...
A. 10 February 2015: The age difference problem comes from up bringing and personal experience. If a man or woman is younger than their partner and they have not had much experience living their own lives, you run into problems. They still want to explore the worl... (read in full...)
Marriage probems and my sister interferring did not help. How can I get over this, and move forward?
Q. What should I do? My sister has meddled in my relationships for years including my marriage. She became his confidant and he ran to her with loads of stories, none of them good for years. My marriage came to an end, not because of her, but her inte...
A. 10 February 2015:
Thank you County for following up. :) Happy trails young lady. :)... (read in full...)
Marriage probems and my sister interferring did not help. How can I get over this, and move forward?
Q. What should I do? My sister has meddled in my relationships for years including my marriage. She became his confidant and he ran to her with loads of stories, none of them good for years. My marriage came to an end, not because of her, but her inte...
A. 10 February 2015: I normally encourage people to fight for their marriages. However, yours has a little extra evil added to it...your sister. Worst kind of enemy is the one right in your own family. To save yourself from being dragged into a life of never end... (read in full...)
Shall I contact the girl my BF is messaging to get her side of the story?
Q. Hi Almost 4 years ago I found out that my boyfriend was sending messages to another girl behind my back. The messages hinted that there was something going on. I have found out more recently that the girl visited his home but at the time he ...
A. 10 February 2015:
Yes...contact the girl and let her know he is all hers. You are not putting up with that crap and have better things and people to see...there.... (read in full...)
How do I turn things around? I feel like an unloveable loser
Q. I feel like a massive loser and I'm starting to panic that my life will never be normal. I just turned thirty and I'd imagined all these stupid things that would have happened by now. I've recently come out of a horrible relationship. My ...
A. 10 February 2015: Hi Op...First...you do not need to be in an abusive relationship to turn your life around. You just have to want to, and then work at it. Yes...it takes work to get your life back. Sitting around and feeling sorry for yourself will get you one plac... (read in full...)
I feel like his sex toy, not a girlfriend
Q. I have been dating someone but he keeps lying to me an making false promises to take me out but makes excuses as to why he cant keep promises an he only sees me on a night time but not through the day an he says he has to look after his son whos 11, ...
A. 10 February 2015:
You are with a guy and looking for an A...But he gives you an F. Keep stick with an F and you will always get an F. So if you want an A, you need to do what??... (read in full...)
My wife gave her ex boyfriend better sex than she gives me!
Q. I have asked my wife for 10 years to do the same sex acts that she did with her ex boyfriend but she refuses. She had sex with him daily and with me 3 times a month. I feel hurt and inferior to him. Is it ok that she denies me but wanted to ...
A. 9 February 2015: OP...You say you always give and never receive. Do we know how that feels...Yes I do. I was the one giving and never receiving...Guess what I found out... I was not giving what she wanted. I gave what I thought would get me sex, and when that di... (read in full...)
My wife gave her ex boyfriend better sex than she gives me!
Q. I have asked my wife for 10 years to do the same sex acts that she did with her ex boyfriend but she refuses. She had sex with him daily and with me 3 times a month. I feel hurt and inferior to him. Is it ok that she denies me but wanted to ...
A. 9 February 2015: Who care about what your wife did with her ex??? You are making yourself inferior, not her do it to you. What are you doing to make your wife come to you daily?? Do you give her all the love and attention she needs? Do you go above and beyond... (read in full...)
I'm depressed that my husband, like other men in my past, prefers smaller breasts!
Q. I see a lot of women write in worried about their small breasts but I have the opposite problem. I have large breasts and every man who I have been with including my long term marriage has preferred smaller breasts and not been at all interested in ...
A. 9 February 2015: "I feel like an old cow" Ever seen a cow with small utters.:) Maybe a baby cow. :) Lots of men will avoid your breast...myself included...why?? Not because I do not like big breast, but because of the stereotype around big breast. Like "my eye... (read in full...)
My girlfriend can do better, but she wont go!
Q. Hi there, I would like an honest answer please. I am 27 year old man, my girl friend is 21, shes gorgeous and I am the only guy she ever dated. Just before we started dating I started losing hair, hence I decided to treat it. I was prescribed a ...
A. 9 February 2015: Let me say this with all due respect...You are a DUMBASS!!! Now let explain... You sir have a "gorgeous, poetry in motion" girl, who "constantly get asked out by alot of guys at school", but turns them down for a "worthless, hairless and... (read in full...)
I was there for him and he still chose another girl
Q. Hi, So I've been dating this guy for a couple months. We made the offical date Nov 20 but its more like Dec 18. We had a thing going on between us (just making out and holding hands) but he never formally asked me out and I told him we aren't to...
A. 9 February 2015:
" I feel betrayed"... Why??? You knew all the details before getting together with him...yes?
What part of "he went out with a girl for five days, fucked her" made you go YES!!! This is the man for me!
"he made a mistake" and you should have ... (read in full...)
She says I have lost her trust, I say she is being over dramatic!
Q. my girlfriend says I've lost her trust and she wants to end things but I think she's just being over dramatic and refusing to give me another chance. My old flame called me to say could we be friends again so I met her for a drink didn't tell my gf ...
A. 9 February 2015: I love it when guys dig their own holes and then blame the woman for pushing them in it. HA! Your first mistake sir... "My old flame called me" There is no such thing as an old flame. Any flame left unattended will die out on it's own. So you ... (read in full...)
At 54 is it too late to start over?
Q. My miserable boyfriend spends every weekend morning with his mother and weekend afternoons reading and napping. He refuses to travel, never shows affection, does little around the house and never suggests doing anything in term of leisure activity. ...
A. 9 February 2015:
Better late than never :) He is not too terrified to talk to people, he is too lazy to make the effort. You want a good man...Choose one based on how he treats his parents. He has no time for them, he has no time for you. If he disrespects them... (read in full...)
After one year the sex is very infrequent
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. Everything in our relationship is perfect except for one thing. We barely are having sex and every time our relationship progresses he starts a fight and says this is why he doesn't have sex with ...
A. 9 February 2015:
"He constantly makes up excuses such as I'm not sexy enough, I' come off insecure. I've never heard these comments before from friends or even prior boyfriends."
Question...One guy is putting you down constantly, and no one else has. So the ... (read in full...)
I feel hurt and betrayed!
Q. I am a 50 plus year old female. I am feeling hurt and betrayed. One of my very best friends, as I've spoke about before in this forum is planning on moving. She claims I am the very best friend she has ever had in her life and I feel the same about ...
A. 9 February 2015:
Hi OP...First of all remember one thing...Your "best" friend has a life of her own with her husband. Whatever plans they make do not really have to concern you. To let you know their plans would be their choice, not a right to you.
Your frie... (read in full...)
What's the best way for me to either get a girlfriend or lose my virginity?
Q. I'm 21, had one girlfriend for two years, during early college. I've asked out about 5 girls one of them my girlfriend, the other four I've only gone on a date or two a piece. My friends always say that I could do better and its because I lack ...
A. 9 February 2015:
OP...You are worried about future break ups when they haven't happened yet? Talk about setting yourself up for failure. LAZY people break up, people who WORK hard at their relationships have a better chance of stay together for the long run. Did ... (read in full...)
What's the best way for me to either get a girlfriend or lose my virginity?
Q. I'm 21, had one girlfriend for two years, during early college. I've asked out about 5 girls one of them my girlfriend, the other four I've only gone on a date or two a piece. My friends always say that I could do better and its because I lack ...
A. 6 February 2015: "I'm a virgin unfortunately." What's unfortunate about that statement is that you do not see the importance of your virginity. It is not something you lose as fast as you can, just because your hormones says so. Women are not out there to hel... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'll bore him to death! How do I make myself more interesting?
Q. I'm seeing this guy,, I know him very well now, and I'm pretty sure it's a relationship, or about to be. He's mentioned to other's I'm his girl, his friends call me his girl or he is my man or that I am with him. They treat us like a couple. Well, ...
A. 5 February 2015:
Do you know what the most boring part of anyone's life is??? That part of your mind that tell you all the degrading things about yourself. Again, and again, and again. Get's very boring hearing the same crap every day.
So tell that part of your... (read in full...)
He charmed his way in and then dropped me like a hot potato!
Q. I have recently started carrying for a guy alot. He has become very special to me. We only have gone out 4 times. Had sex 2 times out of those 4. The last time we had sex is the time he forced his way into my place. By telling me that If i would ...
A. 3 February 2015: You had 4 dates and sex already?? Then he leaves and very quickly it's the man's fault? "ALL MEN WANT IS SEX!!!" Part of that is true...but there is another part that women seem to forget...In order for the man who only wants sex to have sex, the... (read in full...)
I can't stand him but I still need him for some things. Should I break things off?
Q. I am currently in a reaionship which is due to be a year this february. I do not and can never like him. We women date for two reasons, either for love or because we need something from the guy. Yes I needed something from the guy and i know he ...
A. 3 February 2015:
I do not see how you are in a relationship if you can't stand the person. The only thing you are doing is allowing hate to build up inside you.
You know what kind of "man" you are interested in, so go find it. Plus, you do not need to be with s... (read in full...)
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