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Our therapy dogs don't get along and my boyfriend has issued me an ultimatum. What can I do?

Q.   I have PTSD and anxiety due to sex abuse. It started happening when I was in preschool. My boyfriend has Anxiety and PTSD bc of prison bc he used to be an armed robber and he accidentally murdered his ex. He became a dog handler in prison. He has ...

A.   2 September 2016: I am sorry... Are you talking about your dog or your guy??... (read in full...)

Our therapy dogs don't get along and my boyfriend has issued me an ultimatum. What can I do?

Q.   I have PTSD and anxiety due to sex abuse. It started happening when I was in preschool. My boyfriend has Anxiety and PTSD bc of prison bc he used to be an armed robber and he accidentally murdered his ex. He became a dog handler in prison. He has ...

A.   2 September 2016: I am sorry... Are you talking about your dog or you guy??... (read in full...)

Wife won't have sex, how do I bring up having a 3rd person involved?

Q.   once more the issue is about threesomes,my wife and i have been married over 30 years, both in our 50's, for the last 5-6 years our sex life has become extinct, i was wondering if a 3rd person in the bedroom would revive the flame, problem is i don...

A.   31 August 2016:  "do i look at solving my problem elsewhere?" Yes sir...look elsewhere...That is the best way to end 30 years of marriage...You the man. Wife will not have sex....how to solve it...Have sex with another woman...brilliant!!!... (read in full...)

Our therapy dogs don't get along and my boyfriend has issued me an ultimatum. What can I do?

Q.   I have PTSD and anxiety due to sex abuse. It started happening when I was in preschool. My boyfriend has Anxiety and PTSD bc of prison bc he used to be an armed robber and he accidentally murdered his ex. He became a dog handler in prison. He has ...

A.   31 August 2016:  You ever think the dog knows something you don't??? Dogs can judge character very well...and based on the fact that he does not care about your need to have the dog...I say the dog is right. A true loving guy would do his best the bond with yo... (read in full...)

Why did he masturbate right after sex?

Q.   Hi just a quick question please.. Me and my boyfriend had sex the other day after i went to the toilet i went back in to the bedroom and my partner was masturbating baring in kind we had just had sex. What ut is all about? Any advice is greatl...

A.   10 August 2016:  MEN!!!! Yes I said it...Young fools who think a hand is a vagina...SMACK!!! One reason...He did not have an orgasm when you had sex, so he was trying to get off...While there is a hot naked woman right there...(banging head against the wall) ... (read in full...)

Would counselling and therapy help, after all this time? My son thinks so. Any advice please?

Q.   I know this may be looking like a sort of what if situation that I am having thirty years later, but this is not the case. Trust me. I have been thinking about her every single day and night for the last two to three decades and I know that I can'...

A.   10 August 2016:  Let me be blunt with you...Yes the truth will hurt...but good sir.... you are in serious need of it. What are you in love with?? A memory...nothing more, nothing less. You could go to therapy from now until the cows come home, and you would st... (read in full...)

I'm 36, he's 72 and I am embarrassed of my fiance's age!

Q.   Hi good people! I am 36 years old, my fiance, 72years old. He is visiting me in a weeks time. I have started developing cold feet because of the age difference. I am constantly worried about the impression this will have on people who know me....

A.   10 August 2016:  You said you love him...do you really? Do you only love him when things are as you would like them to be? Or do you love him for the man that he is? Does he treat you right? Does he treat your daughter right? Funny...Your daughter is only 6 y... (read in full...)

My ex cheated but I didn't. Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   I have been in a complicated relationship for some time now. I have a question that I'd like to get answers for. It was a long distance relationship that was bad- I never cheated. My partner went through a rough time- I did not cheat. There wa...

A.   10 August 2016:  You have done nothing wrong, so why are you being hard on yourself as if you cheated??? The long distance from him was a good thing. You could have been together and he could have cheated on you the same way...which do you think would hurt m... (read in full...)

Found my boyfriend on a dating site. What should I do? Set him up or block him?

Q.   Ive just been shocked by my boyfriend . He has been very silent with me and told me his phone was broken .My friend is on a dating site and she told me he is on there . I looked and he is , so i put up a fake profile only for him to see , i have no ...

A.   9 August 2016:  Good advise from the other Aunts... You really want to waste more of your time on a guy like this??? Why? The time you spend setting him up could be used finding a new loyal guy. Hey...he is dating other people...Why are you not dating other... (read in full...)

He asks me when I am free and then cancels.Could he be seeing someone else?

Q.   I need some advice...a Personal Trainer at the gym asked me out on a date several times...? I was a bit weary at first to go on a date with him, but he seemed really nice and we got on well. So, i said yes. We went on a date and it went well. ...

A.   9 August 2016:  "Personal Trainer at the gym" How many women does this guy train? You really think you are the only client who wants to date him? It would be like dating the leader singer of a really famous rock bank, and thinking you will be able to have... (read in full...)

Is it normal for your man to check out other women's behinds?

Q.   Is it normal for your BF to check out other women's behinds? Whether you are around or not? Do all/most men check out other women's behinds even if they are in a happy, committed relationship with their wives/girlfriends? And even if their wives/g...

A.   9 August 2016:  Sorry...I had to jump back in....So_Very_Confused...Nailed it.... That kind of woman...That confidence...Oh yeah :)))) ... (read in full...)

Will I ever be able to forget my first sexual experience?

Q.   Hi.. so basically, i cant forget about the guy that i had my first sexual experience with, and cant forget the experience itself. I'd just turned 16 and he was a little bit older. The experience itself was kind of rushed and clumsy, which doesnt ...

A.   8 August 2016:  WOW!!! Very mature for your age...figuring out all that on your own...I am impressed. :) Your experience?? Be very thankful you had that experience...I mean it...why? Most adults to this day, have made those mistakes at your age, and never ... (read in full...)

My brain isn't engaging and my focus is lost!

Q.   I don't know what's wrong with me at the moment. I feel as though my brain isn't engaging and my focus is lost. Im almost 21 and instead of acting more mature and getting organised I feel i'm losing the plot. For example I act very irrespo...

A.   8 August 2016:  Question...You KNOW what you are doing wrong, and yet you make no attempted to improve, and then come down hard on yourself when things go wrong? WHY?? Your mom treats you like a child because you are doing childish things at 21 years old. ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for your man to check out other women's behinds?

Q.   Is it normal for your BF to check out other women's behinds? Whether you are around or not? Do all/most men check out other women's behinds even if they are in a happy, committed relationship with their wives/girlfriends? And even if their wives/g...

A.   8 August 2016:  Honeypie is right... All men and ALL women check out other people. You notice it more with your BF because you are insecure about yourself and what you have to offer. If you know to yourself that you can rock any man's world, your BF cou... (read in full...)

Dare I tell this younger woman how I feel?

Q.   hi, my name is Roger. I am a 70 yr old man and I have become very friendly with a Romanian woman for over a year now, who is 31, and also married I can honestly say I have never got on so well with a woman in all my life we do many things together...

A.   8 August 2016: "I think u know what I am going to say" You are obviously not thinking...therefore what I am about to say, is not what you will want to hear. The age difference is not the issue...but misery loves company, and you are trying to make her your co... (read in full...)

I thought he was disrespectful to me. But now he says I'm not to contact him. Did I over-react?

Q.   We've known each other for 6 years and have met in person countless times.I've also met his family.However,he has been wanting to skype with me for the last couple days but we couldn't because of schedule confiction.I finally I told him that I can ...

A.   8 August 2016:  Yes you overreacted...How?? By let a fool get you upset. Put two and two together...you really thing it's that easy to give up someone after 6 years...unless there is a replacement already? If he love you or cared about you as you do him...... (read in full...)

Do I tell my friend what her father said? What should I do?

Q.   I went to a dinner party for one of my best friends, and her dad who is married complimented me twice. Both times I felt very uncomfortable. He called my name across the table, and begin to say how attractive I am. And as I was leaving the party he...

A.   8 August 2016:  Be careful...If alcohol was involved...that could explain his bold comments. However, if he does it sober...now you have ground to say something. ... (read in full...)

Are these Red Flags ? Am I being too sensitive and too hard on him?

Q.   I don't know where to begin. I hope someone can give me good insight. So I've been dating a guy for about four months now. We became officially exclusive 2 months ago, though he said he wasn't dating anyone or even looking the entire four mont...

A.   8 August 2016:  From a guy's point of view... When a guy does not jump at the opportunity to show off pictures of you and him, it could be a few reasons. 1) He still has feelings for his ex, and have not gotten over it completely...true. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend struggles with lusting after other women

Q.   My boyfriend struggles a lot with lusting after other women. He sees beautiful women and wants to be with them and gets jealous of their partners if these women are with someone else. He then ends up feeling really terrible about lusting after other ...

A.   29 July 2016: "He is a very honest person so he will always tell me about it and this happens quite often." In what part of your mind that you see this as OKAY!?!? Hey baby, I want every woman but you, and you should be okay with this because I am hon... (read in full...)

Is it time for me to give up on finding love?

Q.   Hello there, I am a 21 year old college student with NF1 (Neurofibromitosis Type 1). I have never had a girlfriend, kissed a girl or even flirted with a girl. My parents are still really protective over me and are really suspicious of what I do (why ...

A.   27 July 2016: "Neurofibromitosis Type 1" What does this have to do with you getting a woman?? Even blind people have wife and kids, that they will never see. What kind of person are you? Are you the kind of man you would want to hang out with? Yes, an... (read in full...)

Major trust issues. I feel that if I like someone, that I'll get disappointed. How should I address these trust issues?

Q.   Hi there. I am in my early 20s. I have this bad fear of men and a fear of liking someone, more of an attachment. Before, I'd thought that it was a phase that I was going through and I'll get it over with but nothing seems to change as I grew int...

A.   27 July 2016: "I never thought of admitting to my feelings." "It's more of like killing the feeling before it starts" Well...When you start blocking your proper feelings, what is left to interact with someone??? NOTHING!! When you realize you have nothing... (read in full...)

How do I get over extreme loneliness?

Q.   I talked to a guy on Tinder for about a month and after dating a week, we hooked up multiple times. He was interested in something sexual immediately and initially I was only seeking something romantic and a possible relationship. I hadn't been with ...

A.   27 July 2016:  How exactly are you a loser??? Why...because you would not have sex right away with a guy you just met, or the fact that you are doing the right thing by wanting a relationship instead of being a booty call? You would have felt like a loser if you ... (read in full...)

How can I get my son to sleep through the night?

Q.   My son is 8 months old. He wakes up EVERYNIGHT between 2-3am. Usually goes to bed between 8-9pm. .. he never sleeps through the night. Any tricks to get him to sleep through the night?...

A.   27 July 2016:  My son did the same thing...found out he was hungry. couple table spoons of rice formula in his last bottle of the night...and boom...slept right through. He was only 3 months old at the time. When my daughter came along and she started doin... (read in full...)

I'm tired of waiting for my boyfriend to come up with the dowry!

Q.   Hey everyone....first of all I am African, so no judging please. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. When we started dating he was so excited about our relationship. He actually told after 3 months of dating that he couldn't wait to ...

A.   25 July 2016:  You do realize this is a warning for you right?? If he cannot man up now as a boyfriend...you really think he will man up as a husband?? Look at the warnings you are giving yourself... "he is good at making plans but no action" "I h... (read in full...)

If I can't control my moods I'll lose him

Q.   I don't even know where to start, I lost my mum at the beginning of the year and ever since then I feel my life spiralling out of control. Especially my relationship, I have the best boyfriend in the world and I'm not 100 per cent sure why he's st...

A.   25 July 2016:  So let me ask you this.... You are doing everything you can to drive you boyfriend away, and then you feel "insecure" that he will leave you? Sounds about right? Will he get tired of your behaviour...yes...everyone h... (read in full...)

How do I overcome the tremendous sense of guilt I feel towards my ex husband?

Q.   I realize i was only infatuated with my ex husband. I never loved him. Being a college grad and coming out of my parental reclusiveness, i released myself to passionate moments. I knew i did wrong because my mother always imposed the rule of ...

A.   21 July 2016:  Life has brought you to school...and you passed. How did you pass? "Now that i am older i realize many things. I learned things i didn't know before." This is what life is all about. Learning from your mistakes and doing better the next time... (read in full...)

Why am I such a loser at 41? Where have I gone wrong?

Q.   I have posted a few times about individual problems and worries and have always received help from this forum. Instead of going to a therapist - and I did it 2 years ago - I'm here to ask you what I'm doing wrong. I am of Asian origin and was r...

A.   21 July 2016:  Here is where you went wrong... WAY WRONG!!! "What hopes do I have? I try and make friends but my circumstances hold me back." The moment you let this kind of thinking into your life...that is the moment your life started going down hill. ... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever wasted 10 years of their life and not lived to regret it?

Q.   This could be very long but I will keep it short. Has anybody ever wasted 10 years of their life.. And lived enough not to regret it. This holds me down badly. ...

A.   21 July 2016:  The best part is...You realized you have wasted a lot of your life. GOOD!!! Now that you know...you have two choices. Question... 1) Sit there and complain about how bad you feel about wasting all that time. OR 2) Now that you know ... (read in full...)

Should I leave everything and everyone I know for love?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 2 and a half years. We go to college together, and graduate in May. He is from California; I am from NYC. I love NYC and he loves California, and we love each other very much -- we want to stay tog...

A.   11 July 2016:  "He loves the laid back atmosphere of California, and hates the cold weather (he has SAD). I love the bustle of NYC, and get carsick at the drop of a hat, and migraines come with the carsickness; I also hate the idea of living in the subu... (read in full...)

Due to a chronic pain issue I cannot go ahead with this pregnancy. But is my reaction to this termination normal?

Q.   I've just found out I'm pregnant. I am in a happy relationship. We are both at university and have no money. I have 3 kids, he has 2 from our first marriages. This baby was not planned. I am 5 weeks. Due to circumstances including a chronic pain...

A.   8 July 2016:  I wish every woman felt the way you did. Some women do this without so much as a thought. I know a lady who was texting her friends about how mad she is, because she would not be able to attend a party of a cute guy, due to her terminating her baby... (read in full...)

My husband’s sister seems to be in love with him!

Q.   Is my sister in law in love with my husband? Long story short weve been married for 7-8 yrs now 2 beautiful kids..he has a younger sister theyre 9 yrs apart and every time shes around she does anything to get his attention.. she seems to be jealous ...

A.   8 July 2016:  Why are you blaming her anyway??? Have you taken a good look at your post?? Seems like your husband is the one to blame here, not the sister. She can only do what HE allows her to do...and from what I see, he is allowing a lot.... (read in full...)

Is it me that is making women act like this?

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm looking for some advice. I am a male who was abused both psychologically and physically. I am no longer in that relationship but I have been on my own for many years now. I do have difficulty in letting other people in ...

A.   8 July 2016:  Given her another chance to do what? Make you feel worst about yourself? Do not thing this kind of thing is over. Life will keep sending you people like this in general...just to test you. To see if you have learned to stay away from such pe... (read in full...)

Should I move to win love?

Q.   Most of the girls in my home town only see me as a friend by this stage of my life, Any that i managed to be romantically involved with never lasted longer than 2 dates. By logic I am clearly the problem here. I'm too nicey nice and can't be the ...

A.   8 July 2016:  If you feel the problem is you...then what are you moving from?? You cannot move away from yourself...and no matter where you go, you will still be bring the problem with you. Being nice in not a problem for any woman. Having a direction in... (read in full...)

I am cheating on my current boyfriend with my ex, how do I get out o this love triangle?

Q.   I need advice and please bear with me and this long post! So my boyfriend (I'll call him Oliver) and I have been together for 5 months now and we're very happy together. He's sweet as can be and he treats me like a princess. My ex (I'll call him ...

A.   8 July 2016:  You never go back to what you have lost. Always move forward and onward to better things...hopefully. I am sure you would not like you current boyfriend to do the same thing to you right?... (read in full...)

Dealing with grumpy attitudes

Q.   Hello, I am here seeking advice I suppose, because I'm finding myself in a rather frustrating situation. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half, we also live together. When he's happy, he's sweet and loving and witho...

A.   6 July 2016:  Why should your mood change because his does?? Your mood is not attached to his. Ever hear the saying "Misery loves company"? I other words, when misery comes knocking, it wants to make sure everyone is in the same miserable mood. Why shoul... (read in full...)

What satisfaction do some men get from sleeping with so many different women?

Q.   What satisfaction do some guys get from sleeping with so many different women? Seriously, what satisfaction does one get from this? It really perturbs me that there are men like this out there. Men who think it's nothing to sleep with their friend's ...

A.   5 July 2016:  Unfortunately...A lot of women have began doing the same thing as men as well. Sex is like the ultimate drug to a man...And like any powerful drug, the more you use it, the more you want it. They would do anything, go anywhere, and do just abou... (read in full...)

She thinks it looks cool. Anything I can say, or do, to change her mind about smoking again??

Q.   I apologize in advance for anything I'm not making sense on. I've had this issue before and now its cropped up again but this time it's even worse. Just over 4 months ago me and my girlfriend finally came to an agreement that she wouldn't smoke c...

A.   5 July 2016:  Ever heard the saying "You can lead a horse to water, but you cannot focus it to drink"? We all have to go down our own road of suffering. You holding on to her and trying to stop her from going down that road, is like trying to stop a truck... (read in full...)

Is it because I'm moody? Or is my partner acting abusively towards me?

Q.   I think I may be in an emotionally abusive relationship but honestly I'm not sure whether I'm just being silly or not. I can be a very moody person sometimes and often can be quite snappy, so I don't want anyone to think I'm wholly blaming my partn...

A.   5 July 2016:  CindyCares is right...You are in one again. If there is rust in your relationship, then there is no need to ask who you are talking to, or question you about anything. It's not time for you to be brave...You already did that by bring up the... (read in full...)

Freedom to interact with others curtailed due to family rules. Why can't people leave things alone?

Q.   Every social media I get is ruined for me! I used to be on live journal a long time ago, when I was 16. i tried to use it when no one was looking but when my dad backdated the computer, he saw it and browsed but only came up with my username. I...

A.   4 July 2016:  Question...Do you have a job? Do you pay for your own phone bill? I am a parent of a soon to be twenty year old...female. So I can in some ways see where your parents are coming from, in trying to control the use of your phone. Not saying ... (read in full...)

How can I take a stand on my controlling sister? She is making life difficult.

Q.   My sister and I are very close, she's always had insecurities but her current boyfriend seems to be making them worse, not by abuse at all, but lack of attention and assurance. He suffers from anxiety which leads him to be distant with no sex drive ...

A.   4 July 2016:  Honeypie is right. Your life, you live it. Start letting her control you, then everyone else will do the same. If this guy is screwing her up this bad...guess what she needs to do? The question is not how do I take a stand...it should be ... (read in full...)

Now separated and some of the men I meet are a disappointment. Why are they so blunt about asking for sex when they don't know me?

Q.   I was married for 20 years and now dating again as I separated from my husband. Nothing tragic, just grew apart though still friends and civil with each other. One daughter, away in college who is really cool with the situation . Men I meet: ...

A.   4 July 2016:  They figure you are separated and most likely due to the lack of sex in your marriage. Lonely woman...so she must be in need of a man. Those guys are what I call scavengers. Looking for the weak, depressed, lonely, and sad. Just circling aro... (read in full...)

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