Why am I sexually attracted to older men? Much, Much older men.
Q. I am sexually attracted to older men probably around the ages of 40-60's. I never been with an older man, but I fantasize about having sex with them. I tried reading about people with this "issue", but most of them like older men because of their ...
A. 14 October 2010:
Some women find older men sexy because of a certain type of maturity younger men do not have. Older men would normally take time in the bedroom, while younger men would rush everything.
Those are some of the reason I know of.
Your feelin... (read in full...)
Whenever I want to have a relationship, it never works out!
Q. Alright I'm pretty sure this is said quite a bit but here goes... I'm an attractive guy I'm told quite a bit all through high school and middle school. I am always called and sent messages on my phone and facebook about my lady friends wanting ...
A. 14 October 2010:
Mainly those girls are also trying to sort out their lives as well. At 20 years, you should more concern about a good job, and being able to provide for that special someone you want to pour your heart out to. Last thing you want to be pouring out ... (read in full...)
Wife is driving me crazy! Can't I have a morning to myself?
Q. My wife is driving me crazy. I have been unemployed for the last few months and finally found a new job that I started last week. When I was off work, I woke up with the kids each morning because I'm a pretty early riser. I would get them r...
A. 10 October 2010:
Why don't you just rotate weekends? This weekend, you sleep in, next weekend it's her turn.... (read in full...)
Can my boyfriend force me to give up our child?
Q. I'm 20 years old and I might be pregnant. I've only ever been with one guy (my bf of a year and a half) and I've always told him that if I got pregnant by accident, the only option for me would be to keep it. I've scheduled a doctor's appt to find ...
A. 5 October 2010: Yes your boyfriend can force you "IF" he was carrying the child for 9 mouths, have all the back pains, swollen feet, weight gain, sore breast,labour pains, and the joy of pushing a watermelon through something as big as his mouth.
When he can do a... (read in full...)
How do I improve my low libido?
Q. i am 19yo and i have a low labito... i have a 10mth old baby and i have been with his father for 5 years now.... i love him a lot... and im attracted to him.... there are times when i really want to have sex with him.. but when it comes time to do ...
A. 4 October 2010:
Sexy starts in the mind, not the body. I have seen woman with amazing bodies and don't have a sexy mind...Then it's just a body.
I have seen bigger women make men drool...because they put their mines to it, and their body has no choice but t... (read in full...)
Men only question, would you be interested in a woman like me??
Q. For men only! I have 34c breasts. I weigh 165 am 5' 10" dirty blonde hair. I am shy. My eyes are brownish green. By what I told u would u be interested in me?...
A. 1 October 2010: Yes...But what are you like on the inside??... (read in full...)
I am giving him a deadline. By next fall, he needs to be in a school or have a good steady job, or I am not going to be with him.
Q. I'm having a few problems with my boyfriend of 3 years. First off, he is not in college and doesn't have a job. He graduated high school last year, but he never even applied to a school until after. He does not have a job either. He goes around ...
A. 29 September 2010:
Wow...serious respect...good for you...and man do you have patience. Respect.... (read in full...)
I want to get back with her but she has already started dating again! What should I do?
Q. So here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broke up like 2 weeks ago and apparently after a few days of us being seperated she's already began dating someone else that she met when she was still with me. Suffice to say this isn't a good ...
A. 29 September 2010:
If you broke up, she is no longer your girlfriend.
If she is dating already...good. Better now, that after you got married.
She is only one girl in a world full of them...in fact, I think there are 5 females to every one guy.
So...happy h... (read in full...)
When naked, do women still want to be treated with respect?
Q. I have found that when women are naked, they still want to be treated with respect. And I don't have the answers to all life's questions, but I want to know something...Do women prefer being treated with respect, or do the enjoy being ...
A. 29 September 2010:
My rule...treat everyone they way you want to be treated. Unless they tell you otherwise.... (read in full...)
Is it time to leave?
Q. i have been with my current partner for 11 years. he refuses to get a job to help with the bills. If he gets any money he will spend it on drink. he is verbally abusive and on a few occasions in drink he has been physically abusive. i am at the end ...
A. 29 September 2010:
From the moment he raised his hand, you should been gone before that hand came down.
Unless you are waiting for us to come help you pack :)... (read in full...)
Can anyone decipher what he is saying?
Q. A friend of mine and I have been exchanging sms and chats for sometime now. Recently I suggested that we meet for lunch, and added in jest ' unless you prefer dinner' to which he replied ' Either is fine !..I am not scared of you " I just didn't ...
A. 29 September 2010:
It means he like you, and he is not afraid to be seen with you, for lunch or dinner. Pretty much it.... (read in full...)
Are careless people happy?
Q. I'm asking because I see so many people who don't seem to fear anything. They are at easy with every situation, they don't put much effort into whether things go the right or the wrong way. When it comes to serious stuff, they just do what they have ...
A. 29 September 2010:
You heard the saying"look before you leap". Who ever does not think about what they are about to do, and just be careless and leap...they will pay for it later.
Wise people question there own actions before they question others. Fools do not... (read in full...)
Does the pain ever go away?
Q. Hi, This may not be the right place for my Q but I thought I'd ask it anyway. My father very suddenly collapsed and died in my arms over 20 yrs ago although it feels like yesterday. Each year on the anniversary of his death (today) I a...
A. 29 September 2010:
The pain will never go away unless you let it go. No matter how sad or down you get, it will not change what happened.
Be happy and thankful that you had him for as long as you did. You got to know your father or even spend time with him.
... (read in full...)
We have been together 17 months now and we still have not had sex!
Q. Okay so about a year and a half ago, I was at a small house party with a few friends and I met a guy, I was only 16, and although I wasn't a virgin, sex was the last thing on my mind. Me and this guy fancied each other and we exchanged phone numbers ...
A. 29 September 2010:
Then wait until you are married...After that...hehe...Make up for lost time.... (read in full...)
Questions about sex and boys.....
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Does it hurt when a girl has sex for the first time? And are boys attracted to girls with big butts or unattracted?...
A. 29 September 2010:
Sex will hurt a lot the first time if the guy only care about himself. If he cares about you and what you might be feeling, he would go slow, and take his time. Then the experience can be good for both of you.
As for butts...it depends on t... (read in full...)
What's a cute idea for a gift to buy for my boyfriend?
Q. Is there anything that is cute and not cheesy that a girl can buy a guy to show that misses him. But mind you, I wont take him back until he changes the way he treats me....
A. 20 September 2010:
So you are buying him a gift so he can treat you better? Or, do you wait for him to treat you better and then buy him a gift...which one is it?... (read in full...)
I've never had sex because I'm not comfortable about my penis size
Q. Ok so I'm a 19 year old male, and I've had sex before I just never felt comfortable due to my penis size. Nobody has ever said that it's small or anything but a lot of people try it on with me and I'm always afaid that my penis isn't big enough. My ...
A. 20 September 2010:
So do you have a bigger one you can use??? Why not just swap them out. If not, use what you got.
Let me tell you this much…You are thinking like a typical man, who believes his penis is the only thing to please a woman.
Your penis should... (read in full...)
She wont talk about what happened! How do I deal with this?
Q. we have been friends for 13 years and i fell for her 1 year ago its been awkward,but we manage to stay friends.well she started staying at my place off and on, she would sleep on my bed, and out of respect i would only sleep next to her with no ...
A. 20 September 2010:
She could have been very embarrassed by the fact she was having her period. She might not have known before you started playing around. However when she realized, it could have upset her.
She may also just want to be friends, very good friends... (read in full...)
Will I regret cutting off contact with him?
Q. So I recently deleted my ex and blocked him off a social networking site. I also deleted all the pictures I had of him and threw away some things. He hadn't responded to a happy birthday I sent him and did not send back some of my possessions like i ...
A. 16 September 2010:
YES..you will regret it one day!!! You will regret you hadn't deleted everything sooner!
... (read in full...)
How to change the taste of vaginal fluids?
Q. I want to know how to make vaginal fluids taster sweeter, besides eating pineapple.....because I don't really care for pineapple lol. Does cranberry juice work? And maybe an increased intake of peaches and melons? If so, how much juice do I need to ...
A. 14 September 2010:
Yes...You can hold his head there until you are done. Get him breathing tube if you have to.
Personally, the natural flavour is not to be messed with. If I went down on a woman and she taste like cranberry juice...I am gone :)
If he likes... (read in full...)
Ex broke up with me 5X and now wants to try again
Q. here we go, my ex boyfriend who ive been dating for about a year (on and off) but not dating anymore, just told me he loved me , i know somwere i will always have a place for him in my heart but he broke up with me 5 times within our relationdhip. ...
A. 14 September 2010: Well unless you are planing on getting to an even number before you have enough, then go for it.
5 times...spin that around in your head for a while....and you get...5 times that somebody thought you were not good enough for them, but wants a ... (read in full...)
I'm scared being unemployed will make my boyfriend think less of me
Q. Just when everything has been seeming perfect with my bf, my worklife has taken an uncertain plunge. I feel sleepless and agonized and he tries to help, but in all the wrong ways. I want so much for us to work out, and I am scared to death that my ...
A. 14 September 2010:
I don't think you have to worry about your boyfriend thinking less of you, as you are thinking less of yourself.
Most of the time we make people see our faults by freaking out about it. If he loves for real, then he will love you job or not. ... (read in full...)
Do guys like calm girls or hyper girls?
Q. I read somewhere that guys don't like hyper girls, who are always excited all the time. Like they think that the girl is trying to get attention and its lame that they are so excited about little things. It has been researched that most guys don't ...
A. 14 September 2010: I like girls that are both.
Most importantly, they need to know when they should be calm, or hyper. Doing it at the wrong time can be anoying.
... (read in full...)
I feel like my life is crashing down around me!
Q. hey i knw this sounds silly but i feel lik my life is crashing down around me. everything seems to be going wrong, i have a job but its only part time so i have no money. i want to learn to drive but have no money to do this, so im stuck either in ...
A. 14 September 2010:
It's not always how your life is now, it's what you plan to do with it that counts.
It's like someone saying they hate being fat...ok...good. Now what? What are you going to do about it?
You have no money...do you work? You have legs, so wh... (read in full...)
Why do guys watch porn while they are in a stable relationship?
Q. Why do guys watch porn WHILE they are in a stable relationship? I found TEEN porn on my bf's computer. That makes me feel not good enough. Why do guys watch it, what is so interesting. I cant stand the thought that my bf is watching at other ...
A. 13 September 2010:
Where do you want to sart???
Most guys growing up are never told what to expect when their hormones are going at warp speed. Same as you ladies, where no one tells you about your period and you have to learn the hard way.
Most guys don't k... (read in full...)
Do guys like girls that act like they aren't into them?
Q. Do guys like the nice girls or do guys like the ones who will say no and wait and hour to text them back or just pretend that they arent really that into them?...
A. 6 September 2010: Jmtmj...is right. ... (read in full...)
How can I stem this flow of rumours that's going about?
Q. ok, so my ex ended things in may, and since then ive got together with a girl i really like, my ex used to lie about a lot of things, like being stalked, or boys going for her in school ect, but i was able to deal with it, because i felt like if i ...
A. 5 September 2010:
Rumors like this one, you leave alone and live your life. If people around you see that you are living your life as happy as can be, they will soon realize your ex is a head case. When you react to stupid people, what does that make you? Yep, just... (read in full...)
She kissed another guy and I'm really upset about it. What to do next?
Q. guys i neeed help pleaaaase.. my girlfriend just told me a guy in her class kissed her while they were on a break. they were talkin and he just kissed her :S i dont know what to do. i didnt even shout at her i just said ' okay' and left her. she...
A. 5 September 2010:
Well let’s see the good in this? If it was me…As long as my girl didn’t start it, I would be proud that I have a woman so hot, and sexy, that other men want her, but can’t. so they try and steal a kiss when I get the whole package. Do you want a wo... (read in full...)
Lost in high school, lost in life generally
Q. I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's ...
A. 5 September 2010:
Hi there,
Been down that road myself, until I was about 17 years old and realized why I was doing all that. I wanted my family to be proud of me in with school. I did not want to end up in bad situations that I heard my family talking abou... (read in full...)
Do girls really judge how their boyfriends look even if they love them?
Q. hey guys i need some really reeally really good advice here coz i need it have u ever felt that ur girlfriend is just too good for u to the point that u would even think that she may cheat on u ? im not a bad looking guy but the problem is not h...
A. 3 September 2010:
Have you ever heard the saying “Love is blind”, Real love is. You said the problem is not with you…Fact is…It’s all you.
You are trying to feel what you think she should be feeling. If she didn’t want to be with you, she wouldn’t be. If you k... (read in full...)
I don't like kissing, and can't see ever liking it
Q. I'm a 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Recently, I started talking to a boy who works across the street from me and I've gone on a few dates with him. He and I share a lot of the same interests and get along well, but I am not enjoying ...
A. 3 September 2010:
Is there anything from your past that might make you feel this way now?... (read in full...)
Trying to relate to my g/f's son
Q. Gonna get straight to the point here. My girlfriend has a small boy aged 2, who I think the world of, but, I'm incredibly shy around him. I have got a lot better around him but I find it very hard to talk to him when anyone else is around, I just ...
A. 3 September 2010:
How was your relationship with your Dad?
The best way to talk to any child is to talk to them as a person. They only difference between two years old and 42 years old, is the size difference.
People think if you are 2 years old they must ... (read in full...)
Why do girls never look at me?
Q. Why do girls NEVER look at me? At work, when I'm out, my mate's friends, sister's friends, whoever. No girl seems to give me a glance, or at least they don't want me to catch them glancing. Some look and when I see them they look away. Is this ...
A. 3 September 2010:
First off...How do you carry yourself?? I don't mean what you are wearing… but your personality. Are you a happy guy, or do you work around like you have to weight of the world on your shoulders?
Do you smile at people before they smile at you... (read in full...)
Our sex life has begun to get really boring. How can I talk to him about this?
Q. when i first got with my boyfriend our sex life was very exciting and never boring and now its got really boring and he dont last long anymore its over so quick how can i talk to him about it with out hurting his feeling and what could i do to try ...
A. 2 September 2010: Sex will get boring if things have become routine. Sometimes a direct talk maybe needed. Other times, it may not be exactly what you say, but what you do.
Example...If you are trying to teach a child how say the name of a toy, you would point at... (read in full...)
My fiance of 5 years has just left me, is there any way to make me feel better?
Q. I've been dumped by my fiancé of five years. Is there anything anyone could suggest that might make people feel better?...
A. 2 September 2010: The only way to feel better after being dumped, is to dump all those sad lonely feelings you are having right now.
If a guy dumps you, why should sit around remembering all that you had? He did not want you for what ever reason, so why should k... (read in full...)
Should I wait till after her exams to bump into her?
Q. does this cause distraction to my crush ? my mutual crush is having some exams for past 1 week,so i am not able to see her or meet her as she doesn't come out of her home ,i am missing her more than usual,so is it ok to bump in to her intention...
A. 2 September 2010:
First off...Do not read too much into this unless she has a crush on you too.
Considering you haven't talked much and therefore don't know how she truely feels about you.
As for the rest...Vintage64 is right.... (read in full...)
Can I still ask this girl out?
Q. Hey Everyone. My question is this: I used to work in a pet shop with this girl that I always liked, but whenever I told myself "Right, I'm gonna ask her out next time", it's as if my balls dropped off whenever I tried. I THINK she may have liked m...
A. 2 September 2010:
For some who worked in a pet shop, you sure having learnt anything from the pets.
Do you see dogs being shy about going up and sniffing each other? What about when a female dog in ready to mate? Maile dog takes a good sniff to make sure, and aw... (read in full...)
He loves me like a sister now. Can he fall back in love with me?
Q. is it possible for a guy who used to be in love with you, but now loves you like a sister, to ever fall in love with you again?...
A. 2 September 2010:
You want to go backwards because??
Don't you want to move forward with your life? Or do you feel that he is the only guy that would love you?
If you keep waiting to fall back in love, you will never meet the guys waiting to fall in love with... (read in full...)
Any experiences of love spells working
Q. Has anyone tried a love spell? Did you have any success stories, please share them and share the love spells. Please can you provide a love spell for me as I want my partner back so loving and for him to be faithful and worship me. Plea...
A. 2 September 2010:
The best love spell I know is called the "brian". Having a brain that knows what love is, what is needed to give, recieve, and maintain love, is a magic all to itself.
Add a seductive mind, and body willing to be seduce...Fir... (read in full...)
Masturbation and women.
Q. It has been written and surveys have been done that men and women do masturbate.It came out clear that men are likely to admit to having masturbated rather than women.So it begs the question why do they deny having done it.In my opinion i think it ...
A. 2 September 2010:
Cocoqueen88 is right.
Society has women branned as men pleasers, not self pleasers. But a woman who knows how to please herself and her man, is right up there with gold.... (read in full...)
Struggling with my wife’s past.....
Q. Hi I have been married for 3 years, and been in the relationship for 5 years. Before we got married, my wife told me about her past, the number of guys she has slept with which is 4.When she told me I felt uncomfortable proceeding with ...
A. 1 September 2010:
Did you have sex with other women before you met her?
As for the other guys laughing at you...Yes they are... Because you are spending your time thinking about them, and they don't even have a thought about you.
You can divorce her if you l... (read in full...)
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