I'm growing uncomfortable with his questions! Should I go meet him for coffee?
Q. Dear Cupid, I met a 41 year old guy who describes himself as sophisticated, also wants a sophisticated lady, online.He writes he is ready for a new relationship. He writes he has never been married, has no children and lives alone. He has a ...
A. 9 November 2017: Hi OP,
Do you not see the warning sign???
Let's flip this around and use yourself. Do you see yourself a sophisticated woman, with a bachelor's degree, and not having a chance to be married, have kids, and surrounded by good things??
If y... (read in full...)
Is this a sign that we are meant to be together?
Q. I want to pray to God and ask him if he is the one, but I also know I cannot make anyone love me. He is my ex, but I believe he came back into my life recently for a reason. We took time apart (a whole year) to grow and we now have a stronger ...
A. 6 November 2017: Hi OP,
First of all...GOD would never send you an ex boyfriend to marry. He has already shown you that he is the wrong guy, by making him your ex. However, you know who will send the wrong person back into your life.
Do not be fooled. If you w... (read in full...)
Is this a sign that we are meant to be together?
Q. I want to pray to God and ask him if he is the one, but I also know I cannot make anyone love me. He is my ex, but I believe he came back into my life recently for a reason. We took time apart (a whole year) to grow and we now have a stronger ...
A. 6 November 2017: Hi OP,
First of all...GOD would never send you an ex boyfriend to marry. He has already shown you that he is the wrong guy, by making him your ex. However, you know who will send the wrong person back into your life.
Do not be fooled. If you w... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with the father of my children
Q. Almost 50 and extremely horny. All I want is to have sex with the father of my children. We haven't been together for over 12 years. We broke up because he hooked up with best friend and things havent been the same. Getting back together isn...
A. 16 October 2017:
How will you know if the right man for you is out there, if you keep the wrong man in your life??
There is man out who could rock your world like never before. But you will never know unless you let go.
The fact that you are horny should dri... (read in full...)
Men don't see me as dating material - why?
Q. Hi, you know how people like to use the term "friendzone" in situations when girls only see guys as friends? Well, i'm the opposite. I'm a 25 yo girl and find that most guys see me as a buddy or undateable. I've gone on dates with guys but nothing ...
A. 16 October 2017:
Hi Op,
Men will see you as YOU see yourself. If you believe you are a buddy rather than a babe...that is what you will project outward, and that is what we see...a buddy.
You have what we need...but if you don't give us something to chase a... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife have a young lover since I can't perform as I once did?
Q. My wife (aged 55)and very attractive, and I have been married for 24 years and over the last 3 years I (aged 57) have had trouble maintaining an erection during sex, I have tried all the usual medications but I get side effects from them, so I have ...
A. 12 October 2017:
The penis is NOT the only means in which to satisfy a woman. You have two hands, a tongue, lips, and teeth. I am sure you also have a credit card, which leads to a good sex...that YOU can use on her.
Let her fantasise all she wants...but ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me, it took me 2 years to get over him and now he wants to try again
Q. At what point can you be sure you have forgiven someone for hurting you, and take them back? 3 years ago my then boyfriend of nearly 2 years left me for someone else. It took me a long time to get over it, but I did. I never really forgot he...
A. 12 October 2017: Let me put it this way...
My dog tore my arm off...should I keep playing with it???
What do you think??... (read in full...)
We broke up because he was obsessed with women
Q. Looking for some feedback, especially the guys out there, interested in your take on this. My relationship has very recently ended and was a long time coming,This man made me feel uncomfortable, disrespected, less than and so much more. The worst ...
A. 11 October 2017:
Over reacting...You didn't react fast enough over his stupidity. Surprise you didn't shove his head through the TV.
Let him go make sweet love to the TV.
You cannot have the right guy in your life, while keeping the wrong one around.
Happy... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend want to delete his exes from facebook?
Q. Why doesnt my boyfriend want to delete his exes from fb? Hes sayin that they r just friends and their break up were amicable but i notice a constant interest of them on his posts and messenger and also hints and subliminal comments One of them ...
A. 11 October 2017:
Let me ask you a simple question, that I am sure you did not ask yourself...
Why are dating a man that still has interest in his EXes??
You come in, and see something you do not like, and raises concerns of his commitment to you.
So what d... (read in full...)
My son's father is in jail. My 6 year old is starting to ask questions. What should I tell him?
Q. Aunties and uncles here is my question.. I have a son who is fixing to be 6. His father has been in jail since he was 2. He doesn't get out until 2020. He is in fir a 2nd sex charge. My question is pretty vague I guess.. I'm jist not sure what to ...
A. 11 October 2017:
The truth...it hurts, but it never fails.
Also, use this as a learning lesson for your son. As in...Do not follow in your father's footstep.... (read in full...)
I haven't had any luck dating. Should I give up on love?
Q. Is love not in the cards for me? I have tried online dating and after a couple of dates I realized the men in the sites aren't exactly the type of men that I want. I admit I have taken a year and a half to work on myself after a string of two bad ...
A. 11 October 2017:
Hi OP,
Well you have not dated every man in the world to say you have no luck. Plus if you give up on love, how are you going to find it?
You are most likely looking in the wrong place for that special someone.
Here is site that would b... (read in full...)
The man I am dating doesn't believe in kissing and affection
Q. I am seeing a guy who when I asked says he doesn’t do kissing and affection. I was widowed 9 years ago and this is the first since. I really like this guy but not sure about not kissing although the sex is great. I told him I kind of fell ...
A. 11 October 2017:
This should be your first warning sign...
"He was married and divorced 2 x"
Obviously he has not learned or have enough respect for women.
Do you really think it is normal for a man to treat you this way, just for good sex?
If all you ... (read in full...)
How to move on after a bad relationship?
Q. Hi my name is Danielle and I am 24 years old I am currently single and living with my parents. I am writing this because I do not know how to go on and to move on with life. About a year ago I left my ex boyfriend.. I thought we were soulmates and ...
A. 10 October 2017: Hello Danielle,
First off...No one needs therapy for doing the right thing. Which you did. People need therapy when they keep doing the wrongs things, but expect a good outcome, and cannot understand why things are not getting better.
Some pe... (read in full...)
My wife is another man's slave
Q. My wife is deeply into S and M and I am not. I discovered that she has become the slave of another man, but still professes she loves me. I have allowed her to spend 2 or 3 nights a week with her dom. I don't think I can find any way to give her...
A. 6 October 2017:
I have been doing things the wrong way all this time.
So love is when you let your wife spend 2 or 3 nights with another man as his slave.
No wonder I cannot understand love.
The rest of the World calls this cheating, adultery, and Oh H... (read in full...)
Engaged to be married and have a crush on another woman
Q. So to start off I have been with my fiancé for 11 years since we were both 18. In that time we have both been through a lot, however I have never in the last 11 years had a crush on another woman. She has always been the only women who i had any ...
A. 6 October 2017: "My current fiancé has cheated on me twice in the past"
WOW...I do not know if this is brave, or foolish.
If my partner cheated on me twice, I will not be around to give her a third chance, much less marry her.
But to each their own. Life ... (read in full...)
Is my married boss hoping I will ask her out. ?
Q. Hi this only happens at work lm a guy and really like 2 women 1 is married and find it hard to ask her out for a coffee and chat l feel she's still interested but she wants me to approach her and ask her out l don't think it will happen also cause ...
A. 6 October 2017:
Oh I really hope you get married, or get a girlfriend,that you love deeply. So that some guy can come along takes her away from.
In fact I hope you do not ever get a girlfriend, because you are VERY SELFISH. All you are thinking is about your n... (read in full...)
He doesn't want marriage. Is there anything I can do?
Q. My problem is this, I love my Bf. I'm sure He loves me too. We have lots of things in common. But the saying is also true. No relationship is perfect. Thing is, he have this thing that we are totally opposite about. I am a kind of woman who ...
A. 5 October 2017: "We have lots of things in common."
No you don't.
Be careful why you are in so called love. Loving the idea of having a boyfriend is one thing. Being a love with a man who wants the same future as you, is a totally different thing.
One lo... (read in full...)
Is life passing me by?
Q. Hello everyone, Next month I am turning 30. Every birthday usually leads to some analysis and evaluation but this one at the end decade is feeling like an assessment of whole life. Right now I have MBA degree from one of the best schools around,...
A. 5 October 2017:
You make it sound the 30 years is nothing....You do realize that you had 30 years to die right?? 30 years for some incident to leave you in a wheelchair. 30 years for you to develop some major sickness...cancer, or something else.
Yet you a... (read in full...)
I keep comparing myself and feel like a loser!
Q. How can I stop comparing myself and feeling like a looser - I am 31 and I feel like I haven't accomplished much in life nor have I enjoyed anybting . I come from a broken home - nothing I did was ever good enough - I have two degrees a corporate job ...
A. 5 October 2017:
What are you comparing to? Tell me...Who in this world looks like you, has your body, thinks like you...heck, who else is like you?? So what exactly do you have to compare yourself with?
I love to please people who appreciate it.
I do not ca... (read in full...)
Is this a positive sign or is she just being nice?
Q. My ex broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. I had been working on the things she didnt like about me and I sent her an email updating her on how I have been changing i.e getting better and that I love her and hopefully in future we might cross ...
A. 5 October 2017: NEVER GOOD BACKWARDS!!!
Going back to an ex is like throwing up, and going back to eat it.
The right woman for you, is never in your past...always in the future. If you hold on to your ex, then that leaves no room for the right woman.
Your e... (read in full...)
Does looking at nudes lead to objectifying women?
Q. I understand how wrong it is to regard people as objects. That's why I never stare at hot girls on the street, talk about their bodies or "hit on" them. But privately, I am curious about the female shape (being very inexperienced and never had a ...
A. 5 October 2017: Good sir...YES and NO!!!
Let's start with the NO...Looking at porn or naked women is normal, based on the fact that men were design to chase women.
The yes part...Especially because you say you are inexperienced...DO NOT SPEND YOUR TIME IN YOU... (read in full...)
I think guys just want me for sex
Q. It feels like guys only want me for sex. Every guy to ever show interest in me has somehow indicated that he wants something mainly if not entirely physical. It's made me really conscious and insecure because when a guy asks for my number or flirts ...
A. 5 October 2017:
My Dear,
Every man you meet will want sex with you, if you offer it up. Is this a bad thing? NO!!! WHY?? What if they did not want to have sex with you? Then you would feel like a complete outcast.
The fact that men are after you means, you... (read in full...)
I think it's degrading to give oral if it's not reciprocated and he thinks I owe it to him because I gave it to other lovers!
Q. An Oral Sex Dilemma My boyfriend and I have been discussing about oral sex for a few weeks now. We have very different opinions and want the opinion of outside individuals. I think that it is degrading to give oral when if it is not reciproca...
A. 4 October 2017:
Well...You should be HEADING out to the next man who will not be a jackass about pleasing his woman.
You can wait and waste your time, seeing if he will change. Or...You can change the man, and get what you want.
You should be happy you ... (read in full...)
How to come to terms with my academic failure?
Q. So basically, I've spent the past two years working towards my masters degree as well as working full time. Up until this summer I've been doing really well (average grade 75, on track for a distinction), only to choke in my last few months and ...
A. 4 October 2017: "I'm a perfectionist"
You can try to be as perfect as you want...But you have no control over where life wants to take you.
Many make plans for the rest of their lives. But LIFE itself has no master...It is our master.
People believe they h... (read in full...)
I am not a masturbatory toy!
Q. My fiancé has suffered from delayed ejaculation ever since we met. For over a year he could never reach orgasm with me unless he uses his hand, closed his eyes and tuned me out. Literally I could not speak. I confronted him and it turned out he was ...
A. 4 October 2017:
Life always gives us warnings before we make big decisions. Problem is...we don't listen. We feel if we stick around long enough, yell, scream, get angry, build up resentment, that some how things will change.
Your partner has already dest... (read in full...)
Any tips for choosing Mr Right?
Q. I've never had a relationship longer then two years and those were pretty rocky for a good portion. I've been known to pick the wrong guys and so I'm trying to do things different lately. Marriage is a big goal in life for me and I would like t...
A. 4 October 2017:
Let me give you the secret of find a good man...most of the times.
RULE 1...Check the way he treats his mother. If he loves her and respects her, he will do the same to you.
Warning...Do not date a mama's boy. If his mother has to approv... (read in full...)
How do I address my poor self-image problem?
Q. Hey guys, Sorry for being such a drag with this post, but I'm really down these last 2-3 days and tomorrow is my birthday. Thank you for reading this. To get to the point... I don't think I'm really beautiful, especially to my bf and eternal lov...
A. 4 October 2017: "You should not use outward aids to make yourselves beautiful, such as the way you fix your hair, or the jewelry you put on, or the dresses you wear. Instead, your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and ... (read in full...)
I badly want children but my partner does not
Q. I hope there are some people on this site who can tell me what does male broodiness feel like? Recently my fiancée and i had an abortion (i know mixed feelings and all that). Also my mother had a new baby. The combination of these two things...
A. 4 October 2017: If you are dying of thirst, and in need of a glass water. But someone gave you a glass of Vodka. Should you just accept it, gulp it down, and hope for the best???
Here is what I do not understand. People know how to make simple decisions on what ... (read in full...)
How do I handle his mood swings?
Q. Hello Aunts, I am struggling with an issue that I have with my husband whom i love very much. This is not a new issue but sometimes it gets so ridiculous i stop and think why is this happening? Hubby and i have a pretty good life, we've had ou...
A. 3 October 2017:
Hi OP,
Sorry to say...It matters not what ANYONE is suffering from...Respect, self discipline, kindness to others, is still due.
In fact, the more you are suffering, the kinder, and more respectful you should be....Why?? The very people you ... (read in full...)
I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...
A. 2 October 2017:
Hello Moviegurl,
Hate to say it...But you are caught up a web of pain you cannot win.
Simple reasons...
1) There is a lot of history of resentment in that family mix. Since they resent the father, they will also resent anyone he is wit... (read in full...)
What are the best ways to make new friends?
Q. Recently people have been complaining to me that it is difficult to make friends in the city I currently live in and that most people are either superficial or out for themselves. I agree that busy people with busy lives just dont have time for new ...
A. 2 October 2017:
Smile...Say hello to complete strangers. Look people in the eyes and acknowledge their existence.
You do realise that 20 years ago we did not have this problem. Our phones have cause us to stop talking...more texting to express yourself. Al... (read in full...)
I am tired of feeling unsatisfied and sexually frustrated!
Q. My boyfriend of over 1 year now will not satisfy me sexually. I feel like my needs do not matter to him! When I say I still haven't cum yet. Hes like "well what do you want me to do?" Then I tell him to finger me or something. He usually falls ...
A. 2 October 2017:
You may not be religious...but look at this...
" A man should fulfill his duty as a husband, and a woman should fulfill her duty as a wife, and each should satisfy the other's needs."
If this is what GOD himself had plan for couples, and it ... (read in full...)
How do I control these erections I get so easily?
Q. Hello everyone! I've got sort of an awkward issue, and I'm going to try to make this brief. I get erections incredibly easily and it's starting to annoy me. Especially around my girlfriend. I'm a very physical person, it's how I show affection, ...
A. 2 October 2017:
Good sir...Please... oh please, do not confuse these two things...
" I'm a very physical person, it's how I show affection"
Physical attraction is not affection...WRONG!!!! They are not even close.
Men are confused...They believe beca... (read in full...)
I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend
Q. I want too break up with my girlfriend because i cant satisfy her sexually, ive asked her about it and she claims it could be better but she doesnt know what she wants when i ask her how, i want her to be happy both psychically and mentally. I know...
A. 2 October 2017:
Well...You have an opportunity to learn to please someone who is hard to please...PERFECT!!!
You break up with her...and you will be a weak man indeed.
THINK!!!! If you learn to please a hard to please woman...and let's say things do not wo... (read in full...)
How do I handle his mood swings?
Q. Hello Aunts, I am struggling with an issue that I have with my husband whom i love very much. This is not a new issue but sometimes it gets so ridiculous i stop and think why is this happening? Hubby and i have a pretty good life, we've had ou...
A. 2 October 2017:
Hi OP,
Simple... Say nothing...Just stare at him...every time. When he ask you what you are looking at, you say..." I don't know. I thought I married a good man. A respectable man. But I have not idea who you are." Then get up and walk away.
... (read in full...)
I'd like to be spoiled a bit and shown some appreciation too!
Q. Hi, how do i deal with ex marital jealousy? My husband and i, we've been married for almost 2 years now and we do love each other and all who know us would say we have the "ideal" relationship and marriage. Most unfortunately, within my h...
A. 2 October 2017:
Simple thought...
If your husband spoiled his EX wife like crazy, and that did not work out...You would like to be treated the same way...so that your relationship will be better???
If you and your friend are walking down the road, and you se... (read in full...)
Will men care if I live at home?
Q. Will men care if I don't have my own place? I am 31 years old and I have been hit with a financial hardship in life at the moment. For the first time in my life I am trying to not care what people think and focus on solving my financial situation ...
A. 2 October 2017:
I am old fashion...I still believe it is the man's job to provide for his woman, soon to be wife, and then mother of his kids...then family.
I would rather date a woman who lives at home, than who lives on her own. Cannot bring a lot guys aro... (read in full...)
He's bragged about cheating on me behind my back but denies it when I confront him!
Q. Have been told by strangers, friends and family that my boyfriend of twenty years has bragged about cheating on me every chance he gets when he's working out of town. He actually butt dialed me during one of his bragging sessions to a friend and I ...
A. 2 October 2017: "my boyfriend of twenty years"
You are joking right? 20 years and he has not proposed to you after five years?
You are keeping him around because????? What is going to be your next post....My boyfriend of 40 years has not proposed to me. ... (read in full...)
Why can a woman reject sex but if her boyfriend does it, it's the worst thing ever?
Q. Why does a female get so offended when you reject her from any pleasure? I been in relationship nearly 4 / 5 years. She doesn’t have same sex drive as me, she felt up for it once in our week long holiday, but because I’m so used to not having it she ...
A. 2 October 2017: "I give her everything she wants."
I hear this so often...then you find out...not even close to the truth.
What exactly is everything? Do you truly know what a woman wants?? Most women want from a man, all the things you can not buy in a sto... (read in full...)
Am I lacking backbone?
Q. Hi there, I wonder if you can help me a little further. I am fundamentally unable to deal with mood swings from my wife. They are rare and for the majority of the time we’re absolutely fine. Then suddenly, out of the blue she will descend into wha...
A. 29 September 2017: "I am afraid its going to affect our marriage"
Too Late...Already has, or you would not be here.
"Should I 'Man Up'"
Yes...because you are the man in this relationship.
A husband must fulfil his role as such, and wife must fulfil her r... (read in full...)
I am so madly jealous! How can I overcome this?
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 4 months now, we work together. Me and this girl (both 23 years old) started working at this job at the same time. Obviously every male co worker wanted to hang out with us, since we were new and they all flirted ...
A. 28 September 2017: My dear...No matter what relationship you are in...Jealousy will destroy them all. Jealousy and hate go hand in hand. Jealousy always leads to hate. And hate always leads to ruins.
You are insecure...question is why? Do you feel the other girl has... (read in full...)
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