My teenage daughter is breaking the family apart!
Q. I've been married for 10 years and when I met my husband he inherited my 3 children too who were very young at the time, we have also had a child together... I had just left a violent marriage 6 months earlier and we were all still recovering (the ...
A. 31 May 2014: My dear OP…You are not off the mark, you are feeling sympathy for some who needs full guidance. If the world was a safer place, and OTHER kids had parents who made sure their kids have respect, I would say let her have more freedom. But who is g... (read in full...)
My teenage daughter is breaking the family apart!
Q. I've been married for 10 years and when I met my husband he inherited my 3 children too who were very young at the time, we have also had a child together... I had just left a violent marriage 6 months earlier and we were all still recovering (the ...
A. 30 May 2014: First of all…Your daughter is not breaking your family apart…You are! Yes that’s right you are breaking your family apart. I know you may want to hear some sweet words like “How could she do this to you.” But the fact is, if the parents have not... (read in full...)
Does it take time to fall in love?
Q. I have a question about love. People who are in love, did you fall in love right away or did it take time? When you met your love, did you ever have doubts in the beginning or were you confident he or she was the one? I recently met someone I ...
A. 29 May 2014:
"Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its fait... (read in full...)
Engaged to be married but afraid to do so because I do not want sex
Q. I am 21 years old and engaged to be married. Let me explain some of my background to you so that this makes sense. I went to a very small Christian school all my life (16 kids in a k-12 school) that is attached to my church. I grew up reading ...
A. 29 May 2014: This response is mainly religious based, since religion is being used as a mean of control, and not as GOD intended. I really do not like when so called Christians used GOD’s words to control people. I read the Bible every day, and I learn f... (read in full...)
Is my Bf's outlook on ever or never having children normal?
Q. So my boyfriend loves kids, and he's so cute playing with them etc. however we've talked and he's on the fence about actually having kids. He's absolutely fine with having them if I want em but he just can't see where people find the time for it. ...
A. 27 May 2014:
Kids are an absolute joy to have. But no discipline and your life will never be the same.
True, kids are not pets…They are everything wrong about you and the father. You ever hear people say “I wish I could go back in time and fix some of my m... (read in full...)
I am fit and petite but I have no boobs. He's a boob man. Is there any chance that he'll consider me attractive?
Q. Would you find a woman with a squatting bum, defined stomach/ faint abs and slight thigh gap attractive, even if she was basically flat chested? I only ask because I'm going to a pool party with the guy i'm dating this weekend and I don't want him...
A. 27 May 2014:
I will never understand this boob thing…
Let put this to the test….If men had boobs like women, in different shapes and sizes, and women were also attracted to men’s boobs the way we are to yours. In the end, what would make a woman want to keep... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to enjoy him when the sex is amazing, even though I find him annoying at other times?
Q. So this guy for quite a while has been hitting on me trying to get it on etc even though he knew I found his personality completely annoying. I don't know what it is but he really irritates me. I got very drunk a few days ago and somehow ended up...
A. 27 May 2014:
Would you like him to enjoy you even though he finds you annoying??... (read in full...)
I am planning on having sex outside my marriage
Q. Hello. I have been trying to ask this question for a few times because i am facing a situation in which i am undecided. I will talk honestly. Well i am married since 10 years. I have always loved to appreciate beautiful women. I particularly ...
A. 26 May 2014:
PLEASE...OH PLEASE... GO AHEAD AND DO IT!!!!
GOD has a really good sense of humour :) TRUST ME!!!
If you don't think it will come back to haunt you because as we think "No one will know" or as you said " i won't get any sort of emotional at... (read in full...)
Is it my mood swings or is my husband not interested in me anymore?
Q. Hello. I been been with my husband for 5 years and married for over a year. When we got married and had a baby we stayed at my mums till we found a place since 5 months ago but he never likes to stay there and he prefers to stay at my mum which ...
A. 26 May 2014:
Having a child can put a lot of strain on any relationship, especially if the father is not a hands on Dad. Meaning he is not into being a dad as much as you would like. If the baby wakes up a lot at night and wakes him up too, he may feel the need... (read in full...)
I don't know how to cope with these feelings of being too small!
Q. I need to know who feels the same and how to get rid of these feelings. I feel below women who are more attractive than me (pornstars, glamour models) I feel like they have more power over men, it hurts me. I feel small. I want a boob job. I'm ...
A. 17 May 2014:
First of all let me say, I would NOT date a woman with fake boobs, unless she did it for medical reasons. I do not go the store to buy a fake apple or any other fake product…so why a fake woman.
Most of what I find sexy in a woman’s breast, is s... (read in full...)
What is the deal with people who say all women are bisexual or bi curious
Q. What is the deal with people who say all women are bisexual or at least bi curious? Then they say there are studies to back it up. Maybe so, but studies still cannot speak for every woman in the world. Or men for that matter. It's total bul...
A. 16 May 2014: That is beyond CRAP!! People will say and come up with all kinds of studies to support their habits. Heck, even the smoking companies at one time tried to prove smoking was good for you. Then the said regular cigarettes were "not so good", but ment... (read in full...)
My husband keeps gaining weight and I find it so unattractive!
Q. I'm married to a veteran. We moved to Asia after he got out of the army. He used to look very muscular during his serving time but now after going back to the civil world, he started gaining lots of weight. I know he loves eating and drinking pop ...
A. 16 May 2014:
If your love for your husband is based on his outward appearance alone, then your marriage is in serious trouble. Your husband has done his part for his country, comes home to a “Loving wife”, only to find out the enemy is in his own home. Very... (read in full...)
Married now and sex life has bombed, what to do?
Q. Been married a month, living together 6 months and dating 3 years prior to that. Fabulous sex life until now. It's like as soon as we were married he wasn't interested. There are no worries now except for his job but they're the same worries as b...
A. 1 May 2014: Permit me to be blunt…Well, I don’t know any other way…sorry. But your man is not sleeping and that could be helped with a good shag…there, I said it. Before you got married…it was a hunting game…men are always hunting for sex. But it’s how we... (read in full...)
For the grown folks, what advice would you give to your adult child who is about to move out?
Q. Hey everyone, I just graduated from nursing school and I'm 18 years old and I got a job as a licensed practical nurse, it's feels great and I make a decent pay check :) but I'm thinking about moving out of my former guardians home because I'm not ...
A. 1 May 2014:
Lots of folks will tell you all about money...Good advice. But DO NOT neglect yourself. Know when to turn off your phone, TV, Computer, and so on. Take a vacation, a real vacation. Laugh… a lot. Love everything and every day you wake up…some are ... (read in full...)
My husband never touches or kisses me during sex
Q. I love my husband very much. We get along great. Sex is my only complaint. I'm very sexual and enjoy sex. My husband doesn't kiss or touch me at all when we have sex. Even when I go down on him, nothing...he says he likes it but never touches me or ...
A. 1 May 2014: If you are always the aggressor for sex, that could also turn him off. Men like it when women come to them for sex, yes…but how… is also very important. You ever see animals mating rituals?? The female shows her interest, but makes the male wor... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he's going to go running back to his single life!
Q. Hi everyone, A little advice needed. Me and my boyfriend were together for four years when my parents announced they were moving to a different country for my dads work. I had the option of staying or going with them. After much consideration I ...
A. 1 May 2014: That part of you that keeps thinking he will go back to the single life, will push him back to the single life…NO Relationship is written in stone or blood. The fact that people spend the rest of their lives together is a miracle in itself. ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy because of lack of sexual release? Or is "craziness" determined by genetics alone?
Q. I am far too embarrassed to ask anyone I know about this, so here it is: Can you go crazy from never getting sexual relief? I'm a 25 year old virgin, and I've also never had an orgasm. A long time ago, I believed you didn't need to have...
A. 1 May 2014: My Dear… If you lived in the mountains, sex would be the least thing on your mind. But look at the world we live in. Every movie, TV shows, even commercials are loaded with sexual content. In movies, they make it seem the only reason for living i... (read in full...)
Do you pressure for oral sex?
Q. Do you or your significant other like to give or receive oral sex? If not do you pressure them (the whole "if you love me" thing") or do you leave it alone? I've been with my boyfriend for some years. I don't get sexually frustrated, but I'm tryi...
A. 21 March 2014:
"if you love me" thing" This goes both ways…If he really loves you, he would respect you first. Maybe with some respect he might actually get a little more of what he wants.... (read in full...)
Can long term relationships can work when a woman who is substantially richer than the man?
Q. Dear Cupid, I wondered if you thought long term relationships can work when a woman who is substantially richer than the man? I am a very wealthy woman but I have not been able to find single guys to date who have the same level of wealth as...
A. 21 March 2014:
My question would be…How did you see yourself before the money, and after the money?
I have seen people who were very humble before they had money, turn into “I am high and mighty, meet my demands”, kind of people after the money. If you have ... (read in full...)
Need a place to turn in a marriage where I feel like I have no choice
Q. My stepdaughter has always been a source of problems, particularly when it comes to her relationship with her mother: whatever stepdaughter wants, stepdaughter gets. Over the near 17 years of my marriage I've been mostly able to afford these ext...
A. 12 March 2014: Let me tell you something…real father or not. I would not let any child disrespect me in my house. At 20 years old…GET OUT!!! And if your wife wants to leave with her…have a great life. When my Son and daughter were 16 and 15, and started acting l... (read in full...)
I don't want our relationship to be all about sex, but I feel I am making it that way.
Q. Hey well I am a 20 year old male and I am dating a 22 year old virgin and I know she wants to wait and I do too. The problem is I've been wanting to have sex with her lately really bad. I have been pushing for it and feeling horrible. I love her and ...
A. 5 March 2014:
You want to have sex because you have someone with whom you can have sex with. But keep pushing her into doing something she does not want to, and you may not have her around to push.
You ever heard the saying “desires of the flesh”? That... (read in full...)
Does a past abuse relationship impact on my future relationships? I keep pushing people away.
Q. Hi folks, i have a problem. I was in a rather emotionally abusive relationship that i broke out of almost a year ago and ever since i have been kind of rude and pushing people away to keep from getting close to any women, is this normal? what shou...
A. 27 February 2014: First of all…STOP PUSHING PEOPLE AWAY!!!! You were in an abusive relationship? Wrong!!! You are STILL in an abusive relationship…and no, that is not normal. Why?? You no longer need someone to do the abusing. You have been doing to yourself f... (read in full...)
What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.
Q. my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot...
A. 27 February 2014:
Sometimes the way to teach a man is to show him his own foolishness.
When you are not on your period he wants sex right, of course. The moment he mentions it, or hints of it, you start humming, not listening, even go as far as sleeping on ... (read in full...)
I want this new relationship to go well. How do I make it work? Because I push people away to keep them at an emotional distance from me
Q. in my group of friends i always tend to be the one who comes up with the funny and clever comebacks insults and jokes mostly because i try to keep people at an emotional distance from me while still being "part of the group" (im actually very nice ...
A. 27 February 2014: Well… you have already started your life of wrong by lying! Why oh why if you are a sweet, loving, caring, and generous person, you would want the world to see you as a Jackass??? Do you honestly believe that girls like the bad boy type? They l... (read in full...)
I feel intimidated and insecure due to boyfriend's female friends.
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for just under two years and we had a distant relationship for the majority of that time, although we lived within half an hour of each other for about six months. Just over a week ago we moved into a flat together. I ...
A. 27 February 2014: “These girls are very loud and outgoing and confident and I am shy and introverted.” The statement above says it all. The girls are not the problem, you are. How so? You are the opposite of these girls, and in any situation your reacting ... (read in full...)
I am overreacting or is he purposefully putting me down?
Q. I am older than my husband. He is from a different country and keeps calling me old woman. This has been going on for a while now and I find it very irritatating and annoying and when someone persists in keep saying and doing something that you ...
A. 27 February 2014:
Have you talked to him about it? If you have and he still does it…then ask him this “If you thought I was too old for you, and you were going to complain about it, why you married me?”
Reacting to childish comments just gives him power to boo... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has said "I'm a keeper" multiple times out of no where?
Q. So this past week my bf has said I was a keeper multiple times. Last night he tells me his boss wanted to meet me because he was telling her about me, he said "she's a keeper". Within the past 2 days he's said it 3 times. what does that really mean ...
A. 27 February 2014:
It simply means you are a great girlfriend, and you may be the one he wants to marry someday. He thinks you are so great he wants to show you off, talk to other about you and so on.
So whatever you are doing, keep doing it.
... (read in full...)
We've been talking on the phone for 6 months, dating for 5 weeks, we are a perfect match and he has asked me to move in with him!
Q. I was speaking to a guy on the phone for about 6 months, he always asked me out on a date but going from his picture he wasn't my type. Then my car blew up and he said he knew someone who had a golf so 1 afternoon my mum and 1 went up to see it and ...
A. 25 February 2014:
NOT a good idea. My Grandma told me this when I was 16 years old, and it is the truth… “Come visit me and come live with me are two totally different things.”
When you visit someone or spend time with them, you only see a fraction of their bad... (read in full...)
I am losing sleep and feeling really down on my self because he is having trouble getting over this, he makes me out to be such a horrible uncaring person!
Q. Okay I am having issues getting through a little speed bump with my boyfriend. There has been absolutely no cheating or lying just something from my past he cant get over. We had known each other for quite some time but only started seeing each ...
A. 24 February 2014:
So imagine getting married to a guy like that? If he has this much problems with your past, how can you plan a future? He wants to go out and do whatever he wants, but you should stay a virgin for him. Hate to tell you this, he is no boyf... (read in full...)
My husband went out with another girl while we were engaged and now I'm wondering if it happened more than once!
Q. I am in despair, and don't know what to make of it. I am married for 2 years, and have a 3 months old child. A week ago i found out from a so called "friend", that during the time when we were still engaged my husband went out with a friend o...
A. 24 February 2014: Think about this…A real friend knows that info she is giving could cause problems in your relationship. She would not wait until after you got married to give you the truth. She would try to save you from marrying him in the first place. And what... (read in full...)
Hurtful comments from stranger .........
Q. Today I went to a coffee shop and ordered myself something to drink. While I was about to leave the shop, I walked by a group of guys and they were looking at me and laughing at me. I heard one of the guys said, "did you see that girl?" "Did you get ...
A. 24 February 2014: If these comments followed you everywhere you went by every male and female, then I would say you have a problem. The only problem right now is you, and how you think of yourself. All they said was “Did you see that girl?” and you took that com... (read in full...)
Do I get all these obsessions because I have an itch that was never scratched?
Q. I'm 25 and I've had an ongoing problem for over 10 years now that is only getting worse instead of better. I get obsessions with guys, usually ones I don't know on a personal level. The most recent one was my last supervisor, for example. I knew him ...
A. 21 February 2014: Hi Op…Yes people can tell how you feel just by how you think. Even animals can sense a person’s feelings and react accordingly. Let’s put your mind and the way you see yourself in a woman who is supposed to be sexy…Let’s use a common woman, not ... (read in full...)
Do I get all these obsessions because I have an itch that was never scratched?
Q. I'm 25 and I've had an ongoing problem for over 10 years now that is only getting worse instead of better. I get obsessions with guys, usually ones I don't know on a personal level. The most recent one was my last supervisor, for example. I knew him ...
A. 20 February 2014: “I felt he was the best I could do” “I was a nervous wreck.” “I feel I'm ugly most of the time. I think my grin looks creepy,” “but I still hate my grin.” “I also don't like the way I have to dress and wear my hair” “I don't feel it's attracti... (read in full...)
Drunken mistake with a colleague. How do I deal with this?
Q. Hi...in my place of work there is this guy I work with who I talk to almost al the time at work but now this Friday me and my collegues went out for a drink and we really got wasted that I don't remember most of the things about later that night.. Bu...
A. 20 February 2014:
“ Hi (guy’s name), I want to talk to you about that night. What happen with us should not have happened, and I do not want it happening again. Sorry.”
No matter how it’s done it will hurt if he thinks you have something going. But the truth is... (read in full...)
I don't want to kiss my BF because of his bad breath! What should I do?
Q. So when me and my bf got together, there were no problems, 'cos we hadn't kissed until three days ago. When we kissed, I couldn't help gagging at how horrible his breath tasted. I didn't tell him, though. So I played along. We kissed regularly and ...
A. 20 February 2014:
Tell him the truth for both your sakes. He could have tooth decay or gum disease, which could be very dangerous to his health. He could be avoiding going to the dentist out of fear. But that is one fear he doesn’t want to mess with.
... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex? It's 6 months since I finished the relationship, and this would have been our 6 year anniversary.
Q. Hi aunts, I'm feeling a little low. I was in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We were childhood sweethearts and got to together at the age of 17. I loved him to pieces but the relationship fizzled out after around the 4th year. We stayed ...
A. 20 February 2014: “I eventually ended the relationship” Why did you break up with him only to want to call him up again? You said “he was devastated” when you broke up. So calling him up again would do what exactly? ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.
Q. I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...
A. 20 February 2014: If you fantasize and lust after other women while you are with someone, is it right?? Yes it happens to all of us at some point, both male and female. But is it right? Of course not. But we try to pass it off as normal because we do not want to ... (read in full...)
Any good stories about threesomes?
Q. Anybody have threesome (MFF in my case) SUCCESS stories? You read about how most relationships fall apart after a threesome but surely this is because it was an attempt to save an already dying marriage? Obviously there would be some that couldn...
A. 19 February 2014:
All threesome are great, until the sh*t hits the fan. What works for some, is not for everyone. There are a lot of bad stories for a reason.... (read in full...)
Partner says he wants to be with me forever but has "itches that need scratching" with other women.
Q. I've been with my partner for 5 years. We met at uni. It's a long distance relationship but we are planning in moving in together this year. We are both each other's first sexual partners. I was in a long term relationship before but never had in...
A. 19 February 2014:
I am your boyfriend, and I love you and want you forever. But I need to sexually explore the world at the same time. So stick around baby, because after I screw the world, we will get married and have kids…isn’t that awesome??
Let me now more ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.
Q. I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...
A. 19 February 2014: You ever see a cat play with a mouse before it eats it? Guess who is the mouse? New girl sees you as a challenge. If she knows you have a girlfriend… that makes her even more dangerous. The feelings you have for her is based on lust, not love. Sh... (read in full...)
I feel lonely if I don't see my new boyfriend for a few days, and I want to spend all my time with him. Is this normal?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks now. Trouble is I want to see him every day and spend all my days and nights with him. If I don't see him for more than 2 days I start to feel lonely. Is this normal?...
A. 19 February 2014: Beyond normal…It’s called love. It wouldn’t be called love if you did care to see him every day, right :) Enjoy it.... (read in full...)
I cheated - is there any way to fix this?
Q. So I've been dating my boyfriend that's about 8 years older than me for over two years now. For the last six months or so, I feel like our relationship has been quite stale and stagnate. I have learned to accept this because he is in his 30s and I'm ...
A. 19 February 2014: “At first, it didn't bother me because I really enjoyed myself but now,” Alcohol or not, it would have happened eventually. The alcohol just made it happen sooner, because you wanted to do it. You would have felt guilty the moment you sobered u... (read in full...)
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