How can I get over feeling I'm too old to have a girlfriend at 26? How should I flirt, talk to and approach women?
Q. The fact i'll be 27 in a few weeks and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet, obviously still a virgin, the fact that I didn't have my first girlfriend and didn't lose my virginity around the age-range most people do just makes me bitter and ...
A. 15 May 2015: "I want to experience a couple of break-ups, drama, even if it means getting cheated on, before i'm ready to get married and settle down."
Folks this is the truth about the saying "Misery loves company".
Here you are already depressed and sw... (read in full...)
How can I get over feeling I'm too old to have a girlfriend at 26? How should I flirt, talk to and approach women?
Q. The fact i'll be 27 in a few weeks and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet, obviously still a virgin, the fact that I didn't have my first girlfriend and didn't lose my virginity around the age-range most people do just makes me bitter and ...
A. 14 May 2015: WHOA!!! Hold up there!!! Young people are foolish when it comes to relationship, dating, sex, love, emotions, and all that stuff. It takes most people into their 30's to figure out just what they want from the opposite sex in order to settle d... (read in full...)
How long to wait before having sex with a guy? Not sure what to do
Q. How long should you wait before having sex with a guy? Ok, I met this lovely guy in September, we've been on 5 dates, third date he kissed me and stayed at mine, fourth date same and fifth date same too. He lives out of London, so we usually go ou...
A. 23 December 2014:
What is you vagina worth??? A few month, a few years, or a ring? Choice is yours. :)
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My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?
Q. Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...
A. 23 December 2014: Your wife is doing exactly what she should do. Why?? Because you are not doing it!!! When a man lacks his manliness so to speak, the wife automatically picks up the slack, and becomes something she is not...the Husband. So what does the husband ... (read in full...)
How can I get over feeling I'm too old to have a girlfriend at 26? How should I flirt, talk to and approach women?
Q. The fact i'll be 27 in a few weeks and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet, obviously still a virgin, the fact that I didn't have my first girlfriend and didn't lose my virginity around the age-range most people do just makes me bitter and ...
A. 23 December 2014: Are you okay??? Your mind has gone to the North, South, East, and West poles... WHAT!!! Who on GOD's green Earth gave you all this information?? There is one sure way to pick up any and all women...100% for sure...Ready?!?!? Okay h... (read in full...)
Am I better off dating someone within my own culture/race?
Q. Five years in an interracial relationship with a man fifteen years older than me. I thought I loved him but now, I'm unsure. Holiday season is depressing. I've never been invited to a family dinner or functions and I hate it. My friends are always ...
A. 22 December 2014:
What culture and race is love?? As "Anonymous" said, respect is the key. You cannot love someone you don't respect.
All men have the same body parts on the outside, but the inside is what makes the difference.... (read in full...)
I said " I love you" but he said he doesn't love me but is enjoying our time together.
Q. I told my bf I loved him after 1 year. He stood quiet and didn't say anything. I left home and all day he did not call or text me. I called him late to talk and he basically said that he doesn't love me but is only enjoying time with me. He ...
A. 22 December 2014:
You are looking for love from someone who does not love you...how do you explain that to others??
Lets say all men and like oranges, and you want orange juice. You pick up the orange, cut it open, and squeeze. No juice comes out. However, all... (read in full...)
Is it okay to go out alone on New Year's Eve?
Q. The last few years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thought of ...
A. 22 December 2014:
You were not born with your future wife next you. So being alone should not be an issue. Plus the only way to find the right woman is to be single...yes?
Go out and have fun...not dragging a long face that says "I am lonely, and need someone... (read in full...)
My wife has been having an emotional affair... what do I do?
Q. I have been married for more than 20 years and have had to move to another state for employment reasons. I recently found out that my wife has been having an affair on an emotional level with my ex neighbour. It has been mainly by email and ...
A. 10 December 2014: Why are you even thinking of ending your marriage when YOU haven't done YOUR job??? If YOU don't look after your wife's needs then someone else will do it for you. People are so quick to get devoice when they are screwing up their own ma... (read in full...)
Can you change a bad boy?
Q. Dear cupid, i just want to understand this. Is it possible to change a bad boy. Like he drinks a lot and has two kids with two different woman, he owns his own business and has lots of friend who they enjoy top life.ive seen all this on his facebook ...
A. 9 December 2014:
The best way to change a bad boy is to find a good boy. The word BAD does not mean GOOD. The word GOOD as in "what's GOOD for me" actually means good for you.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has no time for me and calls me terrible names
Q. Hi, everyone, hope your day is going well. I have been with my boyfriend for two months now. He lives an hour away, I drive to see him just about every weekend. When I go all he wants to do is play video games. So, for hours I just sit there and ...
A. 9 December 2014:
Sorry...but you love the abuse. The abuse makes you feel awesome...because what does this mean to you..."I'm not the one for you" ???
Or this "I made a bad choice in dating him"???
If none of that has sunk into your head, then what will? Beca... (read in full...)
I kissed his friend years ago ..... should I tell my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months and we have a great relationship, he's 23 and I'm 22. We have not yet had sex because we want to wait a few more months as we are both virgins but this is a pretty irrelevant detail. Four years ago...
A. 9 December 2014:
The past is the past. If your now boyfriend gets upset because you kissed some guy way before you met him, then you need to a new boyfriend. That level of insecurity is not something you would want long term.
As for you...If that guy brings i... (read in full...)
Why do we need a Dr check up first?
Q. Hi everyone. I was wondering since I am a virgin and my fiancé is too should I go to the doctor for a checkup to make sure everything is okay? In other word in the up in up. Do people do that kind of thing? Or is it okay to not go to the doctor ...
A. 9 December 2014:
Unless you stuck your thing in some place it shouldn't be, then you are good to go. If everything is working great, no doctors needed, unless it the love doctor :)... (read in full...)
My mother sucks the joy out of life.
Q. Limiting or completely putting a stop to spending time with toxic people is always recommended. But, what if that person is your mother? I feel sorry for my mum because she is SO insecure that she leeches the life and energy from anyone she spends ...
A. 9 December 2014:
Your mother takes the joy out of your life because you let her...that simple. Life itself is neutral...not good or bad. WE are the ones that make it good are bad by how we live our lives. Let her be as miserable as she wants...you live a happy life... (read in full...)
Would every man cheat if he could?
Q. I have big problems trusting men One of my friends claims that almost every man would cheat on his wife if given the opportunity to with a woman with a porn star body if he could be guaranteed not to be caught The sad thing is I think she might ...
A. 9 December 2014:
I love these comments :) First of all...It takes two people to cheat. If there are men who are willing to cheat, and women who will allowed married men or attached men to have sex with them, then yes.
Same thing goes for women who cheat. There... (read in full...)
I'm so unsure what he wants from this relationship
Q. Hi aunt's and uncle's. I have a confusing situation regarding a man I am dating. We have been dating about month now and talking since the beginning of September. I sometimes get the feeling he's not interested, but then all of sudd...
A. 4 December 2014:
Lack of sex will show you if he is serious or not. When a man knows a woman has not dated for a long time, what do you think he is thinking??? "Well it been a long time, so maybe she is more willing to give it up sooner than later." Real love come... (read in full...)
Boyfriend got another girl pregnant and I don't know what to do
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and the relationship had its ups and downs.last month I found out that he impregnated another girl and I don't have a child with him because I was using the contraceptive I was not ready to give him a ...
A. 4 December 2014:
"I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now"...Unfortunately so was someone else.
You should not be sad at all. Bad things happen for good reasons. Think about it...what if you were married to him and found out he got some other woman pregna... (read in full...)
I caught my girlfriend wearing sexy bra & panties...cheating right?
Q. My girlfriend of two years came home from work and was undressing out of her work uniform when I walked into our bedroom and saw that she was secretly wearing sexy lace bra and panties under her work outfit. I never saw or got her the sexy panties ...
A. 4 December 2014:
Dude...If your girl was cheating on you, I would not blame her one bit. That explosive attitude, STUPID anger, and the "I am so sure all the signs are there" superior mentality. Yep...All the signs are there that if you keep that SH*T up, she will... (read in full...)
How can I get a date with this shy guy before I lose my chance?
Q. Hello. I'm in a band and have suffered from some hearing damage so may need to leave. I am band members with a guy I really like but we only see each other at these rehearsals and if I leave I know I won't see him again until I go to my band's gigs ...
A. 4 December 2014:
Let me make it clear...You either do something, or someone else will. People always waits for the right time, yet time never waits for the right people.
Sound to me like you are just as shy as he is. If not...why are you waiting? For some oth... (read in full...)
How do I win back my ex?
Q. I'm still in love with my ex. He is with a new girl but says he still thinks of me. We have met up and had sex and he said he loved me afterwards. I think he is happy with the new girl but doesn't enjoy the intimacy as much. I will be spending ...
A. 3 December 2014:
The best way to win back the pain in your life, is to do something more foolish than the last time. Pain the second time around always feels better than the first time...yep.
He has a girl...seems to be happy...but still having sex with you. AW... (read in full...)
How do I find someone to help fulfill my fiance's fantasy?
Q. My fiance and I have been together 4.5 years. We are very secure and loving toward each other and I don't see that changing at all. However, he's got a fantasy that he kind of wants to fulfill before we get married and has told me that he wants me ...
A. 3 December 2014:
You are lying to yourself. See this...
"We are very secure and loving toward each other and I don't see that changing at all."
No secure couple needs another person in their relationship. And if you are really secure...well not af... (read in full...)
How can I get myself to squirt?
Q. Hey everyone.... So this is rather a different question but I need some advice. Ive been wanting to squirt for the longest time, and I believe I did so tonight. I followed some tips, and when I did orgasm I pushed out instead of holding back. I felt ...
A. 20 November 2014:
You need a good long build up. Excitement comes from the mind. So try and get yourself mentally stimulated...all day. But do not relief your tension until you and hubby get together. Then do the thing that turns you on the most, and let your... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend not attracted to me anymore? Am I not good enough? Is he seeing someone that looks better than me?
Q. Ok so when me and my boyfriend met i was 15 pounds lighter, Iam still not overweight and look average for a 28 year old woman but i feel there is something missing and i can't figure out what it is. He used to be so into me and our sex life was ...
A. 20 November 2014: "when i looked at my self and now i see fat in places where i hate! " Okay, so some things have change in your relationship, your body, and your sex life. So... the first thing you do is...that right...blame yourself. That kind of thinking has mad... (read in full...)
What makes a woman attractive to a man?
Q. hi everyone , what is it that makes a female attractive to a male i dont mean their looks i mean like confidence but what happens if you dont have any what can help make you be more confident and other things like do they like someone funny serious ...
A. 20 November 2014: You are correct...The most beautiful women I have ever met are beautiful from the inside. If you can live this... "Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; lo... (read in full...)
Fear and lack of experience keep me from getting to know girls
Q. At age12, I began having trouble with girls and over the next couple of years I feel like I lost every female friend I had, including one who I'd known from age 5. That is a very long story but I attribute what happened there with my first ...
A. 20 November 2014: What exactly are you afraid of??? If you say you are a man of GOD, then you will know if you have faith, you should have no fear of any human. Plus...Women are some of the most beautiful, exciting creations GOD ever made, and you are afraid o... (read in full...)
How do I put my foot down so he knows his behavior won't be tolerated anymore?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years (except a 4 month break) and I'm to the point that I'm not happy. I feel lonely and neglected. I broke up with him 5 months ago because he'd started neglecting me, wouldn't contact me and made ...
A. 19 November 2014: I am not one to say end any relationship because things are bad. But there are some things you have to look at. First, he is not your husband. Husbands and wives are worth fighting for. Boyfriends and girlfriends are like testing grounds to see w... (read in full...)
Would telling him I'm going on a date with someone get his attention?
Q. theres a guy i like and would love it if he asked me out but i need to get his attention first. we are friends he said he liked me before but didnt do anything about it we do fun friend flirting that doesnt mean anything asfar as i know ,im too ...
A. 19 November 2014:
Yes do that...Because I am sure if the guy you like came up and told you the same thing, you would be so happy to hear that. Point is...If you wouldn't like it, don't do it to someone else.
You are a woman, and women have certain qualities me... (read in full...)
I wish that life would give me a break!
Q. I need help, a friendly advice.. I have lost so much faith and strenght in life. I have been through a lot the past 15 years in my life. less than ten years ago, I started my dream education together with my ex boyfriend. But we broke up ( ...
A. 19 November 2014: Life my dear has never done anything wrong to anyone. We are the ones that screw up our chances in life, and then blame life for our mistakes. Do not look back at what you could have had, or what you shouldn't have done.The main reason for... (read in full...)
I had a feeling he was texting other girls, and he was! How do I approach this as it will reveal I went through his phone?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months. Recently I haven't been feeling the same, like I still love him but I get the feeling he doesn't. Things have changed a little over the weekend and I don't like the way it's going. I had a feeling he was ...
A. 18 November 2014:
There are how many men in your country??? But you let one man, who not even your husband, play this game with you.
When these things happen this early in a relationship, what do you think it means for the future years to come??... (read in full...)
Why would he change his FB status? Could we be friends? I'm so confused!
Q. So almost seven months ago, around easter I broke up with my ex because our relationship had too many people involved trying to cause problems on top of us already having our own. He then randomly messaged me in august just saying sup? I tried to be ...
A. 18 November 2014: Why do you care what he has to say? Seems like you still have hopes you two can work things out, and you want to see where it goes. My advise, take it or leave it...NEVER go backwards, always forward. Never go back to an ex. They are an ex for a... (read in full...)
He doesn't seem to understand that I can't text at work! How can I make it sink it?
Q. Is there any way I can stop my man being so needy? I love him to bits and he is everything I want in a partner but he's very clingy and dependant on me which is really starting to annoy me. He texts me all day every day. At his job he can. At my job ...
A. 18 November 2014:
"have I said something to annoy you"... Yes, you are annoying me because you are not listening... He is a grown man, and should be spoken to as such. The truth hurts sometimes, but it is the only way to get through to some people.
Put yours... (read in full...)
Does a blow job require this in order to feel good?
Q. Guys when a girl gives you a blow job, does a girl have to deep throat for it to feel good for you. Answers from guys only please. ...
A. 18 November 2014:
No, No, and uummmm...NO :) The difference between a good blow job and a great one...The women's effort...If a woman does it be because she knows guys like it but she herself is not into it..then it will suck...hehe :)
But if he plans to "bl... (read in full...)
When it comes to sex she calls the shots
Q. My girlfriend Is controlling sexually she keeps rejecting me every time if try to have sex. It's destroying our relationship so much, I try to talk she won't We have sex 1time a month on her command. It is destroying my masculinity Help me flip...
A. 18 November 2014: When a woman calls the shots, it normally because the man is not doing his job as a man, and she feels she has to step up and do it for him. In every relationship, someone must be the leader. And by that I do not mean a bossy person who gets the... (read in full...)
Why has my male friend become distant?
Q. i have this male friend and we texted all the time about anything. we did go on a date when we first met but he wasnt ready for anything. its been a couple of months since then, now hes suddenly gone distant on me. before that he would text stu...
A. 17 November 2014:
Two things could be going on...
1) Single friends normally go distant when they have found someone, and spend most of there time with that person.
2) He has feelings for you, knows he is getting to close, and decides to back off before thin... (read in full...)
My butt is not big enough for my boyfriend.
Q. The thing is, I have some insecurities about the size of my butt. I've been together with my bf for around 3 years and from the beginning he has wished my bottom was bigger. I have gained some weight (around 9 kg)and done exercise and as a result my ...
A. 10 November 2014: Everyone knows the impact of words!!! Some just do not care enough about the person they are saying to....your own words..."because if someone comments or says something rude to him about his body he could care less." He could care less. No perso... (read in full...)
Did I over react? What should I have done?
Q. So i've been dating this girl for about 8 months, in a relationship for the last 4 mo. A few days ago we were hanging out at her place. She was on her laptop and checked her facebook and saw that her "friend" who was the singer in a band that she ...
A. 10 November 2014:
When you get warning signs like this...ask yourself...In the next five years, where will things be? If she is willing to give it up to a "good guy" so easily , how many other good guys are there??
If you want a woman you may have to keep checkin... (read in full...)
I have no experience and don't know how to ride a guy
Q. hi, i'm almost 22 years old and i've small boobs. my waist size is 37", butt 48" but my boobs are too small and plus I've no sex experience so don't know how to ride my man. am so nervous about my breast size and how to ride :{...
A. 10 November 2014:
Breast size has nothing to do with riding a man. You are using them for that, and they are not handles for him to hold onto. If you are enjoying it, just go with it.... (read in full...)
What is a good compromise age for us to have a baby?
Q. Hello! I need a little advice about when I should think about having children with my boyfriend. We've been together for over 3 years, lived together for over 2 and are planning to stay together for the long run. The only reason I'm think...
A. 7 November 2014:
Which sounds better to a woman who is planning to have a baby...This my boyfriend...Or...This is my husband.... (read in full...)
Is it out of line for me to try and initiate spontaneous sex ? I keep getting rejected by my wife
Q. hey there, I have been in a relationship for seven years now and my wife continues to reject my spontaneous advances. I understand things could be approached the wrong way, but I try and be fun or cute and at times alpha to initiate somethin...
A. 7 November 2014: Mr. Dutch, These issues are called living up to your vows. You didn't think life was going to let you make those vows and not test them to see if you were telling the truth did you?? We are all tested, and the better our relationships, the bi... (read in full...)
My high pitched voice is impacting dating and my job interviews
Q. I've always had an extremely high pitched voice. I've gotten used to it, however I realized it's hindering my dating life and finding a job. It doesn't help that I'm very petite either. I graduated with a business major but it doesn't matter how ...
A. 6 November 2014: Some how I don't think your voice has anything to do with your social and work life. Have you seen the TV show Big Bang Theory? The blonde lady has a high pitch voice and she petite as well. Didn't stop her. I think because you know you hav... (read in full...)
Is it out of line for me to try and initiate spontaneous sex ? I keep getting rejected by my wife
Q. hey there, I have been in a relationship for seven years now and my wife continues to reject my spontaneous advances. I understand things could be approached the wrong way, but I try and be fun or cute and at times alpha to initiate somethin...
A. 6 November 2014: Mr. Dutch, Thank you for giving us more insight on your efforts, and I commend you on those efforts. Too many times I hear men want sex, but have done nothing to receive such reward. And yes, sex is a reward, not a right. Unfortunately,... (read in full...)
Actions Are Louder Than Words?
Q. My latest "best friend in life" and I have been in a committed relationship going on 19 months. We addressed the "wondering eye" syndrome and his "friends on facebook", and I finally had told him that since he said, "I will never hurt you", I told ...
A. 5 November 2014:
So called birth sign do not mean jack all when it come to a relationship. Two people fall in love and want to work towards staying together for life...that's it.
Sounds like you know already what you want in life, and that my dear is AWESOME!!... (read in full...)
What does it mean when he says I am his "guilty pleasure"?
Q. What does it mean if a man tells you your his guilty pleasure? What would it mean to you if you were to say this to someone or someone was to say this to you? How would you translate this in your inner world? Personally, humorous, passing c...
A. 5 November 2014:
Normally it means he is after one thing... You have it, he wants it. The guilt part means he has no plans for a long term commitment, just to enjoy the "Pleasure" part.
If you want the same thing, then their is nothing to worry about. If yo... (read in full...)
Is it out of line for me to try and initiate spontaneous sex ? I keep getting rejected by my wife
Q. hey there, I have been in a relationship for seven years now and my wife continues to reject my spontaneous advances. I understand things could be approached the wrong way, but I try and be fun or cute and at times alpha to initiate somethin...
A. 5 November 2014:
When you met and started having sex, what was the reason for that?? Simple...her heart!!. You touched her heart, and she would have given you the world. Now you just want sex...but are you still touching her heart like when you met? Are you stil... (read in full...)
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