New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244976 questions, 1084348 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Our sex life has slowed to nothing after the birth of our child!

Tagged as: Marriage problems, Sex<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (11 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 August 2010)
A male New Zealand age 41-50, *aa writes:

Married my wife for 5 years now, at the begining sex life was great .After our child was born sex life with my wife starting to slow down and now my child is 3year old ,my wife is not horny anymore i done all sort of way to make her keen to make love to me ,sometime it only work if i play with her thing until she satisfied then i will be able to have sex with her but most of the time is excuse after excuse its driving me crazy but this woman is the only one i will ever love .

Please really need help.

View related questions: horny, sex life

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, Maa New Zealand +, writes (12 August 2010):

Maa is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks very much for the reply back i will consider all option that uz gave me once again thanks heaps and God may bless all of uz.

Bye for now and i will post any dirrent after i seek those help.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (11 August 2010):

BrownWolf agony auntGo see the doctor. Some women hormones decreases dramatically after have a baby or babies. Their are hormone treatments that may help.

I am also going to ask the question that no one else may ask.... You are helping with the baby, and chores around the home right?

Some men believe because they work all day, that when they get home work is done. Dinner should be ready, and wife should be horny. Work is not done until baby is alseep, and wife is relaxed. She maybe home, but she is working too.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010):

PLEASE get to counseling. The same thing happened to us, and after 12 years after our son was born, my marriage fell apart tragically. You need to make time for each other, and it is NOT easy to convince a mother of this. It is instinctive to nurture your children, but you risk becoming severely disconnected if you dont nip this in the bud. My ex wife and I both wish we had done something about our disconnect before it was too late. You need an outside mediator to guide you so you don't become resentful toward each other.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Our sex life has slowed to nothing after the birth of our child!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312734000035562!