Mom has an athletic body but I don't. Does this make me a loser?
Q. My mom has an athletic body and I don't. Does that make me a looser? Im a 14 year old skinny person with a fat belly and my mom in contrast has an athletic body. I feel embarrassed when I'm with her especially at the beach in swimsuits. She ...
A. 4 May 2015:
You are thinking like a typical man already.
There is no need to be compelled to be better than your Mom. Your mom is your mom, and you are you. Even if you had a better body than your mom, you could still never compete with her...why?
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Should a shy geeky guy visit a prostitute to gain some experience before I Try to find GF
Q. I'm a 24 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I ever been on a date. I'm not particularly good looking and I don't have six pack abs. Not to mention I'm a giant film/video game/comic book geek as well. I research this to...
A. 30 April 2015:
If you don't listen to Honeypie... then your are a genuine idiot.
Amazing how a penis can control the minds of men. They just want to put it in something...or they will die.... (read in full...)
Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !
Q. so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...
A. 30 April 2015:
You are doing exactly what most men do when they are single and meet a woman...YOU ARE EXPECTING SOMETHING...and most women can spot that a mile away. Best way to stay single as a man, is to want really bad to have a girlfriend...why?? You beco... (read in full...)
Mom has an athletic body but I don't. Does this make me a loser?
Q. My mom has an athletic body and I don't. Does that make me a looser? Im a 14 year old skinny person with a fat belly and my mom in contrast has an athletic body. I feel embarrassed when I'm with her especially at the beach in swimsuits. She ...
A. 29 April 2015:
You should be super proud of your mom...why??? So many women out there have such a hard time losing the baby fat, for years, and some never do. Some women look at food and gain weight. Your mom not only gave birth to you, but she took it upon hers... (read in full...)
How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?
Q. I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfr...
A. 29 April 2015: "He said how he feels he has not had time to himself for a long time which is what he needs" What does that comment mean to you?? Does that sound like someone who wants a long term relationship?? I know it's hard for women to feel rejecte... (read in full...)
He has the stamina. But why can't I achieve an orgasm with my Bf? Do I need to see a Doctor?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, we are very close and he knows me well. However, during sex I just don't seem to get an orgasm. He'll thrust and continue until he ejaculates and then bam, he's done. He can last for over an hour befo...
A. 29 April 2015: No you do not need to see a doctor. What you are both suffering from is "LACK OF EXPERIENCE." Your boyfriend doing what I call "rabbit sex" is only good to a woman when you are both rush for time, or trying to be sneaky. Just because ... (read in full...)
He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?
Q. Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...
A. 28 April 2015: I am going to take this line...re word it using your own words, and see how foolish it sounds...
"I still care about him, but he's just such a manipulative jerk!"
REWORDED...
"he's such a manipulative jerk!But I still care about him."
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Do you think we will work out?
Q. I recently met this guy online. He seems like an honest decent man. We have been talking to each other for only 2-3 days but I think I already have a huge crush on him. Well I think he likes me too; he'd like to say something more about him when I ...
A. 28 April 2015:
Online, and in life are two completely different things. Feelings cannot truly be expressed online. Infatuation can be express online. You have to spend time with that person on a personal level to truly have a sense of how they feel.
Not sayin... (read in full...)
He hasn't kissed me in a year. But he finds time to watch porn. what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend hasn't kissed me romantically in years. We barely have sex, and it is boring, always the same position. He watches very x rated lesbian porn and knows it bothers me and he obviously doesn't care. He is obsessed with woman and is c...
A. 28 April 2015:
Why are you complaining?!?! You have a guy who does not give you what you want or respect you. So what do you do? Sit around feeling sorry for yourself as if your BF is the only man on the Earth.
Boyfriends and girlfriend are those we test to s... (read in full...)
How can I politely deal with people who offer their advice on whether we are having a boy or a girl?
Q. Ok, so my fiance I have been thrilled to be expecting our first child. We dont want to find out what we are having because I cant wait for that moment when the doc says "its a..." when it is born, but I have had a lot of people who dont seem to get ...
A. 28 April 2015:
You say "It doesn't matter...We are having a baby. If it's a boy or girl, great."
As my friend told a lady..."Whatever GOD gives me, I will be happy with it...thank you."... (read in full...)
Why is it that everything in my life seems to become complicated?
Q. Is it in My life that everything seems to be complicated? I either i have bad luck or i am doing something is wrong some where. Ever since my mother passed away when i was 16 years old..it has been a bumpy ride. Okay i have good intentions fo...
A. 27 April 2015: LIFE is the most simplest thing to live. We are the ones that make is complicated by what we say, things we do, things we hold on to, and the way we think. You are more concern about the things you don't have, rather than being content with ... (read in full...)
My partner has IBS and is afraid of having an attack in bed!
Q. My partner has IBS and says that she did not tell me as she thought i would not understand and finish with her when I found out and she says that she is so afraid that she will have a attack when we are in bed and i have tried to talk to her but so ...
A. 27 April 2015:
She cannot live her life in fear, or let anything on this Earth stop her from enjoying her life. We worry too much about "what if's" instead of just seeing where things go.
If a bird high up in a tree was to think the way humans do "what if I f... (read in full...)
I get no attention from him apart from when he wants sex
Q. Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now the problem is we have a 7 month old son my boyfriend has a dog he is constantly kissing and cuddling the dog it gets in between us on the settee to the point where I get that fed up I move onto the ...
A. 24 April 2015: First of all...you are giving him a reward for doing the wrong things and then complain about it. Never give a man sex to get attention...Sex is to be a reward for him being a man, not a jerk. You should only be having sex when you are given al... (read in full...)
Eighteen months ago he loved the phone sex. Now he's too tired. Is the honeymoon phase over?
Q. Hi guys just wanted your help in a situation. My guy and I started dating one and a half years back n we are getting married in December. When we started dating, my guy and I used to have phone sex a lot and it was a thing he started. Later on...
A. 23 April 2015:
If you are not married yet and the honeymoon is over...Still want to get married?
You have been doing the same phone sex for over a year... "THE SAME THING"...Guess what that could be?
You said you feel neglected...what have you done to hav... (read in full...)
I'm annoyed with how long it takes J to text back. Would it be wrong to start dating M while dating J?
Q. I have been dating someone (lets call him J) for about 2 maybe 3 weeks, and it hasn't made progress yet. Before I started dating J,I was hooking up with a guy( lets call him M) I knew from high school, but stopped since I thought that me and J was ...
A. 21 April 2015:
Yes perfectly okay...As long as you don't mind a guy dating you and another woman at they same time. You don't mind right?... (read in full...)
What motivates people to cheat? Especially why do married people cheat?
Q. Hi all, ive been asking myself this question and i dont seem to get an answer. Why do married people cheat most. Why cant a person get out of a relationship than to stay when they are unhappy, than to sleep around with whoever thet meet?...
A. 21 April 2015: Most people cheat when they feel they are not getting what they want from their partner...Love, attention, affection, sex, respect, kindness, and so on. They normally stay with their partner because they really do love them, and really wish th... (read in full...)
He cheated. We broke up. What steps do we take to get back together?
Q. What steps should my (ex) boyfriend and I take to get back together? Last year I was in a great relationship, we had plans for the future, we had an amazing sex life and we adored each other. Or so I thought. My fella cheated was accused of cheat...
A. 21 April 2015:
If you are this unsure if you should get back together...DON'T!!! If the love you had was still there, it would be as easy as falling into his arms again. There would be no "stages" to reconnect.
If you two were as solid as you think you we... (read in full...)
Should my girlfriend agree to come to a fetish club with me?
Q. I've been with my girl for 6 years now.She knows about my fetish for rubber clothing. We do normal things together ,like cinema, restaurants. But I want to experience a fetish club, which she's not into.I've asked her to go with me, just once is ...
A. 18 April 2015:
NOPE... She should totally go..and find someone who does not want her to do something she does not want to do...Yep...That would be AWESOME.
Just then...and maybe...you will know how she feels :)
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She overstepped the bounds today! How do I deal with her if she comes up to me again?
Q. Well this is not really a romantic relationship question but it has to dowith a co worker who I felt overstepped today. I've a lazy eye that occassionally will act up if I'm stressed or tired. Anyway this co worker came up to me and asked me if I ...
A. 18 April 2015:
WTF!!! Is wrong with you??? So you have an lazy eye...Okay...now what?
Someone comes and make a stupid comment...and ???
No...I have not had surgery for my eye. Have you had surgery for your mouth?? "My mouth...why??" "Oh it just seems to say... (read in full...)
I love my wife. I miss sex. I'm flirting online with an old friend. Help!
Q. I'm married, I love my wife we have a beautiful little girl together that will be turning 4 in a few months. I have never asked questions on a forum before but I like to give as much information as possible so you get the picture. I wo...
A. 18 April 2015:
Ah yes...the other woman to fill the space of the one who does not give you what you want...You know where this is going to end right???
Us men...Giving so much, and our wives not giving back...why???
We men tend to believe because we g... (read in full...)
Why is it so difficult to meet women on a dating site?
Q. My name is Ryan and I'm wondering why it's so difficult for me to meet a woman from a dating site. I know they are being very careful cause of not knowing me well enough still I don't understand why so many of them are like that Another question I ha...
A. 14 April 2015: You have already answer one of the most important reason why... "I know they are being very careful cause of not knowing me well enough" The way men treat women today...that is not surprising. Men have ruin it for themselves. Plus wom... (read in full...)
Will I ever meet Mr. Right or will I be single forever?
Q. Dear cupid, I've been single for three years now and I never have time to go out and meet anyone. I have four kids but I'm lonely . I just want to meet a nice guy that I can go out with like to the movies,or out to eat or the mall. Will I ever meet ...
A. 14 April 2015: Hi cretia2009, First of all there is no such thing as Mr.Right...There is Mr. What's best for you. Men are not like shoes that fit just right. Relationships are like tough leather shoes that have to be worn for awhile to break them in, so that t... (read in full...)
My wife works with her ex and he's always calling her
Q. my wife works everyday with an x lover and he is always calling her on the phone for long conversations and she doesn't understand why this bothers me. We've been married for three yrs and it is becoming a problem so what should I do, leave or let ...
A. 8 April 2015: "Peace of mind makes the body healthy, but jealousy is like a cancer." The only reason you should be jealous of an ex lover is if you are not doing your job as a husband. If you are giving your wife everything you CANNOT buy in a store, th... (read in full...)
I don't think he will ever change. Should I just move on once and for all?
Q. I was supposed to get married approximately a year ago, but called the wedding off about a month or so before it was supposed to happen. If I hadn't called it off, HE would have gone ahead with it, even though we were not getting along at all. I ...
A. 8 April 2015:
You do realize he will be the father of your kids??? And do you think with his temper he would be an ideal father?
Loving someone because they are good to you is right. Loving someone who is mean to you is...???
You see...Life is very s... (read in full...)
Husband facing unwanted divorce without communication
Q. Ok my wife and I have been married almost 6 years, we were deeply in love with one another . Then my wife got a job in another state almost a year after we were married. So I moved with her, I was arrested for a crime I did not commit, 3 years of ...
A. 8 April 2015: Sorry to hear you are going through an unwanted divorce. However, It seems that your wife has made up her mind to point of giving you custody of the kids. Normally I would tell you to fight to save this, but she seems dead set on it. "If you... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want me why shouldn't I get it else where?
Q. I'm entering the 10th year of my relationship and my sex life has been on the decline for the past four years and my bf says he doesn't know why he just hasn't got the urge and he doesn't even pleasure himself. My dilemma my sex drive is higher now ...
A. 7 April 2015: Hi Withoutacause, Your partner lack of response could mean a few things. He is masturbating and you don't know. He could be cheating (but let's not go there until all other options have been crossed out), and one of the biggest things for men..... (read in full...)
How long, on average, does it take to get over a 7 year relationship?
Q. Hi there, My question is about breaking up with someone. How long, on average, does it take to get over a 7 year relationship with someone you really loved and still love? I am going through this now and it's been about 3 weeks but I am still ...
A. 7 April 2015:
When I was younger and woman I was dating said to me as we broke up..."You will never find a woman as good as me!!!" I said "You are right, I will never find someone as good as you, I will find someone better than you."
Why would I say that??? ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want me why shouldn't I get it else where?
Q. I'm entering the 10th year of my relationship and my sex life has been on the decline for the past four years and my bf says he doesn't know why he just hasn't got the urge and he doesn't even pleasure himself. My dilemma my sex drive is higher now ...
A. 7 April 2015: Hello Withoutacause,
Question...You have a high sex drive...What do you do to get sex from your man?
You want it...so...what have you done to help your cause?... (read in full...)
My old fantasies don't turn me on anymore
Q. Help, I can't fantasise anymore. My husband makes me climax evertime during sex using his tongue, hands and also through penetration alone. It's mindblowing and I couldn't ask for more. However, I used to be able to imagine all sort...
A. 25 March 2015:
If your husband blows your mind...why do you need to fantasize? Would it be okay with you if you knew your husband was fantasizing about other women?
You have the real thing right there, and you turn to your hand? Interesting. Have sex every ni... (read in full...)
How is a woman honestly supposed to deal with getting older when men so obviously prefer younger women?
Q. My question will probably seem very silly here to many of the young ones or men but to women in my age group perhaps they will understand what I'm saying. How is a woman honestly supposed to deal with getting older when men so obviously prefer y...
A. 25 March 2015:
Based on my experience...Younger men look for older women for their sexual experience. Older men look for younger women for their "I'm willing to do anything" sex drive.
A typical man who thinks with his hormones does not see that a younger woma... (read in full...)
If you are 27 years old, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, is it too late?
Q. If you are 27 years old, never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, is it too late? I feel too insecure about my age, being inexperienced at this age makes me feel pathetic, insecure, I just never knew how to approach and talk to girls in a way that ...
A. 24 March 2015: Too late for what exactly??? Are you going to die because you are a virgin? Let's say you had sex...now what? You get rich? Get a big prize for being like all the men who had sex? Good sir...You are a brand new car. Never been driven, and y... (read in full...)
Considering seeing a therapist. How do I find one to address my concerns?
Q. I'm 29 and have never had a girlfriend. I have dated some, but they've been few and far between for the most part. While I have a great, supportive family, hobbies to occupy my spare time, and a few close friends that I like spending time with, I ...
A. 24 March 2015: The best person to talk to about relationship issues is...Yourself. Such as...why do you feel unhappy because you are not in a relationship? Have you looked at this site? Have you seen all the problems people are having with their own relation... (read in full...)
Why are men's sexual needs considered more important than a woman's emotional needs?
Q. Another woman here who had found out her husband who claimed to Not use porn had been jerking off to women online. I've read and read and whilst the experts seem to point out the dangers , the general advice from people online is that it's just a n...
A. 19 March 2015: Hi OP, Most men today have no idea what their sexual need is, or how to satisfy their sexual needs. Fantasy has become the biggest and dumbest selling feature today. Why have what you have when you can fantasize about everyone else. If you ar... (read in full...)
How can I tell my strict mom I am pregnant?
Q. I found out last week, after nearly two years of desperatelt trying for a baby, that I am five weeks pregnant. I am thrilled...due to medical problems my partner and I had lost hope. My mother, however, is very old school, and dissapproves of having ...
A. 14 March 2015:
What's done is done. You now have to be as strict as your mother in telling her the truth...why?? Because you are about to become a mother too.... (read in full...)
No sex with wife since our two year old was born.
Q. Me and my wife had a little girl alomst 2 years ago but since then we have only had sex a handful of times i have tried romantic baths etc. Have spoke to her and dont really get a response as to why we dont have sex anymore just wondering what else ...
A. 14 March 2015: Hi OP,
Been there. Son was no problem, but her hormones changed with my daughter. Three years for me, and yes it was hell...but their is a lesson to learn. Having a daughter teaches you a whole new word, and teaches you how to live that word. Th... (read in full...)
Can a relationship really survive without desire
Q. After 9 months of an on off relationship we have settled onto seeing each other two or three times a week due to distance. I feel its not enough for me as we never spend whole week ends together or go away as he's too focused on his business. He is ...
A. 13 March 2015:
There is no such thing as an ON OFF relationship. You are either in a relationship or you are not.
If you go to a store to buy something and it's closed, so you cannot get what you want from that store, what do you do? Do you stand and way unti... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't believe in marriage
Q. I'm 25 and I'm in the best relationship of my life. I'm completely in love with my boyfriend and I think he feels the same. He tells me he wants to be together forever but when the word marriage is brought into converstation he freaks out. The pr...
A. 11 March 2015:
Well this part of your statement is not true...
"I'm 25 and I'm in the best relationship of my life. I'm completely in love with my boyfriend and I think he feels the same."
If you were "in the best relationship of my life," you would not... (read in full...)
Guys, would you date a 27-year-old virgin?
Q. I'm 27 and still a virgin. I feel so old being one at this age and I'm wondering if guys will even want to give me a chance since there are plenty of experienced women for them to pick from. So, first things first. My virginity doesn't mean much to ...
A. 10 March 2015: As I just explain to someone on this site...What would you rather have...A new car, untouched, never driven...or a used car with several owners??? You not are old...you are smart to wait, and wise to wait. Your virginity does not have an expiry ... (read in full...)
Curious, maybe even suspicious...
Q. My girlfriend constantly calls me daddy during sex. She also likes to role play that she is 13 and I'm her father coming to her bedroom when everyone else is asleep. Her father is deceased but I know from her mother that they, my gf and her dad, ...
A. 10 March 2015:
I don't care if I was called Denzel Washington...If she gets off on it and I get to enjoy it...bring it.
She was close to her dad and maybe enjoy a good strong man like you caring for her and protecting her the way he did.
Bottom line...if ... (read in full...)
Why do men prefer sex with younger girls?
Q. My question is too short .I just need an advice on this.Why men prefer sex with young girls.What so special in young girls that older girls don't have? And Does older virgin have same intact hymen if he didn't had sex or just young virgin g...
A. 9 March 2015:
A virgin is a virgin no matter how old.
Men prefer young girls not just because they are hot. Men like sex...we all know that. Younger girls are pack full of energy, sexual hormones, and want to experience things...boils down to...they wa... (read in full...)
My 18 year old daughter is sleeping with a 31 year old man. What do I do?
Q. My daughter is 18 and living and sleeping with a 31 year old man. In my heart I feel this is totally inappropriate. Her father is so upset. They got into a huge fight. Now I am in a deep state of depression. I don't see how my daughter believes that ...
A. 24 February 2015:
We all want the best for our kids, and hope they make the right choices in life. But sometimes they don't, and we have to sit back and let them make their own mistakes. We cannot live our children's life for them. We have our road to follow, and ... (read in full...)
I don't think my wife should be communicating with an ex, she doesn't agree!
Q. My wife and I have been married for 10 years. Unfortunately I ignored her for much of that time and we drifted apart. We recently rekindled our marriage but I innocently found something on her Facebook. I went to log in to my Facebook but it was ...
A. 24 February 2015: First of all Jealousy...very bad move. Being jealous and angry will just put you right into the 10 wasted years. You created a problem, she found a way to fix hers, and now you are mad that she did. What did you expect? Did you expect another ... (read in full...)
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