I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 18 July 2011: you left your number. she knows you have been trying to reach her. she should ring you this time. if she fails to do that it is because she does not want to see/talk to/date you. she does not even give you the courtesy of a call to say ' hi what's ... (read in full...)
Have I scared him away with my behaviour? What should I do now?
Q. Hello all I need some advice. I was seeing a man for 15 months when he ended it and told me that e cared for me but could not give me what I wanted. He told me that he wanted to stay friends. I have never stayed friends with and ex before and in...
A. 18 July 2011: well i hope you stick to your guns then, unfortunately some 'lads' never ever grow up! i hope you are getting out and having some fun yourself and not just sitting around waiting for him to text you when he is at a loose end. fill you life with ... (read in full...)
Have I scared him away with my behaviour? What should I do now?
Q. Hello all I need some advice. I was seeing a man for 15 months when he ended it and told me that e cared for me but could not give me what I wanted. He told me that he wanted to stay friends. I have never stayed friends with and ex before and in...
A. 16 July 2011: to be honest it does sound like he just wants something casual with you and as he has known you for 15 months already i cannot imagine he is suddenly ever going to change has mind about you and want to get serious. keeping casual company with ... (read in full...)
He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?
Q. hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...
A. 16 July 2011: i know it hurts right now, it always does when we are lied to and treated like a fool. your feelings will get easier over time. you have learned a valuable life lesson in the meantime though - do not trust a person online until you get to know them ... (read in full...)
Lost, insucure and anxious without my teacher being with me. I'm petrified shes going to abandon me. Why do I feel this way?
Q. I am desperatly in love with my female teacher and i dont know what to do. have been really really depressed in this last year and she is the one who stopped me self harming for good. She is literally the only one i trust out of everybody i know ...
A. 16 July 2011: do you have any other family that you are close to? aunties, uncles, grandparents? you just NEED someone who is there for you, to know someone cares. you see, whatever help you thought at the time your self harm was giving you at the time, you have ... (read in full...)
He has no time for me!
Q. i had a friend and first he used to care for me alot and consider me as his best friend..but now he is completely changed and had stoped bothering me...now he has new friends and he is paying very less attention to me....fact is that i love him alot ...
A. 16 July 2011: stay friend with him, but just accept that while he has met new friends he will want to spend time with them, maybe more so while its early in the friendship and they're having fun. make some new friends too if you can. sometimes the lifelong ... (read in full...)
I thought it was normal to masturbate?
Q. so the other day i was playing never have i ever with my friends. we are all 15 and we are like the more popular girls in school. a few have them have had sex and everyone else has been fingered. anyways someone said "never have i ever mastraba...
A. 16 July 2011: its normal and fine to do, i guess they just were too embarrassed to admit it
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He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?
Q. hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...
A. 16 July 2011: see this for what it is - you fell for a fantasy characher who doesn't exist. this predatator of a man is now really angry that you turned out to be too smart for his lies, hence the nasty messages.
i know you feel very hurt and dissapoi... (read in full...)
Have I scared him away with my behaviour? What should I do now?
Q. Hello all I need some advice. I was seeing a man for 15 months when he ended it and told me that e cared for me but could not give me what I wanted. He told me that he wanted to stay friends. I have never stayed friends with and ex before and in...
A. 16 July 2011: when you say you have 'hardly' heard from him, that means you HAVE heard from him though? its only natural that he is not gonna be as attentive as usual while he is on a stag weekend. i bet none of the lads are bothering to contact their wives and ... (read in full...)
We just broke up, but I'm still in love with her!
Q. i recently broke up with my girlfriend of two months, it was an internet relationship and we never even met. i was madly in love with her and i still am, she loved me too and i believe she did. she doesnt love me anymore though, and we stayed ...
A. 16 July 2011: i am sorry to hear you are hurting, just because it was a short relationship and you had not met in person, does not mean you cannot have really powerful feelings about a person, but i can promise you that the loss you feel at the moment will get ... (read in full...)
Lost, insucure and anxious without my teacher being with me. I'm petrified shes going to abandon me. Why do I feel this way?
Q. I am desperatly in love with my female teacher and i dont know what to do. have been really really depressed in this last year and she is the one who stopped me self harming for good. She is literally the only one i trust out of everybody i know ...
A. 16 July 2011: you are fixated on this teacher and you know this is not good because there is a very good chance that one day you will be parted. you need to establish a way to cope with your self harming issues that does not involve being reliant on another ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is really tall, how can I kiss him?
Q. My boyfriend is really tall and he wants to kiss me but I dont know how to kiss a tall guy :-( help...
A. 16 July 2011: he will have to lean over, or if you are both sitting there will be no problem anyway
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Woman is friendly at work, but not outside.
Q. There is a very attractive single girl in my office, brunette, always wears high heels etc, who, when we see each other when alone, or when she is at her desk, she always says hi, or makes lots of eye contact and smiles etc. We havent really had any ...
A. 16 July 2011: well as you have not had a conversation yet even in work i suppose she would feel silly approaching you when out of work as it seems like you would not have anything to say to each other. i would get to know her more, chat, small talk whatever in ... (read in full...)
Ex wants me back after I met someone new!
Q. My ex and I have a little boy together. We went on a break 6 months ago because we were not getting along. He wanted some distance and I was hurt badly by this response. I thought I would never get over my ex. Now I have met a new guy and I was ...
A. 16 July 2011: i don't want to put a dampener on your new found happiness but just a word of caution - beware a man who seems to good to be true and who talks about marriage too soon. just keep your feet on the ground ok? so you can look at him and your ex ... (read in full...)
Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?
Q. Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...
A. 14 July 2011: yeah you did the right thing in leaving him. he has either been cheating or has been trying to cheat, only a matter of time before some desperate woman would have agreed to meet up with him. stay strong, remember: he is not someone to be trusted
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I'm 24 and still a virgin, is this normal?
Q. Hi cupid, I'm a "straight" guy age 24 and im still virgin.. is it normal? ...
A. 14 July 2011: sure you are later than some people, but don't see it in terms of being 'normal' or not. you are who you are. virginity does not define you, you are more than that.
you will lose it when the time is right and you meet the right one. better t... (read in full...)
Girl is into me, now is really quiet, almost absent!
Q. I met this woman that I think is fabulous. Mutual attraction right off the bat. before long we exchanged numbers, and for several days, she was all in my business, calling me every day, from early in the morning to noon, and then late at night. she ...
A. 14 July 2011: to be honest i am not sure about the Gemini thing, i am not a true believer in astrology. why has she opted out of life at the moment? it sounds as though she might be depressed. if she is prone to a depressive personality, you are in for a ... (read in full...)
Husband skinny dipping with my Bf and now hes texted her behind my back, how do I deal with this ?
Q. I caught my husband skinny dipping with my best friend, who is also married. I feel he cheated even though they said nothing happened but it still hurts the same. This is not the first time he has done something like this to hurt me. When I ...
A. 14 July 2011: i understand that although its easy for us all to tell you to get rid of him, when you have got house/marriage/children things are not that simple.
i am sorry to hear he has been a dick again after the flirting that went on last time (oh and by t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend caught me masturbating and said I was cheating!
Q. Hi everyone, So ive been dating this guy for 2yrs now, and i always ask him to take showers with me and his response everytime is no, then when i was in the shower i was masterbating when he caught me. When i got out of the shower he was so mad a...
A. 13 July 2011: is he for real?? mind you, we do get a lot of posts from women on here who are upset coz their man does it, i would've thought most men would love to catch their girlfriend doing it though! tell him it ISN'T cheating at all. be careful with this ... (read in full...)
Does she like me or the other guy?
Q. Well there is this girl that i think she might have an intrest in me, but there is this other guy in the picture, and i think that she might like him or maybe not. (Keep in mind that me and this girl already had a flirting thing going so) Well f...
A. 13 July 2011: sounds like you have got some competition so if you want to be the one she chooses you have got to work for it. be nice, be charming, don't have jealous tantrums, don't flirt with other girls to get her jealous, ask her out coz while you are waiting ... (read in full...)
He led me to believe that he cared for me, then just went cold.
Q. I became friends with a guy for almost 2 years whom I really enjoyed. He was kind and caring,we used to have conversations about his girlfriend and my failing relationship with my husband long story short I am going through a seperation and one ...
A. 13 July 2011: you were there for him when he needed a kind pair of ears to listen to his girlfriend problems. i think this put you in a friend zone and he probably did and still does love you to some extent as a friend. he went and found a girlfriend for the ... (read in full...)
What is love?
Q. I have a huge crush on someone and I also thinks he loves me too, but does'nt know how to tell me do you think he loves me the way i do?...
A. 13 July 2011: how do you treat him? does he treat you the same? - this will show pretty much if he feels the way you do. (and it is IS all about his behaviour to you - not his words)
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I need advice to get her back
Q. So here's my situation in a nutshell...I have been trying to get back with my ex gf for a while now we still talk, she tells me she needs her space and I am giving it to her we still go to weddings and other stuff together...she tells me that she ...
A. 13 July 2011: the reason you broke up - is the problem still present? i mean if you get back together will things be any different? be careful that she is not keeping you dangling so she has got a date to go to all these weddings etc with, and be honest with ... (read in full...)
His lil sis is wrecking my head with her childish behavior, help !!
Q. I am so annoyed and upset with my bfs little sister. She has really annoyed me because their other brother has a fiancé and his sister has her head up her effing arse! She wrote on her facebook wall. "Beth we should go on holiday. Would be soo cool ...
A. 13 July 2011: from what you write it seems as though you don't like the girl so she may be picking up on this and that is why she is not so drawn to you as she is with the other brother's GF? plus, if the other GF has been part of their family longer than you ... (read in full...)
Husband skinny dipping with my Bf and now hes texted her behind my back, how do I deal with this ?
Q. I caught my husband skinny dipping with my best friend, who is also married. I feel he cheated even though they said nothing happened but it still hurts the same. This is not the first time he has done something like this to hurt me. When I ...
A. 13 July 2011: first of all the 'drunken mistake' theory that people very often like to use in situations like this - if they were sober enough to get their clothes off and get in a pool, they were sober enough to know what they were doing. they knew it was a bad ... (read in full...)
Girl is into me, now is really quiet, almost absent!
Q. I met this woman that I think is fabulous. Mutual attraction right off the bat. before long we exchanged numbers, and for several days, she was all in my business, calling me every day, from early in the morning to noon, and then late at night. she ...
A. 13 July 2011: she sounds a bit of a moody girl (maybe a typical gemini?) - i mean she is all over you one minute but then seems to be pushing you away - it looks to me as if she may have a bit of a downer on men (the way she has told you she doesn't like pervs ... (read in full...)
Dating a girl with a child, what do people think about it?
Q. I need to know,what are peoples views on girls/women with children.What do guys think about it,is it something guys would go for,or stay away from,also what are the statistics, and societys perception of it.Also give reasons as to why or why you ...
A. 13 July 2011: it depends on what sort of mother she is. if she is a good mum she will not be available to see you whenever you want unless she has a childminder, the child will always take first place in her affection/attention. she may or may not want to have ... (read in full...)
What do my b/f's comments during sex mean?
Q. Hi all. Your insights plz?I have been with my bf for about four months,and during sex he often tells me not to give myself to any other man,and not to give my private part to any other man. Why does he say this? Is he possesive? How should I take ...
A. 12 July 2011: he may find it sexy to take 'ownership' of you. i think its just a bit of sex chat that gets him off, some blokes like to feel like they are the boss, the owner. does he show jealousy at other times? does he want to check your phone? does he turn up ... (read in full...)
I really do think we should split up but what do I say?
Q. I am really stuck on how to handle this with out it becoming a real mess so some advice is needed please. I would be so grateful. I am currently married for 4 yrs this year but we have been together for 16 yrs. I was 15 he 18 and I am not 31. Re...
A. 12 July 2011: " But I dont want to seem as if we are breaking up to find something better."
but that is what you are hoping to do isn't it? if you leave him he is going to be hurt no matter what so you may just as well be honest with him. you don't know how... (read in full...)
Girl is into me, now is really quiet, almost absent!
Q. I met this woman that I think is fabulous. Mutual attraction right off the bat. before long we exchanged numbers, and for several days, she was all in my business, calling me every day, from early in the morning to noon, and then late at night. she ...
A. 12 July 2011: can i ask how you met? in person or online dating site or something? maybe she has met someone else and is keeping her options a bit more open, she may have a personality disorder that has made her retreat from you and maybe everything else for a ... (read in full...)
Should I date a man 15 years my senior, whom I share few common interests with?
Q. Should I pursue a relationship with someone who is 15 years older than me. I'm physically attracted to him and he is incredibly caring but we have no common interest. Although we can talk to each other for hours about various things. He is very ...
A. 12 July 2011: why not give it a go if you get on well and find him attractive? if he is a decent guy what harm can it do? you never get a guarantee with any relationship, no matter what the ages are. you may think you share no interests now, but together you ... (read in full...)
What is going on with my three close friends..and how can I talk to them about it?
Q. I'm wondering what's going on with my friends? 3 of my close friends have all of them been less than friendly lately, in each their own way. And I'm wondering if Im making a mountain out of a mole hill, or if I should speak to them about it? All of ...
A. 12 July 2011: these three are not what i would call true friends. you have done your best for them and they don't seem to be meeting you anywhere near halfway. you can tell them what they have done that has upset you, but i suspect it won't change anything. ... (read in full...)
My GF wants me to remove a tattoo from my chest which spells my late sister's name, because my ex had the same name, and my GF doesn't want to be reminded of my ex!
Q. My twin sister died a few years ago in a car accident. I was really affected by her death. She wasn't just my sister but my best friend. I got a tattoo of her name on my chest so that she'll always be next to my heart. I have been seeing a...
A. 11 July 2011: no, don't get it removed. this girl is obviously the jealous type. if you do as she says with this tattoo, there will always be other stuff she can find to be jealous of so you may decide in the future that you don't wanna stay with her anyway, in ... (read in full...)
How can I stop them calling me this nickname?
Q. Hello - can anyone help with this please? It may seem so stupid but..two of my boyfriend's female friends (who he has known for over 10 years and they are married to his best friends) have started calling me a nickname. It isn't a nasty one, just ...
A. 11 July 2011: just tell them you it gets on your nerves. they probably think you find it as funny as they do, it will be probably a hard habit for them to break now and they will probably slip up the odd time but hopefully eventually they'll get over it!
if yo... (read in full...)
There's something wrong when my fiance isn't coming home until dawn is breaking
Q. I have been with my fiancee for over 5 years. I love her, and couldn't imagine my life without her. That isn't to say we aren't without our problems. Our most pressing issue is that we work different schedules. I'm an attorney, and she's in the ...
A. 11 July 2011: even if she comes home at 1am, she won't really be able to spend any quality time with you coz you'll be asleep but how often does she say out partying until dawn? if its very often through the week then yes, there is something wrong and you may ... (read in full...)
Am I Pregnant ?
Q. i miss my period in june and its now july and my period has not arrived as yet.... i took a preg test on friday and its negative..do u think even though it negative at that time i'm pregnant?......
A. 8 July 2011: you could be. sometimes a pregnancy test can give a false negative result. test it again, a couple of times. if you still don't have a period, see your doctor to find out why
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Is it because I'm a virgin?
Q. Hey, so im 16 and im dating my brothers friend who is 23. We are very close and have no secrets. He wants to marry me and have me live with him once I turn 18. He has this issue down south and he gets an extremely unbearable pain if he doesnt have ...
A. 8 July 2011: "guys i understand you think its bullshit, but he even said he'd take me to a doctor appt. with him to prove it"
so, has he taken you to this appointment with him yet?? to me the problem here isn't just the fact that a 23 year old is dating a... (read in full...)
My fiance is demanding I have a DNA test, even though I only cheated once back in 2010!
Q. Dear cupid, Me and my fiance are expecting our 1st baby. He wants a DNA test, just because I messed around just 1 time and that was last year (2010)! IT'S A NEW YEAR! I mean, he's actually "insisting" that i get a DNA test... I just got pregnant...
A. 8 July 2011: makes perfect sense to me. he knows you cheated once WAY WAY back in 2010 - so how does he know you haven't cheated since?
have you ever been cheated on? if you had you should understand how he feels now. i'd get the test if i were you. i think yo... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 8 July 2011: Anna is either the QUEEN of playing hard to get or she is avoiding you coz she isn't interested in a date. She has got your number from the business card you left and she knows you have been trying to get in touch with her at the diner. why don't ... (read in full...)
I'm having sex with my best friend's married father who is 54!
Q. Basically, i am having sex with my bestfriends dad. I am 25 and he is 54. He is still married and has been for 27 years. His wife is 58 and he says she dows not share the same sexual desire as he does. It all began 3 month ago when i stumbled...
A. 7 July 2011: you ask 'is he worth it?' - you tell us!
is he worth losing your best friend for? coz that's what will happen if she finds out! she won't take kindly to the two of you doing the dirty on her mother and YOU will get the blame coz he is HER DAD so b... (read in full...)
Feel worthless over Boyfriends cruel comment.
Q. My boyfriend said to me while drunk tonight "you cant even have children what good are you??" Now I am in tears, it hurt me so bad. I feel like giving up now. He made me feel more worthless then I already do...
A. 7 July 2011: your boyfriend is an arse. you heard the phrase 'alcohol loosens the tongue'? his drunken comment is probably what he feels all the time but when sober he can keep a lid on it.
bottom line - a big problem is if he wants kids and you cannot h... (read in full...)
Is there any point to dating and relationships if you are infertile?
Q. My partners ex, was fertile and had children for my partner. I am infertile and cannot have any children. My partner seems okay with this, but his mother told me that I should do the right thing and leave him, so he can have a family and be happy ...
A. 7 July 2011: your boyfriends mum has a disgusting attitude! the thing is, yes you could leave him and he could meet someone else, have ten kids with them and be miserable every day with that woman.
sounds like your boyfriends mum wants grandchildren. is he he... (read in full...)
I fell for a teacher, he kissed me, sent me roses daily, I got sick, he moved on, what do I do now??
Q. My name is Alex (I'm a girl). I'm a freshman at highschool. When I started school I saw a very cute guy (he must be about 26) who was a teacher at the school (he isn't really my teacher, he doesn't teach at my classroom). We kinda liked each other, ...
A. 4 July 2011: your teacher realises that what he did was really stupid and could cost him his career as if he gets fired from your school, no other school will employ him either.
he wants to move on from this and if you care about him at all you will accept t... (read in full...)
Does deleted message from my wife phone mean anything?
Q. A year ago there was this guy whom my wife befriended. She said he told he he love her but she declined his broposal. I told her to cut her cuntact with him to help him to deal with it and she agreed. But they kept texting since then. Yesterday ...
A. 4 July 2011: i don't like the way your wife twists this to 'you should just trust me' sorry but her behaviour is not trustworthy. regardless of how she might feel about him, she KNOWS that he is in love with/attracted to her. a married lady should not have male ... (read in full...)
Successful cheaters only, tell me your stories.
Q. Hi, I was curious to hear of stories from women who have had affairs with married men and got their happy ending. Please no slander or judgements, all I would like to hear about is stories that have come out the other side were a married man has ...
A. 3 July 2011: there will be stories i am sure where a married man is genuine when he says he has found himself married to the wife from hell, so he cheats and the mistress turns out to be all he ever wanted so he ends up marrying her and is happy ever after - but ... (read in full...)
How can I make my life better?
Q. My problem is that i have had so many bad experiences with people, especially men, that i am finding it hard to trust people, and i don't want to socialise that much. I also suffer from depression and get panic attacks sometimes, and don't have much ...
A. 3 July 2011: same here luv! i suppose all we can do is NOT GIVE UP, although giving up trying seems like the easiest thing to do. make yourself accept invitations, make yourself take exercise and eat healthily coz this will make your mind feel better, tell ... (read in full...)
I fell for a teacher, he kissed me, sent me roses daily, I got sick, he moved on, what do I do now??
Q. My name is Alex (I'm a girl). I'm a freshman at highschool. When I started school I saw a very cute guy (he must be about 26) who was a teacher at the school (he isn't really my teacher, he doesn't teach at my classroom). We kinda liked each other, ...
A. 3 July 2011: he's a paedophile if he is going around picking up young girls at his school! i can't actually believe your mum condones this and wants to have to speak to him for facilitate this 'relationship'
in spite of how utterly wrong this is, i apprecia... (read in full...)
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