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My husband gave his blessings for my having an affair. Opinions?

Q.   Okay, maybe I shouldn't have to think so hard about this, but I'm in a predicament...I'm married to a wonderful and kind and loving and a man who thinks the world of me and an acquaintance friend of ours (we're all the same age)wants to get toge...

A.   20 February 2011: i personaly think that it is wrong.you and your husband are one now you are tryiong two bring in another person.you guys go to church,so for the answer you need go to church and do what it will tell you.all the best in what you choose to do.... (read in full...)

He broke up with me because of family issues

Q.   my boyfriend of one month broke up with me because he said he has personal family problems and can handle being in a relationship he told me that he didn't want to break up with me and that he really liked me but he did anyways he said he needs ...

A.   20 February 2011: Do you know anything about the problems he is talking about? If so are they that much as to warrant a breakup? If not then he is not the right guy for you. Just forget about him. ... (read in full...)

Desperate is the word for me

Q.   Desperate is a big word for me...I have lost many girls due to being desperate or clingy. I have met a girl recently and I really like her. We first met in a swing dancing club I am in at my college and found out we have a class together. That ...

A.   20 February 2011: there is no problem with you calling or texting her,but pay attention to the feedback you get when you do those thing.If its positive then will have to go in that direction but if its the oppositve then you will have no choice but to get her ... (read in full...)

Am I ready? Are we ready? It's confusing.

Q.   I've been with my girlfriend for about 14 months and i love her so much. We've been through much and we trust each other at a high level. But I got a question. We've talked about sex and she says she wants me and I want her too. We've talked about ...

A.   20 February 2011: sex is not something that you just have,you must be sure of what you decide on doing because it comes with its own chalenges and are you ready for them too?but if the two of you are sure that its what you want then go ahead and do it.... (read in full...)

She's not a virgin but doesn't want to have sex with me!

Q.   Hello everyone, thanks for taking the time to read my question. Anyhow so I currently have a girlfriend. She is not a virgin; I am. We have been dating for 8 months now and I want to have sex but she keeps telling me she wants to wait until ...

A.   20 February 2011: I read your msg twice to understand everything and the one thing that comes out is that you dont love this girl because you can't leave someone you love because they are not ready to have sex with you,you also expect her to have it with you because ... (read in full...)

Could I have gotten HIV from this? Condom broke!

Q.   hello guys, im kinda freakin out right now. yesterday i went clubbing with some friends and we got really drunk. and there was this girl next to me. so i went to talk to her and we danced and everything. later on she went home with me and we had ...

A.   20 February 2011: you can get it but be positive and just get tested to be sure.... (read in full...)

He flirts with me when she's not around but ignores me when she is around

Q.   i like this guy but he likes somebody else who knows i like him and flirts with him all the time to annoy me and it works. she just seems to lead him on and isn't actually intrested in him. i dont know what to do he sort of likes me and flirts with ...

A.   17 February 2011: Before you you get to deep in him leave because he is not decided on who he is intrested in.Give him time to think about who he like,iof its you he will come to tell you and if he just loves to flirt then he is bad for you.Love and care for ... (read in full...)

Her past just eats away at me

Q.   here der is dis girl who loves me. we are together since last 2 years. before getting into relationship she told me about her past and that too that she is not virgin. she cried about it i was hurt but just in order to make her comfortable i told ...

A.   16 February 2011: the love yopu have for her should make you forget her past thats eating you and you must creat new memories that you can dream about.Remember everyone has a past but some are fortunate and some are not.If the girl is in love with you and is willing ... (read in full...)

Her past just eats away at me

Q.   here der is dis girl who loves me. we are together since last 2 years. before getting into relationship she told me about her past and that too that she is not virgin. she cried about it i was hurt but just in order to make her comfortable i told ...

A.   16 February 2011: the love yopu have for her should make you forget her past thats eating you and you must creat new memories that you can dream about.Remember everyone has a past but some are fortunate and some are not.If the girl is in love with you and is willing ... (read in full...)

She's cheated on my 6 times now and doesn't know I know...

Q.   My girlfriend, and lead singer of my band, has cheated on me 6 times. I still love her, im hopeless like this. She doesn't know i know, but, what do i do? I really love her, and i just blame myself for not always being there for her. Should i tell h...

A.   16 February 2011: the young lady can not be trusted dear.I have seen the age indicated and your both not old enough to be going through that type of thing,you can do much better.... (read in full...)

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