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I feel I am probably losing her - what can I do?

Q.   Hi, I met my girlfriend in high school. We went to college in the same city. After college I bought an apartment and we moved together. We have been together for 10 years. I am her only serious boyfriend. We are the best friend of each other an...

A.   28 June 2008: I hear a lot of you trying and don't really hear of what she is doing. Coming from experience I know how you feel. But in the end you need to care for each other and communication has to be an all time high. find time even if its only an hour for ... (read in full...)

She likes me but doesn't love me...how can I make her love me??

Q.   40 and i love lady how is 24yers old but she send me email taling me {that you know that i like you, but i dont love you}. so pls how cain i make hemer loves me...

A.   27 June 2008: in relationships nothing comes with a guarantee that says " will love you" If you want a guarantee buy an appliance. Other wise it's all risk. We risk they will love us in return as much as we love them. My point is you cant MAKE any one love ... (read in full...)

I think I may have been date raped by my boss.

Q.   I think I was date-raped. I ran in to my boss in a bar after I had already been drinking, and he offered to get me a drink. I asked for a vodka orange, but he asked me if I would prefer vodka redbull, and got me that instead. After that drink, I...

A.   12 May 2008: Go to the hospital now! Do not wait, if he used the date rape drug you will not remember anything. At least not right away. Not only that you have STD's to worrie about. Do not let this monster get away with this. Go and get tested at the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend slept with my bestfriend, I can't forget it

Q.   My boyfriend slept with my best friend, i cant forget and its causing problems in are relationship. I have also cheated to get even but now i feel just as bad. What can i do ?...

A.   27 April 2008: you have said one thing right you are 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you. The thing is he is much older and should have known better but I have been in the same situation soo with that being said. My advise is IF it is serious then you ... (read in full...)

How do we get out of the same old boring routine?

Q.   i am in an almost 5yr relationship w/ my byfrnd. i am 34 he is 33. we live together, but it is more like roomates, how do we get out of this bored routine?...

A.   17 April 2008: Unfortuantly routine happens in relationships sometimes good, sometimes bad. If you want things to change then change it. Instead of just coming home and watching tv set up a romantic evening, don't wait for him to make the move. Also sit down ... (read in full...)

How long to fall pregnant after sex?

Q.   My current girlfriend fell pregnant two months after she was dumped by her former boyfriend. Is it possible that her former boyfriend is the father of the child? Some people are suggesting that she might have slept with someone else after the ...

A.   17 April 2008: The only true way to know is a paternity test. as for how long before you know you are pregnant all depends on the women and her biology. I have known 2 women who kept getting their cycle all the way up until the 6th month and had no clue they ... (read in full...)

We are both married so how do I tell her my feelings? She was my first love...

Q.   I am having a real problem getting over my ex, and I really could use some advise. I am sorry if it seems so long. First, let me say a little about our relationship. When we met, she was a few years younger than I was and she was my first love, ...

A.   13 April 2008: First let me say how sorry I am to hear of your situation but from a completely objective point of view there is NO WAY you can go to this woman and tell her how you feel. At least not without permantly damanging your relationship with your brother ... (read in full...)

Why is my husband back and suddenly being overly nice?

Q.   My husband left me for another woman after 24 years. When he left he acted arrogant and cocky. He rarely called or visited the children. If we needed anything he always said he did not have money and I was paying all the bills myself. Now he come...

A.   2 April 2008: Sometimes we all make mistakes. It seems as though he went though a mid-life crises. Which sometimes happens and leaves the hurt party on their own to suffer. But at the same time abandon your kids and shun all responsability to them? That is a ... (read in full...)

He cheated, I got upset but he forgave me, how do we start over?

Q.   The man I have been sleeping with recently forgave me for all the hateful things i said after I found out he was sleeping with another women besides me. Even though i am grateful for the fact that he forgives me and wants to continue seeing me I am ...

A.   7 March 2008: let me get this straight, HE cheated and you bitched him out and he forgave you? Well isn't he the slick one. You have every right to be angry and say hurtfull things and he should be lucky that you are still speaking to him. How convienent of him ... (read in full...)

I am considering cheating

Q.   I have been married for 10 yrs have 2 children but have had an all but non existent sex life during the marriage. I have tried seducing her buying presents doing all the household chores and even explaining that i will have to walk away from the ...

A.   6 March 2008: I've read all the posts. You love your wife that is obvious. Some women (including myself). Need things put bluntly in front of their face. I will bet money she has no clue that something is wrong. Infact I will bet she will be hurt that you ... (read in full...)

Puppy love but cheating in my dreams, what's it mean?

Q.   I have a girlfriend who's 9, i'm 11 she seemed shy when we first met, what could that mean? Also i had a dream about cheating on her, could this mean anything either?...

A.   10 February 2008: She is 9 and you are 11.. relax you have and entire lifetime ahead of you. Dreams are just that, Dreams. And most girls are shy at first. Have fun and take care... (read in full...)

Do you think what I did was cheating?

Q.   I have been married for 14 years and a year ago my best friend and I had too much to drink and we kissed for less then 2 minutes(female). I told my husband yesterday and he said I cheated so it's over. Do you think that is cheating?...

A.   27 September 2007: ok. so one drunken 2 min kiss equals 14 yrs of marriage down the drain? I'll bet if you said "I consider looking at other women cheating" that would be a different story. Yes you kissed someone else of the same sex and there is no excuse.. it was ... (read in full...)

He states he just wants to move on. How can I? He lied right to my face over and over on my birthday even.

Q.   About 2 months ago I suspected my boyfriend was cheating.. so I had girlfriend make up a fake name on myspace and email him... saying she liked him and asked if he was in a relationship, he responded by saying he cared for the person he was with but ...

A.   26 September 2007: I think all of the answers were correct! I did violate his space but to me it's justified.. I also found solid proof. No I don't believe he physically cheated but was looking for something better. After this insidint I put up my own dating sites ... (read in full...)

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