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| | cgrlygo's profile:Hmmm write some things about me.... well that would certainly be amusing. I mean if I actually wrote some of the thoughts I were thinking they would most certainly never be published. But that's life isn't it.
Life makes me tick and stupidity ticks me off..lol
I live in VA.
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She seems genuine but guarded. Should I wait?
Q. I met this woman recently, we had a couple of dates. We clicked very well, both were very intrigued by each other. But when it came to being intimate on a number of occasions she had a hard time to open up. Sometimes I think she unknowingly had ...
A. 21 November 2009: whats one week opposed to a life time of happiness? Im not saying she's the one but, its deffiently worth the wait. Not to many people are honest out there and the fact that she is upfront with you is a good sign. I would wait it out.. what are ... (read in full...)
Could one little white lie ruin my relationship?
Q. Me and my man have been together since may this year and i feel like he does not trust me. For example, yesterday i had to work and had only two dollars to get me to work and no money to get home. I called a couple of my friends to pick me up but ...
A. 12 November 2009: the first question that screams out to me is why didnt you call your bf first? I mean, i understand not wanting to walk home... and i can even understand why you lied... so he wouldn't freak out.. but, a lie is still a lie. now you have to fix it. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to turn my back on a girl whose trying so hard to fight her addiction, but my wife doesn't trust me with her.
Q. 18 months ago my wife who is a social worker asked me to hire a girl that she was working with at my office. She 21 yrs old and was a recovering a drug addict that was trying to get her life in order. My wife convinced me that this girl was perfect ...
A. 12 November 2009: How to get my wife to see thatI cant turn my back on Kayla. I dont love her and there is nothign going on between us . but as a friedn I have to make sure she is ok.
were you thinking of your wife as you were having sex with your friend?
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Whats happening?
Q. Does sex make your areola darker and bigger? Cuz mine are darker and bigger......
A. 31 October 2009: well then, maybe a congratulations is in order! :) keep us posted and good luck?... (read in full...)
Whats happening?
Q. Does sex make your areola darker and bigger? Cuz mine are darker and bigger......
A. 30 October 2009: Are you sure that you are 26? Um no sex does not do that ( at least not that i have ever heard of) pregnancy does.... (read in full...)
Help, my parents wont give me any freedom. What can I do?
Q. My parent's wont give me any freedom. Im 16 and Im getting my license in a year which means I have to rely on my parents to drive me places the problem is they wont let me go anywhere without them. I can't go to the mall alone. I can't go to the ...
A. 30 October 2009: well we could chit chat on here all day but what it boils down to is you and your parents. Although I agree with them on most points such as the mall and movies. And rape is the least of their worries... not coming home is the main one. Sleep overs ... (read in full...)
Anal sex is far to painful for me and I feel like a failure but I can't do it any more... help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have a great sex life, despite him working long hours on most days. he's wonderful, like mr. perfect, and i really love him, but i have a really big problem. He's really keen on anal sex, but i've tried it two to three times, and ...
A. 29 October 2009: actually anal sex is about relaxation and if you don't know how it will be painful. If you want to discuss it in private you can pm me. I will be glad to give you some great techniques. :-)... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he talk to me when his wife's around?
Q. I know a guy who is married and he is very friendly and talktive with me when his wife is not around and when she is around us he pretty much doesn't talk to me at all. Just say hi. I am married too. I don't think he flirts with me, if he does I ...
A. 29 October 2009: I agree with cg, being friends is fine but being to close just might get you caught in the cross fire. It sounds as though there are some issues with her trusting him... I would take that as a warning and steer clear.... (read in full...)
Since I lost my job my marriage has gone downhill...
Q. I lost my job 10 months ago and since then my marriage has gone down hill. We have been married for 15 years and have 4 kids. We have lost everything we have worked so hard for. We just filed bankruptcy and our home is in the process of ...
A. 29 October 2009: Sometimes when we are stressed we take it out most on the one we love. My BF says its the "scorched earth policy". I do this when I am stressed about something. Right now he is worried about everything as well as you. The key is to keep trying ... (read in full...)
14 and pregnant...Help!!
Q. Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP...
A. 28 October 2009: there are other alternatives than abortion. like adoption. My other question is, do your parents know? and what have they said? this is something you will have to discuss with them... as they will be the ones raising it with you. this is not a ... (read in full...)
Would a baby be good for our relationship?
Q. I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I'v...
A. 27 October 2009: Don't let him pressure you into giving up your life! He is way older and the fact that you are friends is fine.. but a baby? No way have fun, your young and you have the right to enjoy life. If you were to have a baby.. that will all be over, no ... (read in full...)
My boobs are already too big...how do I stop them from growing?
Q. heyy :) ok soo my names Lacey. im 16 and a junior in high school. this is my first post sooo bare with me haha. well im 5'1" and103 lbs, i have a pretty tight body, theres jus one thing... my boobs wont stop getting bigger! ever since i was 13 they ...
A. 27 October 2009: i understand where you are comming from... finding clothes, feeling comfortable enough to wear a bathing suit... But, the only thing you can do is wait until your old enough to have a reduction. ... (read in full...)
Could I be falling for another sex addict or is this just a strong attraction to each other?
Q. Hello, I am divorced and in a newer relationship with a nice man. I really like him a lot because he is very attentive. He makes me feel like I am #1 in his life. unlike my ex husband who wouldn't even carry a cell phone, this man will answer his ...
A. 27 October 2009: dear, if you re-read your post you will know how much sex is too much. Its too much when you don't want it. Its too much when your turned off by it. Sometimes while looking for the pot of gold we neglect to see the beautiful rainbow. My point ... (read in full...)
Are my boyfriend's reactions to the abuse he suffered normal?
Q. hi please can anyone tell me if my bf`s behaviour is normal? hes lied so much im startin to wonder what to think. i met him in 07 when he was 34. he told me that between the ages of 12 to 15 he had been sexually abused by his stepfather. the abuse ...
A. 24 October 2009: as much as i would like to say... do this and do that... none of this will help.
the only answer is therapy. He will need it and so will you. There is only one healthy way to deal with everything and that will be through counseling. It will be ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my son's safety when he's with my ex. There is blood in his diaper, but what can I do without proof?
Q. I am 19 yearsold and I have a 21 month old son and I am seriously worried over my son's safety when he is with my ex boyfriend. On tuesday after I picked up my son he was really upset, and cried the whole way home. When I went to bath him I noticed ...
A. 9 October 2009: i would head straight to the emergency room and get it started there... do not let him go back with his father until you have done that.. please get him checked right away.. don't wait another min. I am so sorry for what he is going through and ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to sit with a bunch of guys I don't know and watch porn? Who's in the wrong here?
Q. Last night my bf started yelling at me heaps because when I met his friends I was quiet and shy. However, I do feel I had good reasons for acting the way I did. Here is why: 1. I didnt even technically "meet them". I mean, he didn't introduc...
A. 7 October 2009: whoa, I have to ask sweetie why would you stay with someone who makes you feel bad about yourself? He is supposed to love you for you. Not make you conform to his expectations.
that is not loving and caring that is dictatorship! as for the ... (read in full...)
Is she thinking about someone else during sex?
Q. On three occasions while having sex with my wife, I've noticed that she turned her face sideways, not looking at me ( our position was that she was under me,while I was on top of her ). She closed her eyes and turned her head side ways. Does this ...
A. 7 October 2009: I turn my head sideways.. cause his chest hairs are all in my face and nose....lol... also.. my nose and face gets crunched. I think all is well just turn her to you and kiss her. i also agree with the other posters.. why not just ask her.... (read in full...)
Sex still hurts!
Q. how do you know if your cherrie has been completely poped or all the extra skin has broke??? please give me sum answers becouse im 16 iv had sex about 25 or more times w/ the same guy and it hurts every time and i hate it!...
A. 7 October 2009: to add to MuffinGirl very good advise.. you may not be lubed enough... so get to the store and buy astroglyde.. or ky jelly... both are water solvable. this i believe along with the relaxation techniques will help alot.... (read in full...)
Why haven't I had a boyfriend yet. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. hey :) i am 15 and i would say i am kind bubbely and chatty.But my freinds say i am stuuning i dont think that though and they say i have everything eg the looks,the body and the persanality but i dont agree! Becouse i have never had a boyfriend ...
A. 7 October 2009: Look at it from a different point of view sweetie, maybe there is something wrong with them.
most guys at young ages feel some what intimidated by beautiful girls... they have a fear of rejection.
Im not going to tell you to not worry about ... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 7 October 2009: well considering the site... again the posts are not for you! grow up!... (read in full...)
The love of my life adds pornstars to his facebook!
Q. My boyfriend is the love of my life, an utterly lovely man, but also a very naughty, horny man. He likes his porno films and has tons. I've never minded this as I do like it to, but recently he's started adding the pornstar girls on his facebook.. ...
A. 7 October 2009: Im not sure about feeling embarrassed but I do understand feeling inferior. I personally would not tell anyone about his face book. The bigger question that comes to mind is addiction. I mean there is no sense of reality here .. odds are he and a ... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 6 October 2009: my point was... the children have to come first... and if you are a child of that scenario it certainly shows. you are damaged.
btw.. children do love their parents unconditionally (when the parents let them).... were not talking young adults..... (read in full...)
Is this lump something I should be worried about?
Q. Hi Guys. I suppose this isn't really relevant to this site, but I'm hoping someone may have had a similar experience, as the stuff i'm finding on the internet is making me worry. I'm 6 1/2 months pregnant, and have noticed a lump next to my nipple ...
A. 5 October 2009: it sounds to be an infected gland.. or infected duct ... more than likely a zit. although to be sure you should go to the doctor. you can also use warm compresses and it to help with the discomfort but it can be very painful. The hot compresses ... (read in full...)
I think my fiance might be cheating on me
Q. I think my fience is cheating on me. we've been together 3 years. we havent seen much of each other,one day a week because of work commitments...but hes been strange,distant and doesnt want to kiss me anymore (apprently because my breath smells) (...
A. 5 October 2009: wow! you guys have been dating for 3 years and you cant look at his phone.. that is a big red flag and i have to agree with most of the other posters. you should sit down and talk with him and ask him what is up.. there is obviously a big lack of ... (read in full...)
I cheated, and I'm afraid my b/f is going to find out
Q. i need urgent help, please. i made a very big mistake. i cheated on my boyfriend. it started off just texting and emailing, then lead to meeting up and kissing. the guy i had an affair with has kept all the texts and one photo. he wont delete them. ...
A. 4 October 2009: well I know you don't want to hear this but, i agree with the first poster.. you may loose him forever but if you lie and get found out your going to loose him and kill any chance of reconciliation. ... (read in full...)
I think my fiance might be cheating on me
Q. I think my fience is cheating on me. we've been together 3 years. we havent seen much of each other,one day a week because of work commitments...but hes been strange,distant and doesnt want to kiss me anymore (apprently because my breath smells) (...
A. 4 October 2009: well, there is not alot to go on but it does seem suspicious, he won't kiss you and then they are both on the phone. It sounds to me like she knows of you and they had it planned to meet up after he was to be dropped off. did he ask to be dropped ... (read in full...)
Has my temper killed this marriage?
Q. I've been married to a kind,patient and gentle man for 9 years. We've had problems in the past with my being negative and having outbursts regarding things that I can't change i.e.traffic, weather, etc. I just quit my job after bering frustrat...
A. 4 October 2009: I am sorry to hear that you are having this issue. There are far too many times in our life that we find out to late. Being on your husbands end there is a breaking point. It just gets to the point where your temper and outbursts don't matter ... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 4 October 2009: also... Daddy will be in the picture FOREVER! thats what happens when you have children with someone.... UNLESS that parent bows out of the picture...
other wise the best interest for the children is to keep things as normal as possible.
tha... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 4 October 2009: well, you obviously don't put your children first.. because any parent knows.. that children don't care who screws who.. they love you unconditionally.
Like I said, getting over something and forgiving are two different things..
also, there i... (read in full...)
Husband with high sex drive wants to try swinging!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have 4 kids together which two of them where born severly mentally handicapped. My husband has a very high sexdrive if it would be up to him we would have sex a few times a day. I have a very low ...
A. 3 October 2009: you should never do anything you are not happy with ever. he wants to cheat and say its something else. My bf suggested things like that... i said sure but after that... we are no longer a couple. I get to screw who i want when i want and you are ... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 3 October 2009: also I might add its much easier to walk away... and that is why the divorce rate is 75%.... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 3 October 2009: actually i did take into account of her sister... read my post again. getting over something and forgiving something are two entirely different things.
all I am saying is this.... PEOPLE THERE ARE 5 CHILDREN INVOLVED!
am I the only grownup... (read in full...)
Caught my b/f with vibrator! What do I do now?
Q. I got out of work early and thought I would surprise my b/f I been dating for a year now by showing up at his apartment last Sunday afternoon. I have a key so I let myself in. I didn't think he was home because the house was quiet. I went to his ...
A. 3 October 2009: and for gods sake don't text,, we are not in grade school. Call the man and leave him a message or speak to him like a grown woman!... (read in full...)
I'm now no better than my cheating husband. I need your help! What should I do?
Q. I don't know what category this comes under, to say my life feels like a mess right now, would be an understatement. I'm desperate for advice or words of wisdom. Have been married fifteen years now and it all started about two years ago, when ...
A. 3 October 2009: go to a lawyer, then to a papers to possibly look for a new place... its been over for a long while. the porn is beside the point... men masturbate in their heads as well as on the net... the meeting and flirting with real women is way out of ... (read in full...)
Caught my b/f with vibrator! What do I do now?
Q. I got out of work early and thought I would surprise my b/f I been dating for a year now by showing up at his apartment last Sunday afternoon. I have a key so I let myself in. I didn't think he was home because the house was quiet. I went to his ...
A. 3 October 2009: the pressure on his prostate makes him cum harder... that's why he uses the vibrator... hell, Ive been known to use various toys as well. if truth be told he did nothing wrong but know his own body. good for him... I don't know why your embarrassed ... (read in full...)
Why does he want to sleep with me now that he's married?
Q. Dear All, I have a problem 14 years ago I was in love and thought I had meet the man who would one day make me his wife. We spent 5 years together and had a child, both of us being young and all we made some stupid choose cheating etc.... The ...
A. 3 October 2009: well, i guess he feels you two have already cheated once, its worth a second shot. ... (read in full...)
My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?
Q. so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...
A. 3 October 2009: ok people screw up.. this is true but I do not agree with 2 cents at all ... you cannot go through life being angry. for one its unhealthy and ultimately hurts no one but you.
Did they screw you over? YES, hands down! Will time help you heal... (read in full...)
We haven't done anything sexual, but she wants to see my penis!
Q. Me and my girl friend are close..we're both 15 and we've been going out for a month. We havent done anything sexual and im not pressuriing her..shes not pressuring me either. We just hug,kiss/makeout/and cuddle. But lately she's been wanting to see ...
A. 3 October 2009: yes, don't do anything you are not comfortable with. Regardless of her reasons or why you think she wants to see it. In the end you have to do what makes you feel comfortable. Trust me, you have a long life ahead of you and when the time is right ... (read in full...)
Maybe if he thinks I'm sick, he'll drop the tough guy act and want to get back together?
Q. i want my bf back but idk how long or if that will happen and i dont want to wait around for him to realize what he let go and what we had. do u ever really get over ur first true love? our break up ended bad and we havent talked since, iv e...
A. 30 September 2009: would you really want someone to be with you just because your sick? I mean think about it., your only here cause Im sick.... Not cause you want to be but because deep down your feeling guilty and would feel worse if I died (god forbid) ...
sick ... (read in full...)
Dating 3 weeks, when do I shave my pubic hair, before we get married or before sex?
Q. i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks. i don't know if i should shave my private area before he and i get marry? or before we have sex? ...
A. 30 September 2009: i am hoping that this is some kind of arranged marriage and this is a joke. Marry after three weeks.. the STD test results are not even in. Shave it all you want, but in three weeks maybe he will have a new bride....
Im sorry and I am not tryi... (read in full...)
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