It started well. All of a sudden he just wanted sex and nothing more. How do I get him more interested in me as his Gf?.
Q. hi people what is going on here im so confused and i really need your help i met a man at the beginning of the year called Z we dated for 9 weeks when we met then all of a sudden he just wanted sex and nothing more. he was with someone for years and ...
A. 13 August 2011: you are looking at the wrong points here - you are more impressed with the fact that he puts loads of kisses on his texts, stares at you, calls you sexy babe. you are failing to see that he lives one minute away but only sees you every few weeks ... (read in full...)
I like wearing makeup but he dislikes it. How do I negotiate some sort of compromise or a truce?
Q. My problem is that I love to wear make-up but my boyfriend hates it. I've been wearing makeup for years now and I always feel more comfortable wearing it. The issue is that my boyfriend recently told me that he thinks I wear too much makeup. This h...
A. 13 August 2011: how did you look when you met him? it could be that he feels insecure about you looking attractive with make up so he wants you to be more plain. could be that you really DO wear too much and it makes you look bad but you don't see it. i think you ... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with him because he's big?
Q. I met this guy while on holiday, he is so charming and I like being with him. He has fallen in love with me and openly says so, I dont feel like I love him, so I dont lie about it. I gave him a blowjob and played with him, I really liked him, he ...
A. 10 August 2011: as long as you are both honest with each other and neither of you ends up disappointed to learn that it is just no strings sex then yes, why not have a bit of fun. just be safe - use a condom
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Do women mind if guys feel their breasts during sex?
Q. Once I was with a prostitute and she seemed to feel uncomfortable because I touched her breasts. I don't know if all women are like this or if I had done something wrong. I understand that you shouldn't do anything to make someone feel uncomfortable ...
A. 10 August 2011: i would imagine the prostitute just wanted the job over and done with without any unnecessary intimacy from you. lost of women love it, some may hate it, if not touched correctly or too rough it can hurt. when you with a partner and you get to ... (read in full...)
What do you do when you like your friend's ex?
Q. Right well I really like this boy I've liked him for about 5 weeks and he likes me exactly the same, the only problem I his ex is one of my friends and they went out for about 5 months and she lost her virginity to him and everything they finished ...
A. 10 August 2011: yep, usually, and your friends are the ones who listen to you and help you get over it when it all goes wrong with a boy, remember that too :)
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What do you do when you like your friend's ex?
Q. Right well I really like this boy I've liked him for about 5 weeks and he likes me exactly the same, the only problem I his ex is one of my friends and they went out for about 5 months and she lost her virginity to him and everything they finished ...
A. 10 August 2011: this will hurt your friend and rightly or wrongly she is forbidding you from being with him. an uwritten rule in dating is 'your friends ex - don't go there'
is she a friend who you don't want to lose? coz that will happen (or at least she won'... (read in full...)
Is my ex having sex with other men?
Q. is my ex having sex with other men? she still shaves her pubic region everyday i found this out cause we ended up having sex one nite out of the blue so why would she still go through the hassle if shes not having sex with others?...
A. 10 August 2011: to keep it tidy. doesn't necessarily mean she is having sex with others, although she might be. why not ask her?... (read in full...)
Is it legal for a 24 year old to date a 17 year old?
Q. Hi to all I've just found out that a friend of mine (24 years old male) is dating a (17 year old female) and just would like know is this legal or illegal and is this right or wrong as i really dont know myself what to say to them both....
A. 10 August 2011: your mate is the one who should decide if this is right for HIM. i suppose it depends on the individuals - lots of 17 year old girls are very very childish and giggly, others are very grown up and likewise some 24 year old guys are more mature than ... (read in full...)
I feel horrible for feeling that his 'size' is an issue!
Q. This is rather embarrassing for me to ask, but I really don't know how to handle this. I've been going with my new boyfriend for a few months now and we finally decided to have sex. I feel so very shallow about this, but size is somewhat an issue ...
A. 9 August 2011: you've only been with him for a few months. i thought dating was supposed to be about trying different people, and ending it with ones who are not right for you? maybe it would be better to let him go and to find someone who is more compatible with ... (read in full...)
Is it legal for a 24 year old to date a 17 year old?
Q. Hi to all I've just found out that a friend of mine (24 years old male) is dating a (17 year old female) and just would like know is this legal or illegal and is this right or wrong as i really dont know myself what to say to them both....
A. 9 August 2011: its legal, sorry! so stop being jealous and don't say anything to them ;)
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We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!
Q. Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months ...
A. 9 August 2011: that sounds like a good thing. slow and steady is best coz being swept off your feet quickly can often land you in an unsafe/unsure place. and always judge a person by their actions - not their words. it worries me that you agreed to getting ... (read in full...)
We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!
Q. Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months ...
A. 9 August 2011: ok so at first he lied about the girl but then when you told him what she had told you he apologised? were they an item for a year? was she aware that it wasn't 'really a relationship'?? you really need to have someone who is a bit more impartial to ... (read in full...)
Worries about test results.
Q. The other day i took a chlamydia test and i have had a boyfriend for 6 months, i took another one just after i had sex with him the first few times and i was clear, but now i'm panicking i haven't passed this one, even though there is no way to fail ...
A. 9 August 2011: sorry i don't understand why if the first test was ok and you have not been with anyone else, why have you taken the test again?? no result is 100% accurate but they are as near as damn it, so are you saying your latest result has come back ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be alone, I want a guy in my life!
Q. Hi, I'm a 16 year old gay guy and I'm so desperate to fall in love. I'm so tired of being alone and depressed it's so much harder for us to find good, genuine, lasting relationships. I just want to find a boy that makes me happy and that I'm able ...
A. 9 August 2011: get some help to get over the depression that your life has caused you. do not depend on the knight in shining armour to rescue you, it might never happen and your desperation to get a guy and be in love and loved by him will likely lead to make bad ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him and see if he tries to make up again?
Q. Ok, so i'm with this guy for 2 months, and there already started to be problems.First , he isn't showing me that much affection, which disturbs me and he is not that serious in the relationship.It takes him 3 hours to reply to my texts and then ...
A. 9 August 2011: you have only been in the relationship for 8 weeks and this doesn't seem to be getting off to a good start. but not just because of him but you too.
you want more affection than he wants to give.
it is ok to not leave it for 3 hours before rep... (read in full...)
We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!
Q. Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months ...
A. 9 August 2011: hmm. his behaviour seems evasive (visiting the capital without telling you and then being shifty when you asked) and the girl who said they were together for a year (get this verified by someone you trust) there seem to have been a number of red ... (read in full...)
We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!
Q. Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months ...
A. 9 August 2011: maybe you are hyper vigilant and hypersensitive because of your past experiences. ideally what you should have done is got help to build your shattered self confidence back up BEFORE embarking on a new relationship. maybe your BF is just friendly ... (read in full...)
We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!
Q. Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months ...
A. 9 August 2011: his friends could be lying or exaggerating, maybe the girls are just friends, maybe you are being over cautious OR it could be that he is exactly what you fear he is and what his friends accuse him of. you will need to keep your eyes well and truly ... (read in full...)
Dad is being overprotective because of my new boyfriend. Help!
Q. As many replies needed! new boyfriend, only pecked, not sure how to get off with him, going to his house soon , never met a bf's parents before really really nervous. and ever since ive got a bf my dads been acting really protective and t...
A. 8 August 2011: communication is the key to solving most problems though. you need to at least TRY. is your mum still on the scene? if so get her to help you talk to him. i can understand his concerns. he still thinks you are his little girl and he does not want ... (read in full...)
We've rushed into engagement - now his friends are telling me he's a player!
Q. Hi people. I've got this problem with this guy that I think we rushed too fast and he's that kind of guy who flirts a lot with girls and he's almost got more girl friends than male friends. Basically we're engaged after just three months ...
A. 8 August 2011: IF you marry him you are gonna have an insecure life with him. if HIS friends are telling you he's a player, then you should listen to them. Don't stay with him just coz you lost your virginity. You know you have made a mistake by rushing into ... (read in full...)
I wanted to cheat with him knowing he has a girlfriend!
Q. Hey I'm T and I am 18. I have this friend that's recently appeared back into my life after we ran into each other... he is a gorgeous guy and we can talk for hours. He's with this really crazy girl and he hates it - he doesn't want to be with her ...
A. 8 August 2011: ok, this rings alarm bells to me. this guy is telling you that his GF is SO bad? why is he still with her then? he needs to get rid if she is SO awful - be careful - this might be a line he uses to get girls on the side but to let them know that he ... (read in full...)
Should older women stop taking birth control pills??
Q. I think I want to start having kids by beginning of next year. Me and my boyfriend have talked about it. I am currently on birth control and I am 30yrs old. Had a convo with girlfriends who told me I have to stop taking such pills at this age. This ...
A. 7 August 2011: see your doctor. taking the pill can have risks at any age. the older you get the riskier it is. discuss your family history with your doctor. have you considered the coil?
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Found out he's looking at porn, feeling very insecure. what to do??
Q. I found out my boyfriend looked at younger women in porn and now I'm embarrassed to be naked in front of him. This is the first relationship I've been in where I actually felt GREAT about sex. I was excited by the sight of him and initiated re...
A. 7 August 2011: he must have known already that a 40 something year old body does not look like a 20 year old porn-body. the porn has not been a 'revelation' to him in this regard.
women get upset about porn because of our attitude to sex. we see it as an emoti... (read in full...)
Want to have sex with my cousin, need advice??
Q. hi my age is 18. I am male. I want to have sex with my cousin, she is also 18. Just 1 month elder than me. Plz tell me how to seduce her....
A. 7 August 2011: first of all, a couple of questions for you - is your cousin even interested in you in that way? how would your family feel about this?... (read in full...)
Am afraid of telling the elderly people I work with that I am leaving my job...how do I handle this?
Q. Hi just a quick question. Hope you can help. This is not relationship question. It is regarding my work. I work in the community, have done so for 6 years and over the years, i have built up some good friendships. But due to the attitudes of th...
A. 7 August 2011: without meaning to sound insensitive, the elderly people are used to losing people (family grows up becomes more distant, spouses, friends of theirs die) its all very unfortunate but life is like this and they know that. someone else will replace ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has taken me back with strange condition , please help me
Q. 25 days back, my ex-girlfriend took me back after 15 months break up with her. We were together for 2 years before I dumping her in first week of January 2010 . I left her telling her to try new options in my option ... I mean dating new girls. ...
A. 7 August 2011: end it. you dumped her, you only wanted her back because the other girls you tried did not match up. she took you back but seems like she took you back so she could get close enough to punish you. this is a mess and you are no longer right for each ... (read in full...)
What makes you keep someone in the FRIENDS ZONE?
Q. More of a vent than a question, but input is appreciated. I am a 42 yo, single parent who has taken a hiatus from dating for awhile. I seem to keep attracting men that just do NOT have their lives together or much to offer other than sex. ...
A. 7 August 2011: people, the point of this this thread seems to have been lost somewhere along the line doesn't it?
the op is not asking for opinions on her writing style of the use of capitals or anything else. please stay on topic or else it makes pretty p... (read in full...)
Sometimes my boyfriend gets really mean with my children. Should I listen to the voice in my head telling me to end things?
Q. Dear Aunts, I am a single mother of two loving boys, 12 and 5 years old. I am currently in nursing college. I have a boyfriend and we've been together for five years. We met 6 months after I got my second child. My children adore and loves hi...
A. 7 August 2011: juliett, i don't doubt that you love your children very much and they are well behaved and good mannered because you have been raising them in home with love and respect and plenty of your attention. i'm afraid that this is enough to make some men ... (read in full...)
Am I imagining the closeness we had?
Q. I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...
A. 6 August 2011: i know this has made you feel like crap BUT its a life lesson which you will benefit from, so its not all bad
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I really thought we had something special but now he won't reply to texts or answer my calls
Q. Please help I am so hurt and confused I really need some positive advice. I met this guy 2 weeks ago, at first I really didn't hold any hope that anything would become of it. We met in a park and went back to his place. At first it was intended ...
A. 6 August 2011: you sound like a lovely person and i hope this guy was genuine, but from what you say here he may have done a 360. i am not clear, did you sleep with him or did he try it on but not get what what he wanted? to ignore your calls and texts after ... (read in full...)
Sometimes my boyfriend gets really mean with my children. Should I listen to the voice in my head telling me to end things?
Q. Dear Aunts, I am a single mother of two loving boys, 12 and 5 years old. I am currently in nursing college. I have a boyfriend and we've been together for five years. We met 6 months after I got my second child. My children adore and loves hi...
A. 6 August 2011: you have to look at this honestly and throughoghly. when you say he is 'mean' what does that mean?? what is he doing? is he merely reprimanded them for bad behaviour or is he doing something worse? really, parents do not like to find fault in their ... (read in full...)
Why do people take an instant dislike to me ?
Q. Hey, well i was wondering why people seem to take an instant dislike to me, or simpley start on me for no reason what so ever. i currently have one friend, i have tryed to get along with other people but they seem to either t...
A. 6 August 2011: when i was younger this used to happen to me quite a lot, when i went out girls would always be giving me evils or bitching like 'oh look at her, she loves herself' it was because they were jealous that i was more attractive then them. i made a ... (read in full...)
Why do people take an instant dislike to me ?
Q. Hey, well i was wondering why people seem to take an instant dislike to me, or simpley start on me for no reason what so ever. i currently have one friend, i have tryed to get along with other people but they seem to either t...
A. 6 August 2011: as your confidence has been knocked down, maybe you look nervous, coz of your body language and maybe you act shy, as you are expecting people to dislike you. this can make some people see you as an easy target to pick on. there are ways to appear ... (read in full...)
I really want my sex buddy to be my boyfriend
Q. hi everyone i really want my fuck buddy to be my boyfriend we always talk about going out places together but it never happens i really like him but he comes round we have sex and he goes home which leaves me feeling miserable we get on really well ...
A. 5 August 2011: tell him what you want. if he wants the same he will let you know and start being more attentive. if he doesn't then you have at least got your answer, which ok, you won't be happy with but at least you will get closure so you can move on and ... (read in full...)
Can't stop having sex with this ugly girl. HELP!!!
Q. Right now I am currently married. The relationship has fizzled out the last few years. For the past 2 and a half years I have been having sex with this girl Jamie. Shes my age and has a daughter. The problem is that she is got a nice body but she is ...
A. 5 August 2011: i understand, you and the wife are living separate lives then. if you really want to get back on track with her you need to be using your time and energy on working on that, not on ****ing someone else! the chances of reconciliation will be ... (read in full...)
Am I imagining the closeness we had?
Q. I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...
A. 5 August 2011: exactly! i am in the same age group as you and i myself got duped like similarly to this only a few months ago. and it leaves you feeling like 'i should have known better' - i am also not a fool and i have been around long enough to know how what ... (read in full...)
I'm like a lovesick teenager over this married woman! Help!
Q. I'm a single guy in my 40's and am extremely love sick, as silly as it may sound. I feel like a teenager with the feelings I have for someone, who is married, so this person is unattainable. We have known each other for several months and saw a...
A. 5 August 2011: come back down to earth and think about this. you are fixated on her cause you do not have a relationship of your own. she has. this love you feel is totally one sided. have your fantasies, have your butterflies, have someone who brightens your ... (read in full...)
Am I imagining the closeness we had?
Q. I met a guy a year ago. We flirted by text and met up a few times. We stopped contact for a while then met up again and connected and had good chemistry. He was very affectionate and seemed genuine. We had sex and he was very loving and it was ...
A. 4 August 2011: some unscrupulous men will act and say anything to get a woman into bed. he probably enjoyed the closeness and cuddles afterwards as much as you did, but the fact that he has now done a runner speaks for itself doesn't it?
next time, take thi... (read in full...)
My mum says my boyfriend's dad doesn't like me!
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy whom my Mum dislikes. We have been together for almost four months and things are going generally well between us. Only his dad lives around the area and we have met a few times - once for dinner and twice at his ...
A. 4 August 2011: no, it sounds as if his dad likes you, he is being nice without being too familiar with you, which is great. i bet if he was getting too friendly with you your mum would have a nasty comment about that too,, she would probably tell you he is after ... (read in full...)
Has she just lost interest?
Q. So I'm in kind of a complicated position but I’ll try to break it down. When I was on vacation last May in Berlin I met this girl at the hostile I was staying at. We spent the day together had a good time, went out that evening had some drinks ...
A. 4 August 2011: why not just email her then to say how ya doing? etc. maybe she does not want to get into a situation that could lead to a long distance relationship. no harm with the occasional message though is there? maybe she has got a boyfriend now so ... (read in full...)
What makes you keep someone in the FRIENDS ZONE?
Q. More of a vent than a question, but input is appreciated. I am a 42 yo, single parent who has taken a hiatus from dating for awhile. I seem to keep attracting men that just do NOT have their lives together or much to offer other than sex. ...
A. 4 August 2011: i think you handled it ok. you have still been nice to him, you could have run a mile in the other direction when he started showing you he liked you, but you didn't! you have never taken your friendship away from him. He is probably well aware of ... (read in full...)
Can't stop having sex with this ugly girl. HELP!!!
Q. Right now I am currently married. The relationship has fizzled out the last few years. For the past 2 and a half years I have been having sex with this girl Jamie. Shes my age and has a daughter. The problem is that she is got a nice body but she is ...
A. 4 August 2011: so you're the one who calls and she agrees to have sex with you whenever you contact her? she is not actively pursuing you? if you really want to stop having sex with her the answer is simple. delete her phone number. the marriage must have died ... (read in full...)
I'm like a lovesick teenager over this married woman! Help!
Q. I'm a single guy in my 40's and am extremely love sick, as silly as it may sound. I feel like a teenager with the feelings I have for someone, who is married, so this person is unattainable. We have known each other for several months and saw a...
A. 17 July 2011: yep, its difficult when the head and the heart don't agree isn't it? there is nothing wrong with being friends with her BUT when you say you are lovesick and would jump at the chance of more if she were single then that sort of suggests that your ... (read in full...)
I'm like a lovesick teenager over this married woman! Help!
Q. I'm a single guy in my 40's and am extremely love sick, as silly as it may sound. I feel like a teenager with the feelings I have for someone, who is married, so this person is unattainable. We have known each other for several months and saw a...
A. 16 July 2011: you KNOW what you SHOULD do coz outlined it perfectly in the third paragraph of your post!
as far as you are aware she is not looking for an affair with you or to leave her husband, maybe it is her unattainability that is drawing you to her more... (read in full...)
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