Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?
Q. im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be ...
A. 19 July 2011: erm congratulations?
you have a tough job ahead of you and there will be times when you think 'what have i done???' i wish you all the best for you and your baby, your childhood is now officially over, bit of a shame really coz you could have chil... (read in full...)
Isn't this a little too serious a little too fast?
Q. My girlfriend freaks out every time someone comments on my photos on fb or writes on my wall. We've only been dating for about a week but whenever someone writes something on my wall or on a photo she panics and starts questioning me about it. She ...
A. 9 June 2011: ooh, you are gonna have a tough time with this girl! she obviously has major trust issues and will constantly be looking for and demanding reassurance from you. its up to you if you want to sign up for that! she should be on her VERY BEST ... (read in full...)
Isn't this a little too serious a little too fast?
Q. My girlfriend freaks out every time someone comments on my photos on fb or writes on my wall. We've only been dating for about a week but whenever someone writes something on my wall or on a photo she panics and starts questioning me about it. She ...
A. 9 June 2011: ooh, you are gonna have a tough time with this girl! she obviously has major trust issues and will constantly be looking for and demanding reassurance from you. its up to you if you want to sign up for that! she should be on her VERY BEST ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but says he loves me, should I believe his words?
Q. I have been with a guy for 6 months now. When we met, it was supposed to be a one time sex thing. But we fell in love. I knew he had a girlfriend, she is 20 yrs younger than him. We recently had a talk about "us" and he begged me to stay with him ...
A. 9 June 2011: he has been stringing you along for 6 months already and he will continue to do this until either you put a stop to it or he gets caught.
i would definitely take a step back from him until he actually does what he says he is gonna do and LEAVES H... (read in full...)
My girlfriend still wants more after I finish. What do I do?
Q. my girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive, and once i 'finish' she still wants more. what do i do?...
A. 8 June 2011: talk to her about what she wants. it amazes me how so many people can be intimate enough to have sex with a person but then can't be intimate and open enough to TALK about sex with them. do you have a problem lasting long enough for her? if so ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to have sex with other men saying that it's just sex
Q. Hello guys ... So, to start off directly, my boyfriend kind of asked for permission to cheat on me, if you can then still call it cheating ... and gave me this permission, too, which doesn't really interest me since I could never do this... Th...
A. 8 June 2011: he is comfortable with open relationships and he does not mind if you go out and get yours too. you do not want the same sort of relationship as he does. if you stay together, one of you will have to give up what you believe.
simply put- you... (read in full...)
I had a distrurbing dream. What could it mean?
Q. Even though this isn't a relationship question, I would like to know if anyone knowledgeable is willing to help me interpret a very vivid dream I had recently. I dreamed that I saw two formidable looking snakes. I was standing by my front door an...
A. 8 June 2011: has someone new come into your life recently that you are not sure about and you are not sure whether you can trust them or not? this may not even be a person it could be some new contract that you have signed up for or are thinking of doing and you ... (read in full...)
Why do girls string guys along?
Q. Girls, why (or why not) would you string a guy along, long after you've been broken up and while in a relationship?...
A. 8 June 2011: a girl will only string a man along for as long as he lets her do it. the girl in question maybe has a bit of low self esteem going on and it makes her feel more secure to have the ex as a back up plan for if the new rship doesn't work out, she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is smoking weed everyday....Help!
Q. Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I could not ever picture my life without him but for the past couple months/weeks he has been smoking weed/grass near enough every single day.. Every time he talks to me (texting) or even when ...
A. 8 June 2011: when you say that you 'really do love him'.. what do you love about him? make a list of his good and bad points and have a good think about whether you want this guy in your life anymore, coz you have not said ONE nice thing about him in this post. ... (read in full...)
Cat string theory??
Q. This website is full of people who are upset because they have parted from a lover and want them back, love a girl but they dont feel the same, want to know how to get a girl/boy, regret acting clingy or possessive and pushing someone away. So I...
A. 8 June 2011: loads of people use this tactic, and it will always continue, but i think that is a pity coz i just don't happen to believe that its a very constructive way to get a relationship back. to entice someone back to you by using their poor self esteem ... (read in full...)
Cat string theory??
Q. This website is full of people who are upset because they have parted from a lover and want them back, love a girl but they dont feel the same, want to know how to get a girl/boy, regret acting clingy or possessive and pushing someone away. So I...
A. 8 June 2011: yes, very true. if someone did not genuinely want me but wanted to see me crawl for their affection and then they decided to reel me back in coz it looked as if i had lost interest in them and met another man, then really i would be better without ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a married parent whose child attends the same school as mine.
Q. So I have a crush on a married parent who's child goes to the same school as mine. I am happily married (9yrs) to a wonderful and good looking guy who has changed for the better ever since we got married so this intense crush is kind of strange to ...
A. 8 June 2011: yes the lack of appreciation, weight loss and renewed confidence in your appearance, plus attention from other men is the perfect cocktail for extra-marital fun/trouble!
your relationship sounds like it is in trouble now. decide if you want to ... (read in full...)
Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?
Q. im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be ...
A. 8 June 2011: i am sure you will make a great mother WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT but not now and you are never gonna find anyone on this site who will give you their blessing with this.
it is probably a case of teenage hormones working overtime that is making y... (read in full...)
I was going to break up with her on Friday but she's been crying!
Q. Hey guys I was going to break up with my girlfriend on the friday coming but today she told me she doesn't want to loose me when I wasnt with her today, I didn't know she wanted to be with me that much I don't want to change my mind but I don't want ...
A. 8 June 2011: you can't stay with someone that you don't want to be with just coz they want you to and are making you feel bad by crying. if you break up with her she WILL get over you, surely it is better for her to be free than to cling onto a relationship ... (read in full...)
Why aren't I sexually attracted to him when he's the hottest guy I've dated?
Q. My boyfriend is smokin' hot. We both have really deep feelings for eachother. He wants sexual activity, but the idea to me makes me gag. Normally I love being sexual with my boyfriend but its different for him. Why aren't I sexually attracted to him ...
A. 8 June 2011: could be a few reasons - the chemistry is not right, or he is trying to get you to have sex too soon in the relationship, or you may have trust issues around him, or you may have been hurt in past relationships, or his personality is lacking in ... (read in full...)
Cat string theory??
Q. This website is full of people who are upset because they have parted from a lover and want them back, love a girl but they dont feel the same, want to know how to get a girl/boy, regret acting clingy or possessive and pushing someone away. So I...
A. 7 June 2011: but that's assuming they had left you because of something you did wrong isn't it? and sometimes this isn't the case. people leave for all kinds of reasons, maybe they have gone off with someone else coz THEY were weak and fancied that other person ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend troubles.........
Q. So I'm with my girlfriend for the second time after a break. But it turns out the first time at a party we went to , together, she kissed and tossed someone else off. I left earlier then her as I was up early the next morning. But months after ...
A. 7 June 2011: well its up to you if you forgive her for her previous erm.. misdemeanour or not. personally i think what she did is extremely low and unless she has changed drastically between then and now, then no, i don't think she respects you or the ... (read in full...)
Daughter wants to inroduce grandaughter to her father. I am against this. Am I being overprotective?
Q. My Granddaughter has writing letter to her father,she has not seen her father since last year. SHe is only 5. My daughter wants to take her to see him, but I against because.I think this man will only emotionally hurt my little granddaughter.I just ...
A. 7 June 2011: is her dad a bad person or is it just that you feel he has abandoned his daughter by lack of contact? why did this contact break down? honestly, is it all his fault or might your own daughter have played a part? whatever your concerns are, it is ... (read in full...)
Why is the woman to blame for an affair?
Q. Can everyone tell me why it is that the woman often gets all the blame when she has an affair with a married man? People tend to look down on the woman and in the end her reputation is ruined and she is called all kinds of names etc. But the guy who ...
A. 7 June 2011: the male is allowed to more promiscuous, it is expected and commended even. the poor things are led by their penis, they can't help what they do. women are expected to have more sense and self control. (i don't agree with the above but i do ... (read in full...)
Cat string theory??
Q. This website is full of people who are upset because they have parted from a lover and want them back, love a girl but they dont feel the same, want to know how to get a girl/boy, regret acting clingy or possessive and pushing someone away. So I...
A. 7 June 2011: is this the same as 'head games' then? you are not wrong lifecoach, it CAN re-ignite someone's interest but i think behaving like that would not make for a very secure relationship if the couple do get back together because of it. it is rather ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to lose feelings for someone this way??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for only 3 months, but we've known each other for a few years. We would hang out because I was friends with his sister and cousin. He always liked me and I liked him too, but we stopped hanging out and nothing ...
A. 7 June 2011: i have had this feeling loads of times! sometimes its because of a sometimes i can pin it to an exact moment, when the guy has done or said something that makes me think 'oh, no. he's not right for me!' or sometimes its because i get bored with ... (read in full...)
Did this person come into my life for a reason, or is it just a coincidence?
Q. This is kind of a relationship question but I’m not 100% sure what I’m trying to work out so here goes; To set the scene we are both male I started a new job a couple of years ago and on my first week I walked into an office and saw this guy ...
A. 6 June 2011: google 'kizmit' this is a big question and one that no one has really got a definite answer to, but you believe whatever you want to believe. its great to meet a good friend though, one who you know will stick with you through life, so whether its ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with losing the girl I still love? Should I go see her when she decides to talk to me again?
Q. People i need some advice, i need to know how to get over a girl. She is still my dreamgirl, she broke up with me because i wasnt following up on my promesses. and because i didnt have the balls to take steps in the relationship, i wasnt ready yet, ...
A. 6 June 2011: how far away do you live? you could always do the big romantic gesture and just turn up on her doorstep anyway and then talk, tell her that you realise your mistakes and promise that things will be different now (you would have to MEAN this though, ... (read in full...)
Did I miss the relationship train?
Q. It would be wonderful to get some insight regarding how to get over something. I would like to share my life with someone, but I have been feeling a little down. I have always had guys as close friends and never got into a serious relation...
A. 6 June 2011: the older we get the dating pool gets smaller. you are making it smaller still by limiting yourself to 'just Latino guys'. of course we all have preferences and i am not trying to tell you to be less choosy, but be more open minded, give a ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, so why am I unhappy?
Q. The title says it all, really. I've been with my boyfriend for coming up 2 years now, although I've known him since I was 14/15... we were always really close. Not best friends, but he was always there to talk to, whether I was happy or sad, ch...
A. 6 June 2011: if is mum says bad stuff while you are there you can bet she is saying bad stuff about you when you are not there. he is probably fed up and stressed cause he feels like he is in the middle. i can understand why he does not stick up for you ... (read in full...)
Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!
Q. Hi, all and any advice will be greatly appreciated as I've gotten myself into a bit of a emotional pickle. In May last year I started a new job. In September a flirtation began between a colleague and I, one who unfortunately was in a 3 year rela...
A. 6 June 2011: @anon female 6th June: your story is amazingly similar to that of the OP! its like history is repeating itself.
i would say to anyone in this situation though who has the girl friend or ex 'from hell' - never take what someone tells you about th... (read in full...)
Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?
Q. So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for ar...
A. 6 June 2011: hi
thanks for the update, while there is nothing wrong with offering someone friendship to get them through a difficult time, my worry is that for you it is more than this. he was been your crush for 2 years already and now he has become sing... (read in full...)
Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!
Q. Hi, all and any advice will be greatly appreciated as I've gotten myself into a bit of a emotional pickle. In May last year I started a new job. In September a flirtation began between a colleague and I, one who unfortunately was in a 3 year rela...
A. 6 June 2011: "At the moment I'm struggling because I don't know what was real, I don't know if he genuinely had feelings for me or if I was used"
you might NEVER know the answer to this so maybe it is best to put what has happened behind you and stop ponderin... (read in full...)
I want to break up easily
Q. Hey guys I really need advice on how to break up with my girlfriend, I'm going to try and ease her down but I need help on exactly what to do. I need tips on everything Where What to say Should I tell her and leave Should I tell her and walk her...
A. 6 June 2011: ok, put yourself in her shoes... if someone where to break up with YOU how would you like them to do it, in a way that would be kinder to you? think about it, and then you do the same for her.
'treat others as you yourself would want to be tr... (read in full...)
All my b/f wants to do is take naps and have sex!
Q. I feel like my boyfriend takes me for granted and has gotten way too comfortable in the relationship. All he mostly wants to do nowadays is to take naps with me or have sex (nap and sex usually go hand in hand). I've tried many times to suggest ...
A. 5 June 2011: ahh, sounds like a perfect day! - but not every day! if this carries on it is gonna get very boring, very quick. take him out of the bedroom sometimes, get out into the real world with him and if he doesn't wanna go with you, you go without him. ... (read in full...)
Should I get to know this girl better? Does she like me?
Q. hello, i'll get straight to the point. There's this girl at my school who is known as the slut of sluts and the b!tch of b!tches. Anyways, in the past she has always treated my friends and i badly. She called me a nerd once, and im not, i do two di...
A. 5 June 2011: op, if you have doubts like this about her then take a step back, dating it not a good idea, see how she performs as a friend first. i have found in my life that first impressions are the true one. i have given people the benefit of the doubt ... (read in full...)
Could you give me some ideas on how to pay him back, "nicely?"
Q. My sister was dating a guy some time ago. One night-out I, my best friend, and my sis were chilling in the bar. My sister's boyfriend came together with his friend. So I and he started to chat. We had a party-relations- it means we were meeting, ...
A. 5 June 2011: tell anyone that asks that you did consider having sex with him but when you saw how small his cock was you told him to put it away. that'll make him sorry he told lies about you
x... (read in full...)
Do all virgins bleed? My boyfriend is now doubting that I'm wasnt a virgin because I didnt bleed!
Q. I am 20 and had my first sex with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend doubt that I was not a virgin just because I didnt bleed.. Do all virgins bleed??? has my virgnity gone because I used toys before I has sex with my boyfriend??...
A. 5 June 2011: no not all bleed, so tell your boyfriend that. it is not nice of your boyfriend to call you a liar or at least thinks you are lying about your virginity
x... (read in full...)
Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?
Q. So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for ar...
A. 5 June 2011: sorry but i really don't see how a 16 year old girl can help a man come to terms with his marriage ending since you have not been through the same experiences yourself, what advice can you possibly give him? so when he says he thanks you for 'being ... (read in full...)
All I want is happiness!
Q. Hi my name is vanessa I m writing this becuse I need help wth my husband he got a daughter an when ever we go for her he starts to laugh wth her ex and I dont like that and also he always tells me to not to get in to his bisness also that his mony ...
A. 5 June 2011: there is nothing wrong with having a good relationship with an ex who you have got a child with, it is better for the kid than if they have to see mum and dad being horrible or cold to each other. when he says money is more important than happiness ... (read in full...)
Is he just blowing smoke about rejecting me and throwing around a random excuse?
Q. I went to a bar last night and made out with a guy from my college for nearly an hour, before I went home. In class today he talked to me and all, and we hung out during a couple of the breaks, but he didn't try ... anything. So I was a bit ...
A. 5 June 2011: he sounds like a nice guy who respects you enough to give you the truth, so you are both not ready for relationships coz you are both recently split from your exes, he is happy to be friendly to you around college, just keep it on that level for the ... (read in full...)
Was he turning to me as a friend, or does he want to get back together?
Q. First- my ex n i talked a little the other day about hanging out soon, and made plans to go kayaking n hiking "if it was ok w/his girl" which he "hoped it was :)" When i asked if he thought she would be ok w/it or not, (we've only been broken up ...
A. 5 June 2011: just send him a casual message either on facebook or phone him and just be a friend to him. suggest meeting up and see how it goes, don't just be all chummy though, let him know you still like him, flirt with him a bit. if he wants to be with you ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a married parent whose child attends the same school as mine.
Q. So I have a crush on a married parent who's child goes to the same school as mine. I am happily married (9yrs) to a wonderful and good looking guy who has changed for the better ever since we got married so this intense crush is kind of strange to ...
A. 5 June 2011: he is just a fantasy figure that is all. just coz he is good looking, he may not have a great personality, he might be crap in bed, he might have bad breath if you get up close to him!
i used to fancy one of the dads at my sons football club, an... (read in full...)
I get attached too fast!
Q. okay. here it goes. i get way to attached. way to quickly. and honoestly it kills me to let someone go. like right away ill see someone and wanna get to know them and talk to them. and i get attached and like them. and i get played or something like ...
A. 5 June 2011: '''Many consequences flow from this sorry state of affairs. For one, co-dependents become addicted to emotional pain and to unhealthy relationships. They are drawn to people who are not available to them, or who reject them or abuse them. They often ... (read in full...)
Love stinks! Why can't I get over this guy?
Q. How do you get over a broken heart? I have tried every suggestion that there is out there, but still I am just so empty feeling inside.I cant even hear this guys name or it makes me cry. My goodness when does it end? it's been 5 months and we were ...
A. 5 June 2011: i think you are dong the wrong thing by remaining in his life. if i ever want to get over someone i totally avoid them, break off all contact and don't go anywhere near places that they might be. this is like a scab that won't ever heal as long as ... (read in full...)
Why has my ex turned mean again?
Q. I have asked quite a few q's about this, each one being a little different. Anyway this person used to be my boyfriend but it didn't last long because we both didn't really know what we were doing and we both (even though he denied it) hurt ...
A. 5 June 2011: he just can't resist toying with you can he? he is nasty (coz he probably find this comes more naturally to him than being nice and speaking to you respectfully) and you let him get away with his bad behaviour by carrying on being nice to him when ... (read in full...)
How do I rid myself of the pain because of a selfish person?
Q. Hi,can anyone offer me good advice on how to rid yourself of the pain,hurt and anger you feel towards someone you loved deeply as they ended your relationship because they are plain and simply selfish...
A. 5 June 2011: make an honest list of all their good and bad points. read it back to yourself and keep it for the times when you start to miss them. you may find that they were not always horrible and selfish to you and maybe they did not mean to hurt you. you ... (read in full...)
Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!
Q. Hi, all and any advice will be greatly appreciated as I've gotten myself into a bit of a emotional pickle. In May last year I started a new job. In September a flirtation began between a colleague and I, one who unfortunately was in a 3 year rela...
A. 4 June 2011: only HE knows his true feelings, but her pregnancy would not be enough of a reason to get back with her if she was such a monster and he really wanted to be with you.
why was he with her for 3 years if she was so bad?
yes the scan dates add u... (read in full...)
Should I get to know this girl better? Does she like me?
Q. hello, i'll get straight to the point. There's this girl at my school who is known as the slut of sluts and the b!tch of b!tches. Anyways, in the past she has always treated my friends and i badly. She called me a nerd once, and im not, i do two di...
A. 4 June 2011: maybe she has a tough exterior but is softer on the inside, or maybe she is what everyone thinks and says she is - a bitch.
get to know her as a friend, but 'forewarned is fore armed', keep your wits about you but ultimately, decide for yourself... (read in full...)
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