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After all the numerous sexual encounters, I feel like I've messed things up with the first guy I've properly liked for so long...

Q.   Dear Cupid, This is going to be long winded, so apologies beforehand; I just want to get all the details in. Her goes! I have a bit of a history with men. I went through an extremely promiscuous phase a few years ago. I wasn't insecure and...

A.   16 March 2011: I'd like to add that I know I've slept with a lot of people, and have inadvertently hurt some along the way, but I have never EVER lied to anyone, or misled them or left them hanging. I always did everything I could to make it clear what I was ... (read in full...)

After all the numerous sexual encounters, I feel like I've messed things up with the first guy I've properly liked for so long...

Q.   Dear Cupid, This is going to be long winded, so apologies beforehand; I just want to get all the details in. Her goes! I have a bit of a history with men. I went through an extremely promiscuous phase a few years ago. I wasn't insecure and...

A.   16 March 2011: Thank you for the kind words. I have a update, but what happened hasn't quite sunk in yet. I saw him in the street a couple of evenings ago and started chatting to him. He was awkward so I suggested we go for a drink and he agreed. We talke... (read in full...)

After all the numerous sexual encounters, I feel like I've messed things up with the first guy I've properly liked for so long...

Q.   Dear Cupid, This is going to be long winded, so apologies beforehand; I just want to get all the details in. Her goes! I have a bit of a history with men. I went through an extremely promiscuous phase a few years ago. I wasn't insecure and...

A.   10 March 2011: Thanks for the advice, I probably needed to hear it. We arranged to meet yesterday at 8pm (his suggestion) and he didn't show, or reply to the texts I sent asking if he was still coming. I waited for about an hour. I then found out from his flat... (read in full...)

After all the numerous sexual encounters, I feel like I've messed things up with the first guy I've properly liked for so long...

Q.   Dear Cupid, This is going to be long winded, so apologies beforehand; I just want to get all the details in. Her goes! I have a bit of a history with men. I went through an extremely promiscuous phase a few years ago. I wasn't insecure and...

A.   7 March 2011: There's a bit of an update in this post! Thanks for the comment GeeGee, I do think I need to put aside all my preconditions and just let him know how I feel and try to see what he's thinking and how he views everything. angelDlite, t... (read in full...)

I want to treat my boyfriend like gold but I treat him badly!

Q.   I'm super stressed by study, work and my family. I take it out on my boyfriend by being snappy, paranoid and unpleasant when really I adore him and want to treat him like gold. How can I stop this?...

A.   7 March 2011: Hi! I think you may need to give yourself a reality check. A friend of mine was in a similar situation to yours. She was totally in love with her boyfriend and he worshiped the ground she walked on. But she had a lot on her plate; work issues, fam... (read in full...)

After all the numerous sexual encounters, I feel like I've messed things up with the first guy I've properly liked for so long...

Q.   Dear Cupid, This is going to be long winded, so apologies beforehand; I just want to get all the details in. Her goes! I have a bit of a history with men. I went through an extremely promiscuous phase a few years ago. I wasn't insecure and...

A.   7 March 2011: Hi angelDlite! Thanks for the advice and taking the time to read the long post! I suppose I am a bit cold; I've definitely been called it in the past. I don't know how to change it though, I'm just not very good with feelings and don't know how... (read in full...)

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