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writes:Well there is this girl that i think she might have an intrest in me, but there is this other guy in the picture, and i think that she might like him or maybe not. (Keep in mind that me and this girl already had a flirting thing going so)Well for a while i thought that she might have an intrest in me but now im not so sure, she texted me one day to come to this function and i agreed to go and when i got there she talked to me for a couple of minutes but then i went to do my thing and started to talk to this guy about guy stuff, when out of the blue this guy starts talking to her and flirting with her right in front of me and he got her number and she even asked for his and she looked at me and smiled and i was so pissed i nearly decked the guy but i didnt do anything though so. Anyways while the guy was there they seemed to hold a conversation and she didnt even look back to talk to me and after a couple of minutes i left and i went home and she texted me, saying where did you go. Anyways it so happened that the guy she was talking to was going to have a party and the guy that i was talking to at that function was his friend so the dude invited me over and i agreed just to see if the girl i liked was going to be there. will i got to the party and was the first one there and after a couple of minutes people started coming and i saw my girl walking in and the guy that got her number said hi to her and she smiled and went to the party and when she saw me sitting there at the party her face turned from a smile to a worried look. Well anyways she didnt even say hi or anything at the party but when i left the party she said goodbye. The funny thing is that when i went to this other fucntion the next day the guy that invited her to the party was sitting next to her and i was so mad i almost lost it, but she did come by me and said hello. well anyways i thought that i should make a move so i asked the girl on a date and she said yes but it took her like three hours to respond, well anyways it so happened that she told me once that if i ever wanted to talk that she was there to listen stuff pertaining to religion but when i asked her if we could meet to talk she said if i mind that the other guy was going to be there with his friend,thast way she had back up to help me understand better, i said that we could talk later, which was weird, anyways later when i asked her if she was still ready to go on the date she said yeah but when i told her the time she said if i could make it earlier because she said she had to go to some party at some girls house which i later found out was a lie, anyways in my mind i thought that she might have other plans with this guy so i got really upset.i cancelled the date and told her we could go some other time,Well i was asked to go to some function the next day and i found that annoying guy there, which is weird because he isnt in our social group of friends so i dont know how he knew about it so i thought that maybe the girl i liked invited him but she wasnt even there so i said hahaha you could stood up sucker, but im not sure for a fact that she invited him since everyone invits everyone to these kinds of things. anyways i texted her to find out why she wasnt there she told me she had something important to do but she was suprised that i went. She also invited me to this other function but i told her that i had something to do that day. I went to this function after not seeing her for 2 weeks and she came up to me and said hi to me,the guy although wasnt with her this time. she also gets mad when i look or talk to other girls and keeps staring at me when i talk to other girls. I will also like to note that she has done this before with another guy at another function and did the same thing but i think it is because she is overally nice so im not sure if she likes the guys or is just being nice, because she really doesnt talk to much to him so, the other guy she actually never ended up going out with him so?Well girls what do you girls think about this does she like me or the other guy should i be worried or should i just keep persuing her, i need some helpWell anyways girls help does she like me or the other guy what should i do, ?really confused?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (13 July 2011):
 sounds like you have got some competition so if you want to be the one she chooses you have got to work for it. be nice, be charming, don't have jealous tantrums, don't flirt with other girls to get her jealous, ask her out coz while you are waiting around for her to read your mind - mr annoying might get in there and ask her out first! if she rejects your offer, then at least you will know where you stand and you can move on and stop wondering
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