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writes:I started this relationship that is supposed to be no strings attached and we both seem to like each other more than we should. We talk everyday and he usually initiates the conversations. We have only met twice. I have heard nothing from him today. I would like to assume he is busy. When is it appropriate for me to contact him. We are choosing to take things really super slow. I just hope he is not a dud. He really is a nice guy. What do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, facethefacts  +, writes (28 September 2013):
 Do nothing, let him make all contact, let him initiate meet-up's and see what happens.. if it becomes a pattern of casual meet-ups and sex then he is enjoying just that with you.. You are starting to over-think things this is what happens when guys text everyday.. we get carried away and get used to the attention quickly. Next time he texts, wait a good few hours or a day then reply... he will either get bored and move on or step up with the Meet-Ups.. either way you get used to not replying to his text messages immediately... and he will call more.. good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2013): Seems like you may just be getting a bit emotionally attached and you say he seems like a nice guy... Well it's best to find out sooner rather than later, so definitely contact him and see where you stand- if he says he doesn't feel the same, well at least you won't be hurt further down the road... I'm truly realising recently how easy it is for tw*tty men to come across as nice guys... Just be on the alert and remember if you want a relationship you deserve a relationship- if he can't give that then walk away. Take care xxx :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (18 September 2013):
 if it's no strings attached and you don't care what happens then it doesn't matter if you take it slow or if you play the game or anything else.
if you want to contact him do so.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (18 September 2013):
 Don't wait for him to call, you want to call, go ahead and phone him. Just tell him, he came into your thoughts and you wanted to hear his voice. Also you need to find out where you stand especially if you have feelings for him, if he cannot reciprocate walk away, don't stay in a relationship hoping this guy will want more.
Sometimes we see and hope for thing only to have our hopes dashed. So time to clarify the nature of the relationship and what your expectations.
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