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Lack of trust is killing our relationship!

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - hi there I have one big problem - trust. My husband, for over 15 years now, has accused me of having an affair behind his back. I haven't,or ever would, do anything like that to anyone and in his mind he thinks something did take place and there is no shifting it. This was when ... (211 words

Is a monogamous relationship/marriage realistic these days?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I don’t post much but I visit the site daily to see the new questions. I think this post is a rant versus a question, but it’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about recently. It’s really been on my mind. I really just don’t know what the point of getting involv... (1455 words

How do I break up with my boyfriend in a nice way?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - im moving to another city in a few weeks, which is about 2 hours away from were i live. I have a boyfriend that ive been with for about 7/8 months. He treats me really nice and i do love him but i feel like i want to be single and start a fresh when i move. But i dont fee... (189 words

How do I change my mom's mind?

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1 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - im 16 and want my tongue pierced soooo bad! but my mom says no cuz its "trashy". 2 questions, how do i get her to change her mind and is it really trashy for a girl to have a tongue piercing? thanks! lovee, Laceyyy.... (46 words

Dating divorced man with daughters...why havent I met the younger one?

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been dating a wonderful man for over 1 year now. We enjoy each other very much, and when together have a great time. We love each other deeply. We've both been divorced within the last 2 years. The only problem is the younger daughter whom he has avoided introduc... (268 words

He walked out 10 weeks ago, do you think he's coming back?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend walked out on me and my son 3 month ago for what i dont know i have asked him to come back but no he had me waiting for 10 weeks for him to say it was over do you think he will ever come back a love him very much and he knows i do ... (58 words

Is it okay to fall in love with my cousin?

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Is it okay for me to fall in love with my cousin? Im a girl and i've been having nice thoughts about him. Im sure he doesn't feel the same way but i cant help it..please help me I never told him yet.... (48 words

How can I live like this?

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1 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - hi, i am 40 years old not married, i used to live in us for 3 years, but when i came back i couldnt live well here, life is hard and people are hard to live with, even my mom layer, at work in the street all life is so bad, what can i do ?... (60 words

How can I resist the urge to cheat again?

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I really need some help Im a married wowman and have cheated even had an affair. It is not my personality to mess around. I have to admit I do miss the rush I used to get. It was always exciting to me to meet someone new. I feel guilty for feeling this way I am happily married. ... (77 words

Does alchohol consumption change cum?

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1 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - heyy quick question, trying to settle a debate :) haha. if a guy drinks alcohol a lot is his cum more bitter or sweet or what? does it change the texture of it? thanks! lovee, Laceyyy.... (37 words

I'm shattered. How do I handle her cheating and our breakup?

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1 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - well first of all im 23 i was with a girl who is 20 yrs old for around 2 years i fell in love with her and thought she did too,then she broke up with me around a week ago but we still comunicated because 2 yrs is a while to just cut off,and then she started going out and going ... (194 words

We live together and I have no place to go...how do I end it?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - How do I break up with someone that I live with? My boyfriend and I have been together for thwo years now. I think he's a great person but I no longer want to be with him. I know I should just go, but as we live together, and I don't have anywhere I can go straight away, w... (91 words

Harrassment from my boss... what do I do?

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1 November 2009 (F - I am 18 years old and i work in a pub, in september a new owner took over the pub and kept me on as staff. The new owner is 40 years old, has 4 children by 3 different women considerably younger than him, he is currently dating a 19 year old who just gave birth to his child, ... (174 words

Is there any point in me liking him? What can I do about it?

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - There's this guy that lives about an hour from me..I like him sooo much but we never see each other.. should I keep liking him of give up?... (28 words

I like him! but I'm still so close with his best friend.

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hey Everyone, I went out with this boy, on-off, for about two years. He told me everything, and there was a lot of really awful experiences that he went through. In the end, I broke up with him (complicated reasons). We're still really close, I mean REALLY close. I can't i... (137 words

My husband is a neat freak and I don't have any motivation to clean!

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - help!i want to stop this emotional maddnes! my husband is a neat freak and i really just dont care. i really cant find motivation to clean the house. i want to, but when its messed up by him hours later i jsut say screw and dont do it anymore. idk what to do. this brings so ... (82 words

I slept with my girlfriend and now she's not calling me back! And also.. my male friend hit on me!

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1 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hello fellow agony aunts. I have a problem..actually it's 2 and i was wondering if you guys could help. So last night was Halloween and there was a huge party in my town. Everyone..all my friends and people from other schools were there. And i went with my three friends ... (297 words

I lied about my age and now I don't know if I should tell him!

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - so, i met this guy about 4 years ago through mutual friends...when we met i KNEW he was in his 20's and i was about to turn 16...ive always had older groups of friends. well, this guy and i always kept in touch...emailed for a good three months just saying hi and keeping each ... (514 words

I love him, I don't want to lose him but I don't know what else to do.

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am a 21 year old Egyptian girl. A year ago I met an American guy online, he is 26. Since the first night we met we both clicked right away. We talked for five hours and neither of us really wanted to go. I wasn't looking for a relationship nor was he, but both of us fell in ... (1605 words

How do I get over the barriers I have?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I went out with a few friends the other night (even though i wasn't really in the mood as i've been pretty depressed lately and I'm on medication so I can't drink) and I met this group of guys who I sort of know, and got chatting to one of my friends older brothers who is just ... (195 words

I'm a gay man, is this normal for me? does it make me weird?

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1 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Well I'm an 18 year old total bottom, I'm gay and well recently I've discovered than when I'm having sex with guys (with different guys, one at a time) I don't get a boner, I don't even cum, if the guy (the top) cums I'm okay with that, it feels as if I cummed too, is that ... (216 words

What can I do to get over him when I've tried everything?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey Dear agony aunts!!!!!!!!! i just want an input on this what would you do if no matter what you do...no matter how many hobbies you may get you can never really get over someone??? what else should i do???especially if this someone was "forrbiden" (sorry if i spelt it wrong... (157 words

How do I ask him out? How do I flirt?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok then ... Hey peeps There's this guy I like and have liked for roughly .... 2 and a bit years, and while I was with my bf I cudnt stop thinking about him so I dumped him bcos I felt guilty and also he was being really harsh 2 my friends. I have it on good authority that h... (160 words

The boys in my class all pick on people and I'm worried about being the center of attention. what should I do?

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1 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I havea gym class with all boys. In this classes boys pick and talk about people. Everyday I get so nervous that I may be the center of attention or being the one talked about or picked on. I get so nervous that I start shaking and lose focus on my previous class work before I ... (82 words

Tired of these guys picking on me, should I stand up for myself?

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1 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - In school I have 2 boys that like to pick and hit with me. They think its ok because their are playing and they think im playing but im not. See im a goofy person that laughs and smile a lot and they think it ok because i don't get mad but im, tired of it. I a real quiet person ... (219 words

Jealousy issues! please help.

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Please help me,im 38 have been married and in long term relationships but I cant seem to be able to control my jealous streak.I know im insecure but i find it really hard to trust as I have been let down so many times by people really close to me.I have been seeing my new ... (345 words

I cant help but feel that he has forgot me while on hol. What shall I do?

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriends gone on holiday and i miss him . But i cant help feeling that hes forgot me . I know hes on holiday and hes enjoying him self . but my mind wonders . I cant help it . I have tryed keeping busy .What shall i do ? Please help Heartbroken.x... (55 words

Is there any chance that he'll come back to me?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, From October of 2008 to May of 2009, I was in a relationship with the boy that I am thoroughly convinced was my first love. Our time together was absolutely wonderful. During those seven months, I was happier than I had ever been before, and my friends and fami... (355 words

Could it be him that just wants sex all the time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Every time I go to my fiances' house, all he ever wants to do is 'do it'. He never wants to go out or do anything, and he says this is because he never has alot of money. But, yes he works. But he doesn't hardly ever want to go anywhere, not even a movie. So we just stay at his ... (184 words

Two guys possibly like me, should I wait for them to make the first move?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Two guys possibly like me: one i have had feelings for for a while but i keep getting mixed ones back off him. The other is gorgeous, irish and fun to be around. It was said last night that he fancies me. I like both of these guys but i don't know what to do! Should i wait for ... (67 words

Sometimes I wonder if we should break up. Are we doomed to fail?

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1 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old male dating someone in my age range but just a little younger. We have so much fun together and enjoy each other's company. She does so much for me and I for her. However, I think that at times we are both insecure and it causes us to sometimes be ... (378 words

(Contains list of emails and some bad language) Do these emails mean we're getting back together?

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1 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - my Girl friend wrot me thisand I was wondering if we are getting back together? these emails are in the order they were received. Dear Johnny, First of all by you just admitting to all this without rationalizations, excuses or divorce talk has already helped my anger towa... (1606 words

What can I do about this long distance relationship?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi! Me and my BF have been together nearly 2 years, and we have made some pretty big changes during that time. Firstly, he went off to Uni at the coast while I was in London, and during that time we split for a few weeks to get some space. We got back together on a compromi... (218 words

Mistreated sexually in a shop! What should I have done?

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1 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I went to a shop the other week somewhere in Northwest England (not saying where), was looking at buying some new electronics for my husband, and asked a saleswoman for advice. She then asked me to come over to her desk, to discuss it, which I did, and then performed a ... (155 words

Every morning its harder and harder to get up

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - every mornin i wake up gets harder and harder for me i am suffering from depression but i cant afford the therapy... everyone mornin i get up and apologize to myself and the guy im in love with ( even tho he doesnt know) i apologize for not being pefect... whats wrong with me?... (54 words

Childhood sweethearts and now we're together, but he says he needs to be alone.

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together 9 months. We were childhood sweethearts over 20 years ago. Got back together when both our marriages crumbled (both our partners had affairs). His wife left him in Jan of this year, divorced by June. My divorce is still ongoing. We have ... (209 words

I've fallen in love with a prostitute...What is the solution to my fixation?

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1 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi i have been seeing a prostitute now for some time as i was quite upset about myself losing my girlfriend few years ago i decided this was my only option. I had visited the brothels on several ocassions seeing a multiple of girls and living my fantasies. although i did get my ... (250 words

How can I check my virginity?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I m doubted that i have broke my hymen during self pleasuring.bt i dnt remember that I ever seen blood during self pleasuring.how can I check my virginity?... (28 words

What has happened to the world?

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1 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - What has happened to the world...children having sex at the age of 14? They can't be emotionally prepared for all the stuff they will go through.... (26 words

How can I confront his lies if I sneaked to get the evidence?

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - My partner lies to me. He is really defensive - if i ask anything he gets so angry and blames me for ...anything.......... i have gotten so sick of it and tonight i snooped in his studio and wallet and found the evidence. He says he stopped smoking - he did for years but 2 ye... (391 words

I'm not responding to her affection but I don't want to lose her.

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1 November 2009 (M age - Hi...Iv just turned 60 and have a lovely wife who has just turned 32. Yes a big age gap I know. We have been married since 2004 and during that time have been apart once. I'm having a lot of problems with my age and the fact that I feel that my life is rapidly coming t... (164 words

I want to be with him, he broke up with his girlfriend for me but now he isn't replying to me.

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ive been in love for months with a boy. he works with me, and has told me hundreds of times he loves me too and he really wants to be with me. but he has a "girlfriend" a girl who he texts constantly but never sees face to face. we have hooked up a couple of times but last ... (497 words

He likes somebody else, should I break up with him?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok. So i dont know if i should break up with my boyfriend or not. i think he likes my best friend . i dont know why i just get that feeling like he does like her. I confronted him and asked him if he liked her. And he said "No, she doesn't have all this" And pointed at my body. ... (140 words

We get on so well! But there are some problems..

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1 November 2009 (F age - Hello, I started dating a guy about a year ago. Things went well until he had a problem with ED. He told me he only ended up sleeping with the women that he married. His first marriage lasted 3 years (she ended up deciding to be gay). Hi second marriage lasted over a do... (421 words

She cheated on me and I forgive her, but now she does not know what she wants.

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1 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Well here it goes, I was went on vacation and I kept in contact with my girlfriend that I love very much, and i suspected something was going on and I was right She was cheating on me and she admitted it and asked me to forgive her I was raged but I love her to much to not ... (249 words

I haven't known him long enough to sleep with him, what do I do?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi ima 17 year old girl ima virgin and I get horny really easy when ima around a guy and a girl and yes im bi I go for girl's mor but I currently have a boyfriend he's willing 2 wait form me but some time's I feel like im going 2 do some thing I regret we just met and ... (141 words

Things used to be so sweet. How can they go back to the way they used to be?

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1 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I miss my girlfriend so much were still together we've been datin for 9 months but this past month just hasn't been the same. We would always do things that we like doin and at the end of the day we would just cuddle and watch tv or a movie. And when i had to take her home or ... (209 words

Does she look at other men? Is she lying to me?

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1 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I feel terrible. I do not know what to do. I have accused my girlfriend time after time after time of looking at other men and she always insists that she doesn't. But I see her looking around whenever we are outside, so she has to be judging and looking at other men, ... (317 words

Late for my period, what are the chances that I may be pregnant?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i am 9 days late on my period, having slight cramps but no sign of blood, having white discharge , started having sore nipples and sometimes feeling sick could i be pregnant? whats the chances?... (35 words

What should I do about the cold shoulder he is giving me?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - He doesnt care to know how am doing or if i even still exist and i dont know what to do.I've always tried to guide my heart against wavering men but i think i just let my wall crumble without even trying to uphold it.i met this guy like 3yrs a go and we both had a thinh going ... (292 words

My mum made me have an abortion but now I can't stop thinking about the baby I gave up.

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Im 14 years old, 15 in march. This February i had an abortion, my mom made me have an a abortion as i was too young to keep the baby, but i was too scared to tell my mom that i wanted to keep the baby. All i do now is think about what if i kept it and that i feel really bad ... (90 words

He's gay, but I really really like him.

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am falling in love with my relationships councilor and don't know how to stop feeling like this. I ended my marriage 1 yr ago cause my husband was having sex with men.We were married for 18 years so I am not some ditzy young thing with a silly crush. I need to see this man as ... (171 words

His behaviour is a bit confusing. What do you make of it?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - in a relationship with a fairly controlling boyfriend. he gets jealous of every guy i go out with or dance with when we are clubbing. i wanted to try rock climbing and he told me i don't have the upper strength and would suck at it. i said i wanted to try it and if i don't l... (413 words

Is it true he just needs time and no pressure to sort himself out?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Basically its a very complicated story. Back in April I almost lost my job twice over and me and my partner were not getting on 2 well. on august the 9th he cheated on me for a week just kissing with one of my friends. I forgave him, but he went to the doctors also and was ... (304 words

Why does she call me and tell me "to be safe?

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1 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - .I'm going through a divorce. tonight I seen my ex at a bar. 20 minutes later she calls to tell me to be safe..what should I think from this??... (29 words

I asked why she wanted to marry me and she couldn't answer

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1 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - should i be concern my girlfriend get alone well because i adapt to people well but we are not really compatible and she spend all her time looking at wedding sites,venues shows etc... iask her why she wanted to marry me couldn't really answer.... (44 words

Drama break ups!

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I had a boyfreind then he broke up with me and got back with one of his ex girlfriends and said that he was just using me till his ex girlfriend got back from hoiday, but i still think deep down inside he stills likes me i think hes girlfriend has said something to him and made ... (102 words

Should I tell my best friend I cheated with her boyfriend?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am 20 years old the other night my bestfriends boyfiend Matt called me wanted to know if i wanted to come over to his and my bestfriend Dawns apartment. He told me she would be home in about 15 to 20 mins. so i agreed. well to make a long story short she didn't get in till ... (166 words

Foreskin always retracted, is this normal?

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1 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I am not circumcised. I am bit curious to know my condition. My penis' foreskin is always retracted regardless of erect or not. From articles and friends i know that foreskin retracts only when it is erect. Mine was normal i think till i was 17. Is this normal?... (49 words

Am I still a virgin if he didn't come inside me?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Some of my friends say i am still a virgin cause he didn't cum inside me. But it still went in. Am i virgin or not is he a virgin or not... (32 words

Should I stay here for the guy or move and make a new start?

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1 November 2009 (F - hi well i am having a serious dialema im 20 and i moved to scotland with my mum when i was 11 but my family still stay down england. my mum has a parner and 2 kids now. i want to move back to england and told them and they said they are fine with it all. my problem... (216 words

My wife of ten years just left me..

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1 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - my wife of ten years just left me , she is an overseas worker and im studying law and working at the same time, she stays abroad only for 10 months she has been going there for 3 years now in the middle east, she just left me told me she had found somone. i was devastated ... (101 words

I'm afraid I"m not good enough

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Ok, so there's this guy I've liked for around 6 years. But it seems like I've begun to like him more and more. Whenever I'm around him, I just feel so happy and I forget about all of the troubles in my life. He makes me smile more than anyone I know (yes, I know this sounds ... (236 words

Keep meeting him as a friend?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - my friend and I have known each other for 2 yrs. we hang out together, initially he wanted more than a friendship with me but I had told him I wanted to stay friends only. Then I got involved with another guy but the relationship didn't work out. In the meantime, he als... (201 words

I'm horny all the time... any way I can reduce this?

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old, i get sex all the time but its never good enough. I'm always horny no matter what ... (What can i do to lower my hormone level to make me less horny)?... (36 words

Am I too naive? Or is it because he's lying?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm older than him 2 years . We work at the same place . I've known him for 3 months . We rarely talk to each other at working place , but there were a few times when there's only me and him . He "stole" my first kiss. He surprised to know that was my first kiss . Then , he ... (239 words

Its been a year, why can't I forget him?

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - ** firstly all names are not real and are made up ** Well, really this all started when i fell for my close friend... let's call him Nick. I went out with him for about 2 1/2 months (October through mid December). me and Nick had a really close relationship since we went to ... (428 words

Social etiquitte for same sex relationships

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1 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - ok im 22 i'm looking for a boyfriend, and i need to understand more about social ettiquite being i'm a male as well. i definitely understand sex should stay between us, unless i'm involved in "girl talk" so to speak. but what's the best way to handle myself socially? I ... (234 words

Did we make a mistake by rushing our engagement?

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1 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I was dating my fiance for 5 mounts we decided to engage we had huge engegment party and after 3 weeks she asked me she isnot happy with me she did made mistake and she isnot redy to talk and she is breaking up i lover her todead and i do everything for her but she is not ... (68 words

Is weight the absolue dealbreaker for guys?

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1 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am 30 now, but when I was 14 in high school I secretly had a crush on a guy. After graduation, we hooked up (made out) a couple of times, but then he disappeared, got married and had a kid. During his marriage, he started emailing me - 27 emails in a day - but then I realized ... (528 words

Pregnant and thinking of Leaving Husband due to his strip club visiting...

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1 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 11 years and waited it seems like an eternity to get pregnant. My husband and I have had our problems, but I always thought he would be a little different when I got pregnant. Please tell me if I am being ridiculous with my emotions. I am 17 weeks ... (255 words

He has two kids with two other baby mommas but he's not interested in his baby with me...

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I just had a baby girl, whose absolutely beautiful, for my ex boyfriend. He knew I was pregnant but wasnt sure if he was the father. Well he has 2 other kids with 2 baby mothers but is taking care both of them. He had doubts about being the father because of my involvement with ... (340 words

I don't think I love my husband and now I've found a spark with someone new...

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1 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am in desperate need for advice, I have no one to talk to and am in a dilemma. I really do not know what to do. I am 40 years old (a young looking 40 year old, so people say) I have been married for 14 years and been with my husband for 20. We have twins, a boy and a ... (856 words

We never got to meet, and I scared him off!

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - We never got to meet, and i scared him off. He lives a few states down and Ill probably see him in 2 years at my best friends wedding (we met thru her) We used to talk lots and then i told him how i felt (eventho we never met) and he told me he jus wanted to be friends and ... (472 words

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend today, for good reason. He likes my best friend, and his ex, and 2 other girls, and im sick of it. But now he totally hates me for breaking up with him. I had my best friend (whos also his best friend) do it for me because he had a phone an... (189 words

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1 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi every one, pardon me for coming with questions at this late time in the night... BUt I must say a few words before I can ask... I am pretty confused right now... you see, I met a girl 2 months ago, Jenny is her name. I first got to know her at the birthday party of a frien... (1482 words

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - "We are great friends, we have only known each other for a little over a month but we are very close. He started coming over to hang out with my roommate, her girlfriend and I, because they were friends in high school. But now it has become that just me and him have been ... (542 words

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've recently discovered a real turn on for me but the feminist inside me weeps.. I've discovered I really love my boyfriend spanking me. Hard. Just thinking about it makes me want him to do it again. Hes only done it twice but I feel as though I shouldnt let him and that its ... (135 words

Working things with my ex but cut off sex, until I see a change in him, asking to much of him?

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My boyfriend has been head over heels in love... until recently!

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1 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ive been with my bf for 11mths, he has been head over heels for me until recently. The past month has been awful I must say. He is finding ways to say he is busy (either at work or at school) so has no time for meeting me as he used to. His texts have decreased, he has become ... (236 words

Even when I'm with my boyfriend I keep thinking of my crush instead!

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - okay. i need serious advice... i am crazy about this guy in my school. i call him my ken doll. he is perfect in so many ways and i like him alot. but he doesn't feel the same about me and it hurts like so badly. i dont know what to do. like i really like him alot and i always ... (121 words

Can you have love without sexual attraction?

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How can I tell my male friends that I'm bi?

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Was it wrong for my ex to sleep at my house (not in my room)

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How do I get over someone I never had?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - okay. so i have this crush on a boy in my school. and i know he doesn't feel the same way about me. but i can't stop thinking about him. and i always bump into him during school. and it makes it so much harder. the worst part is i have a boyfriend and when i'm with him im ... (86 words

Why are men so reluctant to commit?

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Do I have to just sit and wait?

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1 November 2009 (M - Wow, it certainly has been a while. I used to come on this site to answer questions, yet here I am years later asking one. So, here's my problem: I have been hooking up and hanging out a lot with this girl who lives right across from my dorm room in college. Everything has b... (249 words

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My husband is physically and emotionally abusive -- I really need advice!

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - my husband is physically abusive now and emotionally. he always puts me down for my past. ive never given him a reason not to trust me. i would take a bullet for him i lvoe him that much. but he needs help. i love him but he really really needs help and he wont get it. idk wat ... (167 words

I want to be his girlfriend. Any feedback?

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1 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hey guys it's Buddah again :). I just wanted a few little comments on this crush I have. Okay, so I just turned 14 a few weeks ago, and I am in the production of 'Cinderella' at my school. There is a guy, he's 17, that I have a huge crush on. He talks to me all the time, he ... (157 words

Is it ok for my husband to flirt all the time.

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Should I go back to the UK for university, and leave my b/f in Australia?

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1 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm from the uk, and I moved to australia with my boyfriend a couple months ago. I'd quit university in the uk, after a year and a half, because I felt like I'd chosen the wrong course, under pressure from my family, and it was incredibly stressfull and unfufuling. Anyway... (305 words

Why is she confused and doubting her feelings for me? I have done nothing wrong

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