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Why is she always so mean to me?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I just started seventh grade, and some mean girls have started making fun of me. One of the girls lives by me so its really embarrassing. She's started telling people I'm a lesbian. She's also saying she's scared and that I ask her a lot of questions. It's so bad that I ... (65 words

Does our relationship have potential, or are we just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am completely confused. Completely! I've been getting close with this guy for the past month and a half. It's been one thing after another. First, I was hesitant because I thought he was still with this girl. Actually I still don't know whats going on with them, but my insti... (344 words

Have I ambarrassed myself, or am I just a little paranoid after my text?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Yesterday I texted to my crush/friend for one year, Rob, that I have had a little crush on him. Then I texted him asking him not to tell anyone or else I would have someone beat him up. So today was totally weird. It started out like a normal day and he was acting normal until ... (181 words

Should we just be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have this problem.I started dating a coworker when we started working together,he was just getting over a divorce.We had a relationship for two years and right before I go for a family visit he was telling me about his plans for us and talking about children,....3 weeks later ... (232 words

What are these weird spots on my legs???

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello I am 18 and living a very healthy lifestyle, I eat the right things and I exercise regularly, but thats not what's wrong with me, it's my legs! Ever since I was little I've had a rash on my legs but it's not red and itchy, it's little spots, and I don't mean here and ther... (184 words

Has anybody taken a break and everything worked out in the end?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok so I'm 23 my bfs 25 we were dating for 4 months yet we have gone thru so much in so little time... yet he asked for space to make sure what he wants n to see if he's ready to make the next step which is marriage, yea sounds fast but we know each other from before. I really ... (132 words

The sum of al fears... My obsession with relationship (sexual) past.

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19 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I've been on this site, and a few others for a while. My question I guess is a combination of many questions, and I'm not totally sure where to begin. Let me start by saying that I love my girl. If I didn't then I wouldn't be worried about any of this in the first place. ... (1305 words

Help needed!!! How can I improve my relationship with my in-laws?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I've just recently got married. My husband is Hispanic and comes from deep religious background. His parents are pastors. I am African American and I was raised by a single. We had talked about married when he proposed I said yes but he didn't tell his family that we're en... (934 words

What gave me this sudden, intense chill???

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19 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - In the middle of my last class I got this sudden intense feeling down below (which felt good) and it gave me a chill? Like a sudden very short chills. Although I did not do anything at all I was just talking to friend in the class (and when this happened I jumped from the ... (80 words

Oh my god!!! Could I possibly be pregnant???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey, i have a question. im currently on bc, and i got my period last weds. but yesterday, when i was sitting under the dryer at the hair salon, i started feeling really sick, and ended up throwin up. then i drank some water and threw that up too. when i was home, after i ... (173 words

I haven't dated in a year!!! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - hey, i was in a really close relationship that ended a year ago, but since then i just havent dated anyone. when i go out with friends i sometimes notice when a girl is interested but im so shy around girls i think they assume im not into them and walk away!! i think i still ... (132 words

Ladies! What were your pregnancy symptoms?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Alright, so I've been sick on and off for the past 3 weeks and haven't thought much about it until someone asked if I could be pregnant. I'm 20 years old and have never been pregnant or even had a scare so I have no idea. I've had extreme nausea on and off, lack of appetite and ... (109 words

How can I get to know her better without scaring her off or making an idiot of myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (? - I'm very very picky and very rarely fancy anyone, (I'm a lesbian so this obviuosly adds the the difficulty factor :-D) I really really like a girl at work, I don'r know her very well at all and hardly get a chance to even speak to her because she works in a different depart... (164 words

I feel as if I'm hanging on by a thread here...

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I was dating my ex for nine months and i broke it off with her. We kept on talking every day and hanging out like we were still together though this went on for about a year where she wanted to get back with me and have the title and i wasnt sure i wanted to be with her. I kind ... (405 words

Help me find a way to get closer to him...

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19 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - So there's this guy i like but im not sure if he likes me back. Some days he's sort of around me and my friends and seems interested but other days he just completely ignores me and doesn't seem to notice me at all. I talk to him sometimes but im quite shy around boys so the ... (97 words

Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse for them?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Is oral sex on a woman better than intercourse? I'm better at sex when I'm tipsy, I come out of my shell. Is that normal??... (27 words

He never does his fair share around the house!

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19 November 2009 (F age - My husband says he is not taking care of any chores because he has to work. When I tell him, that is not right and he needs to do something too around the house etc, he says you are bitching at me all the time, why would I spend time with you? He is a workaholic burned out, ... (114 words

How can I make sex more fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am thick and i am a little shy at times so my main question is how to ignore shyness and just let loose when having sex with my boyfriend? I also want to know how to make our sex relationship more fun. What can i do to show the real me because i am very freaky and i love ... (85 words

Why doesn't someone gimme some lovin'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok guys. im really frustrated im a fine looking girl, everyone says im a nice, honest and a confident person who enjoys a laugh. (im 18). i havent had a boyfreind since i was 14. i have a lot of boys saying how nice i am and they end up texting me and that but it never... (263 words

Let down again... I feel so ugly, as if no one wants me...

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Weve spoke on msn and have been texting for about 2/3 months but i never thought anything of it in that way because he's well out of my league, lots of girls think hes good looking. But he mentioned getting to know me more. Then he asked me to go cinema in a text, he was prop... (292 words

Problem - evil step mum!

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19 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I was adopted by my stepdad when I was 8, he is the only father I have ever known.. We have always been close, but became even closer when I was pregnant with my son and my husband left me, my mum and stepdad were there will I gave birth and my stepdad (who can't have ... (481 words

Help me prepare... in case I'm pregnant!

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Please help! I'm worried I'm pregnant... Me and my boyfriend have never used a condom but I'm on the pill. We both got tested before we slept together. But I'm a bit forgetful and miss a few pills from time to time. But me and my boyfriend have still been sleeping together. ... (127 words

Christmas alone...

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19 November 2009 (F age - I have no family and all my friends have their own lives/families at Christmas. Can anyone recommend ideas how to spend christmas without having to spend a fortune on hotels? One would think there must be lots of other people alone at Christmas who would like to join up ... (65 words

How to support someone I care about who is going through a divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - How do I play this? My boyfriend has broken up with me. He is in the process of divorcing his previous partner and has discovered in our relationship that he has not moved forward emotionally as much as he though he had - he keeps worrying that our patterns are becoming too ... (300 words

Do I stay with him even though I am not sure about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - ok, well I am in a somewhat serious relationship for about 12mos. I really care about him but I dont feel completely happy. and for some reason i'm falling in love with a man that already has a partner also. what is wrong with me? what do i do?... (49 words

Why wont he make the first move when we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so I am wondering. Why is it that I ALWAYS have to get it going? In order to have sex, why can't he ever do it? And how can I make it more comfortable to give him a bj? I mean I used to swallow but one day it was just so much that I gagged. How can I prevent that?... (65 words

Ex wants to get back together but she has a boyfriend

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - My ex told me she wanted to get back together (dated 4 years), but she has a new boyfriend (dated a few months).She told me that breaking up with him would be hard, and she'd do it "very soon"--that was 2 days ago. since then she hasn't called me or returned my phone calls, and ... (85 words

Bedroom issues...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I enjoy sex, the problem is my husband has a small penis that I can't feel. He's clumsy in bed and has never made me orgasm. I have tried talking to him about it and he gets angry and starts saying that I don't love him so I have faked more orgasms than I can count on my ... (80 words

Why am I so destructive and jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am extremely jealous and destructive. I was not always like this and I do not know how to fix myself. In high school I suffered with severe acne and a stye on my eye for almost two years. This was not because I was lazy and not looking for help. I had been to many, many ... (315 words

Why is my friend's boyfriend being so frigid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so i have this friend who actually is a friend!! She's my best mate and she has had a boyfriend for the last 6 months. The problem is (and I wouldn't be writing this all over the internet if we couldn't figure out the problem) but her boyfriend doesn't let her touch him... ... (274 words

He didn't "cum", did I do something wrong??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok everyone, this is actually going red writing this but i need to know, i recently slept with this guy i meet about 2 weeks ago we slept together on a sat and on following monday, and both times he didnt cum, in fact i did loads and with other sexuly relationships ive had ... (229 words

Is it possible to completely recover from your first love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - A few years ago I fell in love with a girl for the first time. She never reciprocated any feelings that I had for her and we were never in any sort of relationship. I haven't spoken to her for the best part of a year, see her as rarely as possible and never respond to any sort ... (234 words

I ended the relationship, now how can I get him out of my system?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i was in a long term relationship with a guy for almost 15 months, during the relationships there were ups and downs, i believe i was always treated second best to everything else in his life. and i was treated terribily, loads of times i cryed myself to sleep because of him ... (442 words

He is a liar and a cheat! Now how do I get over him for good?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm hoping someone can help me with this. I broke up with my bf of 3yrs. last week. I just got so tired of his behaviour, he is 26 but has hissy fits like a 2yr. old when things don't go his way, he does "baby-talk", he thinks its funny to continuously poke, pi... (501 words

I think he's getting bored. How can I make it more fun in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - i have been with my partner for 2 years now and im affraid he is getting bored in the bed room because i am scared to try new things. i recently discovered that i enjoy being on top but feel that i dont know the right way of doing so. i would like to know if possible on how to ... (80 words

How can I move on and be more social?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi I went out with a guy for just over a year and in that time found out he was a compulsive liar who lied about his age, (he said he was 23 and he was 27) relationship status (hes married) and having a child. Im glad that I dumped him but Im having a hard time coming to terms ... (223 words

I hate myself. How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I feel stupid. In theory, I have a great life. I have a good, loving family, a good home, money, some great friends, I do well at school, going to university next year and I'm generally a healthy person with a lot to give. But I hate myself. I know it's probably a lack of ... (359 words

Out of the blue he tells me "I don't deserve you". Why would he say this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend very much, we been together for almost 7 months but i have always known him, he loves me too im his first love and first serious girlfriend, we have fun together, can be ourselfs around eachother and he always makes sure i come first out of anything. but the ... (168 words

Who the heck is "Sadie?"

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19 November 2009 (F age - the guy I ve been seeing just text me, he said ok tks sadie, thing is my name isnt sadie....what shall i do... (23 words

My Boyfriend stopped giving me attention, what should I do?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship since 4.5months and he lives 545km away from my house..we both really love each other and we can even die for each other..but now a days my boyfriend doesn't give me much attention as he used to give..he said he will call me at ... (105 words

Are these good reasons for breaking up...

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about 3 weeks ago and have been riding on an emotional roller coaster since. One minute I'm so happy and excited to be single and the next I can't believe what a great thing I threw away. Mine was an amazing boyfriend, he was caring, a... (327 words

Will he ever come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5261 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were wonderful, he started to have financial issues in his family and then decided to take some finacial moves to help, one was moving away. About a month or two before he was to leave he told me we couldn't be together, i deserve more and not to wait for ... (182 words

Are these doubts to be expected when you are entering into a life-long comittment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am engaged to a really great hardworking man, we are from different cultures which means there has been a lot of learning in the relationship about how we each do things, what’s expected of each other and so on, some of those expectations we needed to learned happened in the ... (239 words

Is there a problem with falling in love with a girl who is older than you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi cupid, i have serious question about my relationship with a girl who i met on the internet. am 22 and she's 23. she senior me with a year. she knows that. we have dated about two months now and we also shared pictures and web cam.she's very happy to see me and we are ... (296 words

We've only been back together for a week but already she is showing signs of her old behaviour!

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi, need some advice about what to do next. Me and my ex were with each other for 3 years but broke up 10 months ago she is very insecure no matter what i do to comfort her or resure her, in the end it tore us apart not saying i done nothing wrong but the bulk of it was not ... (252 words

He wants to get married in the near future but he's not sure if I'm the One!

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19 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been dating my bf for two years. I am co_dependent /insecure so breaking up has always been hard for me. We have a very loving relationship, except for the marriage issue. I am 28, he is 29. He tells me he wants to get married in the next two to three years time. Bu... (213 words

My fiance thinks I'm crazy for feeling uncomfortable with his ex's presence at all family functions!

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19 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - My fiance and I are both divorced. His ex is very close with his family. His family feels obligated to invite her to every function because she has no family in the state and no friends. She has lived her over twenty years so go figure. I am ok with her being there but ... (185 words

Am I stupid to still care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - i was in love with dis guy 2 yrs back,he showed me love he made me forget about all my past we had 5 mnths but it was like many years.everything changed when he want to marry me cuase he wnt kids i suggested we get tested before.he tested positive and i tested negative it was ... (197 words

How many frogs do I have to date in order to find the one?

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19 November 2009 (F age - I have written for advice in the past and still need it. I dated a great guy and we broke up afte six months of dating. He only was divorced one year. I have been single for ten. He went through a lot of bad stuff with his divorce. He never told me he loved me, but told me ... (850 words

How can I know he truly loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend a lot but he doesn't feels it ever. What should I do and how can I trust him and know that he truly loves me??? help... (32 words

Advice please... How can I make it up to my girlfriend and also to karma?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (? age 36-40 - Hi, I fell in love with my best friend's girl but somehow knew it was wrong the first time (The hardest thing I have ever done and the most pain ive ever felt) and was frightened of the fact it might blow up in my face so I went after someone else but still kept in touch wi... (294 words

No gift from BF on birthday....?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age - I have been with my BF for three years. He has always been really romantic and thoughtful in the area of giving gifts on special days. However, our 3 yr anniversary passed about 6 wks ago and he did not get me a gift. A card, which was nice, but that's it. My birthday was ... (312 words

New girlfriend vs daughter from ex wife

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19 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I've been divorced for over 2 years now. I've got a 4yr old daughter that lives with mom. I see her on Mondays and have her every second weekend, holiday etc. The divorce was easy, friendly and we're still friendly. I've been dating the girl of my dreams for the last year. Ev... (178 words

We've always had a thing for each other but sex didnt quite go to plan, any ideas why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F - This is a long question. Please read and help me the best you can Im 16 years old and for a year and a half now Ive been in love with someone. We spoke about being together, but he'd often say he liked other people and mess me around. He said we'd be together when we left sch... (197 words

Married but cannot stop thinking about having sex with any woman I see or meet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

19 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Asked this question previousley ,neeed more answers.. i am a married man and i always think of having sex with any woman(of course a charming woman) i see or meet....at times these are my young aunts or a girl on the next desk in my office or my cousins who are married or s... (170 words

Are there any signs I can look out for to see if he still has feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok, long story short, my sister met this bloke and him and his son came to live with her about a year or so ago. me and the son hit it off and ended up getting really close emotionally (amongst other things) no details. especially after what i had gone through, (rape,... (186 words

Why no erection?

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19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - hi. i'm 17 boy. i masturbate rarely. except masturbation, i never had a erection in my life. i never had any girlfriend, i don't watch porn. but i get attracted by physical beauty of girls. i've never been closer to any girl. so do you think my not getting erection , seein any ... (63 words

After sex I'm afraid he'll disappear!

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19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for a cpl of months.Not sure what we are.Hadnt seen him in a cpl wks.So we got together - had a fun movie/pizza night.So one thing lead to another and we slept together.I dont normally have sex until I'm sure im in a committed relationship.After, I was ... (255 words

I'm worried my Christmas gift might be a bit too soppy and clingy, any thoughts?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Sadly my financial situation is not as I'd like it so I'm very poor and cant really afford christmas presents properly this year. However I really want to get my boyfriend something fantastic as hes been so amazing and just getting to know him throughout the year has been ... (183 words

I missed a few pills, unprotected sex, and now I'm worried!

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19 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - this a bit of a hard and weird question to be asking but i am a bit worried, i am on the contraceptive pill and obviously i have missed a few pills in the month that i am now in and on the 16th nov a few days ago i had unprotected sexual intercourse, i am coming to the end of ... (78 words

Should I move on forever or try one more time?

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19 November 2009 (? age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. My ex says he loves me, he always wants to hang out and always tries to hook up with me but says he doesn want a girlfriend right now. He has given me every excuse on the book for not wanting a girlfriend. First because he cant afford to have one (wich ... (425 words

I'm not a liar but I can't justify my actions!

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Today is my boyfriend and I's ten months. We've been going strong so far, but tonight tests us... About a year ago (before we were dating), I was trying to get into modeling. I went to a photographer who was fairly well-known, and seemed professional. He also lived and worked... (985 words

How do I get her to realise that I am Mr Right?

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Alright so there is this amazing girl I work with... Kinda a fucked up situation... She is seeing some one and I am sungle... I want to get with her because I'm single and her guy treats her like shit... We talk for hours wen it's slow at work and she is every thingvim looking ... (133 words

Are they husband and wife?Cousins? Or brother and sister?

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19 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - My son married my best friends daughter a few yrs ago and have a kid. 5 months ago i hooked up with my friend and now she is expecting our kid. How do we figure this out. The new baby will be both our kids half sibling making them not only related by marriage but now by blood. ... (74 words

I want to spend as much time with her as possible but her family are getting in the way!

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hey guys, Me and my GF is in a long distance relationship right now. We haven't seen each other for 7 months and counting. Now, I'm going to visit her soon, and me and my whole family are going out of town to a nice beach resort. So I asked my GF to go with me and my family... (142 words

Any tips on giving my boyfriend oral? And was my experience last night normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, just a couple of questions. My boyfriend fingered me last night and got a different 'spot' to normal. It normally feels really good, but is over in a few seconds, this felt ok but my legs were shaking the whole time, is this normal? Also, I want to give him oral sex but... (83 words

Should we stay friends?

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19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been friends with a guy for the past 3 yrs. When we had met he was interested in me but at the time I had my mind on another guy so we just stayed friends. Now, 3 years later we've been getting closer and yesterday I texted him and told him that I can't stop thinking ab... (206 words

Does giving a girl space work?

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Does giving a girl space and time work... (8 words

What does he want? sex? Playing around? Or is he just full of bs?

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19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I met this guy from online.We talked/flirted daily for a wk before meeting. We met and despite our flirty chats..he was sweet, a gentleman and our drinks + coffee date ended w/ passionate kiss, followed by a txt tellin me he had a great time.He still msgs me daily,been a ... (241 words

Losing hope

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been in an on/off relationship for almost 4 years now. We have never really officially to others called each other boyfriend/ girlfriend which doesn't bother me because I know what we have. I love the guy, I'm so happy when i'm with him and want to be with him fore... (356 words

Do girls like macho or caring guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi There Everybody...I'm 18 Years Old And I Just Wanted to Know If Girls Like It If A Guy is Macho Or Just Kind,Caring And Fun Loving...Cos I Am Not macho...But I Do Like Having Fun And just being normal...And Watching Anime!!!...And I Dont Wanna Sound Conceited but i'm not a ... (99 words

I want my profession to be Japanese Animation!

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19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi Everybody...This Isnt A Question About Relationships Or Anything Like That So I'll Just get To the Point..I'm 18 Years Old And I'm From Idia...I Really Like japanese Animation And I Wanna Make japanese Anime As A profession...I Suck At Drawing:-[ But I'm Good With Computers ... (138 words

How to approach the subject of giving and receiving oral?

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19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi i need some information on how to approach a girl whilst in foreplay and to either give or recieve oral?? Because im too shy to ask for a blowjob and im scared to pull her pants down and give her orar due to she might freak out and run off or hit me. Also i would like some ... (88 words

Should I be worried by my boyfriend calling other girls "darling"?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - my bf all ways calls other girls darling and stuff like that what should i think of that... (18 words

To trust or not?

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19 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have had some hard relationships in my life and all but one man has committed some form of cheating or lying to me and it has caused me to have some issues with men. The man I am seeing now is wonderful but I have pissed him off a time or two by accussing or questioning his ... (198 words

I think about him all the time...even when I'm with my husband. Am I wrong?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ever since I've meet my professor two years ago I've had a crush on him. I'm in college and majoring on the piano, he's my piano teacher as well as the teacher for a few other classes. At first I wasn't worried about it, this isn't the first time I've had crush on a teacher so ... (461 words

Adice on a girl

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19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - So I've been sort of going out with this girl for like a month. We've been talking and I've known her for a long time and I really like her. However, she hasn't talked to me in over a week. Nothing wrong with it, but its strange because we were talking practically everyday or ... (149 words

Which one of these amazing girls do you think I should date?

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19 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - (First off I would like to apologize for the length of this message. There's just some background information I thought might be necessary to put before my question) Hey people I am 15 years young and live in Maine. I have got myself stuck between two girls. Neither o... (941 words

Its my own fault he cant trust me, how do I make this relationship work?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do, i've been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months now, but when i'd only been with him for a month i left him for my ex. i realised how big a mistake i'd made and left him straight away. i talked to my boyfriend and he said he'd give me another ... (254 words

He cant cum when I give him a blowjob because of the big "mental' component to it! What am I doing wrong?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi Guys, I've been going out with a friend of mine for about a month now, and although we're both VERY different we get along great. However, the other night I decided to give him a blowjob, which he thoroughly appreciated (OK, who wouldn't), but after a while, he told m... (201 words

My girlfriend had a one night stand before she met me and my family knows about it!

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19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I lost my virginity to my recent girlfriend and she has slept with two people before me. Only one of them bother me since it was a one night stand which she ended up having sex with twice. My cousin was there in the same house the first time she did it, and knows they had a one ... (103 words

I'm so dependent on my boyfriend and now he only wants to be friends!

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19 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - My bf asked me to be friends because there were too many problems in our relationship. The thing is we have been living together 1yr. and 1/2... I love him very much, but I am so hurt. Every time I try to work it out with him he wants to, at first. But then he can't handle it ... (202 words

Getting a blow job?

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19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hey guys what does it feel like to get a Blow Job? -Thanks... (16 words

Which of these amazing girls should I date?

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19 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - (First off I would like to apologize for the length of this message. There's just some background information I thought might be necessary to put before my question) Hey people I am 15 years young and live in Maine. I have got myself stuck between two girls. Neither o... (941 words

Victim of a prank and now confused?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm honestly hated, or atleast I think so, by someone I'm in love with- and that I'm not able to get over. Someone who was a bully to me heard that I was going to ask that one person who hates me, and at that time didn't, out and decided to play a 'small' prank on me. S... (194 words

How to live with a vicious miscarriage of justice?

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19 November 2009 (? age 41-50 - The world has changed completely. My nation, Ireland, has tonight been illegally denied a place in next summer's football World Cup by an unbelievably blatant handball offence which was stunningly overlooked by the referee and officials. The offence in question becomes ... (241 words

She reaches climax too soon!

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19 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - hey this is my first time asking for help...anyway.... I'm 19 and I love my girlfriend so much,but I'm having problems with her in bed. What I mean is that she cums really really fast. 5 minutes fast. This is frustrating caus it takes me about 45 min. to an hour to cum. So when ... (131 words

Is he nervous or just playing me?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been seeing this boy for about a month now. We both go to the same college and we met for the first time at one of my friend's parties. We both asked for each others numbers and that was it for the night. We talked for the next day and we ended up seeing each other the ... (582 words

Should I tell my family I'm gay?

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - [Moderator Note: OP, there isn't a third gender. If there were, threesomes would be much less messy.] hello to everyone. i need your advice. please tell me what to do to overcome this problem that i am facing now. i belong to a third gender(gay) but i am afraid to show w... (101 words

Opinions needed - should I be concerned about my husband's female colleague?

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19 November 2009 (F age - Looking for opinions. Happened a few years ago. Female coworker called our home with sexual joke to my husband. She also confided to him thought she was pregnant with another married mans child. Also, calling his cell phone to find out when he was coming to work. Asked him ... (284 words

Should I leave her to sort out her past?

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19 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hi - I need help at this point in my life! I have met a wonderful woman - we met through an internet dating site. Everything was amazing from the very start - a great friendship, common interests, physical attraction, the best sex I have ever had in my life!! etc. etc. She told ... (166 words

Despite her denials I think she wants more than friendship too

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19 November 2009 (? - Okay I need help understanding this! I am a 48 year old female who told a 55 year old unhappily married female that my feelings for her went deeper than just friendship. She denies feeling the same way but based on many things she has said to me and the fact that she flew 1300 ... (149 words

How can I stop feeling so jealous?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I get so jealous with my boyfriend and it's making me feel insecure. I get annoyed feeling this way. We've been together for a little over a year but we are getting into too many fights because I fill my head with so many things. Before it was him but now it's me, so like ... (84 words

I orgasm thinking of my ex. Does this mean I'm still attracted to him?

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi i love my boyfriend more than anything in this world, been together for ten months but i have known him for years. we are really close and we have so much fun together. its just the other night when we was having sex i thought about my ex and it made me orgasm and i kept i... (145 words

Suggested sexual positions please!

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok well me n my best guy friend r plannin on doin it n we want to kow what kind of um sex positions can we do??? plz tell me all da ones u know n explain them to me plz im desperate... (44 words

Please help me... he hits me on a regular basis...

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19 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i love him very much even though he hits me on a regular basis, I'm 17 he is 23 so when he does this to me i cant stand up for myself because hes too strong, i cant leave him because i have no one else to go to, my mums dead, iv never ... (394 words

How do I show him I'm still interested and want to start over?

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19 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hey, I really like this guy but I dont think he knows that.He probably thinks I hate him because we had a rough start. We used to like eachother but things got complicated.I want to let him know that I still like him without directly telling him because Im actually really ... (168 words

I need your help on this one! I don't want to go out with her if I feel ashamed of her size. What should I do?

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19 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ok my problem is this, I started talking to a friend of a friend a while ago and me and her get on great, laugh about the same things and just connect never a problem making conversation etc anyway she`s a bit big though which I know shouldnt be a problem but I work in a night ... (114 words

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