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How can I tell my family I want to end my marriage? They aren't going to support me
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2107 days ago
28 February 2019 (F)
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Hi.. ive been in really hard time right now. Ive made the worst decision in my life to marry my husband. We now have 5 months son and he is the only reason i stay. I think its the only reason too my husband and his parent still want me in their house. My husband is a pat...
(753 words) Am I just being paranoid? Overthinking? Will I ruin things?
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2110 days ago
28 February 2019 (F)
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Am I being paranoid? I have recently met a guy online and we have met a couple of times now, but I don't know if my current feelings are super paranoid or if I am looking at any red flags... This guy has been incredibly giving, thoughtful, kind... He is a good looking cha...
(334 words) I asked my mother not to say negative things about my father and now she isn't speaking to me
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2107 days ago
28 February 2019 (F)
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My parents are divorced and I live with my mother and younger brother. The break-up between my parents was extremely sour. My father was never really the "#1 dad" type of figure because he had his issues with a drug addiction. My brother and I never gave up on him, though. Just ...
(318 words) Is she shy or just not into me?
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2110 days ago
27 February 2019 (M)
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Hi There is a girl I really like, I see her every day. I know I should just ask her out but i am very shy and as much as people tell me to do it i find it hard, but i think I will have the confidence if i see some signs that she is interested. But i feel I am getting q...
(595 words) Could these have been semen stains ... is he cheating on me?
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12 answers
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2108 days ago
27 February 2019 (F)
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Hi guys. I just need some advise. I’m driving myself mad and keep toying between am I just being super paranoid or is my gut instinct trying to tell me something... basically I want to know show I be weary of my partner! We have been together about 8 months now and things p...
(706 words) I'm pregnant and work part time. My husband wants me to get another job to pay his parents debts.
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2110 days ago
27 February 2019 (F)
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My husband's parents owe a large amount of money to a family member which they can't pay. They have asked my husband to pay the money on their behalf, we are talking £500 per month for the next 10ish years. My husband works 9 to 5 and I work part time. Money is tight as we have ...
(212 words) I'm 64 but still frightened of my dying mother.
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9 answers
- newest was posted
2110 days ago
27 February 2019 (F)
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My elderly narcissistic mother is dying in hospital and after a violent abusive childhood, I hate having to see her. She's an embittered, difficult, hard to please woman and I feel very nervous in her company. I'm 64 now, yet still frightened of her. Nothing I ever do is right ...
(193 words) My bf just got tattoos for his deceased ex wife!
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6 answers
- newest was posted
2111 days ago
27 February 2019 (F)
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I'd like to have some opinions about my situation. My bf just got huge tattoo representing his dead ex wife. We became couple after he was separated from his ex but shortly after she passed away and he was the one found her dead on the floor at house. He basically has PTSD and...
(520 words) I have a crush on my lecturer, I think he likes me too.
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2111 days ago
26 February 2019 (F)
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Hi, I have a huge problem... I've been married for four years now. I love my husband and he loves me. We are both so busy so we sometimes don't have time for each other. But we still love each other and we know it. In the meantime, I'm studying and I have a really nice doct...
(275 words) My new friend critizes my hair and clothes! How do I get her to back off?
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2111 days ago
26 February 2019 (F)
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I am 53 years. and 6 months ago I was in a shop and met a lady who is 43 years old, she asked for my number after chatting to go out for coffee. She then asked for us to go out in the evenings, I have serious medical conditions and not in position of going out. She is...
(460 words) Why did he block me on Facebook?
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2111 days ago
26 February 2019 (F)
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A guy and I liked each other in high school. After we'd graduated high school (and both moved to different towns), we finally properly began talking online after he reached out and admitted that he had a crush on me but was too shy to talk to me. I said that it's never too late ...
(207 words) Should I move to the capital with him?
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2111 days ago
25 February 2019 (F)
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Hey guys, I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I met through a house share (which i'm still at) and I really couldn't be happier. We bring the best out of each other in so many way and he's made me realise why it never worked out with anyone else. Our contract f...
(347 words) I am so confused..looking for insight about this relationship..
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6 answers
- newest was posted
2113 days ago
25 February 2019 (F)
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I met someone 6 weeks ago. Im in my mid-40s and spent too long in a loveless, abusive marriage. Ive been alone for 3 yrs and was resigned to being done w men for good. I have trust and abandonment issues and have settled for weak, passive men.Ive been a numb observer, ...
(680 words) I don't know what this man wants from me
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11 answers
- newest was posted
2111 days ago
25 February 2019 (F)
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I am a lady in my 60s and have been in an on/off relationship with a guy of similar age for 5 years. We usually fall out because I get hurt that he has not included me in his family get togethers or not bothered to get me anything for my birthday. He never takes me on holiday ...
(508 words) How can I help this relationship survive?
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- newest was posted
2113 days ago
24 February 2019 (F)
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I am 40 F,3 years ago I met a 21F College student that was on a internship.(Asia)- I Never dated woman before. At the time I was in a leadership role within the college. She made passes and I resisted, because I was nervous, scared and because of my position with th...
(633 words) Somebody keeps hacking my boyfriend or is he cheating?
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17 answers
- newest was posted
2113 days ago
24 February 2019 (F)
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I keep finding my boyfriend on multiple dating/cheating sites and find his search history is filled with things like: Women near me to have with tonight? I have asked him about it and he says he didn't do it. Tat someone is hacking him. Is that even possible or is he just ...
(57 words) My ex still has our couples pictures on his facebook. I want them deleted.
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9 answers
- newest was posted
2113 days ago
23 February 2019 (F)
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why is my ex keeping my pictures (our pictures together) on his facebook account and says in relationship with me? He broke up with me 6 months ago. I do not want him to keep my pictures on his profile, I blocked him but can still see his account on search, Should I...
(70 words) I try very hard to acieve at university but my parents think its nothing
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2113 days ago
23 February 2019 (F)
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At the moment, I'm a little upset with what my parents have said. Not exactly sure how I should approach the situation. So it started off by discussing how I'm already in my 2nd year of university and that in a blink of an eye, I would be in my final year and getting my b...
(494 words) I'm too shy to ever find love.
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3 answers
- newest was posted
2115 days ago
23 February 2019 (F)
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I am 24 and never had a boyfriend before nor have I ever dated anyone mostly because I have never been asked out before. I am a shy girl and I don't know how I can even get dates. I am not really a drinker, so I don't go to places that are big on alcohol. I don't work anywhere ...
(175 words) I don't like the feeling before I orgasm
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3 answers
- newest was posted
2112 days ago
23 February 2019 (M)
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Well I have no other clue how to say this, except for the fact that I don't like how it feels when I'm about to orgasm. I'm a guy and I can only find articles about it happening to girls but, ya know I'm a guy so they aren't exactly help full. It just feels strange and like an ...
(102 words) Starting out in serious relationships: Coping with "forever" ending and trusting the next "forever"?
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2114 days ago
23 February 2019 (F)
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Please bear with this question. I'd really appreciate supportive answers, rather than blunt or patronising answers, if possible :-) I've only been in one relationship and it did feel like it would last many more years than it did, though it lasted nearly 4. We had the plans...
(501 words) How do you maintain a positive attitude when nobody seemingly has any interest in you?
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2115 days ago
22 February 2019 (M)
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Hi there. I'll try and keep this brief and to the point. I'm 27 years old and have only been on 1 date which wasnt all that great. Never had a long (or short term relationship) but I always tried to tell myself I dont want to be in a relationship for the sake of being in one. ...
(166 words) I’m shy and don’t like to upset anyone, so how do I let the one friend with a crush on me down, whilst keeping our friendship?
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10 answers
- newest was posted
2115 days ago
22 February 2019 (M)
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Hi everyone I've found myself in a tough situation recently and feel I need some advice. Firstly I think its important to understand a few things about me. I'm quite shy, I find it hard to express my interest in someone directly and I also really don't like to upset anyone ...
(492 words) Is the company punishing me because I have autism?
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11 answers
- newest was posted
2112 days ago
21 February 2019 (M)
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I have learning difficulties and work in the warehouse. I’ve been with the company for five years. since I’ve been at the company I’ve had no issues with anyone who works there. I was told by my assistant boss that he received reports from co workers, supposedly that I’ve been ...
(166 words) I just got married and I feel that my marriage is already breaking
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2113 days ago
21 February 2019 (F)
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Dear cupid I just got married and already feel like my marriage is failing, to be precise nothing changed i.e we were living together even before marriage so it's the same. But my husband emotional support is almost none to these days Most of the things he say just to hu...
(178 words) Can you please give me some ideas on how to make his birthday special?
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2117 days ago
21 February 2019 (F)
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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a month and his birthday is coming up next month and I want to do something really special for him but I cant really think of anything. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!...
(47 words) I broke up with my violent boyfriend, he wants the ring back but I paid for it!
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- newest was posted
2115 days ago
20 February 2019 (F)
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I have just broken up with my boyfriend of twenty years due to his violent behaviour. the thing is he says he wants the ring he bought me back which is expensive but I feel like in all fairness I have paid for the ring as I gave the cost of the ring by giving the same amount in ...
(130 words) Does a heart break months after the relationship ends?
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- newest was posted
2118 days ago
20 February 2019 (F)
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I dumped him a month ago and I have been doing okay ...I actually thought I had it easy this time ...until this week when it seems his haunting my thoughts every second ...Does a heart break months after the relationship has ended? ... I dumped him because he is a chronic liar ...
(151 words) Is this flirting behavior from my doctor?
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2082 days ago
20 February 2019 (F)
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I have just been detecting a vibe. He is a bit touchy feely, like he will touch my hands (playing with my fingers) or my shoulder, and sit close and lean in. He also runs hot and cold. If I am serious he starts to flirt or if I start to flirt he gets serious. He will fidget and ...
(279 words) I’m in an exclusive long distance relationship, despite my desire for it to be open, and I started cheating. What do I do?
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9 answers
- newest was posted
2091 days ago
20 February 2019 (F)
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I’m a freshman In college and am doing long distance with a boy I started dating about a year ago (during my senior year of high school). I truly believe that I’m in love with him, as I dated a boy before him and learned the difference between just loving someone and being ...
(471 words) I need help with work and love advice! Please help!
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3 answers
- newest was posted
2118 days ago
20 February 2019 (M)
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So I’m having a frustrated year so far.... Work I closed my business last year after over 3 years of trading and got into a retail job, I then got let go from that retail job and the got called to go to a different branch. I hate it! I try to see the positive in it all but I ...
(307 words) Am I fighting a losing battle? She is still speaking to her abusive husband!
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8 answers
- newest was posted
2118 days ago
20 February 2019 (M)
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So... there's a woman I've been talking to for a little over a month. And when we're together, things are good for the most part. The problem is... this woman is married to a man that she has been involved with for a few years. He has threatened her, threatened me, h...
(316 words) My boyfriend often makes me feel inferior and I am not sure if I see a future with him. Please help?
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6 answers
- newest was posted
2119 days ago
20 February 2019 (F)
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My boyfriend of 5 years and I had a huge argument recently. I mentioned applying for a 6-month advisory governmental job in another town. He got very angry and said he doesn't want to do long distance again (we had done it for a year internationally while he attended a highly ...
(472 words) I’m scared to talk to him about my desire to have children! Help?!
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2119 days ago
19 February 2019 (F)
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we're both very happy but there's one thing that I feel scared to talk to him about and it's the subject of children, he's had relationships in the past that have ended badly and this worries me sometimes, recently I ...
(125 words) He played games with me and I need your help to understand why!?
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2119 days ago
19 February 2019 (F)
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I am a mature person (not perfect and have many flaws, I am only human), I met this guy who was 10 years older than me 4 years ago, I told him I did not want not want to go out with him as my previous relationships have broken down and they have cheated on me (yes I have my ...
(293 words) Our sex life needs improvement but how do I approach it because he gets upset and feels bad!
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- newest was posted
2105 days ago
19 February 2019 (F)
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Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months, our relationship is good the only thing that kinda sucks is when we do it.. I'm his first but he isnt mine, when we do it he never takes the time to make me wet, he just goes and spit and gets to business, and sometime...
(181 words) I get angry over little things, and he thinks that’s dumb!
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- newest was posted
2119 days ago
19 February 2019 (F)
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Hi I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months. Our relationship is good and I'm happy with him.. but I dont seem to stop getting mad over tiny things, or sometimes i get mad at something and he thinks its dumb or that i shouldn't be getting mad at. Example: tod...
(177 words) Do you think he’s basically telling me to leave?
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- newest was posted
2120 days ago
18 February 2019 (F)
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So last night my S/O and I got into an argument. We were at walmart leaving and our daughter stopped to whine about getting some gumballs so I wasn't paying attention to where I was walking and accidentally bumped into the entrance doors of the walmart and it sort of unhinged ...
(339 words) I really like her and want to continue communication with her, but she’s on holiday! I don’t want to put a foot wrong, so I need advice!
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- newest was posted
2120 days ago
18 February 2019 (M)
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Hey everyone, This feels really pathetic but any advice will help. Basically I’m messaging a girl who I met a few weeks back. She lives just over an hour away and i met her on a night out. Since then I went back the following weekend to see her and I said next time I’ll take...
(433 words) Do you think it's possible to build a relationship over feelings for a different person?
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2120 days ago
18 February 2019 (F)
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I've recently started flatting with five other people. One in particular, I'll call him S, I didn't know very well, so I assumed everything would be fine and we all signed on for a years tenancy contract. That was maybe 8 months ago, and during the next few months S and I st...
(237 words) He couldn't get it up! Any ideas why?
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2121 days ago
18 February 2019 (F)
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Hie Cupid, I fell in love with a very amazing guy, about two months ago. He's in love with me too. So, after hanging out for six times only (writing this because it might be the answer to my doubt), on Valentine's day, we both decided to lose our virginity. Now, the foreplay...
(354 words) I’m bi, my friend is straight, but she said it was okay to flirt with her! What does her behaviour mean?
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2120 days ago
18 February 2019 (F)
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I am bisexual, turning 18 in March. I have a friend, who I think I am in love with... I told her I liked her but she told me that she is straight. But she also said before all this shit, that it's okay to flirt with her. One time, she and my other friends were talking ab...
(225 words) I'm dating a restaurant owner who's 10 years older and struggles with money. Is it worth it?
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2120 days ago
18 February 2019 (F)
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Hi everyone, It's a bit long but please be patient with me. I'm currently dating a restaurant owner for almost a month. We met a supermarket and he took courage to ask me out on a date. We really hit it off after the first date and continue seeing each other ever since. A...
(579 words) My husband wants "space" to deal with his feelings of anger towards me
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2094 days ago
17 February 2019 (F)
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Hello, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. My husabnd and I have been married for over 10 years. I love him dearly. Recently he has asked for "space." Claims his job and our marital issues are overwhelming him. Says he loves me but doesn't have romantic feelings towards ...
(168 words) I hate the way my partner talks about my children and I'd rather live alone than be trapped in a relationship with him
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2120 days ago
17 February 2019 (F)
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Hi there. I am in a long-term relationship and love my partner but i feel very trapped. I have 2 children from a previous relationship that are teenagers and my partner doesnt have a strong relationship with them but they do all get along well most of the time. My problem is ...
(175 words) Why don't I have any drive or passion for my business ideas?
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2121 days ago
17 February 2019 (M)
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This isn't about love but I could really use some advice. I hope that's ok. I poured lots of money into a tv show pilot, the problem is I'm not motivated to continue with the idea. I think the idea is good and needed but I find myself dragging myself to get sponsors. I started ...
(166 words) I’m falling out of love, but can’t manage to walk away! Any advice?
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2121 days ago
17 February 2019 (M)
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Hi everyone my name is James, i am currently in a 9 year relationship. For the last few years i felt like ive fallen out of love with my girlfriend. I am the only source of income in the relationship. Im very ambitious she is the complete opposite. I literally pay for ...
(409 words) How can I deal with my anger?
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2121 days ago
17 February 2019 (F)
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Hello I am preparing myself emotionally and physically for life in my mid 30”s. My twenties were a series of parties - insecurities and putty fears with occasional breakdowns Throughout my self reflection I have noticed that I get angry very quickly and I want to fix t...
(243 words) Is my husband crossing a line in his interactions with female friends?
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2120 days ago
17 February 2019 (F)
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Hello, Should I be concerned with how my husband interacts with certain females? Example: he was discussing valentines plans with a coworker and when she asked if he was doing anything, he said no. It isn’t entirely untrue because we didn’t go out, but you would think he w...
(179 words) I don't like children at all but why am I thinking about the possibilty?
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2118 days ago
17 February 2019 (F)
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I’m 26 and have never ever ever wanted children in my whole life and the thought of giving birth and being pregnant makes me feel sick and squeamish. I don’t even find babies or children cute and I get very uncomfortable around them~ at Christmas I was helping my boyfriends 5 ...
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