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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

We were doing well until we made it 'official'! How do we get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Right. Fell for this guy at the begining of last school year when we got sat next to each other in class and our relationship grew and grew and finally, September this year he asked me out. Before we "made it official", we'd kiss and hug and act like boyfriend and gi... (159 words

Am I a clingy girlfriend if my past with him made me insecure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5252 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - before we started dating my junior year he used to talk to lots of girls but there was this other girl who basically caught all his attention. the 3 months tat we dated..i lost it...to him then 2 months later he transferred bak to the same skool tat i and tat girl goes to. he ... (1206 words

I really like him and he's giving me a 2 week chance to make it work! What can I do to make him really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - okkayy well im going out with this guy and i really like him but he doesnt really have feelings for me like that but hes giving me a chance and after 2 weeks if it doesnt work out hel break up with me so what can i do to make a good impression on him so that he may start liking ... (86 words

How can I make him stop touching me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I don't know what to do about this situation! First off Im 15 and live with my mom. My mom's boyfriend recently moved in, and he's got this friend of his. This friend is 23 I think? I don't really know, but 23-25 years old. First time I met him I was in a flirty mood I guess, ... (689 words

Have I just totally ruined any chance I ever had with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hi, Help! I met this guy abroad. I thought he liked me as he asked me to exchange contact details. We did. I gave him a card which was about missing someone, with my details inside. He rang me after I arrived, to see if I landed safely. A week later, I sent a text... (459 words

Until it stinks!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Can anyone tell me why a vagina might smell after sex?... (11 words

I want to emigrate to US, but hubby wont budge

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5248 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hello aunts I have been hugely lucky to have had a job that allowed me 2 visit NYC, I have been in live with the place since I can remember, I think it's cause my grandad was a seaman and visited NYC hundreads of times and would come back to England and bring us gifts a... (210 words

My bi girl friend blows hot and cold

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Dear Aunts (apology in advance for the length! =[ ), Right now, I'm a 15 year old girl, a freshman in high school. I've known one of my best friends, lets call her Cindy, for about three years. We became very close around a year ago when we both began questioning our sexua... (630 words

She won't accept that I love her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - My girlfriend keeps saying I don't love her. Its getting annoying, because I keep telling her that I do, but she just responds with "nope". What can I say to prove that I love her so she will stop. I love her very much, and I wish she knew I did!... (51 words

She's just too shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My friends shy and she asked my cousin if he wanted to hangout because she likes him and he said yes. Her only problem is she doesn't know how to talk to a guy she likes! How can she talk to him comfortably? Without feeling awkward.... (46 words

My friends say he is a player, who should I believe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age - im only 13 but i am going out with a boy and we have been going out for a few days but everyone is telling me that he is a player and that he will break my heart but that isnt the side i see, he is really sweet and does so much for me and always helps me and if i feel ... (88 words

She said girls don't like confident guys, was she right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - One of my (girl) friends said that 50% of girls don't go for guys with high confidence, like she does. I'm like 'huh?!' Is this true? If yes, is it because guys with high confidence are the ones who are more likely to do be some kind of jerk, or is it something else?... (60 words

I want to give him a 'hint' how can I do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - ok aunts heresthe problem, i really like my best friend and all the advice ive got is "ask him out" "be brave" "be confident in yourself" but then i asked some people on here and most have said boys like to do the chasing so i was just wondering if there was anything i could do ... (76 words

How can I tell if his feelings are geniune?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok ... question i like this guy... and i know he likes me back last year i gave him a really hard time cuz i didnt like him. but this year my feelings grew for him i told him and even tho we liked each other he became mean. i jus alwayd figured he liked me for te wrong reasons. ... (110 words

I had an affair with a womanizer then gave his wife my email and password to show her the proof

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hello, This is just a follow up of what I have written earlier. I got involved with a 68 yrs old man thru internet online and he is married. He is a womanizer, but still I loved him and even learned to love his imperfections. Up front I told him not to do with me what he ... (714 words

I'm tormented by the fact that she's had a 'bigger' man than I

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend has just recently told me (because my dum ass ask) that she was with a guy so thick she felt pain and once had to see the doctor. to me is like (lucky bastard) i guess i think that's like every man's dream to be able to just do that to or girl it most be a macho ... (148 words

I think I'm addicted to online gaming

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I'm obsessed with playing videogames online. I play them most of the day, I sit up to half five in the mourning. When I win I feel really happy, when I lose I feel angry and pissed off. If I lose I feel I need to have another game to make up for the loss. I have trouble ... (114 words

My friend is struggling with Anorexia Nervosa

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - my friend was just battling anorexia for 2 years. it has been over a year and i always thought he was doing great until he confided in me last night that he was severly struggling and wanting to give up. He does not like the way he looks. This really worries me and i dont know ... (91 words

Will my feelings for my boyfriend change after an FFM threesome?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - So I was WONDERING, if my boyfriend and I end up having a threesome, with another woman, whats the likely it'll bring us closer? Or I wont feel the same about him?... (35 words

He has a girlfriend but wants a threesome with my friend and I

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I like this guy and he likes me back. but he is 17 and im 15 so we cant date. we still hang out and go to his car and you know the rest of the story. lately he wants to do somthing with both my bestfriend and i,so i said yes beacuse i thought it might be fun. my bestfrie... (165 words

He shows signs he fancies me, but he's too shy to act. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have liked this guy for over a year now and just recently he has began to show feelings towards me and many other people have been noticing. But the problem is is that he doesnt ever act on his feelings. It so hard to move on but i feel like we will never go anywhere. Should ... (61 words

I'm in love with my best friend despite her sexually messy past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I am 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. If people see us, they assume we are a couple, we are in contact every day and see each other as often as we can, maybe several times a week, for food, shopping, or just to spend time with each other ... (690 words

I joined the police academy to impress him. Is this a mistake?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - So I am 19 yrs old. I am in college to gain my BSN (bachelors n Science and Nursing). Not to long ago I met my friend and jus recently I have come attracted to him. He also recently graduated from the Police Academy in my city. We have been friends and that all we have been. H... (202 words

I don't trust my girlfriend now she wants to video us having sex...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - My Girlfriend has been insisting on to video tape us having sex....I refused. She is kind of mad now. Yeah I asked her why....she said just for memory. I didnt buy that idea. After a couple of months or years I might be on porn sites. pls if u have the same experience share?... (54 words

I've had bad luck with guys - any tips to keep this new one?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - So here's the story: I'm 24 and have been in several small relationships (a few months or less) and one 2 year relationship about 3 1/2 years ago. Our relationship ended very badly, he cheated on me several times, and broke my heart. I thought I was his everything and i... (555 words

How do I break up with a girl who adores me? I'll have to see her every day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I am in a serious dilemma.I am currently in an unhappy 3 months relationship. I really want to break up with my girlfriend. Trouble is she really adores me and she is planning out our future together and i am so terrified at breaking her heart and also we go to same collage so ... (74 words

How do I act when my girlfriend gives me a blow job?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend wants to give me head or bj (i think there the same thing but whatever) because she wants to make me "happy" and she is persitant about it so when she does how am i suppose to react?... (40 words

Sex with husband is just getting bad and he won't change his technique!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - [Mod note: I'm guessing this person is not actually 14.] I'm not enjoying sex with my husband and this is getting worse over the past 5 years. It is not that I don't enjoy sex (I have had some other 'engagements') or that I don't love my husband. So I tried to be direct and... (307 words

Dilemma of liking a younger guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - OK i have the same dilemma as others who are in love with a younger guy or just really really like them. bare with me here, i have never liked a younger guy before. i have always gone for the older guys and i recently just got my heart broken by an older guy who i liked for 3 ... (463 words

Husband can't decide if he wants me or just the kids. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been married for fourteen years with 3 young children. My husband recently left me saying he does not love me, has not loved me for years and put up with me only for the children. He says horrible cruel things to me which make me really upset. He then comes round ... (132 words

I need a point in the right driection! What shall I do? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Heyy all! I come to this site often, the advice is always amazing. So here i am, back again! Well im 17 and in college doing my A levels, in august i broke up with my boyfriend of nearly two years as he was abusive and basically i felt i couldnt keep showing the love for bot... (633 words

Sex in the car didn't feel right to him...what's going on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok, so heres alittle backround..i have been with him for two years, and we had sex for the first time a year and a half ago. We have never had problems with it, and it has never interfered with our relationship. However, we have done it in some..well "out there" places. Last ... (126 words

I'm proposing to my wife that we "float" our relationship. What do you think?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My marriage is in serious trouble after 15 years. We have 2.5 years old lovely daughter, which naturally makes things more complex. I am considering proposing that we would "float" our relationship. Here's how I think it could work: We continue following some agreed upon rule... (261 words

Question about birth control.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I need immediate answers please! thank you! Ok, i was wondering if anybody else has done the birth control pills where you get your period 4 times a year. Cuz I'm about to get my first period after taking them, and I need to know if it's going to be heavy due to the 3 months ... (83 words

I thought my life was full of love. I cherished every moment with him - now that is all destroyed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have only married once in my mid 20's. It lasted 6 months. I never remarried until 17 years later. I have been married for 7 years, I thought I was careful with whom I married. After we married I found out I was wifie #6. I have just found out in the past 3 days that he's ... (425 words

He has one set of rules for me and another for himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am in a troubled relationship. I am 27 years old and my boyfirend of 3 years is 42. Everything was great in the beginning of our relationship, but now as time goes on he is getting more jealous, i cannot talk to men i can only hang out with 2 girlfriends, i cant go to the ... (579 words

I only found out his secret fetish after we were married and I can't handle it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I've been with my husband for ten years, married for 2, just after the I do's I found out his secret fetish and now I don't feel the same way about him. I was so in love but I started finding porn mag's and toys but what's strange about this is they're all she-male movies a... (152 words

Got drunk last night and don't remember anything. Everyone is mad at me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - As i write this i am comming off a major drinking night. My friends and wife told me for weeks they know me drunk but i never been to drunk around them. I told everyone i was a nasty person drunk. So i got shitfaced last night. I have no idea what i have said but now everyone ... (69 words

My virgin girlfriend doesn't want to have sex. What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I have a girlfriend and she is a virgin and i want 2 hav sex with her but she refused.so i don't know what 2 do.... (26 words

He's sending mixed signals. Does he like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hiya. I am in a really difficult situation here. There is this boy and i have like him for over a year now. Last year, we went on a school trip and I held his hand like all morning and went on all the rides together but we wern't going out. Recently, he has been a bit moody wi... (289 words

How do I help my friend and her shy admirer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Right this may sound totally outrageous but i find the whole situation hard to believe myself if i hadnt seen it all. Bascially my mate liked this guy and he seemed to like her, and i mean proper liked her. However hes not the most confident guy, i would say hes mega shy in g... (411 words

What are these small lumps and pimples?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hello,im embarrass already but since recently these little lumps keep showing up on my vagina(vulva)and trust me they are very painful.yes sexually active but i have always practiced safe sex so i dnt think its a std moreover,when ever i shave these little itchy pimple ... (83 words

Suddenly she wants to slow things down. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Please help me, I feel so lost and helpless. Been with my beautiful lady for three years now, discussed wedding and living together etc. Happiest I have ever been in my life. Recently she tells me she cant love me properly, says we should cool things. No-one else is invo... (115 words

Am I overreacting about his texts to other women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I want to trust my man but for whatever reason I decided to check his cell phone. I found that he is still texting other females. He sais there is nothing going on with them but I am not so sure of that. Why would he need to text other females to say goodnight or goodmorning? ... (180 words

Used for sex - what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi, im 19yrs old and i met this guy on campus. at first i jus liked him as a friend untill we started going out often,then kissing and touching alot. i developed feelings for him. he gave me signs that he liked me back and told me that i could be is girl friend if i wanted. i ... (206 words

Things changed for him when we moved in together, he went and I am left holding the bag

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend since February. things were going great. he came to my mums wedding, held my hand when i was in hospital recently and we moved in together 5 weeks ago. he's an only child and has lived away from home before now but is essentailly a mummys boy who d... (336 words

I thought he was hot, but he has cooled right off

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - theres a new guy started at my job-he has complicated history-wife left in august after 10 years-now hes casually dating someone already but i thought hes a lovely guy and we worked together for 3 days and spoke about loads i think i have feelings for him-i cannot understand ... (145 words

I got my man, but now I don't want him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age - Im desperated for a man to make me feel better when I divorced my husband 4 years ago. I fancied this man 20 years older than me. He is very supportive throughout my divorce. I am so happy I am in love again. But now I find him less attractive and I feel more happy on my own ... (73 words

If I say we can't be friends, will he then chase me for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (? age 36-40 - Okay so my ex and I went out for a year and broke up a year ago. I was the one to leave the relationship and he agreed. I tried to get back with him really hard a couple days after the break up but he didn't want to take me back. He also said he wanted us to remain friends but ... (706 words

I drank, I kissed too many, now they call me a slag

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - im so confused, im a girl of 16, i went out with a friend last night and had a bit too much to drink, i ended up kissing my ex's best friend and one of his friends,infront of each other, then my ex's friend kissed my best friend straight after. Then i went off for a drive with ... (94 words

I have a list, but no woman to match it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I don't know what I do wrong? I am 21 years old. I graduate with a Bachelors Degree in 3 mo. Live alone in a nice apartment. I work out about 3-4 times a week. I am handsome a leader and usually decently confident. I have NEVER cheated on any women. My issues are. ... (667 words

I know guys do, but do girls cum too?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - Why and how do girls cum? I know us guys can but gals?... (13 words

Is he holding out for some reason I don't know about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5249 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Alright.. let's start with the beginning. I met this wonderful guy through my ex, (don't worry me and the ex are friends, and my ex TOLD me to get to know him and date him, etc.) We're all kind of cool.. So we would talk on the phone everyday through texts/phone call... (756 words

He's very shy and I'm going to have to be aggressive but unsure what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello, people. :) I have a crush on a guy who is in a few of my classes. I can't exactly say what it is that attracts me to this guy; I genuinely don't know exactly what it is. I added him on facebook and myspace; we really do have lots of things in common: we enjoy ... (355 words

Green eyed monster problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my husband for the past 4 years, I have huge trust issues with him because I found out he cheated on his first wife and never told me even though I told him stuff about my first marriage..I found this out from old love letter he had hidden in his golf ... (228 words

Moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - okay so i went to the movies with this guy that i really liked and he fingered me then asked me out... was that to soon?? should i take it slower??... (31 words

3 weeks of dating, am I just another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - i have been going on dates with this guy for 3 weeks now. how am i supposed to know if he really likes me or if i am just another girl?... (31 words

Should I still care about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - So, there's this guy. [I'm 13 btw] i met him when i was 6. I didnt care for him at all until he asked me out in 6th grade. i said yes and we had an on-off long distance relationship througout the 6th grade year. then throughout the 7th grade year he went out with various girls ... (188 words

Hairy or bare I'm self conscious! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so, with pubic hair on women, how do u keep it neatly trimmed without having to get a wax? It's so uncomfortable and painful. But I'm self-conscious when I'm hairy and self-conscious when I'm bare. Any Suggestions? Is there a middle ground?... (43 words

She has the proof that he is cheating yet she is still with him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5253 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I told my ex husbands girlfriend that he was cheating on her and gave her a CD of him and I talking about getting back together! They live together and he wants his cake and eat it to! I told her everything and she is still with him! Why does she stay? I mean I gave her proof ... (66 words

I want to be cruel to be kind to G/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Girlfreind went out, was ment to go with me, said she wasnt going, found out she lied and did go out without me, she has done this about 5 times. how do i teach her a lesson other than threatening to or actually leaving? i want to be cruel to be kind, to save the relation... (80 words

Need help with an English guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - i'm an asian expat in china. i broke up with my ex 7months ago but we have a 1year old kid so we still talk but everything is just about our kid. now here's the prob. i met this english guy in a social networking site and we had been talking on msn for almost 2 months now. the... (219 words

Going through his phone because I don't trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I'm currently in a relationship with a man that I won't to marry but I fill as though I am not enough for him I've told him how I feel about him conversating with other women it really make me fill uncomfortable once I got into a relationship with him I cute all lines of ... (126 words

Which is better? Single? Or in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hiya everyone! well basically i want to know what people think is better being single and free with out any commitment or being in a relationship? the reason why is because i have recently been single for the last like 18 months and i have really enjoyed it, going out mee... (228 words

Is there really a "Mr. Right"??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - okay, so alot of girls are always looking for mr right, but the truth is, is there really a mr right out there because so far all i've found is mr nasty, mr rude, mr cheat, mr slut, mr too hot for his own good, mr not so good looking, mr late, mr married And this has made me... (202 words

Dating for 3 months and don't know what to get him as a present!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Okay im 13 and my boyfriend is 12 we have been dating for almost 3 months now and i rly rly like him he got me real gold earings with my birth stone in them and i want to get him something just as special for christmas sooo wat do i get him i rly need some help plz respond to ... (63 words

Understanding the ex's behavior

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28 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - ex partner used to pretend to be jealouse over a long ago friend who I never fancied. Ex pushed to settle down saying I was the one etc. We ended, she did not ask why and is now married. How can you be so in love and jeolose one minute and then married to another the ... (120 words

Dreams about a new boyfriend

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28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - every night i dream about meetin a new bf that im comfortable with and i bring him around this guy that i used to like and he liked ne but he treated me like crap... is this normal and can it happen?... (42 words

When is it time to let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, thanks in advance for any advice or clarity you may be able to offer me. I have dating a man for near on 18 months. From the start, I wasn't very sure that he was someone I wanted to date (long term). He wasn't 'my type' and I didn't feel a "spark" when we first me... (652 words

Why does work make personal lives so complicated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5254 days ago

28 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - It seems to me like work bills money all this man made crap kills every relationship out there. i really really dont want to end up like this if i ever get married i dont want to get divorced i dont id hate it. the only thing that comes to mind when i think about it is if we ... (107 words

I'm only 14 and he wants to have sex with me even although he has a girlfriend. Am I being played?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5240 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I am fourteen years old and last year I had this "thing" with this guy. He has had a girlfriend for the past six months but now he wants to have sex with me. I really do want to have sex with him and have him be my first but I don't know because he has a girlfriend and I don't ... (90 words

Why does he think this time will be any different?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - okay here the deal. my husband and i have been having problems for the last six months. just the other night we got into a heated argument to the point it almost got physical luckily he didnt actually hit me. I kicked him out the next evening saying i cant do it any more... (159 words

The ex girlfriend that says she's a friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I don't even know where to begin but here i go i have a wonderful amazing boyfriend that i have been with for seven months now. He loves and tells me he loves me, we have a big age difference i am eighteen and he's thirty three yeah i know right. So the problem is the EX girlf... (202 words

How can I stop this self-biting?

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28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a problem with self biting. Like I overly bite my lip and the inside of my cheek. I also contastly need to pull at the skin around my nails and my finger's are litterly raw from the fact that i pulled off all the skin. IDK what to do, idk why I even do it. I just need to ... (78 words

My feelings for him are so strong, I want to be more than just friends with him!

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28 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend about a month and a half ago. (He cheated on me and lied about it. Needless to say - if I never saw him again, I wouldn't mind at all) Two or three weeks ago, while at the bar, I met another guy. He's a student at the school I go to - working ... (475 words

My girlfriend desperately wants to get the feelings she used to have with me but can't and I will do anything to be with her.

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28 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I recently moved in with my girlfriend. we have been dating off and on for 3 years. about six months ago she told me that she no longer had feelings for me in more than a friend way anymore. at that point i told her that i didnt want to see her anymore because it devastated ... (775 words

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