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Should I loan my best friend money again?

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30 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - I've known my best friend Jessica since 3rd grade. She's such a great person, but awful with money! Last year, she asked me to borrow $2k to help with her bills and expenses. I did, because it broke my heart that she was suffering. She didn't really know what to do career wise, ... (221 words

Weird family interactions making me wonder about my husband and his family

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29 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - So I went to my in-laws house for Thanksgiving. My husband has two sisters. One 18 and the other 16 they were both adopted. Long story short my husband smacked his little sisters behind. Later on in the day my husband touched a over her chest to do pretent CPR. He then later ... (155 words

Friends 2

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28 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - Would you stay friends with someone who has the following traits? I need an outside person’s perspective: PROS: -Caring -There for you emotionally when need advice or venting -Helps in my mental health healing process -Feel less alone by sharing same view points on... (247 words

Afraid I’ll regret ending this friendship. Is this a friend worth keeping?

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28 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - Would you stay friends with someone who has the following traits? I need an outside person’s perspective: PROS: -Caring -There for you emotionally when need advice or venting -Helps in my mental health healing process -Feel less alone by sharing same view points on... (247 words

User'sAm I overreacting to my boyfriend's relationship with his daughters? title

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27 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half now. He's been divorced for two years and I have never been married myself. He has two daughters and I have no kids. Our relationship is so wonderful, everything between us is perfect except for one thing - his ... (483 words

Family always wants me to babysit

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26 November 2022 (M age 26-29 - I have a brother who is married with a wife and two kids. The problem is that my brother and sister-in-law are upset with me for always refusing to babysit. I have work, church and other activities that take up a lot of my time. My brother and sister-in-law lives 5 minute... (140 words

This a ONS or sex on the first date?

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25 November 2022 (M age 41-50 - Background information: You are in your early 20’s. You met this person through a mutual friend at your friends house (10 minute conversation before you left the house). The person asked you for your phone number. You talk with this person a few times over the phone. You a... (200 words

He lied cheated on his partner then told me he never had feelings for me

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22 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - I’m in a horrible situation and would love some help please. I started dating a man back in June. We’d known each other through work for a couple of years and there has always been some flirtation between us so I was thrilled when he asked me out. I wanted to take things slow... (638 words

Should I inform my ex’s family & friends that I’m he’s addicted to drugs in hopes that they’ll help him?

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21 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - My ex and I are very much in love but broke up amicably. He’s developed a drug addiction. He’s high functioning but it’s something I cannot accept. He’s admitted to his addiction and understands why I can’t be with him. He’ll be moving out this week. He says he plans to reach ... (487 words

No sex is he cheating?

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20 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - Me and my husband hadn’t had sex for 3 days because of his busy schedule. And when we finally did it he did not ejaculate a lot like he usually does even when we do it every day. Is that normal or should I be worried?... (46 words

Getting over someone’s promiscuous past

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17 November 2022 (M age 26-29 - Hey all! I’m struggling with what seems to be a rather common mental dilemma. I’m (28M) in a monogamous relationship with a girl (29F) that I was friends with in high school. We both went away to college, didn’t really talk much for like 8-9 years, and then one winter (almost ... (740 words

I think my husband likes our sons girlfriend

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17 November 2022 (F age 51-59 - Stayed over at our oldest sons flat for 3 days with my husband and younger son. Our oldest lives with his girlfriend of 5 years. I didn’t want to stay there as I prefer a hotel to do my own thing and I go to the toilet a few times in the night so don’t like to disturb people ... (876 words

Boyfriend is more extroverted than me and we have a family party to go to

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17 November 2022 (F age 22-25 - Hi, As the title suggests, my boyfriend, 27, of several years is more extroverted than me and seems to thrive in the company of others. He has lots of friends from different groups and he loves going out and can easily make friends with anyone. I would say I am a bit of... (538 words

Is it OK to take advantage of a groomer if they know you know what is happening?

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15 November 2022 (M age 16-17 - This is about a dude I know at the YMCA where I go after school for 3hours every day. I am 16 and he is 31 and it is like he does not need to work and has money and like is constantly working out and chilling at the YMCA. He is like openly gay and flirts with me like crazy ... (1152 words

He can not cope with emotions?

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15 November 2022 (F age 41-50 - After getting divorced I had no intentions of meeting anyone but it happened, I met indirectly through work the most amazing man, he happens to be a consultant in a local hospital. I know in the beginning I put him on a massive pedestal and almost thought of him as a Demi god, ... (381 words

No commitment

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14 November 2022 (F age 36-40 - Hi all, I am facing a weird problem since a few weeks. I am in a relationship for a few months now. The man I am with is much of a texter, doesn’t call much. I communicated that I prefer and love being called everyday, so both of us took turns. Now all of a sudden he’s stopped ... (364 words

All we have done is kiss

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14 November 2022 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend who is 19 won't touch me even when I ask him to. We have been dating for a year now and all we've done is just kissing,we haven't seen each other completely naked I tried numerous times to make a move on him but he avoids me telling me I should wait until I am an ... (85 words

Relationship has soured and my partner is emotionally unavailable

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14 November 2022 (F age 36-40 - I have an emotionally unavailable partner. We've been together 18 years. What attracted me to him from the start was his kind and gentle nature. He was (seems ironic now) emotionally caring and my best friend. He ENJOYED spending time with ME. Over the years, running a... (330 words

Friend always requesting money

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10 November 2022 (F age 36-40 - Hello, My so called male friend is in between jobs he works here and there. Always asking to borrow ( never has returned nothing) it's almost like he waits on my payday. He says hes broke I need food, I need to pay this or that. I made a simple request, let's see... (114 words

Its nice to get noticed

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10 November 2022 (F age 51-59 - I usually dress in jeans top and flat shoes when going out with my husband to the cinema or restaurants. I do my hair nice put make up on so don’t look stunning but not scruffy either. My husband usually says I look nice but there as been times when he hasn’t like last night. H... (230 words

He gave me chance after chance

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9 November 2022 (F age 41-50 - I used to enjoy flirting on dating apps and kinda having text and online relationships. I was in love with someone at the time. He found out about it, left, came back after I had convinced him it was nothing which was exactly what it was and I promised I wouldnt do it again. It ... (119 words

Years later still feel betrayed that father moved away after the divorce

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8 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - Me and my dad have had a rough relationship since i was about 16 years old it really all stemmed from my dad moving arcross the country. i always resented him because I young and needed a father still and just the simple fact i felt a parent never should move that far away. My ... (569 words

Made mistake leaving dog behind

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8 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - I left my dog with my parents while moving to this country after marriage. I visit her once in four months. It's scary to transport overseas (because they would put her in a carrier and transport her like an object), my parents are attached to her and we might move back to ... (201 words

High school reunion

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7 November 2022 (M age 36-40 - My 20th high school reunion is coming up next year (they already started planning it). I never been to one of my high school reunions. I just don't see the point of going to high school reunions. I have stayed in contacted with my classmates that I wanted to stay in conta... (251 words

Cheating with an unattractive person due to alcohol

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5 November 2022 (M age 41-50 - All the names in this story are made up. My female friend Kelly asked me a question: I didn’t know a good answer to give her. Background: Kelly is in a 2 year relationship. Kelly, myself and Devin (guys she slept with- weighs 300 pounds, unattractive, just started worki... (279 words

Do we really have a future?

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4 November 2022 (M age 16-17 - Hello there. I am Calvin and I have posted some things to give advice and I posted before for advice on me and my girlfriend Susie about some other stuff about being virgins and dealing with haters at school. She is two years older than me and we are in high school. My ... (311 words

I really want my ex back

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4 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - I was married for seven years. My ex and I have a child together but I still have feelings for him. He broke up with me because we did not have sex for months. He was also upset that I spent to much time with my family. I have 5 siblings and 9 nieces and nephews that all live ... (362 words

Pregnant and sex uncomfortable. How do I make husband understand

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4 November 2022 (F age 30-35 - I am five months pregnant and sex with my husband has been very painful. He wants to have sex once a day which we did when I was not pregnant but the further I get along the more painful it is. I am not sure how to stop. I just want to cut it off until the baby is born. W... (91 words

My Wife Was Used to a Huge Dick Before Me; I am tiny. Will it ever feel the same?

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3 November 2022 (M age 41-50 - When we first started dating, my wife hid a secret from me.....she didn’t know how to tell me that she can’t feel me and she was used to her ex-boyfriend's big cock and a guy who fucked her to the point that there is no comparison. She’s very loud with the 8 inch dildo we use, ... (161 words

My mom found my boyfriend and i's naughty texts

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1 November 2022 (F age 16-17 - Hi! I just found out my boyfriends mom went through my boyfriend and I's text (they were not very PG), she found out yesterday and she acted completely normal and even let my boyfriend come to the house but today my Dad asked me if my Mom had talked me and I said no. He told... (134 words

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