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Mental health issues: he wants to let me go but I don't want to give up on him
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2496 days ago
30 November 2017 (F)
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why do i only seem to attract ( i use the word gently) problem men. i mean it in a way as they have mental health problems , i dont mind they have problems and thats part of who they are and i can manage life with them easily but after a short while they blame themselves and ...
(216 words) I'm obsessed with the man I had a little bit of fun with, 16 years ago!
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8 answers
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2490 days ago
30 November 2017 (F)
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This is really weird. So, some 16 years ago, I had a one night stand with this acquaintance - we traveled together to a new city with a group of friends and stayed in the same house. I was relatively sexually inexperienced and socially inept. The second night we were all out ...
(814 words) Is he really out of town? Was I played? Did he really like me at all? Or was I just a girl in his back pocket during the few months we were together?
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2500 days ago
30 November 2017 (F)
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During the summer I was approached by a guy in the city. He complimented me on my outfit and we started up a little chat and we exchange numbers. Fast ward we eventually went out on our first date a few weeks after meeting. We talked everyday pretty much and he was very very ...
(431 words) I'm scared to break up with my boyfriend because of the repercussions it could have on both of us
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2496 days ago
30 November 2017 (F)
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for around 6 months now, I do love him but it’s long distance and when we’re together it’s amazing but when we aren’t we fall very quickly in arguing everyday. I think it would be best for us to break up instead of carrying on with this pattern of a ...
(319 words) How do I become a more submissive girlfriend?
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2501 days ago
30 November 2017 (F)
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My personality has always been very jokester and very sarcastic (think of every character on Roseanne type of sarcastic) and I? know when to be serious and turn it off, but in my everyday life it is just who I? am. But I’ve been dating this guy for almost three months and he is ...
(141 words) He chose my friend over me but now I think he likes me
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5 answers
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2500 days ago
29 November 2017 (F)
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Me and this boy went out for about a month then broke up,he then turned for me for help cos he liked my friend.I got jealousy missed him and told him I love him.whilst he was making up his mind we were making out at mine.he then decided know and left it.he's been a dick to me ...
(133 words) I want to have fun but it leaves me feeling guilty
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2498 days ago
29 November 2017 (F)
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Im on my first twennies, basically my parents are pretty strict. I've always been the good girl that never hides anything from her parents. I've never lied to them about anyhting or done anything that they dont approve with. I moved from australia to the UK afew months ago, and ...
(313 words) Back in touch after 6 months but still confused where I stand with him
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2499 days ago
29 November 2017 (F)
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Hey all - this is a long one so please bear with me. About 6 months ago, a guy I knew started flirting with me and I told him I liked him and he replied that he thought I was fit but just wanted "laughter". There came a point where he wanted to do "physical" stuff but I didn't ...
(507 words) When is it time to tell my FWB goodbye
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2499 days ago
29 November 2017 (F)
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I've been talking to this boy for around 3 months every day and have always said it will be a causal thing. I guess it's as close a thing you can get to friends with benefits. We get on well and there are genuinely no deep feelings from either side. While I've had this sit...
(208 words) Fallen for my priest. Help!
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5 answers
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2501 days ago
29 November 2017 (F)
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Oh my god I never see the day but I actually have a crush on my priest - for heaven's sake, the bloody priest. Is my love life that bad that I fantasise about him. My question is have you ever had a bad crush on someone your not suppose like a priest and how do you get over...
(96 words) Desperate to get my life on track
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2501 days ago
28 November 2017 (F)
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I have had a very traumatic 2017. Traumatic by my standards and believe me, I am not a drama queen ! I was married in an abusive marriage in Asia, left that, went abroad to study and now live in the UK for the last 12 years. I was married again but he turned out to be...
(360 words) Am I right to doubt his fidelity?
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3 answers
- newest was posted
2502 days ago
28 November 2017 (F)
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We've been dating for two years. Mostly it's been great. Lately however I'm feeling hurt because he got drunk and told my best friend and me that he wanted to "play" with us both? My friends chalk it up to his drinking but now I feel like I'm not sure if I trust him. He also ...
(98 words) I like a guy but he seems to prefer a slimmer girl, do I have a chance?
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2501 days ago
28 November 2017 (F)
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Been working at Starbucks for about a year now, it's right next to my uni business school. There's a guy who's been coming in for the last few months and is pretty lush hehe, blond, blue eyes, muscular and wears our uni rugby T shirt, he's rly tall and flirts with me a lot too ...
(294 words) Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair?
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2495 days ago
28 November 2017 (F)
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Should the other woman tell his wife about the affair? I know many would use harsh and negative remarks on such question. I did no Contact and he reached out and I caved in. I am thinking of telling his wife so that I can move on for good forever; as I am sure that once I...
(152 words) Can we get back to normal after swinging?
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14 answers
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2498 days ago
28 November 2017 (F)
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Do you think there’s any hope of a relationship going back to normal after swinging? My husband and I have tried it - yes we had a lot of fun - but the lifestyle isn’t for me. When I tell him I want to stop we fight because he doesn’t want to stop. We have two small children ...
(157 words) Heartbroken he has returned to porn
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2494 days ago
28 November 2017 (F)
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My boyfriend (27) and I (24) have been together for 2 years. We had been friends for 3 years before he asked me out. Around the 1 year mark maybe a little later my SO commented on how he doesn't even watch porn anymore. He said he just thought about us and was using his ...
(511 words) I think my uncle is hitting on me
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2 answers
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2501 days ago
27 November 2017 (F)
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I think my uncle is attracted to me. First of all, excuse my English please :( Unfortunately, it’s not my first language. So, the problem is that my uncle’s brother (well, probably my other “uncle”, huh?) is acting strange. Well, you may think that I’m EXTRA suspicious, bu...
(339 words) How can I start finding healthy men to date?
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2500 days ago
27 November 2017 (M)
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So I recently moved to Dallas from Houston after my partner and I of 7 years separated. I'm still in love with him. I feel that ever since I had to let him go he has done better for himself. I believe that I was enabling him in so many ways. I also recently started dating ...
(104 words) Dealing With Catty Customers At Work?
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- newest was posted
2503 days ago
27 November 2017 (F)
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30-35 -
I work for a "posh" retail store which has a lot of female customers, I've been awarded employee of the month for customer service before and am always friendly to people, I've only been there since last year but already know a lot of people by name and will stop to chat with ...
(296 words) How do I escape this rut?
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2503 days ago
27 November 2017 (M)
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I’m reallt stuck on what to do. I have been with my girl for 5 yrs. However I can’t have courage to get married. I’m always making excuses, but I’m reality I don’t know why myself. I have tried to think about it a lot, and the only conclusion that I could come up with is ...
(478 words) Am I being paranoid about why he doesn't make eye contact during sex?
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- newest was posted
2504 days ago
27 November 2017 (F)
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Eye contact during sex? My husband usually turns his head away from me or closes his eyes. I dont remember having a problem with it years ago... but recently he holds me close with my head buried in his neck and almost forcibly stops me from being in his line of vision - ie res...
(89 words) I have these gut feelings she's cheating so how do I figure out what I do?
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2495 days ago
27 November 2017 (F)
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I'm a female in a relationship with another female. I have trust issues due to previous infidelities in past relationships. I know that it's unfair for me to question her when she's done nothing wrong, but, honest to god, I can't help it. I feel like I'm going crazy. Wondering ...
(198 words) Am I selfish for not wanting a relationship? My parents are desperate for a grandchild but I'm not so sure I'm ready
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2495 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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I'm just curious as to what others think about this situation or if anyone else has had a similar problem. I'm 23 and I've never dated nor been in a relationship (and therefore obviously a virgin), but that is mainly by choice as I have no desire to date or commit to a rela...
(356 words) My question is how do u determine if someone is worth giving a chance or hanging your coat and going out there and meeting new men again ?
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2504 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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I recently met a older man (38) and Im 27. I am a bit of a rutt. He is incredibly sweet to me, dorky, handsome, secure job and apartment. But downside he is a bit like a manchild, abit of of a horder, collects disney toys, has a slight very light learning disability that may be ...
(398 words) Should I talk to him? I just want to be friends and cuddle from time to time
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2495 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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Hello, I don't know how to start this. I'm a 19 years old girl and I've never had a boyfriend before. I met a guy at school, we barely talked though. once there was a camping event, and we ended up cuddling one night. We didn't talk about it at all. when we see each othe...
(246 words) Why is he still in my system after this amount of time?
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2504 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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I met a man. Immediate chemistry and connection. He is married but it is open. I was and am fine with that as I have my own situation which is open as well. He just wanted sex. But clearly liked me more than that at one point as he mentioned it. I pushed, demanded, and was...
(273 words) I thought I could taste latex condom on my husband while giving him oral, he says I'm crazy but I'm ready to file for divorce
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10 answers
- newest was posted
2181 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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My husband asked me to give him oral sex. He had just taken a shower. We’re about to have sex, I go down on him and I put his penis in my mouth. I tasted the strangest taste of condom. I was in disbelief. I pulled away saying to myself I’m. Crazy. There is no way I just tasted ...
(212 words) I've been hooking up with my ex and now he wants proper sex but I'm hesitant because I want my first time to be with a boyfriend
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2496 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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I am a 16 year old girl. I dated this guy for a year and a half, but we broke up in January when I found out he had been sexting other girls. Over the summer, he changed a lot, and he decided he wanted to get back together with me. I told him I'd give him another chance, but ...
(130 words) How do we choose which couple to ask To join us on the cruise?
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2496 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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My husband and I used to be very close with 2 other couples. It was always the 6 of us doing stuff together. We never made plans without including both coupled and vice versa. Well the 2 couples had a very serious falling out and are no longer friends. My husband and I are ...
(226 words) I just don't want to give much attention to guys
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2503 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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Hi I have been single since 3 years but didn’t go on many dates. I feel attracted to hot guys and have had one fling as well but I can’t stand more than 2 dates with anyone . I met a nice guy and we went on 2 dates but then calls started pouring in and I went back to my old b...
(182 words) I said yes to a guy but I just don't like him that way
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2496 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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So I know this guy for about 4 days now. We met when I was stuck in my car on a road and he helped me to get back home. Then he asked me for my phone number and I gave him, because he was acting sweet and I thought we could make good friends. He started calling me and we talked ...
(263 words) My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!!
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2504 days ago
26 November 2017 (F)
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My husband's brother has a super weird obsession with me and tries to sabotage my relationship with his little brother!! Has anyone experienced this? What can I do to get him to back off? The worst of it is that he has stolen my husband's username online, which is pretty unique ...
(377 words) I don' t seem to fit the gay scene
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2504 days ago
26 November 2017 (M)
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I feel abit stuck in a rut, I work part time while setting up a business and accepted I’m gay I liked a guy who I thought would like me, cause we have a few things in common and spoke a lot now and again. I was hoping it’d be a fairytale we’d end up together and I’d come out...
(198 words) Why has my boyfriend started lying about petty things?
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- newest was posted
2505 days ago
25 November 2017 (F)
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My boyfriend has started lying . Instead of wanting to see me this weekend he told me he was looking after a family member ( child under age 10 without the parents ) who was visiting . Yet i know that was a lie as i saw him walking around town on his own and eating out so he ...
(254 words) Should I tell my son that his girlfriend is cheating on him?
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2496 days ago
25 November 2017 (F)
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My sons girlfriend is cheating on him??? Both she and my son are 25 and have been together for just over 9 years. I received an e-mail from someone who has sent me evidence that she has been cheating on him for the past 5 years with his BFF. I talked with her about it and She...
(128 words) I was a virgin, didn't bleed and now my husband says I wasn't a virgin
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17 answers
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2496 days ago
25 November 2017 (F)
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It was totally my first intercourse, but i did'nt bleed....i only felt a very little pain...even my hubby said that i'm not virgin as my vagina is loose. He said my vagina is not like virgins have.... But It was my first time. Why it happens to me?? Im soo much depressed ...
(57 words) Help me deal with this pee fetish?
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2504 days ago
25 November 2017 (M)
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Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a problem I've never confessed to anyone and I certainly can't blurt it out to my pastor at the altar. I can't tell him in private either bc when people of the church sin, he brings it to everyone's attention so we can pray rightly for them. ...
(372 words) Bad itching in pubic area a few days after shaving?
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2504 days ago
25 November 2017 (M)
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For context, i am an 18 year old male. I hate my pubic hair and I often shave it, usually once a month if not more depending on the occasion. However recently my skin has started to itch and become irritated during hair regrowth. Luckily I don't get ingrown hairs often from ...
(136 words) Can I ever make this right?
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- newest was posted
2402 days ago
25 November 2017 (M)
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I'm 38 year old guy. A year back my younger brother wife became close to me and we got too closer. Initially i thought she is giving this attention just due to the respect towards an elder brother. I loved it. But finally she was treating me like her husband. And we ended up in ...
(332 words) He cheated on his boyfriend, do I tell?
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2496 days ago
25 November 2017 (M)
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I used to fancy a friend of mine, he knows but clearly has no interest I’m coping with that. Now his started going out with a guy 10 years younger than him, he told me they were fun buddies cause he couldn’t go out with someone younger than him (this guy also lives far a...
(219 words) I'm tired of trying to avoid him ...
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2496 days ago
25 November 2017 (F)
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Okay so this is a really weird situation. I liked this lad since my first year of high school, we had flirty banta untill he left in 2016. After showing up on the bus on my way to the first day of college a few months ago, it bought old feelings up. We hung out one night and we ...
(269 words) He will be away for my whole school break and I got mad!
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2503 days ago
24 November 2017 (F)
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I met a guy maybe a week ago...hes 16 n m 15,,, i like him a lot n we've been meeting daily/...at first we were both shy to even hug but now i can at least let him hold my hand...hes beebn saying he has something to tell me since 3 days ago/..but he hasnt said it yet...one ...
(129 words) Does she want my help?
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2496 days ago
24 November 2017 (M)
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Hi guys... Well, there's this girl. I see her almost every day at NA meetings. NA stands for Narcotics Anonymous. Yes, both of us are recovering addicts... We're doing really fine, she's been clean for a year and a half now and myself for about a little over a year... ...
(1348 words) Caught him out. What should I do?
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2496 days ago
24 November 2017 (F)
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Looking for honest comments from anyone especially if you’ve been through this. Until 6 weeks ago,All was really nice in my 3year relationship with my partner. We have lived together for 2 years. He moved over from his town to my after graduating as a mature student n we have ...
(527 words) Staying with his mum is taking all out savings
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2496 days ago
24 November 2017 (F)
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Hiya.. I currently have been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years.. we are in a very happy relationship- no problems and we get on like a house on fire.. we are currently saving to buy our first house and are currently living together at his mums house - we have lived with ...
(305 words) I'm in a horribly abusive relationship and I need a way out for me and my daughter
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2496 days ago
24 November 2017 (F)
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Hi basically just looking for some advise plz, I really don't know what to do or how to. Basically I haven't been happy with my partner we have been arguing lately quiet a lot we have a small child but the arguments ain't in front of her as he usually starts when she is asleep. ...
(255 words) Head over heels in love with my teacher!
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- newest was posted
2506 days ago
24 November 2017 (M)
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Hello everyone, I'm a bachelor student. I am sorry for my grammar mistakes. First of all, I want to say that during my school and HS years I've never had this feeling before. Last year, I met one of the best persons and teachers in the world. She is like 15-20 years older than ...
(263 words) I want to sleep with my wifes cousin.
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2496 days ago
24 November 2017 (M)
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So my wife has a really attractive cousin who I only see on holidays and up until now she’s been in a relationship. Well she’s newly single and I noticed she seems to be interested in me as well and has given vibes that she’s feeling it too. I sat next to her tonight at a ...
(217 words) Where would a 24 year old find a guy? What should I do to get a boyfriend?
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2496 days ago
24 November 2017 (F)
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Hi aunties, I need some help. I'm 24 years old I've been single all my life, never been in a relationship and I've never been in love. I like to consider myself okay looking and I believe I have a good personality. However, I just can't seem to find a guy. For some re...
(196 words) I'm obsessed with my co-worker and I know not what to do
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2504 days ago
24 November 2017 (M)
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I am crushing really badly on my co worker, I cannot stop thinking about her. She is not interested in me but my feelings won't go away and I fear its turning into an obsession. I do not know what I must do, I have tried to avoid her but this makes matters worse, I have tried ...
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