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Do I stay away from family get together on New Year's eve because of fight with sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 533 days ago

31 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I’m probably going to be told I’m selfish for complaining about this but I’ve honestly had enough. My sister who is in her mid 40’s has been in an off and on relationship with her boyfriend- in his late 40’s for the past 5 years. They lived together then split up, th... (433 words

What to do about my wife’s refusal to work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

30 December 2022 (M age 41-50 - I have been with my wife for 30 years now, married for 21. For the first 10 years I knew her she held a full-time job and was very responsible. After we got married we bought a house together that needed a lot of work. An older lady owned it and there was a lot of deferred ... (1039 words

I made a mistake coming out

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

30 December 2022 (F age 18-21 - I think I made a mistake in coming out as bi. It's done nothing but bring me trouble. I thought I'd be welcomed with open arms by the LGBTQIA community but they're more rude to me than the evangelical ppl who tell me how wrong I am. I have not acted on it. I have not had the ... (407 words

Wife's Party-Girl Friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 534 days ago

29 December 2022 (M age 36-40 - My wife has a friend who has been through a lot in her life. She got married and really lived a controlled life under her ex before they got their divorce. He was very controlling and well now she is has much more freedom (you will see the relevance later). She lives far away ... (934 words

Where are all of the normal unselfish mature women?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

28 December 2022 (F age - I am a 65 year old woman who is happily married. Up until a few years ago I owned and ran a successful business with a lot of staff. I closed it down and retired because I wanted a peaceful life instead of the constant invasion of clients coming to my office for consultations. ... (1619 words

Need ideas to sexually embarrass my sister in law without being creepy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 538 days ago

27 December 2022 (M age 41-50 - My sister just got me a mankini with bells and a rednose on the kini part. So in trying to get her back, I want some ideas to embarrass her but not come off creepy. backstory, the family has been together forever and never has been any sexually tension. I guess the real winner ... (65 words

How to move on from a falling out with a best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

22 December 2022 (F age 26-29 - One of my closest guy friends online and myself have had a big falling out. It has gotten very toxic and very messy. He has blocked me on all social media accounts (however hasn't unfriended me), and he is deleting his main social media account where we use to talk often. He ... (442 words

Perfect husband sober, but dicing with death when drunk.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

21 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - Hi All, My husband and I have been together since we were at school, now we are in our early thirties so I quite frankly don't know where to turn from here. I have always known that drink hasn't agreed with him. Some chemical in his brain just didn't mix well with it, even a... (428 words

When is enough enough when its family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

21 December 2022 (F age 26-29 - Okay so… . First of all, I live in a 4 bedroom household with 7 people including myself. Me and my husband in one room, my daughter in her own room, my sister and brother in law in the third room and my mother and 7 year old sister in the 4th room. We live all together due to ... (654 words

Friends 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 544 days ago

19 December 2022 (F age 36-40 - I feel that I’ve been used recently by a friend and it’s really upset me. A few days ago I had arranged for my friend to come over to my house for a coffee (we usually meet up at 1 of our house 2 times a month). That morning she arrived with her 2 younger children (8... (456 words

My friend used me to look after her kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 542 days ago

19 December 2022 (F age 36-40 - I feel that I’ve been used recently by a friend and it’s really upset me. A few days ago I had arranged for my friend to come over to my house for a coffee (we usually meet up at 1 of our house 2 times a month). That morning she arrived with her 2 younger children (8... (456 words

Do I tell him that I know he cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

17 December 2022 (F age 26-29 - I have just found out that my partner of 9 years had cheated on me with his work colleague at his Christmas party. I feel physically sick at the thought of it and having seen the messages of their night of passion, arranging to meet again and keep it secret. I don’t know w... (128 words

Seeing that ex is engaged has thrown me off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

15 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I broke up with a guy about 2.5 years ago. It was an unhealthy relationship where I saw red flags and knew we were incompatible, but thought my love could “fix” him and maybe if I changed certain things about myself, it could work. I have no idea why he had such a strong hold ... (198 words

Running out of time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

15 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I just turned 29 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months now we have been living together for a year and 8 months, we have a dog together we both have good jobs and are responsible people. The topic of marriage and children has came up a lot and we both agree ... (185 words

Am I putting in work and not going to get the commitment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

15 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I just turned 29 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 28 months now we have been living together for a year and 8 months, we have a dog together we both have good jobs and are responsible people. The topic of marriage and children has came up a lot and we both agree ... (185 words

Wasting my time 2

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

15 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and need advice. I started talking to a guy, he used to text once in a few days but very detailed msgs about some mutual topics , never opened up about himself much emotionally. I didn’t mind cause we were just talking, we met and ... (305 words

Am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 547 days ago

15 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I’m very confused about this guy’s behaviour and need advice. I started talking to a guy, he used to text once in a few days but very detailed msgs about some mutual topics , never opened up about himself much emotionally. I didn’t mind cause we were just talking, we met and ... (305 words

He is insecure broke it off but we still care. How should I proceed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 551 days ago

13 December 2022 (F age 41-50 - I think I know the answer but my good old agony aunts and uncles always help me process. I had not been in a serious relationship in over 4 years. I had a horrible experience w a real live narcissist back in 2017. After much personal work, I decided for one of my new year ... (430 words

I need sex and wife's health causes problems

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12 December 2022 (M age - My problem is probably one that happens quite often. I’ve been married for over 40 years we started dating in our early 20’s and married mid-20’s. I had a few more sexual partners than she did 5 to 2. We always had a great appetite for sex and did almost everything possible ... (258 words

Anyone from South Africa that can answer a question?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 548 days ago

12 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - Hi is anyone here from South Africa? Just have a question. I met someone online I have went to see him 3 times and he wants to visit me. He said he got his passport, his NIN, and needs his covid vaccine and says it is 300.00 usd. Seems a little far fetched to me. He's ask... (74 words

Pimples 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 552 days ago

12 December 2022 (F age 18-21 - This might sound gross to y’all but whatever. So basically I have a hard pimple(pustule) directly on my clit under the hood of it and it won’t go away.. it’s been a year and a half since I noticed it. Not only is it there, but was embarrassing as hell when I went to the doctor ... (206 words

Genital pimples?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

12 December 2022 (F age 18-21 - This might sound gross to y’all but whatever. So basically I have a hard pimple(pustule) directly on my clit under the hood of it and it won’t go away.. it’s been a year and a half since I noticed it. Not only is it there, but was embarrassing as hell when I went to the doctor ... (206 words

Am I stupid for considering a long distance relationship?

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12 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I met a guy when I was on vacation in Hawaii. We matched on bumble, and went out a few times while we were there. We had a lot of fun together (no sex). I could see myself falling for him. But he lives out of state. I live in Los Angeles, and he lives in Reno, Nevada, and ... (178 words

Health problems no answers causing marriage difficulties

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 554 days ago

10 December 2022 (M age - HI, I am a 50 year old man, married for 24 years. I love my wife and she loves me, but my sexual problems are causing a very big strain in our relationship. I need to find an explanation of what is causing it Sex was a very important part of my life and it was great until 6... (425 words

Bad health and dating

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6 December 2022 (M age 51-59 - Well, it I lost it a little over two and a half years ago. I was struggling after a divorce and when I finally took up sports again - a first hint at getting to my feet again - it lasted six weeks and then, some day, I was out for a ride and woke up in the grass next to my ... (343 words

Do I stay in this marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

5 December 2022 (F age 36-40 - Dear cupid. I'm writing here already knowing the answer to my own question, but I just need to talk to someone about this, and I can't talk about it to anyone I know. I'm married, and miserable. It hasn't been easy, and the main problem for me is that my husband seems to... (1208 words

Think I really hurt my friendship, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 561 days ago

5 December 2022 (F age 26-29 - I’ve been friends with a male friend for a LONG time. I met him working at a GameStop and we became fast friends. However it turned out he really had feeling for me, I turned him down, (I’m gay) but he was really fun to hang out with and I wanted to stay friends. He’s been ... (320 words

Blindsighted by breakup

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 559 days ago

5 December 2022 (F age 36-40 - I want to know if I’m crazy for being totally blindsided by this breakup. I went on a date with this great guy about a year ago. Then we were talking, hung out together with our kids. And definitely had a connection. Then while I was out of town for a family emergency, I got... (678 words

Why does my partner say this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 556 days ago

4 December 2022 (F age 51-59 - My partner regularly says hes going to do something that will put him in prison if he doesnt return to his home country soon. I pay all the expenses for my home and he spends his money in the first week and then lives off me for the rest of the month. He is totally ungratef... (75 words

Former dating partner acts like he does not know me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 562 days ago

3 December 2022 (F age 26-29 - So a guy I was seeing ended things with me as I wanted commitment and he didn’t see me in that way. he was then with another girl and he didn’t want anymore to do with me even as a mate however that broke down within weeks. next thing he kept popping up in person at work (going ... (424 words

I want my mom to stop talking to me she has a mental illness

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

3 December 2022 (M age 41-50 - My mom she loves coming into the basement irritating me and threatening me and I don't want her coming to the basement I don't want her talking to me she has a mental illness and she doesn't want to admit to anybody she has one. ... (45 words

I have no support around me when boyfriend and I argue

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 558 days ago

1 December 2022 (F age 30-35 - I have being living with my boyfriend for the last three months. We have our ups and downs and arguments about day to day things. I live 5.5 hours away from my friends and family. My boyfriend lives about half an hour from his family. I lived away from family for over four ... (230 words

No one cares why is it like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 561 days ago

1 December 2022 (F age 41-50 - Everyone thinks my life is so damn perfect and its not. I dont have magical powers to make my life into what people think it ought to be.I struggle and my health lets me down. But that when things get worse.No one has a second to be nice. In fact just the opposite. They couldnt ... (88 words

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