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I want him to leave but I'm scared I won't be able to cope with my new baby!

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4 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - hi peeps i have just recently had a baby. she is seven weeks old and i am at my wits end and feel like my life is not worth living. my partner does nothing for my baby and does not contribute even though he lives in my house. he is too busy at his parents helpimg them and never ... (288 words

I found a letter to a student and barely 18 porn in my fiance's closet!

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4 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have moved in and become engaged to a man who is a high school teacher at a small high school. Recently I was cleaning out a closet for my stuff and found a briefcase. I looked in a briefcase and found various porn and some paperwork. In the paperwork I found a letter ... (238 words

He's hot then cold, but I won't give up! Need some ideas here!

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I really like this guy and im tryin to get with him (: he flirts with me and told me im fit and stuff over text and msn which im happy about, he also flirted with me at a party but not varbally lol, that was the first time he noticed me. I hardly ever see him at school cos he's ... (445 words

Does using a G-spot stimulator mean you're not a virgin?

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4 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - As said virginity is not having sexual intercoarse...but if you have a g spot stimulator are you still a virgin?... (20 words

Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and A from getting together for som... (292 words

Why does he feel the need to be in contact with her when he knows how I feel about this?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My husband and i have been married about 9 months. we dated two years before we got married. Throughout our relationship when we were younger i dealt with him contacting his ex's. We were not completely exclusive, I was hardly out of highschool, and even though this hurt me ... (686 words

He gets a real bad pain in his stomach when we have sex!

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok so il just cut straight to the chase when me and my boyfriend have sex he gets a real bad pain in his stomach. he has been to the doctors about this and they gave him tablets but they didnt really work. I just want to know has anyone expierienced this? Also he finds ... (87 words

My boyfriend is jealous of my best friend

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have always gotten along and have a close bond but theres always been somthing that pisses me off. He's jealous of my best friend who is male and also an ex of mine. I've explained so many times that there's nothing going on and that we are just friends, but ... (109 words

Should I ditch this engagement? After what she did with this guy?

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I need help. I just found out my fiancee cheated on me a little while ago. I don't know if I should marry her or not. I'm real pissed off and upset, but I love her, but this is not acceptable. I'm a believer in that 2 people who are in love and dating steady, or engaged, or m... (635 words

Breakdown in communication? What do you think?

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4 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - I would be interested in your thoughts. Today my gf sent a text to me while I was at work at about 11.50am. She said that due to me working long hours and being so tired when I get home that she feels she never sees me. Then she asked if we could meet for lunch if I was able ... (454 words

My former best friend not only made a pass at my girl, he grabbed her butt!

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4 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ok on my birthday my former best friend not only made a pass at my girlfriend but a couple of hours after he left we were sitting together and she told me that he grabbed her butt. Now what would should i do??... (43 words

The last thing I wanted was a sexless marriage!

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4 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - i was three months pregnant when i married in december. i can count on one hand the amount of times i have had sex in the last 10 months. i feel desperate to have sex but my husband is always too tired and would prefer to watch tv. i am back to my original weight and always ... (125 words

Could my ex be father of my baby?

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - ok i had sex with my ex boyfriend aug 19- and i got my period on aug 20th- and on aug 27th i had sex with my new partner i found out i was pregnant can this baby be my ex boyfriends??... (42 words

He said it's in the past, but I saw the text to his ex!

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I met my current bf while he was in a relationship. I had no idea until he told me. We both tried to end things and it didn't work. She came out here and I guess they both tried to figure things out and she broke up with him. Since then him and I have been together. The ... (209 words

I can't stand being alone in the room with .... myself!

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - So Its been months-maybe years and Im sat here finally recognising that maybe I have a problem. Im quite a confidant person, I can meet andtalk to anyone and thrive in busy environments. yet I cannot bare to spend a night in to myself. Everynight for months and months ive made ... (142 words

How do I tell him it's okay to unhook my bra?

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4 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 15 and so is my boyfriend. We makeout at second base all the time. Everytime he puts his hands under my shirt he tries to unhook my bra, but then he how can I tell him it's ok to unhook my bra and play with my boobs? ... (55 words

Every time we make love, he gets a sore or bruises on his dick!

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - recently, each time my boyfriend makes love to me, he gets a sore on his dick or bruises. i am really worried about this new development .i get wet when we make love and i shave the hair in my pubic area. so i really dont know what the cause is. what can i do... (55 words

We're drifting apart and I don't know how to change it!

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My guy friend has stopped talking to me! He still stares but I haven't seen him in a while. When I left class to be dismissed we both looked at each other and I left. He texted me one day but not much lately. I hope I didn't hurt him when I told him that I wasn't going to talk ... (149 words

I'm a Catholic. What are the pros and cons of waiting til my wedding night?

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4 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - I am a Catholic and I know that as one I should not have sex before marriage but as most, if not all, Catholics do today they do. I just assumed that I would sometime in my late teens. Now I am nearly 16 and I'm beginning to change my mind. I really like the idea of waiting ... (155 words

I think he may be still in love with his ex...

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ive been dating this guy for almost a year now and we have gone threw alot i lost a baby with him and we live 2gether well he had told me about his ex and blah blah blah he said he almost married her and crap well i know i should of did this but i went threw his email and i ... (181 words

Family: Where does your priorities lie?

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Wife Question to husband Who do you see as our family? Husband Answer to wife You and the two kids of course Wife to husband No one else? Husband to wife No. No one else Husband to wife Who do you see as our family? Wife to husband My mother, then kids... (89 words

She's making out with me one minute then ignoring me the next???

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - hey, long story (kinda) short, im 15, and there is a girl in the year above who has been one of my close friends for quite a long time, but i realised that i liked her more than that. A few weeks back i told her how i felt, and she told me that she had wanted to tell me the ... (145 words

He says it's over... is it? Somebody please help.

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfreind split up on friday i havent always been a jealous person when we first was going out he was going with his ex 4 3 yr and he split up with her and i ended up getting with him at our christmas party we wo going out 2 week then i got a random text meant for her ... (651 words

I have fallen in love with my stepdaughter

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4 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - Ok, let me see if I can get this all in. My step daughter and I have grown very close over the past year. She is a bit younger then I am (over 18). I can't help these feelings I am having for her. I have not told her about them and don't plan on it either (I am still ... (189 words

Having second thoughts about possibly terminating my pregnancy.

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4 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hi,i can't believe i am 39 and got myself into this situation.Firstly i have a 6 yr old daughter from a previous relationship.I have been dating a new guy for about 3mths and have just found out i'm pregnant.My inital feeling is to have an abortion. I have got a good job,a mort... (145 words

Is he not that interested in me or is he bad at staying in touch for other reasons?

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I work with a guy whom I am interested in. Lately I have shown this by meeting up and spending a few hours together. Problem is, he's got a history of depression (which he has apparently got over now) and bullying which makes him rather reserved, for example, at work. But when ... (152 words

Is he being nasty, joking as friends, or flirting?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok, I'm mega uuber confused. I work with this guy in a busy shop right, and I kinda sorta fancy him lol. The thing is, when we're at work, he does talk to me, but it's just friendly talk, talk about work collegues, what we've got to do for the day, etc. Then, when we finish w... (244 words

My boyfriend's wife has cancer. I love him, but want what is best for everyone.

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am a 37 year old single mum to a four year old. I began an affair with a man 25 years my senior, (someone i have known for 15 years) around six months ago. prior to this I had been alone since the first trimester of pregnancy. Having a child, a girl, really shook me up and m... (962 words

I want a relationship with this guy who is 7 years older than me.

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 and he is 23 hes been in my life a very long time.. our families our close. hes gonna graduate from college and pursue his career,so hes very responsible. I'm confused about my feelings for him,and his feelings for me. he comes over a lot and we just hang out an... (104 words

How can I overcome irritation when she doesn't call as promised?

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Women not returning calls. I would like some advice on what do when a lady promises to call even though she knows she won't call. I have a friend who is a girl. Whenever she has an academic need she bombards my phone with calls. In fact one day i had about 11 missed calls fro... (515 words

How can I make our first time together a Crazy, Passionate event?

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4 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ok, new girlfriend, new start, mindlessly love her, we are both very close with each other and enjoy each other's company. We've been together for a month and a half, we've both been in sexual relationships before, and i'd like to have a passionate random crazy sexual ... (63 words

It feels as though my wife isn't interested in fixing our marriage.

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi everyone My wife and i have been seperated for about 10 weeks now, of which the first 6 i moved out. i had no other option but to come home in the end. we have been getting on now for atleast 8 weeks with laughter, conversation, fun and doing stuff together, but sh... (423 words

How do I convince my brother's friend that we should try dating?

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I really really like my brother's best friend. We have been flirting with each other for months and a few weeks ago he asked me to go to dinner with him. When my brother found out he was upset because neither one of us had told him about it. He found out from my other brother.... (427 words

Could my two friends be having a secret affair?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm not sure why I'm writing this but here goes. At college, I know this girl and to me it looks like this girl likes other girls. I know this sounds stupid but I'm not sure if it's in my head or if it's true. This girl (the main one-lets call her Lucy), is very outgoing, howe... (202 words

She cheated on me with two men and now wants me to give her time before we break up!

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - 5 months ago me (32) and my girlfriend (23) moved in together. Previously we had been having a long distance relationship for 2.5 years. Things were going very well and then she went on a 2 month medical elective on a pacific island. A month into her stay a natural disaster ... (740 words

I have a full life, but worry that I may not find love. Are there others out there like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

4 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hello all, I am an attractive, and very young looking 41 year old woman.I never meet men around my own age, as they always think I am too young for them, and do not approach me, and the guys I do meet are never really settled, or they are unsuitable. I have a nice job, go to ... (289 words

Through wife-swapping, we fell in love, but are distraught about the hurt we've caused!

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Here is my heart-hurting situation. I have been with the mother of my son for almost 15 years. We met when we were in our late teens. About two years ago, we began something that has made me realize I wasn't really in love with my fiancee but more in friendship relat... (1310 words

Should I talk to my boyfriend about wanting more, and if so, how?

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - DEAR CUPID .. I have been on again off again seeing this guy. He has a seven year old daughter and a baby mama that he was with for ten years. I really like him when were together we have lots of fun talking and jus being "together". The problem is it’s not consistent. We don’t ... (112 words

My boyfriend took advantage of me while I suffered alcohol poisoning!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Alright well, i'll try to explain this the best way i can. On halloween, last saturday, i went to a party with about.. 6 people. one of which included my boyfriend. We obviously were drinking since it was halloween and just for fun, you know:)? Then things started get... (793 words

My boyfriend didn't respond to my calls or texts in 7 months!

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My bf and i have had a long distance relationship for 1 year now. but in march i texted him normally and waited for a reply. but he didnt reply to none of my calls or text messages. before all this he said he was busy with work and would be free in the summer when he can talk ... (229 words

I'm a fun and loud person but I can't come out of my shell at school!

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4 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Ok, so I'm a 15 year old girl and not popular in school. I want to be known as a happy, caring and bubbly person but I don't know how I could do this. When I'm at school, I can't act like myself, however as soon as I arrive home, I'm my usual self - fun, loud etc. Why is this? ... (81 words

I know he likes me. Is there a chance for us?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi i'll apologize in advance for the legnth of this. I'll give you abit of background info as over the last 2 years ALOT of stuff has happened. People have said things, the way they have acted and the way this guy has acted to make me and others think he really liked me. Basi... (1048 words

Help me cope with my worry about someone I care about deeply!

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hey there. Umm, starting this is really hard so I'll start from the beginning and a bit of a backstory.. I've recently started university and I met a girl here on my first day, in fact she was the first person I met here. A few days later we opened up to each other about o... (580 words

After our break-up, I feel used! Am I wrong?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I dated a guy aged 22 for 4 months, i loved him so an ended up giving up my virginity to him, he was an alcoholic and i rarely felt his attention. one day when i was asking about us, about the relationship an its weakness he looked at me and told me he is having a nine month ... (103 words

My boyfriend doesn't put effort into our relationship!

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was edited for grammar only, and to make it easier to read.] okay so my question is why does my boyfriend treat me like he doesn't want to be with me? he doesn't do anything to show me he wants to be with me he only hugs me and kisses me when i a... (204 words

My ex-girlfriend says she wants to be friends, but is hot and cold with me!

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - My gf broke up with me like 3 months ago after about a year and a half. We tried being friends right off the bat, but it didnt work and we didnt talk for about two months. She calls me to hangout two days in a row and now she says she doesn't want to be friends, just friendly ... (154 words

She's admitted to seeing someone new and I'm afraid I'm going to be forced out of our house!

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4 November 2009 (M age - After my wife has admitted seeing someone else she says I can still stay in our home together. She will do her thing and I can do mine. Im frightened in case she get serious with this guy and Im forced out of my house...What should I do??? [Moderator note: Please read http... (61 words

Have I ruined everything with the man I love?

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4 November 2009 (F - I've been with my bf for 6 months. He's a complicated creature, very sports orientated from a young age so his appearance has always been important to him so he regularly goes to the gym. He has also never been on holiday with anyone and cannot have people in his space. Ou... (645 words

Will committing incest emotionally scar my brother?

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4 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Last night my brother and I (I'm a male) got pretty drunk just hanging out. We both started watching some porn, and discussing things, and, well....we ended up partially having sex. We were both consenting adults, although once we realized what was going on we both stopped and ... (120 words

I'm trapped in a marriage with a husband who prefers masturbation over sex!

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - We've been married for 3 months, been together for 3 and half years in total. We lived together for a year but I moved back in with my parents cos I hated his housemates. We got our own place and moved in a week before the wedding. For me the biggest problem is he is selfish,... (388 words

My good friend wants to see my penis. Should I show her?

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - i have a realy good friend and she ask me to show her my penis i dont know if should show her but at the same time i dont know why she want to see it can someone help me with this... (42 words

Worried about vaginal size and shaving rash

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi. so ive got an embarrassing question, i did post it before but it didnt get posted. i hope it wasnt too rude, ill try to tone it down this time. i want it to be straight so i can get some advice/opinons. anyway. im sort of embarrassed by my vagina. Its ust that im a bit bigg... (155 words

When we are together it is amazing, but after a couple of days she becomes more distant! What should I do next?

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4 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi there all, Sorry for the long story but..... I am desperately looking for some help and any answers would be deeply appreciated. I have recently split up with my girlfriend of 2 Years. It was a very troubled relationship with arguments and she has previous... (297 words

Who does she want, her boyfriend or me?

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok recently she hurt me real bad, asked me to move on because she is in love with her bf. I told her I cant forget her and it still hurts me. She told me to concentrate on my studies for now and not talk about this for the time being. Then one day her bf got mad at her because ... (238 words

I've been having online sex chats with him but I think I am starting to want more from him!

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi I am 29 female in need of bit of help I am very keen on a guy whom has been my friend for so many years. he is so keen in me as someone whom give’s sex talk with. but is keen to have sex if we both get a chance when ever It is possible.. We have been talking online sex ... (354 words

I really love my cousin!

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4 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi ok hear it goes I am 14 Years old and live in Utah of the USA my cousin is 13. I have always loved her. but i am confused about all this, I think that she wants me to ask her to have sex some times but some times not. I cant get my mind off her and never will, its hard a... (119 words

Is 7 months too soon to bring up marriage?

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4 November 2009 (? age 51-59 - When is it safe to bring up marriage? We've been dating 7 months, and we are in love. He treats me like I've never been before, and the signs are all there. He is younger than I am and has never been married. I have been married before but this is not a concern for him. ... (249 words

Why do I find it hard to make conversation?

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - hi, in the past i have had boyfriends, but nothing has ever come of them. i have also met two people who i met online, we got on great chatting, and when we decided to meet up it just was a disaster, mainly me, i found that in person i couldnt talk so easy to them. at the mo... (151 words

Should I end this now and rebuild our friendship or see what happens next?

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been known this guy since I was 3 years old. I was best mates with his sister right until Highschool. I dont remember him through my childhood years though, he was the shy kid... The last couple of years me and this guy have reconnected and have become very good mat... (535 words

If you lose weight can it make your penis bigger?

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4 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - So, my penis isn't really that big. I'd say maybe 4 inches when erect. I know that 4 inches is long enough to satisfy a girl, but I would rather be average of maybe 5.5 inches. That would make me feel more confident with myself. I'm also a bit on the heavy side but I plan on ... (111 words

My ex has offered to hook me up with some of her friends, and while I do want a new girlfriend I find this really weird!

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4 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Ok, so I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I came to realize that she probably wasn't coming back. I eventually moved on, started living my life. Working, going out, things like that. I'm not really "trying" to find a girlfriend, but I have to admit, that I am feeling ... (202 words

Bipolar wife pregnant-help!

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My wife is bipolar. She is also pregnant, so she isnt taking her meds. I knew this would be hard, but she is really starting to get to me. I love her, but Im getting really tired of the fights.... that more often than not, seem to be about stupid stuff. I just cant seem to do ... (110 words

Friend & I become very involved and now his g/f is upset. Should I try to intervene?

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi I'm in a strange problem.I'm a happily married woman immensely in love with her husband but was somewhere lonely.my husband switched his job to a foreign country and i had to stay here for one year. soon after reaching there, he got busy and had almost no time for me to ch... (279 words

Why am I getting weird same sex dreams and hard sex drive?

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4 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi All, Thank you for taking time to read my question :) I am 22 male and currently facing a big trouble regarding sexuality. Before I let you know my main concern, I'd like to brief you about myself. I am stuyding and also working, earning very good bucks. I don't have... (456 words

My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never recently. Now, would that be ... (66 words

Where should I begin to move on from my ex?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend who has not treated me very well in our relationship (we have dated twice), and has started coming to parties with people from my school, and has been chatting up girls in my grade recently. I made the mistake at the last party by asking him to dance as friends, ... (337 words

I really want a boyfriend! Help!

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4 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi I am a teenager and I have never kissed, had a boyfriend,etc. I really want a boyfriend!!! I love music and I m a really good singer!!! My friends say I am really nice and funny, etc. If you can help, that would be great. Thank you!!!... (48 words

Penis size issue...

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4 November 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi every One I have a big question that I need answered. Ok Im 15 and I only have a 4in penis(when erect). Is that bad because from what I've read on the web says that after 16 the penis doesn't usually grow much more. I hope thats not true and my penis will grow more, Will ... (89 words

Why has she changed so suddenly?

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - help me please, im screwing the best thing i have ever had in the world up and yet i cant stop myself. i have been with my current girlfriend for about 4 months now and i am so deeply in love with her, she makes me feel wanted needed and loved in ways i never knew exhisted... (536 words

I'm awful when it comes to women, what's my next move?

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I have been working feverishly with a group of people on a presentation for class. There are 3 guys and 2 girls in the group. In our past meeting, she was using my computer to look up something and got very much into my personal space, and her knee touched mine on numerous... (182 words

Is it because I'm very hard to trust, he's too protective, or an act of love?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - my bf saw a public message sent by a an old friend of mine i met over a party i went to (male). and my boyfriend saw it and practically insists on making a huge deal out of it, and turning jealous. Now i understand that the message might have been a bit too much with the use of ... (348 words

Why do teachers flirt with female students?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Just being curious, but why do young male teachers flirt with their female high school students. Is it so they can get them to like them? Do they enjoy watching how we get crushes on them or just for fun?? And of course there's teachers who flirt with certain students eve... (92 words

How can I show my girlfriend more physical affection?

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Must a woman orgasm to conceive?

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Should my wife have an orgasm to become pregnant or is it enough that my sperm goes inside through the vagina during intercourse?... (23 words

Torn between ex and b/f who to chose?

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - i with my current bf 'A' for 1 year. He is very good and care for me. I am very happy with him all this while. I am looking forward to marry him. We do have our shares of argueing sometimes and everytime we argued, he will said we are not understanding each other well enough ... (391 words

Wife chooses porn over me!

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4 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Im 30 and my wife is 24. I found lots of porn in my wife's computer, this doesn't bother me or make mad. The problem is that I don't feel sexually satisfied at all. We have sex once a month with luck. Everytime I want have sex with her she is tired, stressed or for some other ... (246 words

Raped by two men and troubled by porn

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember Is blonde chicks and porn ... (294 words

Four months and no sex - is there someone else??

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - [Moderator note: explicit language deleted and paragraphs added for easier reading] I am a female (35 years of age)... and I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man (48 years of age) for 10 months now. Sex was GREAT in the beginning and now it's been four plus m... (249 words

Why do I feel insecure about my size?

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I am eighteen years of age, and when I put the ruler next to my penis it shows me that I am 8 inches and a girth of 4.6. The only thing is, although it says i am 8 inches, i just dont feel like i am that big. I heard that if you look at a different males penis they will look ... (92 words

How can I expose her lies without admitting I snooped?

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I've been in a LDR for almost 6 months now. Within the last month, we've been fighting alot. A while back, my girlfriend gave me the password to her email. I got curious and checked. She's been talking to (and calling) some other guy. Older emails seem flirtatious, but... (160 words

How do I change my quiet reputation and get a girlfriend?

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4 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm a freshman in highschool and have neither dated nor had a girlfriend. I dont talk much at school and people call me quiet. I have a huge problem with that. I don't know how to make friends, therefor cant get a girlfriend in my current state. I'm a sort of picky person. ... (168 words

Why doesn't he make me feel sexy?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - MY boyfriend doesn't make me feel sexy, but gets mad if i don't talk to dirty or try to turn him on. He laughs at me when i try on cute outfits and try to be hot or if I do say somehing sexy he makes fun of me. I want to feel sexy so I can act sexy around him he jsut makes me ... (81 words

I'm developing feelings for him even though it's wrong. What do I do?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have known this guy since I was a little girl, our families are beyond best friends. We have been spending a lot of time talking, and I am quickly becoming infatuated with him, because he's been exposed to me and my family life so much, he understands me. The only problem? He ... (88 words

14 year old girl scared about sex with her 15 year old boyfriend

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4 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - my boyfriend is 15 and he wants to have sex with me but i don't know if i want to remain abstinent or have sex with he says he's ready when i'm ready but i don't think thats true and he might dump me i'm scared though that it will hurt and i will be immoral ... (56 words

I lied about my virginty. Can a man feel your hymen?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am a virgin, but for my own personal reasons I do not want my guy to know. We are having sex for the first time tomorrow night, and I'm afraid he might feel my hymen and know I lied to him. I don't care about the bleeding, since I know that can happen the first few times.... (59 words

Should I just come clean about why I renewed my commitment to my boyfriend?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I've been going through a rough patch with my boyfriend, and another guy started showing an interest in me. I was very interested in this guy too, and we ended up doing a lot of things in the 'grey area' that doesn't quite count as cheating but is still inappropriate for ... (163 words

What are some GREAT DIRTY things I can text to my new boyfriend?

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I just started a new great fun relationship and I want to send him dirty dirty text messages when he is away. Please don't hold back and help me come up with things to text. Thanks everyone!... (41 words

I have butterflies for no reason. What's wrong?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i am gettin butterflies in my stomach for noo reason every now and again an di dont know why can someone tell me why please thankyou x i know i sound realli dumb but my friend has tpold me she experienced dis wen she was pregnant :-( please help fanx x... (51 words

They say I am pretty but fat. Should I be offended?

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4 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Okay soo. Im 13 and i am over weight. please dont comment giving me tips on how to lose weight or on how to be healthier, im offended enough. i have low self asteem when it comes to my body, i have a stunning face but my body just isnt right, and the most hottest guys in ... (188 words

I had an abortion and now my sister won't talk to me!

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Should I say sorry to my sister, I had an abortion in April and my sister got very angry at me, she is very pro-life and wanted to to weigh my other options. She did not talk to me for a couple of months, and it was really hard not being able to talk to her, and see her kids. ... (246 words

I only seem to attract older men who want to have sex. Is it because of my behaviour?

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4 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I always feel like i attract men that only want to have fun with me. There was a professor who is married that tried to get into my pants he never did. then there was a thirty year old that only wanted to get into my pants. I just want to know why i cant find a man that that ... (72 words

A man FINALLY fancies me for more than sex and I am not as interested in him! What should I do?

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4 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - hi seemed to atract men how only wanted sex , and am fed up as want more than that,now i have meet a man how wants to spend time with me treat me right and is lovley person has a fab job , and is very honest, the trouble is i just dont fancy him he fancys me not sure what to ... (64 words

Suddenly he just wants to be friends. What's going on?

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4 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Ok - here is my problem. I met a wonderful man about 3 months ago - we shared alot of information - by email, texting and talking on the phone. He asked me out on a date and alot of questions about how I felt about his current situation (having his kids 24/7). I responding ... (134 words

Does this guy want me only if my friends like him?

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4 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - im really not sure what to do.. i met this guy online and he lived outa state at the time. We were talking for like a month or so and every thing was fine we were getting along great.. he's been here for a week and a half, ive met him and everything seems to be going good. ... (314 words

What do you think of a man, who...?

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4 November 2009 (F age - What do you think about a man whom, you leave a phone message in the morning asking if he wants to have dinner and at 8:30pm he calls, leaves a message that does not mention the call, you try to call back and know he is there because he is on messenger, but now he does not ... (193 words

Is my husband planning to go back to his ex-wife?

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4 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am going to make this as short and understandable as I can. My husband is not with me at the moment (he is away) I know he has been calling his ex wife that has two grown kids with him because I told him to call and get to know his kids. He felt very guilty after years of... (715 words

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