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Me, My Friend, Her Daughter & the awkward Theatre issue!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

31 May 2024 (F age 41-50 - For my friends birthday I decided to treat her to watch a musical. She loves the theatre but rarely gets to go due to cash being tight. The other issue she has is she suffers from vertigo so cannot be sat up anywhere remotely high (she’s had a couple of unfortunate inst... (490 words

Why are we so awkward around each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

30 May 2024 (F age 26-29 - There's this guy I like. I find him really attractive but for some reason I just can't talk to him. I can say maybe a couple of sentences to him and then the conversation dies out. Vice versa if he starts the conversation. I can talk to his friends just fine, and find myself ... (256 words

Why does my friend acts this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

29 May 2024 (F age 30-35 - Hi lovely cupids, I have a question about a friends behaviour. Me and my best friend are so close and we do so much together. We’re both in relationships, for context. However, I have noticed that when we go out, she seems to flirt with guys - it’s very innocent and ha... (225 words

The guy I'm dating doesn't make any effort

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 May 2024 (F age 36-40 - i have feelings for this guy but he always lets me down because he has to work or his been sick he says he has feelings for me and knows he should make more of an effort should i give him the benefit of the doubt or should i just move on because surely my self respect is worth ... (85 words

My love for my partner has faded

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

27 May 2024 (F age 26-29 - Apologies for the long rant! From day one my partner has said he’s a “traditional” man with old fashioned values. However I’m not sure whether he is mistaking this for narcissism. We have been together for 5 years now, are engaged, have a mortgage and recently have ha... (1177 words

Was what I did that bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

18 May 2024 (F age 30-35 - I was joking around and maybe gossiping but not in a mean way about one of the managers sexuality and I asked a couple coworkers I thought were friendly if they thought she was gay or not. Part of me was being nosey and the other was curious because I had a slight crush on her. ... (170 words

I need dating advice am unsure how to navigate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 141 days ago

17 May 2024 (M age 36-40 - NOTE: This has been posted before. Apparently poster didn't get responses or would like advice not given before. I’ve been dealing with a recurring challenge in my quest to find a romantic partner, and I’m seeking some guidance on how to navigate it. To provide some contex... (352 words

Hes asking for space because his wife is upset about their split

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

16 May 2024 (F age 36-40 - I’ve been seeing a man for a few months who was honest from the onset that he was very recently separated from his wife. We’d been seeing one another for about 3 months when he said he wanted to tell his ex wife that he’d met someone else and knew she would take it badly as ... (313 words

Is my physician losing respect for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

15 May 2024 (F age 41-50 - For the past 6 months I’ve been seeing a physician for some issues I’ve been having- he came highly recommended by a couple of friends who have been seeing him for several years. He’s an older gentleman and all his reviews are excellent. I cannot complain about him ... (429 words

Cut ties with my controlling family only to have to deal with fiancés controlling family

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 141 days ago

13 May 2024 (F age 36-40 - I feel like im reliving my past and cannot go through it all again. I have a very toxic family- I’m not going to go in to details however they had zero boundaries and never took accountability for anything. They mentally wore me down. I ended up moving to another par... (522 words

Girls preference on guys pubic hair

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

13 May 2024 (M age 26-29 - Hey girls, I was curious of your personal preference when it comes to a guys grooming down below? Also, what are your thoughts on chest hair?... (26 words

My husband wants to uproot our lives to take care of his mom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

9 May 2024 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid Been married for 5 and been with my husband for 10 years. My mother in law got sick recently and would require constant care. My husband is a single child, and he wants to move in with her and take care of her. He does not want to 1. Move his mother to our ho... (316 words

Guy at work flirted with me but dropped me for another. Do I confront him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

9 May 2024 (F age 36-40 - There is a guy at work who I thought likes me, but now he behaves as though he hates me. He would always come and try to talk to me and flirt with me, but I realized he liked another girl as well,and because he was talking to me, the girl became jealous. I ended up seeing him ... (204 words

Am I weird for wanting this lifestyle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

8 May 2024 (F age 36-40 - My whole life I’ve never wanted the traditional family life - ie getting married and having children of my own. I’ve always wanted to marry an older man with grown up children and be part of their life, I guess I’ve always wanted a ready made family. I have no idea why... (287 words

I am done and he won't grow up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

5 May 2024 (F age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my partner of 6 yrs. We started dating and after a whirlwind I found out I was pregnant after my contraception failed. This was a huge shock to me as I had a child already with my precious husband and wasn't planning on anymore hence the birth control. ... (718 words

He just wants casual sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

3 May 2024 (F age 36-40 - i have been sleeping with a guy a few times and he said he does not want a relationship however recently his been kissing me really sensually touching my hair stroking me cuddling staying the night and telling me we have more of a connection than his ex could this mean he is ... (86 words

Why did my neighbour lie to me about her experience at the restaurant where I work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

3 May 2024 (F age 30-35 - I work part time at a small family run restaurant. As well as working there I often go there for dinner too. The food is amazing and service is wonderful. My neighbor a while back was asking about the restaurant as she and her sister wanted somewhere new to try. S... (325 words

How do you help your partner through depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

1 May 2024 (F age 30-35 - How do you help your partner through depression? My partner has outbursts of rage where he pushes me away, then he he's back to himself and back to the man I love. Then cycles. When he's in these rages he's told me that he doesn't want to be with me, that he wants to be on h... (283 words

Is it time to leave the marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

1 May 2024 (F age 30-35 - My husband doesn't value me and doesn't believe me, I feel like I have to "prove" things to him. I've been married for 9 years, my husband and I get along well and are good friends. If we could afford to live separately, our marriage would probably be better. 90% ... (562 words

Where and how did things deteriorate to this extent with my brother and his wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

1 May 2024 (M age 41-50 - I got married 8 years ago. My wife is stunning, intelligent and everything that I (or anyone) could ever ask for. My parents were very happy when I introduced her to them, as was my brother. My brother is a couple of years younger to me and was married before I met my wife. His ... (678 words

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