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Should I worry about the attention he gives her?
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2675 days ago
31 May 2017 (F)
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I've been seeing a guy for about two months now. Everything has been going great. He's affectionate, caring, etc. We've dated before a few years ago and it didn't work out. He had cheated on me with a very permiscuous chick who has a reputation for using drugs and having sex ...
(474 words) He asked my friend and now me. Is it OK?
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3 answers
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2686 days ago
31 May 2017 (F)
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Hello, Please I need some advice. There is this guy asking me out. We met at my sister's wedding. I like him too. It turned out that he had asked my best friend out some months back but she said she was not interested. I asked my friend about him and she said they never ...
(168 words) Is it over with my married lover? Or is he just cooling down?
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2688 days ago
31 May 2017 (F)
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Hello everyone, through common friends I met a guy at a dinner and we clicked instantly. I have been single for 3 years and I'm very hard to connect with someone immediately. We spoke the entire evening and exchanged numbers. The next morning I had to fly in a business trip ...
(520 words) Should I tell my fiance how I came up with the name for our unborn daughter?
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15 answers
- newest was posted
2684 days ago
31 May 2017 (F)
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Hi guys So I am 29, engaged and pregnant. To be honest life couldn't be better right now. My summer wedding is around the corner and everything's great. Here's my question. Me and my fiance are having a girl and have come up with the best name for her well I came up with...
(156 words) How do you let gay men know which role you from the get-go?
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2677 days ago
31 May 2017 (M)
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What do you do if you get the impression that other gay men think you're a top when you're not? I guess it's my appearance but that's kinda unfair. Has anybody ever experienced this? How can I fix this? ...
(39 words) I need help so I can stop having an irrational hatred towards women
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6 answers
- newest was posted
2685 days ago
31 May 2017 (M)
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I did some therapy but it didn't really help. Through strength and determination I’m a much more positive person that I was a year ago and I’m proud of myself for my growth. Core Problems: 1. My earliest experiences with the opposite sex were very traumatic filled with mu...
(688 words) We broke up but I want my ex back
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2677 days ago
31 May 2017 (F)
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Hi cupids..I might be all over the place but thank you for reading this. So..I keep calling my ex lately and he hasn't been picking up the last few random times. Of course.. he is probably annoyed since I block my calls.. We broke up 8 months ago. The reason for me was he kept ...
(401 words) It was just a one night stand for him but it meant more than that to me and I'm depressed
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- newest was posted
2689 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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I'm 33, single. I went to a monastery to inaugurate an event (work related...I'm a diplomat). There I met a young monk (he's 42, he's supposed to be celibate) and we got on rather well together. He sort of followed me around, which was flattering, and we debated religion and ...
(501 words) Drunken fumble, was what the guy did normal making out or was it more than that?
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- newest was posted
2688 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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I was at a party recently and we both were pretty drunk and horny, and started making out and it turned into a very intense one. He started moving my hands all around her body including my breasts and my butt, and cupped my breasts and butt lightly. It was all over the shirt ...
(173 words) Did he mean anything by this or not?
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- newest was posted
2688 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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Me and this boy have known each other for a while, although until recently we've gone a few months without talking just because we haven't seen each other. The other night we were at a mutual friend's party and we started talking, and the next day he sent me a picture of us th...
(166 words) Should I talk to my co worker about our fling, or let it go?
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2688 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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Hey guys, need some work/relationship advice!! So I recently started working at my job a little over a month ago. One thing I love about this place is there are a lot of people my age and we're all motivated to work, but can still have a good time. Well there I've neve...
(632 words) Did he just want to have fun with me?
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- newest was posted
2687 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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Hi My name is Aliyah and am 30 years old,separated and from Mauritius. I would like to have an advice please. I have know a guy on an online dating site since last December,he is actually working for an international company in South Africa but his home town is Mauritius j...
(1686 words) I made some inquiries about a co-worker, she must have found out and now avoids me
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2690 days ago
30 May 2017 (M)
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hi all, i know this lady since 3 years ago, we are working in the same place not the same department. we will bump into each other a few times in a week and sometimes will start a conversation. Most of the times she will be the one initiating the conversation and Our conversa...
(338 words) I can't stop stalking my ex on social media and I can't get over the way that he dumped me mercilessly
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- newest was posted
2689 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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I can't get over my ex and stalking him on social media; this is pathetic and I don't talk about it beside my therapists that doesn't approve my actions but here it is and I am hoping that someone might have some advice - my relationship with my ex was very brief -but I really ...
(373 words) I'm falling in love with a married woman who's in a bad marriage but will she ever leave her husband?
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- newest was posted
2683 days ago
30 May 2017 (M)
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I recently moved to a new location about 6 months ago, I started going to bar to hang out. I started talked to the a Server while I was the bar and every time I go in she always made a point to go say hi. Now she was cute, so I went more often than I should just to see her ...
(818 words) My mother says it will ruin my reputation if I am with this guy
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8 answers
- newest was posted
2680 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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Me and this black have been talking and i told my mama about it and she doesn't approve. she mad me feel horrible about the whole situation and I told him that we were gonna have to be friends. I dont know what to do because i dont see what the big deal is. She says I will ruin ...
(152 words) He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?
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2689 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy. I met someone who had bee...
(862 words) I want to tell his wife that I was his mistress
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2689 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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I am a 44 years old divorced woman. 15 years ago when I was 29, I dated this one guy who was an American soldier. I wasn’t very much attracted to him at first, so it took a lot of effort for him to get me into a relationship. We never said ‘I love you’ to each other, but I ...
(500 words) I am not getting enough quality time with my boyfriend.
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8 answers
- newest was posted
2689 days ago
30 May 2017 (F)
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For those of you in a long-term relationship, how much time do you spend with your significant other? Lately I've been feeling frustrated with the amount of time my boyfriend and I spend together. We've been dating for five years and don't live together yet, but he sleeps ov...
(329 words) Why didn't he tell his friends he had broken up with me?
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2689 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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The man I had been seeing for 14 months and I had an argument....almost. I asked him how he felt about me because I needed to know in order to decide where to take my life. Eight months ago he was gung ho about "US" and then he turned cold. He told me he wasn't going to talk ...
(204 words) I cant seem to crack the code to being happier, I am always miserable.
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2631 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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I wanted to ask if someone else has struggled to be happy- I am a miserable person and as much as I try in therapy I just can't be satisfied. I worry a lot about what others perceive me and I please People. Sadly the only joy I have gotten is showing off on social media and ...
(251 words) So tired of it, what now? I feel rejected again. We met, and then we were texting a lot. Now he is not replying.
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2689 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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Hi! Just need some advice on not stressing out too much... I met this guy a week ago, last friday. We were at a party and kissed on the night and he was SO nice. He asked for my number and texted me the day after and told me how nice it was to meet me. He also asked...
(271 words) I am beginning to resent him. He has changed since we married. He is now sarcastic to me. How can this be resolved ?
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2690 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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Apologizes in advance for the long post but I really need advice. My husband and I have been married for five months. We dated for 2.5 years long distance. I moved to his city post-marriage. During the time we dated, he was always very sweet and loving, even during th...
(792 words) Who am I? I want to be bisexual as I think I like girls more than boys now. Hardly anyone I know is bisexual
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- newest was posted
2676 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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I have been out with loads of boys but I kissed a girl and I think I like girls now. I want to be bisexual, but don't know what people would think and well it's harder to get a good relationship because hardly anyone I know is bisexual or gay. What should I do? Who am I?...
(61 words) How do I determine if this relationship will ever turn serious or not?
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- newest was posted
2690 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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I have been in an awkward type of relationship with a man that is 14 years my senior . I Have known my Partner for 13 years now and we have an oops baby that we both love to bits and pieces. we started out as a one night stand that became a friendship with benefits and now...
(198 words) I feel massive resentment towards my boyfriend because everything works out for him but never for me
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2690 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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I don't really know how to word this but I have massive resentment towards my boyfriend because everything just works out for him, I don't want to be jealous or annoyed but I am. A few things I can think of are that I applied to go on an aid trip to India but didn't get ...
(216 words) The guy I'm dating doesn't want kids but I do
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- newest was posted
2688 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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I am dating a guy I am 35 he is 46 he says that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and would marry me tomorrow if I wanted it. We have loads in common hobby wise, we have similar political and religious stances. However I really want children (I've wanted the...
(302 words) My boyfriend is lying about porn again. what are my options?
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- newest was posted
2688 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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Hi i've been in a relationship with my partner for a few years, the beginning was perfect great sex almost every day. He would always please me go down on me and stuff, compliments all the time he made me feel sexy and confident. we even watched porn together and we agreed we...
(693 words) Why did my husband marry me, (I'm slim), if he prefers more curvy woman when he watches porn?
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- newest was posted
2631 days ago
29 May 2017 (F)
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I am a slim enough (not too slim but not curvy chubby), my husbands porn preference is ALWAYS BBW or chubby women. Why?? I know it's his preference because we've talked about his sexual attraction to BBW women! And we sometimes watch porn together. He says, he likes the ...
(109 words) Am I too old to expect to have a physical relationship? Should I just accept it?
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11 answers
- newest was posted
2690 days ago
28 May 2017 (F)
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My boyfriend of 4 years rarely wants sex - maybe every 3 or 4 months. Aside from that he almost never touches me except for a peck on the lips. This is breaking my heart. I've talked to him about it many times and he says he's too tired but he has plenty of energy to go ...
(89 words) Why do men show an interest in me and suddenly change?
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5 answers
- newest was posted
2690 days ago
28 May 2017 (M)
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I am a gay man. I stopped dating for a year as I was just tired of being heartbroken. I started again a couple weeks ago, I met a guy who seemed so nice. He was everything I wanted in a guy, I honestly couldn't believe it. He was constantly complimenting me in person and ...
(286 words) Should I be hungrier and work harder?
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2690 days ago
28 May 2017 (M)
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So I'm 25 year old guy.I've got a decent job, a home,a car. I am completely content with my life. Although I would refer to my status as 'middle class'.I look at people my age and who have the same things as me... And they're quitting their current jobs to pursue higher studies ...
(178 words) I got drunk and made out with a guy but lied to the guy I like about it
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- newest was posted
2690 days ago
28 May 2017 (F)
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Okay so I really screwed up! My cousin set me up with one of her best friends (let's call him Steve) We went paintballing with my cousin and he's a really great guy. He got my number and asked me to go with him to his matric dance (which I said yes to) and then asked me on a ...
(246 words) Should I date him when he had asked out my best friend and she turned him down?
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6 answers
- newest was posted
2689 days ago
28 May 2017 (F)
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Hello, Please I need some advice. There is this guy asking me out. We met at my sister's wedding. I like him too. It turned out that he had asked my best friend out some months back but she said she was not interested. I asked my friend about him and she said they never ...
(137 words) I don't want both of us to be broken after we are dating
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4 answers
- newest was posted
2691 days ago
28 May 2017 (F)
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Im that type of girl who seeks relationships that has deep connection and not just a plain relationship. So i know this guy for two years, and he's madly in love with me, at first i was really trying to avoid him because i wasn't interested in him at all, although he kept ...
(208 words) I pretty much hate my husband and need to find a way to get out of my marriage
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10 answers
- newest was posted
2688 days ago
28 May 2017 (F)
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I apologize upfront because this will be a long one. Im just going to get things out there as i think about them so hopefully it will make some sense. Im Looking for a little advice and I'm not sure where to turn. I've been married for 12 years and we have 2 children together. ...
(500 words) How do I hide a love bite?
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8 answers
- newest was posted
2691 days ago
28 May 2017 (F)
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It was my school leavers party on friday night where all of my year and people from different people from other schools came to get drubk basically. I was with my friends which included this boy I know. we were drinking and smoking and we were quite out of it but we started ...
(165 words) Is there a reason I didn't have an orgasm the first time I had sex?
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- newest was posted
2691 days ago
27 May 2017 (F)
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Hi I'm a near 18 year old female. I lost my virginity a few months back and have only had sex with that one guy. We've always been kind of more than friends (well for over a year), but not quite defined as anything more. It just sort of happened one day when we were hanging ...
(344 words) I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!
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11 answers
- newest was posted
2631 days ago
27 May 2017 (F)
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Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago but can not remember it at all ...
(195 words) Does he feel the same way or did I make him uncomfortable?
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2691 days ago
27 May 2017 (F)
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Hi. I'd love to get a third person's opinion I fell hard for an old friend but we live in different cities. He used to flirt back and forth and met a few times. I'm not sure of he had feelings for me. After 3 years and I finally told him everything. Even before I could c...
(372 words) I thought we'd made plans but she hasn't texted back!
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- newest was posted
2691 days ago
27 May 2017 (M)
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Hey all! Need some advice here please. Earlier in the week a girl said I was amazing and that we should hang out this weekend. I texted her yesterday asking if the plans were still good and she said heck ya so I replied sweet that's what I like to hear. I then asked about what ...
(129 words) I have literally no interest in pursuing girls anymore, is this normal?
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2688 days ago
27 May 2017 (M)
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Hi all, I have a situation where I can't decide whether it's normal or not. Basically, I have literally no interest in pursuing girls anymore. I'm 25 years old, never had a GF, my sexual experiences are one night stands or brief flings and I've found myself in a place ...
(314 words) Should we get back together?
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2691 days ago
26 May 2017 (F)
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my ex broke up with me a month ago, and my feelings for him are still very strong. i could tell that he didn't want to break up with me he cried as he said that he had to leave me, and even heard his friends saying,"why is he crying today? did you see him? i've never seen him ...
(221 words) He has ED, should I stay with him?
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2631 days ago
26 May 2017 (F)
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I am planning to settle down with this guy as I really want kids (I've wanted them for years) and I'd like someone to help bring them up. I've been dating for a few months and found out that he has erectile dysfunction. I am not in love with him but am very fond of him and ...
(155 words) Do I ask out the bus driver? I'm worried he thinks I'm a kid
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- newest was posted
2691 days ago
26 May 2017 (F)
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I like my city bus driver...and I want to ask him out, but I think he may think im a kid...im 30, but people tend to think im 16-17..i HATE it.i get hit on a lot but I am very skeptical of men...I watch the news and read the paper way too much....anyway well the bus driver who ...
(247 words) I fell in love with a part-time escort and not sure what to do now
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2691 days ago
26 May 2017 (M)
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Long read, please be patient. I am a working professional in my early 30’s and I've been living and working in Southeast Asia for the past 10 years. I live and work in a rather remote and industrial area and thus I've always found it difficult to find like-minded pe...
(1058 words) My boyfriend's best friend hates me!
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2691 days ago
26 May 2017 (F)
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I have a wonderful relationship with my boyfriend . We have been together for over a year. We get a long very well don't argue. My friends and family love him and his family likes me as well. His other friends likes me . However , his best male friend doesn't like me...
(323 words) I made a fake account and my boyfriend chatted with it!
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2691 days ago
26 May 2017 (F)
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i made a fake account recently and send request to my bf...and he asked who s this and then i started talking to him by telling fake family nd fake profession and all..he shared all his personal details with me he even send his pictures to me( fake user)and was talking just ...
(129 words) Does she like me romantically or just see me as a friend?
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2691 days ago
25 May 2017 (M)
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Not entirely sure with this, I'd like to think she likes me but I really struggle to tell the difference between what counts as friendship or relationship material. Basically put I met up with this girl who I got talking to online and I met up with her recently. We ini...
(607 words) My crush of 2 years just got a girlfriend! Now what?
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2691 days ago
25 May 2017 (F)
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I'm sure this has happened to people a million times before but this is the first time for me. Quite simply, the boy I've had a crush on for two years has just gotten a girlfriend. He likes her very much - he is constantly preoccupied, staring into space, smiling randomly, with ...
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