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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Is he ready to date again... or is it too soon?

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - please dont laugh but i need serious advice. i really really fancy this guy ive been working with a week - hes new and ive done loads for him to help him and we sooo click and laugh and joke-its not like being at work. heres the problems... my ex from 7 months ago ... (213 words

We seemed to get along so well. Why is he ignoring me now?

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - so me n this guy are best friends. we liked each other alot over halloween and before. we had kissed multiple times and he kept on saying he was gonna ask me out but he never did. so last week i started going out with this guy. and now he wont text me back, talk to me, or even ... (73 words

Is this love or just infatuation?

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - i love this dude so much. i have mix emotions about him but i know that i truly love him [as a friend]. we met each other when i was about 7 and he was 10 from that day our eyes met. i still remember when we met. i just cant stop thinking about him he is soooooo adorable and i ... (133 words

My ex-boyfriend faces prison for what he did, should I continue case against him?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I stupidly met up with an obsessed ex boyfriend reasons I do not know nor can explain. We met up and returned home to his house by taxi around 11.30. On entry into the house I went to the toilet. During this time he had taken my mobile and proceeded to look at my pics and c... (329 words

Are condoms safe enough without using birth control?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone. Well, me and my boyfriend are planning to have sex soon, and we are both virgins. Of course we're planning on using protection to prevent pregnancy and infections. The thing is, is it okay to only use condoms on the first time and not birth control? A lot of people ... (136 words

I was raped in the past and don't want to make out with my boyfriend.

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - so me and my bf have been goin out for a while and we kiss all the time but hes been wanting to makeout. i asked him if we could take our relationship a little slower and he said yes but i do want to makeout with him, i just dont know how. People expect me to know how to ... (80 words

He can't let my past go...

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend wont forget what has happened to me in the past, he is always saying how it affects him and makes him upset, but he still says that he loves me loads and its only when he is reminded about what happened he hates me and wonders why he is with me, but he seems to be ... (111 words

It's been 5 days and he hasn't called me! Help!

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - My Long distance guy and I have been communicating and see each other once a month, about 6 months ago the last time i visited for a week and he had been behaving very distant but his excused was because he is getting too close to me so he says he doesnt know what direction of ... (133 words

My Bisexual Secret

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so, I'm bisexual. Ive known it for a while, and I share everything with my boyfriend, but is it the right thing to tell him this? Hes already worried about other guys trying to make a move, letalone a girl. Should I tell him and risk him worrying too much or keep it to ... (90 words

My boyfriend physically and mentally drains me... I'm so unhappy...

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello to everyone that responds to my question. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The relationship started out ok, and its been alright since. I enjoy his company sometimes, but half of the time he mentally exhausts me. Once upon a time he used to be concerne... (399 words

I think he's avoiding me and it's breaking my heart... what should I do?

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - i think the boy i like is avoiding me, hes a good friend of mine so we normally go round with our friends together which i like because we usually have really funny conversations, but for some reason he isnt talking to me as much and ignoring me i really like him so much and ... (66 words

I have a plan! What do you think? Should I tell him?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok i'm 16 and well i like this guy in my grade. he's really awesome and i really really like him. i've never liked any guy more then i've liked him. anyway he still likes his ex-girlfriend. everyone knows i like him, even he knows and well i've tryed to get over him, but i ... (159 words

He wants to go to "next base." What does this mean exactly?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have only kissed (not made out) and he said maybe we could "go to the next base" But I was always told 1st base was making out, so what do you think he means? Haha.... (41 words

Is he going off me?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i been dating this boy since i was a freshmen in high school, he is now in college and im now a senior. He agreed that we would stay together. The first year of college everything was ok but this year everything went wrong, he would only call me once a week and he would ... (90 words

Why does he always seem so shy and uncomfortable when I talk to him?

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26 November 2009 (F - There is a guy I have always liked. He is one of the nicest people I know and I am pretty nice myself. He currently has a girlfriend and I respect him, her and their relationship enough though to keep my distance. I do not flirt with him and if anything kind of keep my distance ... (127 words

My guy won't let go of the past...

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been together for one year are we great together and get on really well. He says that he loves me loads and would do anything for me but when i was tidying up for him i found loads of stuff from his last gf, he said she was a huge part of his life and don... (130 words

He doesn't have a girlfriend any more, is now my chance to tell him I like him?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey there i need advice. i like this guy in my college class he only just 16 thou and im 17.. we flirt all the time an are always looking at each over but his friends are people that put me in hospital a long time ago, he's noting like then i know tht, but its just that ... (123 words

My boyfriend slapped me... what should I do for him to forgive me?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - What should i do my boyfriend slapped me? What should i do for him to forgive me? me and my boyfriend got in a big argument about where we will spend thanksgiving and i said a few things and kicked him where it would hurt the most.. cause he was pissing me off... so anyways ... (137 words

What is the cure?

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26 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - I need to know is there a cure? My girlfriend and I broke up last June. I thought I was fine and over her, I do not want to get back together with her or even see her again. But for some reason I found out that she is dating again and has a new boyfriend and this bothers me. I ... (228 words

I physically can't seem to have an orgasm... any suggestions?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have never had an orgasm before in my life i have had 6 partners but they can ever seem to make me cum. the only time i have is when i do it myself but its my clit that sets it off. i need answers i feel like the only one in the world with this problem and i want to be able ... (78 words

My boyfriend said it's too expensive to get a divorce, that's it's only a piece of paper but it's tearing me apart...

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years now. Living together for most of it. I love him more than anything, and we have been through a lot together. We both have 2 children from previous relationships and all 4 children are involved in our lives on a regular ... (606 words

He held me tight all last night and he said he loves me more than anything, but now I am in fear of him leaving...

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has Huge trust issues but i trust him completely, he is a very honourable, loving man. he has a bit of a reason though, as i had taken anti-depressents and didn't tell him about it because he was always telling me that i'm such a downer to be around and he didn't ... (497 words

A guy who has... "it!"

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26 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Can a guy have 'it' (you know the quality of confidence that you see perhaps just once or twice per year, that makes you highly aroused without him doing much of anything), be relationship material, WITHOUT being someone who likes parties, clubs, and bars (maybe he lives a ... (89 words

Do I have any hope of a reconciliation for a third time?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Do I have any hope of a reconciliation for a third time? In reference to my last post... cutting a long story short we met last year online, Long distance etc we split up first time coz he wasn't ready etc... I knew how I felt really loved him, couple of months ago we got... (449 words

I am falling hard for my best female friend. What can I do to kill these feelings?

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26 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - I am not married, but living in a relationship of many, many years. I love my companion very much, she has been my everything so far. In regards to my female friend, I have known this girl, my friend, for many years but only in the last year we have been closer, developi... (235 words

How can I satisfy myself without having sex with someone else?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hello everyone. i am 14 years old and well I have been experimenting with my body. I touch myself, finger myself, use the shower head... but i dont feel satisfied - and im not going to have sex. What is something i can do to satisfy myself? PLEASE HELP!... (50 words

It's killing me now that hes not talking to me.

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - So around the beginning of summer i ran away with two friends an met their friend, he is the best guy i have ever met, i talked to him on the phone all the time an facebook an msn an he came down for a couple a days, btw he lives like 2 hours away from me, i really like him A ... (493 words

I need support from you for this heartbreak I feel...

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26 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hello everybody. I'm a long time reader first time poster. So i've recently been dumped by my girlfriend of 2 and a half years (on saturday in fact), and i'm struggling enormously to get over it. I know its still soon but my head is swimming and i'm spontaneously bu... (381 words

Is it normal for a woman to feel exhausted the day after having sex?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Is it normal for a woman to feel exhausted the day after having sex? I know a lot of men are tired straight after sex but is it normal for women the day after?... (35 words

I need your opinions please. Is he worth staying with in the long run....?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years. We both have a child (My son is 4 and his daughter is 3) although both children are from previous relationships. He is currently incarcerated and has been since March of this year. My problem is that he ... (272 words

Her boyfriend wants her to cut all contact with me even although we're now only friends...

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26 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I was with my ex for over 3 years, in which time we became best friends. Her ex use to always cause trouble with us, asking her round to his at 2 in the morning and hooking up with her friends that kind of stuff. Im not a jealous person and I didn't mind them in contact ... (385 words

Should I give this some time to see if he comes round?

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26 November 2009 (F - My ex and I were together for over 3 years and broke up. After a year of no contact I still had feelings for him and contacted him and he said he can't jump back into this and it would be like starting over and he doesn't want something serious right now(and I questioned him ... (441 words

My boyfriend says he isnt "in love with me anymore"..what should I do?

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26 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he isn't in love with me anymore. He said that he still loves me to death, he is just not in love with me. So he moved out yesterday and said he needed to get away. He said he still wants to be friends and hang out with me, but I ... (225 words

What to do? things are constantly changing

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26 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - My fiancee decided to end things 10 days ago, the reason being that there was a disconnnect, something missing, and that she couldn't go forward with a wedding. We never fought about anything important. She explained that she had to end things, although she loves me so much, ... (425 words

Is he worth staying with in the long run?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend **** and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years. We both have a child (My son is 4 and his daughter is 3) although both children are from previous relationships. He is currently incarcerated and has been since March of this year. My problem is ... (270 words

Should I tell my bestfriend her boyfriend is cheating on her?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey! i have this best friend of mine at school and she has a boyfriend whom she's been with for 4 years or so... he's also at the same school. her boyfriend comes to the same tuition place at me [we go there for extra classes] and there he flirts with this other girl. she ... (163 words

Why do I feel so strongly for this guy I've only known 2 weeks???

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - this is so weird but a guy ive only worked with a couple of days we are talking like best buddies we get on extremely well and spend all day laughing and joking but get the work done. im feeling something for him and i dont know why. hes new but i feel protective of him. he ... (180 words

My so called friends took pictures of me naked when I was very drunk and posted them on the internet...

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26 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I recently posted about a situation where 5 years ago i got drunk and naked and everyone took photos of me and passed it round my home town and they still haunt me today-everyone that i meet gets shown them and while i didn't want it to (i really wanted to just see the funny ... (547 words

Age gap with problems

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am 15 and am year 11 at school, i met this guy in year 9 (two years younger) about 3 months ago. over these 3 months we have got closer and closer, last month though i slept with another guy and this really made my close friend very angry although we got through this all, i ... (213 words

My naked neighbour!

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26 November 2009 (F age - I live next door to a young woman who walks around naked in her house. She is very fit and has every reason to be proud of her body, I guess, but she keeps the windows open for the whole neighborhood to see her. This has upset me a lot especially since I think my husband ... (168 words

What can I do to prove to him that I'm for real this time?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am 23, me and my boyfriend (26) have been on and off for 5 years, i say on and off as ive dumped him now 4 times....it boils down to me being easy led and people tell me hes to nice hes to quiet bla bla and i was young and felt i was missing out etc.....we finally got back ... (136 words

Why would he invite me out for dinner but then never call or texts to arrange the date?

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26 November 2009 (F age - I sent an email to a guy I used to work with--just a "hi, how are you doing" email. He answered and said "we should get together for dinner and catch up on things." He included his cell number. I called a couple of days later, we talked for abt 15 minutes and he said he was ... (297 words

What could this problem be?

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - my vagina produces a milky like substance it comes out very slowly it does not have a foul smell.what could the problem be?... (23 words

I don't want to be afraid to love because of one stupid betrayal, how do I move on from this?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - How long does it take for one to forget about the pain of break up and move on to another relationship? It had been 6 months since I broken up with my ex because he cheated on me by chasing another girl at the same time when he was with me. I can still feel the pain of betrayer ... (136 words

He's got a girlfriend but wants to sleep with me!

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey im 17 and there this guy on my college course that i thought like me but it turns out he got a girlfriend, but he keeps asking if i want to sleep with him, i mean i wanted too.. but now i know he got a girlfriend i dont know what to do pls help x ... (59 words

Why do I feel like I miss him if missing someone is not a sign of being in love?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am seeing a guy, whom I got to know at work. We have been hanging out and I get a sense of 'missing' when we are separate.I have been told that it isn't a sign for being in love, but if this is not the case, then why do I feel this way? Out of all the guys I have hung out ... (106 words

Hair removal gone wrong

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok my problem is a little bit embarressing! Me and my bf were going to take things the whole way and have sex so i decided to shave down there but i had a huge prob the next it was so sore and irritable and there was like loads of little spots. I was just wondering if anyone ... (85 words

I've just come out of a relationship, so why am I attracted to him?

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26 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - hope you guys can help me her. a couple of weeks ago a new guy started at my job. ive just come out of a very bad relationship 7 months ago so want a nice stress free life but i dont know whats wrong with me but im strangelt attracted to this new guy. last week due to short... (257 words

I don't want to leave but I cant carry on like this! How can I talk to him about this?

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26 November 2009 (F age - I've been with this man for four years after my divorce. Things go well until recent months he's always got pain and aches. He is near 70. Our sex life has gone downhill. He has tried his best to please me but the strength is just not there. Im not wanting to leave but Im ... (80 words

Married, had an affair and now wondering if I was just looking through things with rose colored glasses on?

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26 November 2009 (M age - I have been married for 27 years and we have three children, 17, 13, and 12. For several years my wife had been reluctant to engage in sex, and I had become increasingly frustrated, both physically and emotionally. At work I had got to know a girl Susan half my age (I’m 56,... (1087 words

After having an affair with a married man for 18 years he has finally left his wife, but now he is seeing another younger woman!

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26 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - i have been having an affair with a married man for 18 years. he and his wife of 28 years have just filed for a divorce. i didn't encouage him in fact i told him to rethink and try an make up with his spouse. he sais that its too late and that its done. apparently his wife was ... (225 words

If I have sex with him will it ruin any chance of having a relationship with him?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I met this guy a month ago.We've hung out twice/talk dailyOur texts involve alot of flirting + the usual - what we're upto etc.Despite our super flirty/naughty txts.He's a gentleman in person -hasnt crossed the line and apologizes when he feels he has.Last time I saw him - he ... (310 words

My pregnancy hormones our affecting our relationship and now he doesn't want to be around me!

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi I am 18 weeks pregnant and know that my mood goes up and down. last week i acted prety damn shameful towards my partner.i was just moody and snapped at him a bit. i felt really really bad, i apolgised and tried my best to make it up to him. this is over a week now and sin... (93 words

What are the chances I got my 14 year old girlfriend pregnant? Help!

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26 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Last night i had sex for the first time with my girlfriend. It was great, but im super worried because only after did i realize in my rushed attempts to put a condom on, i tried to put it on the wrong way. There was spermidical lubricant where the head touched, but would that ... (88 words

Should I tell my family I am in love with my cousin?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm in love with my cousin.he has been living in my house for two years. I confessed to him about being bisexual so he confessed to me about being in love with me. I have always had feelings for him. when we were kids I even had a crush on him but we didn't see eachother for 9 ... (153 words

How can I rebuild my trust for him after I found these texts on his phone?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Iv been with my partner for a couple of months now, and he knows i suffer from really bad trust issues due to a past relationship. But yesterday i was looking on his mobile ( yeah i know its wrong but its something i do to make myself feel better) and i saw some messages from a ... (187 words

What type of skin colour do girls prefer?

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26 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - hi. my skin colour is quite fair comparing to the people of my country. recently i read two women's interview in newspaper and they both said they will prefere less fair skin coloured guys. my cousin also says like that. here in , south asian countries, u'll find all types of ... (72 words

I know that best thing to do would be to leave him but under all the heartache and pain I still love him.

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Help Please!!! So here goes...at this point I'm feeling very helpless. I just found out that my husband of 9 years had a sexual relationship with another women and now she's pregnant... around 5 months. The sad thing about this it that this same thing happend 8 years ago as w... (171 words

Guys opinions needed, whats up with his late night phone calls?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I need guy's inputs mainly. I have a guy friend and there is obviously something more than friendship between us. He currently has a girlfriend and things have been going on lately that seem to point towards them not being together much longer. The thing I'm curious about is ... (210 words

I feel like this is a one sided relationship. Is it?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I am friend with a guy who I met at work. We have been hanging out for over a month now, and generally he's fine, apart from his music. He is a big fan of his bass guitar, which isn't a problem to me, but I dislike the songs he plays the bass tunes to... I try to show interest ... (155 words

Did I put him off with my overreaction?

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Please can I have advice on this problem that is really depressing me.... I have this problem that rears it's ugly head every now and again. I don't know why it happens it just does! Right when I'm into a guy and think there may be a chance he likes me too, I think ... (843 words

Should I keep my privacy or give into my friend's threat?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello there, I'm 16 years old and have maintained solid friendships with the 5 people in my group for at least a year or two. To keep this short, I have things going on in my life which I feel are best kept to myself as I believe they wouldn't be accepted or understo... (322 words

Should I tell my teacher about my feelings for her again?

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Im just a typical 15 years old teen age female student, I saw a post of releaseme25 and were exactly the same, about the teacher feeling thing. The only different are im not in college and i didn’t wrote my teacher a letter 3 times. I only wrote her one time and she automati... (379 words

What do I do about my boyfriend's drinking problem?

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26 November 2009 (F - My bf wants me to spend Christmas with him and his family, and although I really want to share that occasion with him, at the same time I want to be with my family. The decision wouldnt be so hard if it wasnt for my bfs drinking problem. I am sick of special occasions ending in ... (133 words

He's involved, wants nothing to do with love but is offering sex

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, and wow I cannot believe I'm asking the internet for advice but here it goes: A few days ago [maybe even a week] I met this fantastic guy. Thing is, he is a bit older than I am and already has a girl friend. Here are the problems with their relationship: - She lives... (401 words

I'm married and my girlfriend let her ex sleep over. What can I do?

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26 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend agreed to date me even though she knew I was married. I was honest from day one. You will have to believe me as she did that my wife and I stopped sleeping together 4 years ago. My Girlfriend has a two year old with a man that abandoned her for a high paying job ... (1476 words

If she was a big flirt while dating someone else, will she be the same way with me?

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26 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - so im in love with ths girl...shes 18. im 16. shes bisexual and was in a relationship when she told me she had feelings for me....i had feelings for her as well. i respected that she was with someone and didnt flirt with her or anything but she was always flirting with me. her ... (102 words

Can people of different social class date?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - So for the past few weeks I have been talking to this extremely good looking guy in my sociology class. The other day I missed class to study for my criminal justice test and the following class he asked me why I was away. I told him the reason, he then asked me who my prof was ... (119 words

Boyfriend and crush, please help!

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - This probably sounds stupid but i will just say it. I have been in a relationship with this guy who i think i love nine months. We are both juniors in high school, but we go to different high schools. We sometimes see each other on the weekdays but usually weekends. Recently ... (144 words

Girlfriend allows her Ex Boyfriend to stay the night with her.

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26 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - This is very complicated. My girlfriend who has a 2 yr old with her ex... who abandoned them for a high paying job out of state.... began dating me knowing that I was married but ending my marriage. While we fell in love ..over a two month period of time.... her ex came to ... (249 words

First he likes me then he doesn't.

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so i was on facebook looking through my friends photo album when i seen a guy i was attracted to, now i dont usually do this but my friend convinced me to randomly add him so i did. after he private msged me asking if i knew him and that he doesnt remember meeting me, i ... (298 words

Does a boy feel pain when breaking a girl's hymen?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey i got a quick question, when a virgin girl and a non-virgin boy have sex does the boy feel any kind of pain breaking her hymen? When i lost my virginity to my boyfriend he told me that he felt pain too. What do they actually feel?... (50 words

How do I get over my impossible crush?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 and I'm a senior in high school. I have this crush on my teacher--well, he's going to be my calculus (and homeroom) teacher next semester, in a couple months. But he's also my assigned guidance counselor, and I've told him some personal stuff but he's always being ... (169 words

Please help me! I love him to death then this happens.

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I KNOW IT´S LONG BUT I AM DESPERATE FOR YOUR ADVISE!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! I don´t know how to start with this. boyfriend and I had a big fight last month. I threatened to leave him by saying ´´we have to talk, i have to tell you something´´, I didn´t mean it, h... (937 words

I feel like I jump down my boyfriend's throat for stupid things.

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I feel like I jump down my boyfriend's throat for stupid things. He's so clueless most of the time about what I want him to do, and I feel like I need to let him know but when I do he gets upset because he really doesn't mean to do anything wrong. Example: flirting. He used to ... (114 words

Plz help me my fiance is driving me crazy wit all his lies....

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My fiance for 15 months has lied over and over and im sooo tired of all da lies.. We always argue and he always makes me feel bad like its my fault... When we argue he is always rude and says hurtful things and says he is gonna take our daughter away from me when he gets mad... ... (358 words

I am having trouble being physical with my fiancee.

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26 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I am having trouble being physical with my fiancee. There are several areas that I have hit road blocks. 1. She does not liked being touched. She is very ticklish. In fact, the only way to touch her is through back rubs, and holding hands. 2. She does not like kissing a... (137 words

My need to phone him is ruining my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

26 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Dear cupid: I have a serious problem and I need help. I don't even know how to describe it so I will describe some incidents that have happenned. One Saturday night I called my bf. He answered and said he is doing something or he is taking another call ( I don't really re... (682 words

Weve been together for 5 months, we have never gone farther than making out. is this normal?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and i am completely crazy about him. however, even though weve been together for 5 months, we have never gone farther than making out. is this normal? he is 18 and i am 16. i am his first girl friend, first date, and first ... (147 words

I want to stop loving him so I can find someone who I can love and love me back!!!!

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26 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Ok where do I begin!! My ex husband and I were married 6 years together 10! I caught him with another woman which was his ex girlfriend! OH I caught them!! I divorced him and met someone new! He begged me and begged me! I realized that the man I was seeing was really a rebound ... (332 words

Good Friend or The Boy

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - A good friend of mine likes this guy, but i like him too. But, she dated him for a week, and they broke up, and i think he's really starting to like me. What should i do? Be a loyal friend or take a chance? ... (45 words

This guy likes me but I like his best friend

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26 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - This is a bit long and messed up. I broke up with my long term partner ( and fiance) last year. Soon after I broke up, this pretty close friend of mine (call him X) whom I hadn't met for awhile, contacted me to catch up. Not long after that, X broke up with his girlfriend and ... (417 words

Is it a date?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, For the past couple of months i have been working at Wendy's and recently this guy has been working there. I think that he is interested in me, we flirt every single chance we get. The second day we worked together he gave me his number and we have been talking everday ... (273 words

To give the ring back or not?

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26 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - Who keeps the engagement ring? Before you give me a standard answer, please consider the facts. I'm in CA, I accepted the proposal and spent allot of my own money (still in debt) for the wedding that didn't happen. 4 months before the wedding he gets drunk, we argue and he ... (226 words

How much does it cost to get a divorce?

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - The man that im with now is separated from his wife and has been for 4 years. Ive offered him money to get the divorce but he didnt want to take it. I only did it just so he could go ahead and get it over with. How much does it cost to get the divorce papers. He doesnt want to ... (92 words

What to say to a girl when she's on her period for fear of upsetting her?

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26 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I need help on talking to this girl, I don't know what to say to her because she's on her period and I'm afraid I'll say something and that she will take it the wrong way, or something I need tips, I'm a pretty opened up person too, I can make a lot of people happy and laugh ... (79 words

I need some ideas what to buy him this Christmas...

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey I need help with a simple situation. Christmas is coming up and I have no idea what I should get my boyfriend I'm really not good when it comes to shopping for guys my boyfriend is 24 years old Any ideas will be highly appreciated!!! ... (47 words

I feel like my boyfriend doesn't care any more, should I end it?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship, and have been for almost 7 months. It went pretty well at first, and I thought it was 'perfect' during the summer (but perhaps that was just the honeymoon stage). Once school started, we both began to get very busy, and he started talking to ... (522 words

Do I have to compromise myself to attract a man?

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old virgin who has never had much luck with guys. I'm not thin (however, I'm not obese: I'm just slightly overweight), I don't have any self confidence in my appearance, and I do not pretend to be something I'm not! Usually, when I see magazines, or websites ... (94 words

Very confused by his behavior and don't know what to make of it

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm currently rather confused about what is going on between me and a guy I have been involved with. I met him about 2 months ago when I started at university, and it was obvious from as soon as we met that he really liked me. After about 2 weeks he made a move on me and w... (628 words

My husband has developed feelings for another woman and I don't know how to handle it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - me and my husband have been married for 3 and 1/2 years and recently he realized that he has feelings for another woman. I'm in a battle for him with her. My friends tell me to go but my heart tells me to stay cuz he will pick me, what do u think I should do? Follow my heart, ... (66 words

So confused about my sexuality...

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I'm 14, female, and well I thought I was gay. I have always found girls attractive. I have had a couple boyfriends, but I felt bad because I never really "liked" them. I've had very strong feelings for girls. I've even told a girl that I love her. I verrry rarely find guys ... (98 words

Unprotected sex... now I'm worried I may be pregnant!

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi im 17 and have a boyfriend i have been having unprotected sex with. thing is i wasnt meant to be due on my period until the 6th december but i come on today which is a week and a half early, this keeps happening, its happend about 3 times now, i keep coming on always a week ... (128 words

It's his birthday next week and I STILL have no idea what to get him. Any ideas?

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26 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month and a half. his birthday is on monday and i still don't know what he would want. i keep asking him, and all he says is "i don't know, surprise me." which basically makes him no help. any ideas? preferably in the $20-30 range. ... (56 words

Help! In love with my boyfriend's best friend!

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm really confused right now and i don't know what to do. I like my boyfriend's best friend! but i still have feelings for my boyfriend. I feel horrible. Help! :( ..please :(!!... (33 words

How can I let my friend see I want to spend more time with my boyfriend?

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26 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - I got a boyfriend on Sunday, but I haven't been able to spend much time with him because my friend "Lucy" doesn't seem to grasp the concept that I want to spend time with him as well. I want to let her know, but I don't want to do it in a way that will upset her. Can anyone ... (60 words

No one is attractive to me...

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i'm 20 years old and in all these 20 years i haven't found a single person whom i would like, either on physical level or personality level... i mean, i can appreciate someone's looks, be it a girl or a guy. i usually find many people visually pleasing, but that doesn't make ... (257 words

"Water sports!"

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26 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I engage in watersports ie urinating on each other. He has asked me if he could pee inside of me and I wanted to know if anything could potentially harm me if we did engage?... (38 words

I have a serious problem with eating... Please help!

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - hello. im 17 years old and for the past 3 months i have not been eating properly, i was a size 12 but im now a 10 i eat an apple a day and drink water, looking at food makes me want to be sick. my family have not noticed yet as im really clever at throwing my food away, i ... (544 words

I just want to have meaningless sex with him!

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26 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - There is this boy at school who I am very sexually attracted too. He is one of those bad boys, I don't have a crush on him I just want to have meaningless sex with him lol. Should I tell him I want to? We flirt sometimes, whenever he talks to me its about sex or somethin... (116 words

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