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We're like soulmates but she is quite insecure. How do I handle this?

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9 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - well this is long so i'll make it as short as i can!! i'm 26 and have been best friends with a girl of the same age for 10 years. We have always done everything together (excluding physical) and see each other several times a week and are in contact every day. People who ... (593 words

My bf is going to see his ex...and I am not happy!

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is perhaps going to meet up with his ex as friends. Am I in my rights to say I am not at all happy about it. Or is this asking for the whole "choose me or her" thing. Help. And girls, please tell me how you'd feel and what you do, and boys, anything from your ... (62 words

I want to fight for this girl...so anyone got any good tips?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Its me again. This one will be short and sweet i promise, no 1000 word questions this time. Background----------------------- 6 mos ago I had this little crush on a girl, except my vulgar best friend (unintentionally) complicated things by making sexual comments whenever ... (607 words

My friends gang up on me! What have I done to deserve all this?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok, i have so many problems right now and i feel so stressed. Firstly a few months ago i fell out with my 3 best friends because they never involved me in anything they did and 'ganged' up on me all the time, one of them was even meant to be going on holiday with me but we fell ... (534 words

He's the most amazing man I've ever met... but is the age difference just too much?

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9 November 2009 (F age - I've been great friends with the most amazing guy for 9 months now, and just this past month, we acknowledged the mutual attraction and got past the age difference: he's 22 and I'm 53. I've been involved with a lot of younger men (my ex-husband was 6 years younger), but this ... (153 words

My boyfriend is 25, my son is 27!

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9 November 2009 (F age - I am 47. My gorgeous boyfriend is 25.. my son is 27, I initially could not believe a guy younger than my son would be interested in me... but I have looked after my figure. We have a mind blowing relationship and both his and my parents have no problems... my son is the only ... (211 words

Her boyfriend is in the way!!!

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - About 2 months ago I started school at college. In one of my classes, I saw this girl for the first time and I knew that I was going to talk to her. After class I went and had lunch with her and immediately we got along. About a week later, she slept over at my place and we ... (270 words

Older women? Should I date one?

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9 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I'm 30, I had a woman give me her friend's phone number (the friend had liked me for some time). This was in the supermarket where I worked at the time. This woman was 35. I was also asked out by a 39 year old woman. What should I do? Is it ok to go out with these older women? ... (62 words

Advice needed! Can our marriage be saved?

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I met and fell in love with a man 15 years younger, I was married at that time, but unhappy, i also had 6 children under the age of 21. I eventually divorced and lived and ended up marrying my much younger man. We have been together for 20 years, he is now 45 and i am 60 and he ... (210 words

Is there too much going against us?

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9 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - I am 25 dating a 36 year old woman. The attraction is always there, but I am slowly getting past all the other factors. She had a kid, the age difference of course, and the social stigma of "cradle robbing". Do you think it’s ok? Do you think it can be good for both of us? ... (57 words

Do I take a chance with this man even although I'm 10 years older than him?

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been with a man 10 years younger than I am for nearly two years now. We were living together and made plans to get married, but I ended up backing out because I was too concerned about the age difference. Neither of us has children (I'm 39, he's 29) and although I can ... (240 words

How to solve size incompatibility?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for more than 2 years and our sex has never been too great if we compare to our past relations. The problem is that my vagina is "too large" and his penis is "too small". I tried to do Kegel exercises but after 6 months, we haven't noticed any sign... (122 words

How can I stop all these nasty jibes about my boyfriend just because he's dyslexic?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - So, about two months ago, I started dating a guy. He's my first boyfriend, and the one I lost my first kiss to. He's unbelievably nice, kind, and sweet. He always treats me well and makes sure I am alright. He calls me all the time just to make sure I'm doing well, and has ... (492 words

Have I been expecting too much from my friend?

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9 November 2009 (? age 36-40 - I'm not sure about what to do with my friends. My one friendship with my friend, "Maggie," seems off and on. When I was in grad school, she never really was there to listen to me when I had a bad day or needed someone to talk to. She didn't get accepted into grad school, so ... (213 words

I'm scared I'm pregnant again!

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. We were dating for ten months. But then he moved away and I was healing and I was in good process, but he moved back unexpectingly and I ran into him at a party and my heart just dropped. I got really drunk and I tried to ... (250 words

Mad crush!

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I must confess. I think I have a problem. Frankly, I've developed a mad crush on a writer here. He's just so damn witty and a clever writer too. I totally enjoy reading his posts, even when he's wrong about a topic. This seems like one helluva man.... (48 words

Do guys like it when women moan during sex?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Do guys like it when girls moan during sex?... (9 words

I'm 14 and am in love with my teacher!

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9 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - So i'm 14 years old, and there's this teacher at school, she is amazing, like really amazing and i really really like her, she acts so nice to me and like i think i might be in love with her. She acts strange though, telling me i'm beautiful and feels my leg and the like, i r... (164 words

How to steal my ex back from rebound?

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9 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ... (22 words

Now that he's split from his girlfriend, should I tell him I like him?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I really need help, there's this lad I like who I work with but he's just spilt up with his girlfriend today. He told me he liked me a few weeks ago but I never told him that I liked him too. Is it too soon after finishing with his girlfriend to tell him?... (54 words

Could it be down to stress?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have not had a period in three months and have not been sexually active for over 6 months. Back in june i had missed a period, took a test, negative. I went three months without a period but was not prego. Plus, i got my period in july, had one in august and september, now i ... (86 words

Remaining friends with the other woman...

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9 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I had an emotional affair for nine months (no sex). I finally settled everything with the other woman and came clean to my girlfriend. I'm proud of how I handled it, though not proud it happened. The other woman and I parted on good terms, as "friends". I'm finally giving ... (434 words

I want my husband back and for us to be a family again...

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Here's my story I will try to make cut it short. My husband left us (me and our 2 kids) 8 weeks ago. He said he didn't know how he felt about me any more; he felt that I was controlling and he felt tied. The second week into our seperation I lost it and had a blow up...... (416 words

Should I remain married if I am still in love with my first love?

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9 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - I am married to my wife of 13 years. I recently found out that my first fiance was forced to break up with me by our mothers because she'd gotten pregnant. They forced her to hide this and she lost the baby 5 months later. She hid this from me for 18 years. She told my wife ... (118 words

Can high ambition be a turn off for women?

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9 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hello, If I could just ask the females if they think having too much drive and ambtion is major turn-off, that would be great! I recently dated about 2 women in the space of 2 months, but it didnt work out! I think is becuase I have grand plans for what i want to achieve ... (137 words

Am I too late to win him over?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - how do i know if this guy likes me or just wants sex! ok so he took me to my prom i wasnt interested in him after prom he fell in "love" with me always at my house and stuff.... then he found out i like to party and stuff and hes actually seen other guys try to talk to me i ... (191 words

Do you think he's comfortable enough to meet me alone instead of with mutual friends?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I hope you dont think im totally stupid for this but ive got a problem wanting to meet up with a friend of mine, we;ve been friends for two years now and i still cant bring myself to ask him to go for a drink one daytime alone. Dont get me wrong this is not a date lol just to ... (630 words

How should I approach sharing my wife?

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9 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - Hi, I want to hear from guys who have shared there wifes with a friend,stranger,etc. How did you approach it. How did it feel watching her when he started making love to her etc. My wife and I want to try something new . We sat in conversation one day and listen to a coup... (123 words

I feel like I'm wasting my life away. What can I do?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi there, my problem is this. I think i have some sort of social disorder. I've been thinking of getting a job but just the thought of having to interact with another human being just simply scares the life out of me. On top of that i have no friends ever since i left school ... (343 words

How do I get over my jealousy? It's starting to break us.

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years now and i am unbeleivably jealous. I don't know why i am like this and i don't know how to stop. It's not just normal jealousy, it's really bad, to the point where we can't even watch tv together anymore without getting into a ... (194 words

Any tips about phone sex? How do I avoid being awkward?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - So my girlfriend and I live in two different cities and she constantly wants phone sex..I have never had phone sex before so I usually stay quiet..I need some advice on what to say to her..I want to give her the satisfaction she wants...... (44 words

Who do I invite to the wedding? Restraing order is getting in the way.

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My fiance and I are now planning our wedding... things are still tense between me and his father but a new issue has come up and that is the family fued... My fiance is the youngest of 4 children and recently his parents got divorced. There are restraining orders and such ... (195 words

My husband has changed - he doesn't share his feelings with me anymore!

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Dear ppl, I need help here,bI’m 30 and my husband is 40 years of age and we both have one boy 12, and girl 6, every since my daughter 2nd birthday I saw his changes he doesn’t share happiness , sadness or any other things bothering him that’s goes on him. so I decided ... (703 words

Should I continue with the 22 year old or with the 15 year old?

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9 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Hi cupid, am a young guy of 22.am very grateful to been with you here. my question is just relationship question. i met this girl on the internet about three months ago, she's from Philippine and am from Nigeria. she's the same age with me. i love her and i know she also love ... (311 words

He wants a threesome with a woman I don't feel comfortable including! He's making me feel guilty!

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - My boyfriend and i participate in swing lifesome. We are not regulars but we have had 3 FFM, 3somes, Attempted about 8 MFM 3somes, not all sucessful, only to out of the 3 MFM have been successful, not all was done in them but some things happened that were pretty good. Our FFM ... (244 words

I am afraid to marry her, yet also afraid to flush 5 years of my life down the toilet.

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9 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - I will try to be brief. I have been dating my girl friend for almost 5 years, 4.5 of which she has lived with me. We've gone through many ups and downs as all relationships do, but more and more I dread the thought of spending my life with her as a married couple. Don't get me ... (379 words

After this break up, I want to fancy other guys but its just not happening.

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Help me get over him... We split up 5 months ago. I had no choice but to walk away but I loved him so much. We were only together for 4 months but I fell deeply for him. He was going through a divorce and it was far to complicated for me to be in the situation. I have not... (220 words

Sometimes during orgasm, I pass out.

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - when im having sex, sometimes i have mulitple orgasms. on an occasion that that does occur, sometimes if the orgasms are too pleasurable they can make me pass out. is this something occurs to many people or is it something i should be concerned about?... (45 words

When I orgasm, my vaginal muscles contract and hurt my boyfriend!

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - i have really strong vaginal muscles which i can controll quite well. although when i orgasm during sex they uncontrollably contract. they hurt him alot, it squeezes the cum out of his penis and he says its like someone biting down on it. is there any way that i could either ... (63 words

I just don't know what's wrong with me these past few months!

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hey everyone, just dont know what is wrong with me the last few months. its like im in the depths of despair or something. i came out of a 3 and a half year relationship 5 months ago. and i just havent been the same since. im not sure why im like this coz breaking up was the ... (215 words

Do you think you can fall out of love with someone and in love with someone else? And what if there's a child in the picture?

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9 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I became really close to somebody, and we admitted that we had strong feelings for each other, physically and emotionally, we have a lot of stuff in common, and we both felt a connection with each other, although nothing physical happened between us. The thing is, she ha... (253 words

Is my wife is cheating on me.... again?

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9 November 2009 (M age 41-50 - recently my wife went back to school and the first couple weeks she called me and wanted me to bring her lunch if I could, but the last couple weeks she ignores me all day and says she is too busy and tells me not to come up with lunch. She has also been texting a male clas... (330 words

Why did this girl cancel her hair appt. with me to go with a stranger?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Evening all! This isnt a love question but im hoping you might have some advice. I am a qualified hairdresser and worked in a salon for a few years before settling down in to an office job-more pay and less hours. When some of my colleagues found out im a hairdresser they ... (212 words

I promised I would, but now I am not sure if I should break up with my girlfriend?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - So here's the situation. My ex broke up with me months ago. I'm insanely in love with her. In the months following she would hold my hand and stuff, but tell me we can only be friends "for now" then she got a new bf, and i figured it was time to move on. I had been talki... (313 words

Did I mess up taking my birth control pill?

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i am just wondering what to do, I am startng on the pill and i misheard the doctor and took the first pill on saturday even though im not due my period until wednesday. I only took one of the pills becase i discovered i wasnt supposed to start until the first day of period. ... (85 words

My period is two weeks late but I've never had sex

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Im 15 and started my periods 3 years ago. They have been regular and consistant until this past month where Im currently over two weeks late. Im definately not pregnant as I havent had sex so I know I shouldnt worry but its bothering me. Does anyone know what any reasons for ... (63 words

Why did my boyfriend change his mind about moving in?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I live in a home where my needs are not met, and I'm stuck here until I can get on my feet. My boyfriend wants to help because my living situation endangers my life at times. We made plans that in a couple months we'll save money to get an apartment together and has sounde... (187 words

He thinks I don't enjoy our sex life because I don't come

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have had many ups and downs but we are both crazy about each other. The only issues we have is when it comes to sex. He says he doesn't feel like a man because he can't make me cum and i'm the first person that this has happened... (185 words

Guys, what is your favourite position?

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9 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - What do guys like best sex wise? Any special posistion? ... (10 words

I don't want to be a weekend girlfriend. What to do?

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 24 and the guy who likes me is 25. We met each other 4 weeks ago in a bar. We had so much fun that night, after that he started texting me, we went out for dinner, and a couple of times after that, everything was going well and I was falling in love... maybe you think ... (252 words

Attracted to a guy on the internet - do I make a move even though we have never met?

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9 November 2009 (? age 26-29 - Hey, I need help with this, I don't want to confide in anyone 'cause it seems outrageous but I'm stuck with these feelings and it's really unconfortable. See, I've been chatting with this guy on MSN for about a year or two now, and we were friends at first but soon I start... (379 words

I still dream about my ex

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Well, I've recently broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. I've known him for 3 years nearly.. He's kinda cheated on me, and over those 7 months has progressed a side I've yet to see before. He lies a lot. About stupid stuff though! Like, he made up having a brother... then ... (194 words

Tried a new position and it made me bleed. Is this normal?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I made love last night, and we were a little more adventurous i.e. trying a couple of new positions, but nothing strenuous or 'weird'. Anyway, when we had finished and I went to the toilet and there was a little bit of blood - Is it possible that my hymen broke ... (92 words

Does he actually love me or what? And why does he stay?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I don't get my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years. I love him deeply, even though we have issues. Mostly because he dislikes my past and because I lied about it in the beginning of the relationship, but immediately afterwards (like two minutes after the lie) I came ... (915 words

I've lost respect for her seen as she barely even looks for work! I want to help her but I don't want to miss out on fun experiences in life

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9 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - So I have this girlfriend. We've been "together" for about 5 months but only spent a about 7 weekends together. She's so sweet and captured my heart big time. She lives a southwest airlines flight away from me. She doesn't have a job, barely looks for work, and wants to move ... (346 words

My bf has withdrawn emotionally, now that I'm pregnant! What should I do?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Bf used to spoil me at the start of the relationship -used to give me gifts etc - then I have now fallen pregnant - am half way through - its been on and off for the whole 20 wks so far, however he started to withdraw emotionally etc. I asked him to go half in terms of cost of ... (164 words

She fancies my man...do I confront her?

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - hi. my best friend fancies my man. i told him and he said that he loves me and always will. i believe him. the thing is every one can see what she is doing.i feel that she is trying to push me out by taking over my life. dont know what to do as if i confront her i feel like the ... (64 words

Pregnant and alone...is is using his new relationship, to get me to talk to him?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am pregnant - have not spoken to the father in four months. He didn't want to stick around so I didn't make him. Today, I learned through Facebook of all platforms that he is 'in a new relationship' with someone else.. I don't even know why I had him still in my facebook ... (445 words

I lied about my sexual history. How can I make it up to him?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. When we first got together i lied about how many sexual partners i had had. Since then, I have lied to him about 2 or 3 more times, letting only a little bit more information slip but not telling him the full extend to my sexual ... (229 words

He is convinced I have cheated - but I have not! What can I do?

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - I've been with my husband for 13yrs. but we only been married for 6 months. Recently he just started driving trucks on the road. he had been gone for two weeks. he lost weight and we were intimate he said that my vagina felt different and that i had been with another man. but i ... (75 words

Hubby watches women live on their web cams and chats with them - is this cheating?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I was hoping for a bit of advice on the subject of the boundries between porn, and cheating. I would especially appreciate a male perspective, although all answers are welcome. The problem is this. My husband, as like a lot of other men, watches porn. I don't ha... (185 words

I have a problem with my boyfriend talking to girls

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a big problem. I'm extremely not okay with my LDR boyfriend making any new female friends. I know it's impossible to separate the two when A) I'm so far in distance to actually see if it's just a friendly thing and B) there are only two genders in this world. I don't ... (416 words

How can I stop being so paranoid and just get on with being happy now we're back together?

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9 November 2009 (F - I just got back with my ex last night and i'm so glad, I really missed him and the only reason we split up in the first place is because we didn't see each other much due to work commitments etc. But it is different now. Though I keep putting doubts in my own mind im so ... (124 words

Should I just leave him alone and give him time or maybe I have totally scared him off?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am a bit confused by this guy. I see him around my local pubs quite a bit and he always had lots of girls around him. I thought he was a bit of a jerk. I had a feeling he had a thing for me because he would always stare at me and look at me when he was hugging other people. ... (592 words

How do you confront your ex if he wants you back?

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 1 year and I broke up 6 months ago. For 4 months, we remained in contact though he expressed twice that he wished for me to stop contacting him. On the 5th month apart, having settled every unfinished business with him, I said goodbye. This is inspite of th... (304 words

He told me he was a "sick man" and now I havent heard from him in a month, what does this mean?

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9 November 2009 (F age - I have been talking to this man for 6 months. We both fell in love with each other. One night, we were texting each other...it was the only way at the time because of his job. Everything was going well. Then at the end, he said, "I'm a sick man". I asked him what he meant...he ... (114 words

Gay unrequited love within a 'relationship'

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9 November 2009 (M age - Hello, I'm a 46 year old gay guy and I have become stuck in a situation and seek advice... I got to know a guy 3 years younger than me around 3 years ago, we met and had safe casual sex and a friendship developed, during the first couple of months the sex part finished bu... (856 words

She used to be lesbian before me, do you think she is cheating with her so called "friends"?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Alright, here it goes. Ive been with my girlfriend for a year and a half now. We met when we both worked at Starbucks. When i first met her she was, according to her, completely lesbian; keep in mind. We're from Orlando, fl. and she had to move to Sarasota, about two hours away ... (433 words

He still hasn't put a ring on my finger after 6 years, should I leave him?

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend 6 years he has cheated in the past and we are now past that we have had no problems with it he says he wants me in his life and cant see me out of his world but he hasn't but a ring on my finger. and he hates talking about it. its all in his face. we ... (176 words

At my age, being realistic, what are the chances of lasting and marrying her?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm 18, shes 19. we was best friend for four years before we got together. we got together and we broke up, but it wasnt long before we realised we cant do it without each other, and now we are back together again. we have our ups and downs as with anyone else. at the mom... (185 words

Did he just hook up with me to boost my self-esteem or does he really have feelings for me?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I started working at a nearby resort when I was 16 and instantly started to crush on one single manager.. We have always been able to talk and get along great. He is twice my age though and has a kid half my age. I am now 19 and he 39 and I've been there for two years now an... (364 words

How can this girl who told me she loved me break it off so out of the blue?

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9 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - so a couple years ago I met a girl online. I would say she's perfect in my eyes but that would be an understatement. needless to say I loved her so much. I don't know how I could when I met her over the internet. we talked every day. via text or internet phonecalls any way that ... (577 words

Why does no one seem to like me as girlfriend material or want to hire me?

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm so confused about life, I have no job and no boyfriend. I feel I'm comfortable and confident with myself so I don't understand why guys only see me as a sexual partner and not a girlfriend. Could it be because I emit I want a boyfriend from my pores!??? But if this is the ... (269 words

Work/union dilemma (non relationship issue). Perspective needed.

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9 November 2009 (M age 51-59 - I know this is a place for relationship advice, but I don't think anyone will mind me asking this. And the mod can always block it if it is inappropriate so here goes... I'm looking for a bit of perspective on a dilemma I'm having at work, and I'm asking here because, well...... (547 words

Why would someone say all of those things and then just sort of disappear?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - This guy and I dated for a few months, then he moved away, and we decided to be "just friends." I am fine with that. We had become very close in a short period of time, and we have a very special friendship, or so I thought (not FWB, if that's what you're thinking). I was in ... (307 words

Why hasn't he asked me to be his girl yet?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - my guy is white and i'm black. i have never dated a white guy before so it is hard for me to figure him out. usually when i date black guys, the whole process goes like this. we talk on the phone, hangout, and after a while they ask me to be their girlfriends. so thats what i'm ... (208 words

Do you think he really loves me?

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - i hv bf for 4 months wer both married we go on dating i am confused f he really lovs me bec during our date he nver spend even single cents and if i ddnt tx him he dont hv the initiatve to tx me woud u think he really loves me the way he did but he alwys wnted to be wd me but ... (82 words

I keep giving, but when I am in need, I get nothing in return.

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9 November 2009 (? age 36-40 - I can count only say 2-3 pals who I truly like overall and can say they are fairly good friends. But lately I feel like I am more of a friend to them than they are to me. I tend to overextend myself- sending them cards, giving them tiny gifts, listening to them when they cry ... (162 words

We had sex, but I don't want a relationship, should I call him?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ive known this guy for over a year and we have hooked up in the past. Last week we ran into each other a few times, each time we were drunk. Last night we ran into each other at a party and ended up having sex. We had pretty kinky sex last night. I have been interested in him ... (118 words

My friend's boyfriend keeps hurting her over and over, what do I do?

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9 November 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hey! Alright, so my friend (F) has a boyfriend, his name is A. A is the worst boyfriend on planet worst boyfriend. No joke. He flirts with other girls ALL THE TIME, either online or in person. He even flirted with me a couple times, intul I told him off... Then he started ... (545 words

We like each other but her boyfriend is in the way!

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - About 2 months ago I started school at college. In one of my classes, I saw this girl for the first time and I knew that I was going to talk to her. After class I went and had lunch with her and immediately we got along. About a week later, she slept over at my place and ... (286 words

Can a guy in his late 30's be interested in a girl in her late 20's for a serious relationship?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - Could a guy in his late 30s be interested in a woman in her late 20s for a more serious relationship? We are 10 years apart, almost to the exact day.... (32 words

My boyfriend dumped me for cheating, but I later found out he cheated too!

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok, so basically i have split up with my boyfriend, we were going out for 2 yrs 3 months, he dumped me and the reason for it was that he found out the hard way that i cheated. i cheated back in february of this year but that was only kissing and he forgave me for it. these ar... (677 words

How long after hooking up should I wait to contact her?

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9 November 2009 (M age 36-40 - Last Night I went out with this girl and after some drinks we came back to my place and had amazing sex. In the morning I drove her home and she gave me her number. Now I'm wondering when I should contact her again. Two female friends of mine say I should wait a few days as ... (102 words

My Ex Bf is sending mixed signals, what should I do?

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - this is going to be a little long so please bear with me, My ex-Bf's older than me, I've always been attracted to older men, but he's been married once, has a daughter by the woman he married and has a son by a girl he just dated for a few years, they broke up and he dated ... (894 words

Is asking for a 'break' the same as breaking up?

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9 November 2009 (F age 41-50 - i need advice. been dating my boyfriend for 15 months long distance. we saw each other once every month for an extended weekend and had several week long visits. i have met practically his whole extended fam, one of the week-long visits was with his grandparents. so...real ... (393 words

Would this be considerd rape...i don't want to think badly of him...

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Mah boyfriend and i had been together for 5 months...we had had sex before but one night we were washing his car in his barn and there is a couch in his barn. Well sprayed him with the hose (juss being goofy) and then ran to couch. he followed too juss being silly as ... (475 words

He flirts with me. Does that mean he likes me?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Alright.. I'm 13 and I've known my neighbor who is the same age as me scence I was 2. I've liked him ever scence I was like 10... I think i might be in love with him now because he's seen me thro the the good the bad and the ugly... He's been with me when I totally melt dow... (179 words

Does light spotting mean I'm not pregnant?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of 5 month and we've been having sex, unprotected. We aren't in anyway trying to get pregnant as that may seem like something stupid to say but I am on the pill. I've only started the pill a month ago, finished that 21 day pack, continued my period 3 days a... (207 words

I'm shy. Does she think I'm ont interested? Should I approach her?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - There is this really pretty girl that I like at church. She and I are both freshmen in college, but go to different universities in the same city. I'm pretty sure she likes me back because I catch her looking at me many times, and when I make eye contact with her, she quickly ... (334 words

My academic performance is suffering because of my attraction - I'm afraid he'll think I'm mediocore!

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - I have written before about a teacher's assistant that I have developed feelings for. He is a Ph.D candidate and I am in my senior year. We are both very shy people but we have been warming up to each other, being more familiar and communicating more often by email. I can ... (325 words

He wants me to be 'his woman', but I suspect I'm not the only one.

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys... He's been asking me to be his woman, but honestly I dont feel like I'm the only one that he's seeing...even though I met his mom. That doesnt mean nothing though. He's good looking and attracts many girls. When I went to see him, I went to a club with him and his... (265 words

She's telling me to move on. Does she mean it?

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9 November 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok she told me she likes me and she's attracted to me and I think she seems . Suddenly the next day she is saying we should keep distance because she thinks we might not get together. She has a bf of 4 years but she has initiated to brake up with him countless times and cant... (359 words

Husband seems close to his female colleague. Should I speak up?

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9 November 2009 (F age 51-59 - My husband is friends with a female coworker and lately it has been making me feel uneasy. My husband and his female coworker started working in the same building about 8 months ago. Prior to that they worked for the same company, but in cities that are 30 miles apart. S... (382 words

I'm not sure how interested he is. How should I act with him?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm 20 and am currently liking someone who I work with. I've worked there for about 3 months, and the man involved is 18. I have always had a crush on him since I started but he only started noticing that I liked him about 3 weeks ago when we flirted at work. Two things h... (333 words

Gift ideas for my boyfriend?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - So any tips, need some ideas on what to get my bf for Christmas. I though about a mixed CD with some of our songs but IDK I need some more help. Guys what do you like to get? Lol Tips, Ideas. Anything appreciated. Thanks =].... (52 words

Will un-protected sex in July result in pregnancy now?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I had unprotected sex in July of this year. My periods have been shorter and I have gotten one every month. Is there anyway I'm pregnant?... (27 words

How can I convince a lover to stay without throwing myself at them?

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9 November 2009 (F age 30-35 - how could i show someone that i love them and want to be with them, and convince them not to leave out of state without actually throwing myself at them?... (30 words

How can I learn not to take everything personally?

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9 November 2009 (? age 36-40 - I'm sensitive and react easily to situations or things that happen or what people say. Most of the time my family or close friends preface things by saying, "Now don't get upset, but...." and then they tell me. I feel bad because they have to say this or may not tell me thin... (95 words

Is my step cousin flirting with me?

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9 November 2009 (? age 30-35 - I am probably imagining this but still just want to make sure. My step-cousin came up behind me without knowing and there was no space(right up against me) and when I moved over so he could get by he just followed my footstep, then after a minute he went around. Also when he ... (107 words

Ideas for sex toys?

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Confused...is he interested?

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9 November 2009 (F age 36-40 - dear cupid, i am really confused about this guy that i think im really starting to like!! it has been a while since i met someone that im slightly interested in since my last break up. and finally im starting to like someone but i am really confused about what exactly he wants... (459 words

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